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Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 6:06am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin: Rape culture = False Systematic Domestic violence = False Gender wage Gap from sexism = False Misogyny as result of discrimination ,instead of sexism as a result of Biological realities = False Women are not neurotic = False All the following have been debunked by sound scientific literature and empirical statistics but Feminism is a dogma, an ideology like religion that thinks it's perfect, hence all your propaganda will continue because it's rooted in emotions not logic, and it's understandable women instinctual primal preference is emotions even the educated ones with high IQ |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by soundforce: 6:29am On Sep 28, 2021 |
jeromestarks:I weep for you and your level of ignorance. You're likely not married and know nothing about you are arguing. It's not compulsory to comment on all topics. At times, just learn from people's comments and shared experience. That's how to grow in knowledge. What favours a man,may not favor another; so, don't judge every man by one man's success. Funny enough, at 23, many girls can't handle the stress that comes with some marriages. Send a 3 year old clever child to kg 3; he won't cope. Women/mothers in the house can testify to this |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 6:42am On Sep 28, 2021 |
soundforce: Older women are damaged with experience from past relationships and tend not to be cooperative, no man wants headache, that's why Marital rates are declining in Western Societies since women want to marry in their late 20's to 30's 1 Like |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by DEMZEE(m): 6:45am On Sep 28, 2021 |
cooooooks: Baba we are not gynocentric and will never be Men in Nigeria are first class citizens and women are second class citizens period! Marriage is an honorable institution in Nigeria, traditional gender roles are upheld daily. Men lead Women follow 1 Like |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Bekind123: 11:42am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Evolutionlove:Really, you bitter souls don't have any thing to do with your time than creating useless thread all over nairaland about women who you claim to hate, disgusting! You should be ashamed of yourself. Women will keep rejecting psychopaths like you losers for a nobleman. 1 Like |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 12:13pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
JESHAL: Women don't go to school and get degrees for men to find them attractive. They do that to make life better for themselves. Nobody cares if men don't find intelligence and ambition attractive. Beauty and fertility isn't going to put food on anyone's table. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by adambeatz(m): 12:34pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin: I havr just 2 things to say: 1. Estrogen 2. Testosterone 1. You see by the time you hit 35 to 45 my dear, and your landlady come to collect her dues (menopause), the ovaries no longer produce much estrogen and estrogens mainly come from fat tissue. Estrogen being the number 1 factor that make females who they are is now in rapid decline which then come with so much health risks i cant even begin to list out. 2. With men, its a total different game instead of the rapid drop of estrogen females experience its a gradual decline of testosterone in males hence when compared I'd say the man is far off better. Now for arguments sake lets put a male and a female who do regular exercises and ate healthy right from their teens to their early 40's. You see the likely scenario that'll play out would be that the female would cheat the landlady for a while to extend her stay (menopause would be delayed but still eventually catch up with her no matter how hard she tries) whilst thr guy would only make his landlord happy (as thr male testosterone loves having the muscles worked up and would bless your physical attribute to last longer) no to mention when that the estrogen drop in women is a rapid decline and a testosterone drop is a gradual decline in male. Now lets have the reverse, should both the male engage in drugs and abuse their physical bodies whilst in theit teens down to their early 40's first off the female is a out of the picture cause..........(You get should get the picture already) whilst the man as your rightly put it would look for young girls to play the role of nursing the elderly. Do more research and you'd discover estrogen is more of a curse than a blessing in female's in their early 40's compared the the testosterone which is more of a blessing than a curse to a male in his early 40's. Why do you think men, especially our fathers married women who were way younger than them, its because they had to make a balance between their physical looks when landlord comes calling (estrogren and testosterone). Here's a tip, only a few men know that women who have a bit of testosterone in their system seem to retain their looks way longer than a female who doesn't. When you come across women who have hairs on their arms and workout like hell, they tend to retain their physical appearances. Do you have a bit of testosterone in your system dear, hit me up i might be your soul mate dear. 1 Like |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 12:47pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin: Are you saying women are not leveraging them these mordern era , the bitter pill that most women can't swallow is that without us you can't survive,but we also can't propagate civilization as a species without you, virtually all the inventions were from men, you can say it was Patriachy fault, but these mordern era where women in most nation's have educational, voting, working rights, why are women not interested in maintaining and advancing civilization,not interested in technology and, engineering, mathematics, you can't give excuse because women dominate sciences ( medicine, nursing), women don't venture into bricklaying, carpentry, mechanics, electrician, plumbing, coding, engineering,mining that are essential in maintaining civilization 1 Like |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by cooooooks(m): 12:51pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Loool. I laugh in urgent 2k. Laugh in meatpie and rice. Laugh in Balenciaga. DEMZEE: |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by deewhydoski(m): 1:01pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
November24:You are a very calm and respective person See the way u replied him without insulting. You are really what u said u are. 2 Likes |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 1:11pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
adambeatz: In an attempt to educate me, you exposed your own ignorance . Every single woman has a bit of testosterone. It isn't the case of a select few. Men go through andropause and that also comes with a host of health issues. The effects of ageing isn't a woman-exclusive event alone. Like I said earlier, if you're healthy and well-groomed -- irrespective of gender -- you will age like fine wine. You just wasted your time trying to mansplain some gibberish to me. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 1:36pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
JESHAL: Beauty doesn't put food on anyone's table. Except if you work in the entertainment industry then possibly but that alone isn't sustainable nor is it long-term because looks fade and banking on it alone makes you easily replaceable because there's so many beautiful people in the world which doesn't make you special. You'd need something else that makes you stand out. What is fertility if you don't have the resources to care for your children? Any woman carrying fertility on her head like gele without having the means to provide for said children is foolish. I've said my piece on the crux of the argument. I don't have time for your shenanigans thus, refuse to be baited into exchanging lengthy texts with you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 1:53pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin: Ok Just some concise points on fertility women specifically in western Societies receive; 1) welfare programs for single moms 2) 90% of child support is paid from men to women, meaning they don't have the means to sustain their children, infact 90% of alimony is paid from men to women after divorce even educated working class women are included in the statistics On sexuality/ beauty Onlyfans,olosho, pornography,video vixen, modelling, bank marketers, beauty pageant,even beautiful secretaries , you don't understand the power the Halo effect(beauty) and pussy has on men sha 1 Like |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 1:59pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin: ^^^^^^, they prove my arguments again that women can't survive without men, the only exceptions are the single childless unmarried women with pets 1 Like |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 2:05pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
I didn't even mention the urgent #2000, sugar babies, etc , women primary agency is their sexuality |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by AmazonTopaz(f): 2:30pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin: My dear you are too intelligent to stoop so low arguing with that deluded thing that can never learn 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 2:34pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: I'm waiting for Hyerin to give a valid counter argument to refute the central points of my argument, idealistically her argument is reasonable but how many women think outside their sexuality and beauty, statistics doesn't lie |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 2:36pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Let's look at the extremes how many female top CEos, top entrepreneurs, even most wealthiest women are typically from divorce or inheritance from their father, these are outliers, yet women are still far behind |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 2:39pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin how many educated women are inventing anything new or contributing to advance civilization in their field of study, outside them being rote memorizers and skilled in their profession only to make a living, they are rather interested in drama, makeup, fashion, romantic novels 1 Like |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 3:22pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Bekind123: Men will keep Rejecting & Avoiding, Slacked Coochie, WombLess & Expired Products like you Losers for a Young Vibrant VIRGIN Ladies. PS:You think you have bad mouth, Obviously you haven't asked of me around..... 2 Likes |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Paramount01(m): 3:34pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
November24: so your Ex disvirgin u and die?what a pathetic story |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by SirMichael1: 3:37pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Most ladies under the age of 25 years usually want to test the waters first. If you're just looking to frolic around, then I'll suggest that you go for the ages of 18-25yrs but if you're looking for real relationship, one that will lead to marriage, 25 and above is okay. They are more stable and know what they're looking for. Marriage. A crash site. |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 3:44pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
JESHAL: 1) If father abandonment wasn't rampant, then single mothers wouldn't be the biggest beneficiaries of welfare. It's hard for a single mother to survive on just her income alone thus, the need for assistance in absence of the father. There's multiple factors responsible for this. Parenting takes two to tango. Why are men absconding from their fatherly duties? Just goes to show you lot hate responsibilities. 2) because women generally earn lower than men and are mostly the ones devoting time and energy into child rearing. If the woman is the higher earner in the relationship then she pays alimony to the man. 3) only fans, pornography, video vixens, pageantry all fall under entertainment so my point stands. Being beautiful isn't a criteria for prostitution so I really don't get the point you're trying to make. Poverty, sex trafficking are the main drivers of prostitution. Being conventionally beautiful is also not a criteria for modelling. Have you not seen some unique-looking models who arent necessarily deemed as beautiful? Having striking features, tall and slim are characteristics of models. These however, do not necessarily translate to conventional beauty. The secretaries and bank marketers... Were they given the job because of their qualifications/skillset or beauty? Will a beautiful illiterate woman be given an accountancy job by virtue of being beautiful? You act like beauty and having skills are mutually exclusive which circles back to my earlier point, beauty and fertility does not put food on the table. The halo effect isn't just based on physical attractiveness. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Osashalom: 3:49pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
[quote author=November24 post=106127479] Well,baba,me I'm a God-fearing woman o. I lost my virginity at 28. I was just a naive girl. My immediate ex is late. He had heart disease,I stood by him for 3 years before he passed on.. People are different sir[/q God bless you my sister. I would have be happier if you had married as a virgin, however I must commend you, more grace. I married my wife when she was 28. Same age as myself. We have four children, we are very happy to the glory of God. Sometimes I wonder where they see the kind of pictures they paint about women on nairaland. |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 3:53pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Thanks dear. I try my best. I keep telling myself not to reply him yet still go for it. I'm stubborn, I guess. 2 Likes |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by AmazonTopaz(f): 4:00pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin:I understand but that one is irredeemable I believe he is highly disturbed. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 4:06pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin: Remember the central points for my argument is female leverage their sexuality ( beauty,body, fertility,gender), see affirmative action and quota policies specifically to incentivise women into fields that are male dominated like politics,military,engr because of their gender not their merits,we don't have affirmative actions and quota policies for men in female dominated fields like nursing, humanities and teaching Single motherhood is clearly the fault of women and the empirical evidence is very clear about these before liberalism and Feminism, it was a big taboo and shame for women to give birth outside wedlock because western societies still upheld to traditional judeo-christian values, any guy that impregnates anyone daughter will be forced to marry her at gunpoint if necessary by her father, fatherless children was very rare, but since women fought for empowerment, for your body your choice, for rights to abort, women are the ones that control reproduction not men, infact women control sex, men Chase women, women pick men to sleep with, that's your responsibility with these liberty, the only exception is rape and it's rare, you choose to sleep with bums without protection after knowing the evidence that marriage institution statistically is the most secured place to raise a family, remember it's your body,you have unlimited sexuality, no body is policing your choice, contraception and abortion are there, are you telling me women aren't logical enough to vet a man to determine whether he's going to be responsible before deciding he's worthy to be a father, infact the statistics shows when welfare system was introduced for single mothers in the 1970's it's rate increased at a very significant rate 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 4:10pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Same thing I think. I don't know how psychiatric ward escapees get access to phones these days because no sane man with gainful employment gets a kick out of arguing with women on NL on end 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by AmazonTopaz(f): 4:17pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hyerin:Not just the arguing,the problem is the nonsense he argues about he went on the internet and found solace in the midst of unfortunate miserable men so he comes on nairaland to vomit the nonsense pill. 3 Likes |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 4:33pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: True. Their redpill philosophy is mostly emotion-based. It's all just incel talk and Kevin samuels. I just feel bad for any woman who lives life according to the dictates/standards of men because they (men) will never be satisfied. They will keep moving the goalposts while remaining largely unchanged. It's all a scam to the detriment of women. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Bekind123: 4:45pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Evolutionlove:Well, to disappoint you, I am a happily married woman with three beautiful kids. Behind every king there is a queen and I am the queen of my king (my hubby). Who in the hell do you think you are to decide for women on what age they should be getting married and how they should live their lives. |
Re: Things All Men Who Are Dating Women Above 25 Yrs Should Know by Nobody: 4:47pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Bekind123: Madame any woman who has a past would definitely give her husband sorrow, what he said is very correct 2 Likes |
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