7victor:
Another thing is Unnecessary wickedness.

Some people can be so unnecessarily wicked that you begin to wonder.

Someone would do something wicked of which he/she will not gain anything.

So many people are only waiting for you to cross their path, so they can harm you.

Even if you try to avoid it,

somehow or other, he/she would still find a way to do you harm.

This character underlines why there is so much backwardness and poverty in this world(particularly in the third world countries where wickedness is the order of the day), even though there is so much wickedness.

It is because most people are wicked but they don't gain anything from it.

If people were to gain from wickedness,then most people (particularly Africans) would have lived above poverty.

They would have enjoyed good health and better/long lives.

So wickedness is mostly unnecessary.

A good example of these set of people are public universities lecturers.. Like how would you derive happiness in failing students. Its not like your salary increment or job promotion is proportional to how many students you fail. That's how one lecturer joyfully sent the number of students that failed his course to us. You could see/hear the pride in his voice as he was showing us..

People celebrating mediocrity to ingenuity.

7victor:
To me, one of such character is Unnecessary pride.

It only requires a proud person to believe that every other person is below him/her.

It only requires a proud person to imagine that he/she can insult and abuse everyone because he/she is higher than all.

For example, you can see a final year student of the University,

and you try to relate with him, but he would be insulting you, with the mind that he is higher than you academically.

He doesn't even stop to think that you could be a Masters student.

He just conclude in his mind that he is higher than everyone in the school, because he is in final year.

I remember when in camp, some corpers were insulting one of the officials, asking why someone like him have to address them on an issue which I have forgotten.

It turned out later that the man was a PhD holder.

This is the kind of pride that characterizes human interaction.

People don't want to know, they just assumed things out of pride.

I know some people may use pride to characterize their new promotion, job, and etc.

But must you characterize your next level with pride?


Although I know some people who became very humble due to promotion, good job, and etc.


Please share the character people exhibit that shocks you.

This your character of being the OP and at the same time the FTC, I hate it with passion... ��

7victor:
Another thing is Unnecessary wickedness.

OP. Wickedness is wickedness, nothing like unnecessary wickedness mbok. There's not a thing wickedness is necessary else you are trying to revenge

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright....

The one that shock me most are those Christians

Their annoying ways dey shock person..

them dey always want force that their gospel and way of life into people...

You go dey commercial bus....trying to relax....going home after a busy day at work.....then boom one christian brother ab na sister go just start....

The last time I checked there is still right to the freedom of speech in this country. If you don't like their preaching plug in your headphones and enjoy your trip. If na person stand up start to dey advertise one product I'm sure you'll not come here to complain

BamakSNR:
Referring to everybody with the word" Young man" . To them everybody is small. Do you know my age?

lol one of my lecturers like using that term for we guys

I have a friend who got flared up easily by petty issues and funny enough his own case is always over the bar but he won't see anything wrong with it.. e.g we may buy something or maybe I bought it by myself and I decided to take a tip from it, he'll be acting odd to the extent that he'll start reacting and you'll easily know he's angry about something, He'll quickly go and get his own and use it alone and me As I dy, I no dy look Iyabo face cos my time na my age, I no dy like waste am on silly things he go rant and rant I no go care, na my other friends wey notice am go come ask me say I know notice say he change I go just laff cos when the thing tire am he go compose

Like how do people take someone else's life.. Not due to anger or self defense, or mistake but for petty things like money making, cultism, and robbery.. Like I've tried putting myself in a killer's shoe. But the only way I see myself taking someone else's life is if I'm not human.

What goes in the mind of those people that slit someone else's throat..??

Brandonx:
I’m still shocked at how parents tries to live their lives through their children.

Telling your children the type of friends to keep, How to spend money, who to help with money , who’s evil and who’s not evil.

Even choosing a career

what is wrong in advising your children on the type of friends to make.

7victor:
To me, one of such character is Unnecessary pride.

It only requires a proud person to believe that every other person is below him/her.

It only requires a proud person to imagine that he/she can insult and abuse everyone because he/she is higher than all.

For example, you can see a final year student of the University,

and you try to relate with him, but he would be insulting you, with the mind that he is higher than you academically.

He doesn't even stop to think that you could be a Masters student.

He just conclude in his mind that he is higher than everyone in the school, because he is in final year.

I remember when in camp, some corpers were insulting one of the officials, asking why someone like him have to address them on an issue which I have forgotten.

It turned out later that the man was a PhD holder.

This is the kind of pride that characterizes human interaction.

People don't want to know, they just assumed things out of pride.

I know some people may use pride to characterize their new promotion, job, and etc.

But must you characterize your next level with pride?


Although I know some people who became very humble due to promotion, good job, and etc.


Please share the character people exhibit that shocks you.

Very true. The Corper's pride and tendency to insult anyone aspect is very real.

remsonik:
You do teach well, follow all the teaching patterns as faced in the curriculum, manuals and study notes. You face the topic and explain it well but they don't appreciate you, instead they want the class to always be of chats and gists not related with the teaching topic of the day.

I once faced an issue with that. I was to be taking a class and in the curriculum which teachers were to study we had different teaching styles for different topics such as
Lecture methods
Questions and answers methods
Discussion sessions
But some don't follow the pattern and the class is always seen for a chatting and gists which is not related to learning anything related to the study of the day.

This is serious

Bizibi:
what is wrong in advising your children on the type of friends to make.

Everything is wrong with it.
You can’t understand except you have a first hand experience, it’s suffocating.

LadySarah:
We were having a meeting with the Npower ppl when one of them although late Sat on the stack of chairs instead of removing just one.My senior colleague called his attention to it. You won't believe how this guy who we later discovered was just an "OND graduate" flared up and warned him/us to respect his person(computer Engineer). That not all of them are O level. SMH.

Fool that was referring to ppl with B. Eng. as the least qualification with that simply dressed petite man having a PhD and more.

That's a really Disgusting attitude

pek:
When people borrow and don't pay back. Worse is that they will want to make you look bad for even asking for it. One even told me Nigeria sef dey owe

So inconsiderate

The most shocking one is when someone down plays or refuse to see sacrifices & struggles of a person. When most importantly, the person did those things for the other.

Another one is selfish person always assuming or thinking that they are selfless victims while everyone close to them are very selfish.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright....

The one that shock me most are those Christians

Their annoying ways dey shock person..

them dey always want force that their gospel and way of life into people...

You go dey commercial bus....trying to relax....going home after a busy day at work.....then boom one christian brother ab na sister go just start....

Preach the gospel everywhere, it is Jesus commandment!

If you don't want to hear public transport evangelism.
Why not use your own car.

Upon all your damn niggar you don't have car yet you will be showcasing one kind big yahoo boy here!


Jesus saves

Brandonx:


Everything is wrong with it.
You can’t understand except you have a first hand experience, it’s suffocating.

I am grateful for what my parents did.

Some of you won't understand until you get to your 30's.when you get older you will get first hand experience of friends....

remsonik:
You do teach well, follow all the teaching patterns as faced in the curriculum, manuals and study notes. You face the topic and explain it well but they don't appreciate you, instead they want the class to always be of chats and gists not related with the teaching topic of the day.

I once faced an issue with that. I was to be taking a class and in the curriculum which teachers were to study we had different teaching styles for different topics such as
Lecture methods
Questions and answers methods
Discussion sessions
But some don't follow the pattern and the class is always seen for a chatting and gists which is not related to learning anything related to the study of the day.

I feel your worries. On a second thought, I think you may need to spice up your style of teaching. Give room for little chats here and there. Loosen up. I am sure your students think you are too uptight. A bit of informality could really endear you to them.

marttye:
Someone denying his fiance before female friends..
what pride usually cause

Talking from experience?

Hanty sorry o.

MNDY:


Saying: "I forgive myself, I forgive everyone who has offended me, and I FORGIVE EVERYONE I HAVE OFFENDED."
The last part is such a stu.pid thing to say. Pride will not allow people ask for forgiveness. I hate it with passion.

You nailed it brother! Some people are proud sha.

chinae:
It is very annoying how some persons don't mind if person(s) loose their life just to prove their point or to make it obvious that their advice is the best.

there must have been a reason behind this. Mind sharing?

Bizibi:
I am grateful for what my parents did.

Some of you won't understand until you get to your 30's.when you get older you will get first hand experience of friends....

And what makes you feel I’m below 30 ?
Or you are just trying so hard to get me upset ?

We dated for about 2 years... Let me say I dated myself for about 2 years - because I got to discover the day she told me that we were just friends. Truly as at then I was a church boy and very naive. That really broke me. I ended the call and refused to take her calls. She kept calling and messaging severally until I eventually found peace and started talking to her again. Ever since then I acted as 'just a friend' I was supposed to be. Later we both relocated to different places and only talk occasionally.
I got the greatest shock yesterday, when I got a voice note on how she emphatically denied that we were even ever cordial.
This is the girl that paid me visits at Ife while I as an undergraduate, all the way from Ilorin. There was this popular cafe at Challenge in Ilorin back then, I can't remember its name anymore; that was where I helped her to open her first ever email and Facebook accounts .
Some of my relatives who thought we were dating gave approval, they said we would make a good couple.

She said "we don't talk again, and that while we talked it wasn't deeply".
O shock me gan!

Laeroy:


You mean everybody including you...

If you also partake in these acts, why then is it a shock to you that someone else does it.?

Trust me dear... I am not close to like that

From yahoo.com

dinodangana:
When ppl spend big, very shocking, like where them dey see the money from??

I wonder o

professore:
I am shocked at how people are too quick to say someone else is proud... the person may just be speaking only English and they think he/she is proud etc

7victor:
To me, one of such character is Unnecessary pride.

It only requires a proud person to believe that every other person is below him/her.

It only requires a proud person to imagine that he/she can insult and abuse everyone because he/she is higher than all.

For example, you can see a final year student of the University,

and you try to relate with him, but he would be insulting you, with the mind that he is higher than you academically.

He doesn't even stop to think that you could be a Masters student.

He just conclude in his mind that he is higher than everyone in the school, because he is in final year.

I remember when in camp, some corpers were insulting one of the officials, asking why someone like him have to address them on an issue which I have forgotten.

It turned out later that the man was a PhD holder.

This is the kind of pride that characterizes human interaction.

People don't want to know, they just assumed things out of pride.

I know some people may use pride to characterize their new promotion, job, and etc.

But must you characterize your next level with pride?


Although I know some people who became very humble due to promotion, good job, and etc.


Please share the character people exhibit that shocks you.

One day I drove pass a lady, she waved to me. I stopped and picked her up ...as we were discussing..I told to hold on on food vendor while I do some work. I gave her money to buy food and wait...only to return there, she's no more

Well wetin shock the most is how people will say come and eat/join me but na only one spoon dey inside the food.

Absolutely no character shocks me anymore from people - we are innately bad people (at our lowest spiritual levels)

As soon as we mature spiritually - we ascend to levels where bad character smells horrible and we cannot stand it

7victor:


Since I am the OP, I have decided to credit your account with N1000 only.

When you receive alert,let me know.

yes Maa thank you so much you ll never lack good things for the rest of your life m