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Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 1:45pm On Sep 26, 2021
I started laughing this morning when I remember my past relatie .

All my life I have been the one spending on people, especially women. I will spend and spend and spend and spend and spend and give and spend and give and spend and give until I became tired of giving without receiving anything from these nigeria women

The only gift I have ever receive from any Nigeria woman is a singlet. It came from the girlfriend of a child-hood friend of mine who gave it to me as a gift of appreciation. She bought me that singlet because I genuinly cares about her well being.

I felt I was over caring which is not healthy for my well being, o I decide to be stingy just to mellow my relationship.

I started looking for a woman that will genuinly care for me. I wanted a genuine woman but how can I find one when all Nigeria women believes that men must be the one to constantly care and spend on them ?

THEN, I STOP LOOKING FOR A CARING WOMAN

GIRL 1
Relunctantly, I started dating one. She was a working young woman. She works and receive almost 30k a month.

She: tells me, I love you.
Me: silent - no respond
She: I love you
Me: You don't love me
She: I love you
Me: You don't
She: I love you
Me: Please don't disturb me with your words.
She: I love you
Me: Stop.
She: You must accept it that I love you
Me: You don't know what love is
She: How can I show you I truly love ?

Me: If you want to show me you truly love me, spend some of your money on me.

Me: use your money to show me you cares for me.
She: I can't spend my salary money on you, I can't.
Me: But you also want me to spend my money on you?
She: You are a guui
Me: Really?
She: Yes

Me: OK, keep your money, while I keep mine.
Me: let us fv'ck and and pleasure ourselves .

Two weeks Later.

Me: Babe, if you are hungry, always go to the kitchen and fill your stomach, eat as you like.
She: filled her stomach
Me: babe, sweep and tidy the crib
She: I can't
Me: Ok
She: I want to do my hair.
Me: How much?
She: 4K
Me: How long will you carry that air?
She: 3 weeks
Me: I don't have.
She: You are a stingy boyfriend
Me: OK.

A month later
Me: Babe, are you are hungry?
She: Yes
Me: Go to the kitchen and cook for us
She: I don't want to cook abeg.
Me: I went into the kitchen and cook.
She: fill her stomach with what I cook.
She: I want to buy a jean trouser and that and also do my hair.
Me: How much
She: Total = N15000
Me: I don't have.

Me: I silently said, I will not waste my money on nonesense.

Me: that money is enough for me to buy a bag of rice and 20 litr oil for that my favourite widow and her children..

She: You are very stingy person.
Me: you don't know my personel.
She: I like you for one thing
Me: What is that?
She:, You can never let a woman go hungry.
She: but you are stingy
She: I think I am gonna leave you.
She: I am tired of your stingyness.
Me: OK, cool.
She left me for another guy:

Two months later, she tried to fight her way back, but for me. (I am not available)

GIRL-2

She came to my base.

She: wow 
She: You seem like a buoyant person.
Me: kept quiet. 
She: You are doing well.
Me: well?, hmmm 
Me: started thinking.
Me: Is she a mellow person
Me: is she is caring?
Me: can this person love me for me.
Me: can this person slow down for me.
Me: we just met.
Me: we f:vcked.
Me: asked, why did you allow me to f'vxk ?
She: I wanted you to trust me
She: Please trust me
She: Please, love me.
She: I want you to love me

After she open her leg for me to slide in, she billed me heavily and demand for a brand new android phone.

She became the devil in my life that will never repeat itself again.

GIRL 3 after two years alone.

Me: saw that she needed 
Me: went to the market and bought her lot of them.
Me: gave it to her.
She: jump on me, hug me
She: said, thank You.
She: how did you know I don't have ?
Me: I know; hmmmm
We: fv'cked.
She: Please date me.
Me: I don't know.
She: I can manage.
Me: called her on the phone,
Me: feeling lonely and horr-ny
Me: babe I want you to come
She: I don't have a phone
Me; how ?
She: I insert my sim in my neighbor phone
She: I need a new phone
Me: hang up.

NEXT ONE

Me: let me slow down
Me: no sex
Me: babe, how about your boyfriend?
She: my boyfriend is fine
Me: OK.
She: came to my base.
She: left
She: 15 missed call.
She : many apologies
She: many petting
Me: became overnight celebrity.
Me: how about your boyfriend
She: I don't a boyfriend

I became tired and decide to be celibate

For me, I wanted a relatie that is not base on money and materials things.

If a man pretend to be poor just to find a genuine caring woman, he will even missed the person he find attractive.

I later got fed up and stop looking for a woman that will show me genuine love and care.

LESSON LEARN

1. Don't waste your time looking for a caring nigeria woman, they are very scarce.

2. It is profitable unto a man to Godly spend money and help his fellow man than to spend money over nigeria women on relationship.

3 Women are mostly people of today and not of tomorrow



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Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by CsRockefeller(m): 1:47pm On Sep 26, 2021
The Book of Proverbs spoke a lot about your kind. Your foolishness is your greatest undoing.

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Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Nobody: 1:50pm On Sep 26, 2021
This is what you get when you try to impress a woman with money,so you share in the blame. When next you want a woman, don't rush it,be your normal self, don't tell lies about anything, never force yourself on her,let your attraction gradually grow in her and I bet you won't experience any of these again.

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Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by ahnie: 1:52pm On Sep 26, 2021
Silent Reveries grin

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Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 1:57pm On Sep 26, 2021
I need those western babe that value flowers.

Me and nigeria women no rhyme at all
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by chatinent: 2:07pm On Sep 26, 2021
All my life I have been the one spending on women. I will spend and spend and spend and spend and spend and give and spend and give and spend and give until I became tired of giving without achieving anything.
Lol.

Me: You don't love me
She: I love you
Me: You don't
She: I love you
Me: Please don't disturb me with your words.
She: You must accept it that I love you
Me: You don't know what love is
She: How can I show you I truly love ?
Serious? You wasted five minutes of your life discussing you love me, you don't love me, I love you, yes you do?
Lol.

Love is not requested for or told. It is shown.
Me: If you want to show me you truly love me, spend your money on me.
Lmao.

Me: Use your money to show me you love me.
You want her heart to lock?

She: I can't spend my salary money on you, I can't.
Lol.

Me: Really?

She: Yes

Me: OK, keep your money, while I keep mine. Let us fv'ck and and enjoy ourselves .
So all you got to offer is money, and all she got is fvcks?

Two weeks Later.

Me: Babe, if you are hungry, go to the kitchen and fill your stomach, eat as you like.
She: filled her stomach
She: I want to do my hair.
Me: How much?
She: 4K
Me: How long will you carry that air?
She: 3 weeks
Me: I don't have.
She: You are a stingy boyfriend
Me: OK.

A month later
Me: Babe, if you are hungry, go to the kitchen and fill your stomach, eat as you like.
She: Ok
She: I want to buy a jean trouser and that and also do my hair.
Me: How much
She: Total = N15000
Me: I don't have.

Me: I silently said, I will not waste my money on nonesense.

Me: That money is enough for me to buy a bag of rice and 20 ltr oil for a widow and her children which I secretly do..

She: You are very stingy person.
She: I like that, you can never let a woman go hungry.
She: but you are stingy
She: I think I am gonna leave you.
She left me for another guy:

Two months later, she trief to return, but for me. (Game Over)
A typical Nigerian girl you are doing this to has deputy boyfriends.

NEW GIRL-FRIEND

She: You seem like a buoyant person
Me: Well, it was the priviledge God gave me.
Me: Started thinking
Me: Can this person love me for me.
Me: Can this person slow down for me.
Me: We just met, why did you allow me to f'vxk ?
She: I wanted you to trust me, so I gave you sex.

After she open her leg for me to slide in, she billed me heavily and demand for a brand new android phone.

This girl drain me.
This girl finished me

NEXT GIRL
Me: Went to the market and bought her gift.
She: jump on me, hug me and kiss me
She: Thank You.
We: Fv'cked.
Me: A month later, called her on the phone,
Me: Feeling horr-ny
Me: babe I want you to come
She: I don't have a phone
Me; How ?
She: I place my sim in my neighbor phone
She: I need a new phone
Me: Hang up

For me, I wanted a relatie that is not base on money and materials things.

I later got fed up and stop looking for a woman that will show me genuine love and care.

LESSON LEARN

I learnt that; It is profitable unto a man to show uncodintional Godly love and spend money on his fellow man than to spend money on a woman

All your life is filled with fvcks.

FINAL WORDS

I understand and also laugh when men are looking for a career woman to marry. I, myself I am praying for God to bless me, so that, no woman can take glory over me.

I don't need a wife that will support me financially because women are naturally selfish and possessive. When they play a little role in your life

They become a demigod

Flee from premarital sex. That's your problem. Date only when you want to marry.

I see some girls adding you up to embezzle the remaining one. And guess what? They will.

I am not a prophet.
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by AAAntz: 2:13pm On Sep 26, 2021
thank GOD you stopped

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Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 2:16pm On Sep 26, 2021
CsRockefeller:
The Book of Proverbs spoke a lot about your kind. Your foolishness is your greatest undoing.

KEEP QUIET.
And stop quoting scripture to justify your ignorance

I don't have time for ignorant you
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 2:24pm On Sep 26, 2021
Iyaebe:
This is what you get when you try to impress a woman with money,so you share in the blame. When next you want a woman, don't rush it,be your normal self, don't tell lies about anything, never force yourself on her,let your attraction gradually grow in her and I bet you won't experience any of these again.

Stop

There is nothing like trying to impress any woman.

I always keep a low profile in all areas of my life.

It is not bad for a man to have money
It is not bad for one to give

Nigeria women are just too self and money concious
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by habsydiamond(m): 2:49pm On Sep 26, 2021
To get better girl so not easy.. It as being said that one who wants to taste the honey inside a rock will not look at the sharp edge of the axe. U must claim what u are not in other to get a good girl and a loose one..
U must claim u are poor even when u are rich to get a girl that will accept u while u must claim u are rich even when u are not to attract those loose ones. Na the loose girls dem go plenty pass.

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Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lcf69(m): 2:49pm On Sep 26, 2021
Iyaebe:
This is what you get when you try to impress a woman with money,so you share in the blame. When next you want a woman, don't rush it,be your normal self, don't tell lies about anything, never force yourself on her,let your attraction gradually grow in her and I bet you won't experience any of these again.


This coming from a woman then,it's an expo n a lot of wisdom too...... PINNED.

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Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 3:27pm On Sep 26, 2021
habsydiamond:
To get better girl so not easy.. It as being said that one who wants to taste the honey inside a rock will not look at the sharp edge of the axe. U must claim what u are not in other to get a good girl and a loose one..
U must claim u are poor even when u are rich to get a girl that will accept u while u must claim u are rich even when u are not to attract those loose ones. Na the loose girls dem go plenty pass.

You speak truth.

Even if a man pretend to be poor, he might loss the person he desires.

Finding a good woman is like a miracle.
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 3:32pm On Sep 26, 2021
chatinent:

Lol.


Serious? You wasted five minutes of your life discussing you love me, you don't love me, I love you, yes you do?
Lol.

Love is not requested for or told. It is shown.

Lmao.


You want her heart to lock?


Lol.


So all you got to offer is money, and all she got is fvcks?


A typical Nigerian girl you are doing this to has deputy boyfriends.


All your life is filled with fvcks.



Flee from premarital sex. That's your problem. Date only when you want to marry.

I see some girls adding you up to embezzle the remaining one. And guess what? They will.

I am not a prophet.

I understand your point.

Why did you think all my life is filled with fv'ck?

It is because I used the f word?
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by chatinent: 3:40pm On Sep 26, 2021
Lostchild:


I understand your point.

Why did you think all my life is filled with fv'ck?

It is because I used the f word?

Read your epistle again.
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by habsydiamond(m): 3:49pm On Sep 26, 2021
Lostchild:


You speak truth.

Even if a man pretend to be poor, he might loss the person he desires.

Finding a good woman is like a miracle.
that's true.. It takes the grace of God to have a decent lady.. Cos Na scarce commodity o
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 4:11pm On Sep 26, 2021
chatinent:


Read your epistle again.

Most of the women I spend for, I don't have any sexual relationship with them.

Right now. I will rather spend my money on a suffering man than to spend on a women.
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by chatinent: 4:15pm On Sep 26, 2021
Lostchild:


Most of the women I spend for, I don't have any sexual relationship with them.

Right now. I will rather spend my money on a suffering man than to spend on a women.

Acts of Pa Potus: Chap 3vs4: Thou art seen that man. It is I who talketh to thee. Shall I, brethren man, forward mine Aza?
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 4:15pm On Sep 26, 2021
habsydiamond:
that's true.. It takes the grace of God to have a decent lady.. Cos Na scarce commodity o

100%
Correct.

It is very difficult.
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by techWriter3: 5:25pm On Sep 26, 2021
The Book of Proverbs talked a alot about your like. Your idiocy is your greatest downfall.
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 6:09pm On Sep 26, 2021
Western men need mediator in their relatie
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Nonye993(m): 4:21pm On Oct 02, 2021
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