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She's already depressed and alone even if she didn't all but spill it out. And it's not as easy as just "talk to people", no, not for people like this guy or lady. Do you think he or she hasn't been trying to "talk to people?" The problem is she or he can't. For any tangible change to occur, underlying issues have to be first addressed.

qtguru:
You will be depressed and isolated if you keep this up, no cap , talk to people esp family

You are just me, maybe, I'm worst

Jesus left his disciples but not perpetually. He always came back to them. Jesus is a crowd puller, a crowd feeder. You're really misguided to even pull Jesus into this. Jesus is the exact opposite of isolation. He has many brethren, a big family, He loves communication. He chose followers and told them to go get more followers. If you're not feeling depressed or isolated in your type of situation, then listen to me, you're even experiencing an advanced psychological condition. Isolation is a powerful tool, alright, except its a powerful tool in the hands of satan. That's why I said in my earlier comment that its a thin line between the line you're walking and sociopathy. In isolation is where the devil starts whispering to you. You don't need that. Before they destroy you, they first of all separate you from everyone. They first of all bring you to where you can't hear or see others and no one can hear you scream. I speaking both in symbolism and literally now. People surround you but you know you're alone. None can "reach" you or figure out what you're passing through. That's the symbolism to no one can hear you scream. You're calling out for help but it's like the effort is worthless; pointless to even try to explain to anybody. Yes, everybody needs a me-time now and again to recharge, but a chronic isolation such as the one you described is both spiritually, emotionally, and physically unhealthy. Do something about it, Please.

Offpoint1:
Depress? Naaa! I've mastered the act of dealing with life problems since I was 11, nothing on earth can make me depress. No pleasure, nor pain, nor rejection.

Isolation is a powerful tool to unleash spirituality, the more isolated you are the less human you become and the more spirit you become. It's a key to spirit realm. More powerful than prayers, chants and incantations.

If you can trace some historical spiritual books, most communications with the spirit realms took place in isolated places.
Take a clue from the Bible for references.
Abraham communicate with God in isolated places
Moses as you know always left for the mountains
Jesus always left his disciples behind into isolation when he wants to communicate with God.

Let me not derail my thread

Offpoint1:
Depress? Naaa! I've mastered the act of dealing with life problems since I was 11, nothing on earth can make me depress. No pleasure, nor pain, nor rejection.

Isolation is a powerful tool to unleash spirituality, the more isolated you are the less human you become and the more spirit you become. It's a key to spirit realm. More powerful than prayers, chants and incantations.

If you can trace some historical spiritual books, most communications with the spirit realms took place in isolated places.
Take a clue from the Bible for references.
Abraham communicate with God in isolated places
Moses as you know always left for the mountains
Jesus always left his disciples behind into isolation when he wants to communicate with God.

Let me not derail my thread

You seems to know much about spiritualism. please can you recommend some books for me

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

People like you only call when you need help. I have many of you as well and I don't pick their calls.

Too bad.

Sprumbaba:
People like you only call when you need help. I have many of you as well and I don't pick their calls.

It's easier for me to put a bullet through my head than call someone for help.

MaryJane24:
Jesus left his disciples but not perpetually. He always came back to them. Jesus is a crowd puller, a crowd feeder. You're really misguided to even pull Jesus into this. Jesus is the exact opposite of isolation. He has many brethren, a big family, He loves communication. He chose followers and told them to go get more followers. If you're not feeling depressed or isolated in your type of situation, then listen to me, you're even experiencing an advanced psychological condition. Isolation is a powerful tool, alright, except its a powerful tool in the hands of satan. That's why I said in my earlier comment that its a thin line between the line you're walking and sociopathy. In isolation is where the devil starts whispering to you. You don't need that. Before they destroy you, they first of all separate you from everyone. They first of all bring you to where you can't hear or see others and no one can hear you scream. I speaking both in symbolism and literally now. People surround you but you know you're alone. None can "reach" you or figure out what you're passing through. That's the symbolism to no one can hear you scream. You're calling out for help but it's like the effort is worthless; pointless to even try to explain to anybody. Yes, everybody needs a me-time now and again to recharge, but a chronic isolation such as the one you described is both spiritually, emotionally, and physically unhealthy. Do something about it, Please.

You misunderstood the context I mentioned Jesus in.
I never said those I mentioned were isolated, I wasn't talking about their personalities. I was talking about spiritualism, WHENEVER they want to connect to the spirit world they went into
isolation. I wasn't talking about their personality.

I've moved passed the stage of "Satanic" manipulation.

Oluwoo:
Guy you are not alone. Op your own small... it 10months now i called my parent or even returned their calls.
It being 6years we saw each other an we are in the same country.

Did your parents wronged you?

Why staying this long without reaching out to them?

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

You are worse than me. A little bit like you but not to that extreme

qtguru:
You will be depressed and isolated if you keep this up, no cap , talk to people esp family

He's just himself. We are all wired differently

brosom:
No man is an island,

Dont worry you'll understand some day.

Yes. He will understand someday. He is most likely under 30. Na time go teach am say he no good to ignore people.

Peemonny:
I feel you are still young to understand life, there are problems that comes in triple waves, it not every problem u can solve alone, I wonder how u can stay 6months and not communicate with ur mom and be feeling bad ass about it, I wonder how she feels, how will u find a wife? Who will u talk to wen u have martial issues? If you are in financial need who do u talk to? the deepest problems starts wen you are 30+ and chocked with responsibilities remember your friends are your children's connection except you do not have any plans for marriage or having children, if that's the cases you are one hell of a selfish being. Remember problem be like grace it is new every morning. Secondly you will miss alot of opportunities not returning calls or picking them. Someone I knew gave anothers person my number and he did contact me and guess what it was a deal and I made good money out of it, was I expecting his call Hell No! If I hadn't picked the opportunity will pass to someone else #fact and I've had similar experiences more than 5 times, there is this guy I heard about he is just like you and very intelligent he came out with 1st class from uni but guess what he committed suicide possibly loneliness maybe part of the cause. What I'm just trying to say is there are lots of advantages wen u have people u can confide in as opposed to being alone in everything u will get tired, burnt out and give up.

Na small pikin dey worry am. He go soon clear for him eyes

You have no excuse for this kind of lifestyle. Imagine not calling your own for 6 months. Not praying for anything bad but imagine if you’re not in good shape, everybody will think it’s your normal way of living

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

Offpoint1:
It's easier for me to put a bullet through my head than call someone for help.

Just do not get married.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

only u anti-social and telephonophobia.... smh

Is when you are sick and down you will know what evil you have done to yourself, it's when you do occasion you would know what you bad you have done to yourself, it's when you need help and people around you, then you would see yourself by yourself by not communicating properly with family and friends. All I see is marine spirit that is controlling you in the spirit world. You better change and work with the Holy Spirit.




Receive Sense!

Some things here brotherly my mum have complained about it time without numbers even my siblings but d hustle hard Jare by that of my family I hardly pick there calls cos at end of the day na tasking

Offpoint1:
I'm a HUMAN

You are funny though. I wish i could know u better.

Offpoint1:
You misunderstood the context I mentioned Jesus in.
I never said those I mentioned were isolated, I wasn't talking about their personalities. I was talking about spiritualism, WHENEVER they want to connect to the spirit world they went into
isolation. I wasn't talking about their personality.

I've moved passed the stage of "Satanic" manipulation.

Na baba u b 4 my side oh. Abeg i 4 like sabi u oh. Bro

Proffeluczy1:
You are funny though. I wish i could know u better.

If we were meant to know each other, we will.

Peemonny:
I feel you are still young to understand life, there are problems that comes in triple waves, it not every problem u can solve alone, I wonder how u can stay 6months and not communicate with ur mom and be feeling bad ass about it, I wonder how she feels, how will u find a wife? Who will u talk to wen u have martial issues? If you are in financial need who do u talk to? the deepest problems starts wen you are 30+ and chocked with responsibilities remember your friends are your children's connection except you do not have any plans for marriage or having children, if that's the cases you are one hell of a selfish being. Remember problem be like grace it is new every morning. Secondly you will miss alot of opportunities not returning calls or picking them. Someone I knew gave anothers person my number and he did contact me and guess what it was a deal and I made good money out of it, was I expecting his call Hell No! If I hadn't picked the opportunity will pass to someone else #fact and I've had similar experiences more than 5 times, there is this guy I heard about he is just like you and very intelligent he came out with 1st class from uni but guess what he committed suicide possibly loneliness maybe part of the cause. What I'm just trying to say is there are lots of advantages wen u have people u can confide in as opposed to being alone in everything u will get tired, burnt out and give up.

You won't understand my world, it's unfamiliar territory. It'll be too complex for normal/ordinary people to understand.

Que sera sera should give you a clue of me.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

May be you should go and live in the spirit world.
We humans don't need people like you.

OMOJOHN001:
Verily Verily I say Unto you OP, that the reason for this is because you're BROKE yes I said it, You have less than 500k in your account.

2) Verily I say unto you, that a Part of you is bitter and you're trying to fake happiness by moving away from people, which will not work.

3) You don't have real Love within you, simply because people doesn't use to love you enough.

So on YEE son , I say unto you, CHANGE NOW BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE. GO OUT AND MINGLE WITH REAL PEOPLE, FIND WHAT GIVES YOU HAPPINESS IN PEOPLE AND STICKS TO IT.

Humans believe money means happiness, I believe you might have read on several occasions where wealthy people end their lives.

For the records, I'm far from being sad. Nothing can give me happiness or sadness... NOTHING.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

You spoke with your mum 6 months ago?
Really? Do you want to be blessed at all in this life. You might be rich and be un blessed.
You don't know what you have until you loose it.. better hala your mum before the time reaches..you would wish to see her and she would be no where to be found

FILEBE:
Weird for a social media manager

There's personality and there's "worknality" only extraordinary people can separate the two.

Realdollars:
So op can type a normal sentence and even compose a topic, no off pointing this time, so all this off point talk all along is because your are alone for so long and lack communication skills.

Don't mistook me for the guy who impersonate my username, I've been here for long... While the impersonator is just few months here.

DissTroy:
This isn't always true. Some people are natural loners. They enjoy their solitude more than the company of others, and would create time for solitude even in relationships or marriages.

Oddly, these people rarely ever get played by the opposite gender. If they ask you to come over and you stall, they just move on until you reach out to them again.

It doesn't make them antisocial - it just means they can't rationalize the endpoint of talking to you endlessly when there's no definite result for it.

Why do you need people to call, to check up on you? Why do you need the validation? You can be the closest of buddies and not talk to or chat with each other for months. It's fine. Until a specific reason to communicate arises.

It seems you are the only one who understands my thread and personalities.

The rest thinks I have pride or psychological issues, while some I've concluded I'm posses.

Funkybabee:
It's not good, no matter the spirituality.

U need to communicate with people in other to be inspired by then, knowledge or God's word can be sent through them

Kindly change bro, though me too don't asked people but not like that

I relate with people dear, only when there is need to...

Bimpe29:
Are you in good terms with your Mom and siblings? Are you single or married? If at all you are in a serious relationship, how distant is it? Let me have your answers before I can proceed.

I have no reasons for whatsoever to be in a shaky relationship with my family, I can go lengths for them.

As for relationship until I see a reason to be in one.

Odichi:
You defined my husband. Una plenty.

Please cherish him, believe me we are the best of people in terms of "love and cares"

It might be a difficult task understanding his world.

Mercisharelove:
Contact me I will share something with you

You can reach me via the number on my signature, I don't have access to Nairaland email.