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I have two experiences but I will share the second one tomorrow. For couple of years now, I always have many girls around and we usually have sex, but they are not my girlfriend. So after much talk from my mom and friends to have someone I could call my own, I decided to give it a try.

Since August this year, I started asking this girl out for a relationship. Her response was discouraging, but as a guy I persisted. I am graduating in two months time and she is in 300 level, we are in the same department. So I thought we could do something that even though I graduate I will still keep in touch.

After much talk and persuasion, this girl told me that she wants me but she is hoping and wishing that I will wait for her till next year, when she will be signing out from school. That next year, I will be serving NYSC, and she wants me to wait.

After that call, I checked my phone if I was talking to the right person. I just deleted her two numbers from my phone. I don't have problem with her not accepting to date me, I am just amuse that she believes that because I love her, I will pause my life and wait for her till she graduate, she is staying in kogi and I base in Abuja. So we can't date now that we are seeing each other, but in her mind, we can date when I am in Abuja and she is in kogi. Long distance relationship, wrong idea.

No it's not!

Relationship is a double edged sword. If you meet the right person, it will worth it. If you meet the wrong one, it will scare you so deeply you'll just hate the idea of it. A girl telling you to wait till next year doesn't love you, just securing you as an option for herself. I've been loved by women alot and I know love when I see it. It's strong, you can't even fake it.

She will want the person instantly, especially that time is not a woman's best friend. She would strategies her plans to be seamlessly interwoven with yours, and prepare for a glorious future with you. If you're into sport, she would start doing or at least, pickin interest in it. Sometimes I wonder the kind of brain a man will have, to stay with a woman that sees him as nothing but a option, and confuse it will love.

Lol

Relationship should be beneficial anyways.

Be single and you gonna be free and more focused!

pansophist:
Relationship is a double edged sword. If you meet the right person, it will worth it. If you meet the wrong one, it will scare you so deeply you'll just hate the idea of it. A girl telling you to wait till next year doesn't love you, just securing you as an option for herself. I've been loved by women alot and I know love when I see it. It's strong, you can't even fake it.

She will want the person instantly, especially that time is not a woman's best friend. She would strategies her plans to be seamlessly interwoven with yours, and prepare for a glorious future with you. If you're into sport, she would start doing or at least, pickin interest in it. Sometimes I wonder the kind of brain a man will have, to stay with a woman that sees him as nothing but a option, and confuse it will love.

Very intelligent comment from you. I am inspired. You have a foresight. I am thinking the same thing too. I couldn't stop laughing when I heard her say it.

MufasaLion:
Lol

Relationship should be beneficial anyways.

Be single and you gonna be free and more focused!

You could be right. I think I need to focus and be free, since I am still young.

Demigod22:
You could be right. I think I need to focus and be free, since I am still young.

Exactly! Enjoy!