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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by BRATISLAVA: 4:31pm On Oct 03, 2021
Insecure men who want a woman who doesn't know if they are bad at sex are at it again.

As long as men refuse to be virgins at marriage, and since virginity brings nothing to them, there's no point trying to dictate virginity for women.

People will get married. Virgin or not. The way non-virgin Nigerian men act like virginity is everything is disgusting and hypocritical. Being a virgin suddenly sorts out marriage. Lol. The kind of stupidity on the forum is astonishing.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 4:31pm On Oct 03, 2021
Vinnie2000:




I have been Reading ur Comments!! Let me reply you.

Truth is Everyman would like to Marry a Virgin!!
because She has not had Sex with anoda man and her Veejay is basically Untouched! tongue

Even you, if you have any Only son whom you Love, There are 2 Girls for him to Pick as Wife..
*One is a Virgin
*The other has Fuccked 15 Guys!

Which will you pick for Him?
Be Honest! smiley


As a mother that I am, I will not choose a wife for my son, he will choose the kind of partner he wants, if he comes home ranting about wanting virgins, I will ask if he is one and if he isn't, I will tell him he doesn't deserve one,

If a virgin lady was determined enough to keep herself for years, with temptations everywhere and resisting it, that means she is a strong, disciplined, responsible, courageous woman,

if a man cannot keep himself till marriage, that means he is a weak, undisciplined, irresponsible man, and he is not fit to marry what he doesn't have and can't give, he should marry his kind.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by NigeriaIsGreat: 4:32pm On Oct 03, 2021
henrybomb:
So if you were to choose between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with a calm and amazing character which will you choose?
I'd chose the virgin 1 million times

How on earth would i marry a loosed product that would be making comparism between me and her numerous dick grin grin
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Acidosis(m): 4:32pm On Oct 03, 2021
Those who are concerned about marrying a virgin are not doing so because they want a "successful marriage" so trying to force that successful line is truly stupi.d.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 4:33pm On Oct 03, 2021
koyyes:
Make Una dey argue about vajayjay.

$1 is now #600+, Not even one tooth pick as invention from black negroes.

Dumb, inventless f@ggots.
Exactly.
To be fair, there are many with sense..I've seen some of this thread.
But these dumbasses? Their ideas are more virulent than the covid delta variant. Probably just as destructive.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by UndauntedYOCA(f): 4:33pm On Oct 03, 2021
Nairaland male virgins please indicate because I dey find husband. cheesy grin grin grin
My husband must be a virgin o otherwise....
Lol, even the men with unspeakable body counts will say they want to marry a Virgin. cheesy grin grin grin cheesy
Una Sabi make person laugh for this forum.
So, those babies that get defiled now won't make great wives because they aren't virgins? The men and women who were abused, raped, lost their virginity against their will or had their hymen broken from exercises, strenuous stuff etc won't make good spouses?
OP, you dey make me laugh kamaparo (wahk'Allah).
I have an e-diary here on Nairaland titled TORRENTS AND TORMENTS: MENTAL AND INNOCENCE TORTURE, you might want to read it.
As much as Virginity is a wonderful thing, it isn't the sole thing that makes a happy home.
I want peace, love, respect, loyalty, honesty, all-round support, laughter, good sex, interest from my spouse and other things and if I find them in a sincere man whose body count exyceed 10 sef then I'm game because these are more important than being with a virgin who lacks basic qualities that make a wonderful home. I want a healthy and clean man!
But we all desire different things sha.
Mind you, even people who have plenty body count can change to become better so why should I judge them?

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by NOETHNICITY(m): 4:34pm On Oct 03, 2021
henrybomb:

If you were to choose to between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with sweet and amazing character which will you choose?
Bro, you are not making sense
It's best if you just keep quiet
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by emmyN(m): 4:34pm On Oct 03, 2021
JovialJune:



What about a virgin lady choosing an virgin guy with a calm and amazing character rather than a non virgin rotten diick with a bad and annoying character.

Heya, men are not virgins. Go look up the origin of the word. It's a virtue for women alone.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Vinnie2000(m): 4:35pm On Oct 03, 2021
faithfull18:
My own is that virginity should apply to both gender. If you are a man looking for a virgin, you should be one too, simple. You can't eat your cake and have it.


As I have told Mr Chatinent,
In History, Men have NEVER been expected to be Virgins!!

Infact, Male Virginity is not Respected!

Do ladies respect Male Virgins?

Ask many Naija Babes! Many do not want a Virgin as Partner or husbands!
Most wants a Johnny sins Nigga..A Man dat can Fvckk dem 3 Hours Non-stop! cool

So Really, If You are a Girl, Virginity is For u Pple..
Not for us Guys! kiss sad
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 4:35pm On Oct 03, 2021
Cousin9999:
How about people focus on being the best version of themselves for themselves, and look for a partner based on compatibility and character rather than irrelevant nonsense.
Get out of here with your sane,logical, empathic and humane thought. How dare you?!!! angry tongue

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by KarinaLove(f): 4:35pm On Oct 03, 2021
derecho:
You'll be surprised there are more male virgins nowadays.
Most ladies are naive.You can easily sway a lady nowadays.
In the past, this topic won't be an issue because many girls were virgins and are proud of it BUT now it is the girls who will frown at virginity. You know why? Many of them have been deflowered hence they see it as normal to lose one's virginity.

Hmmm...

I disagree.

Some women still want Virgins as husbands.

Because the world is doing it doesn't mean it's right. Because every man is sleeping around town doesn't mean it is right.

Virginity shows value for yourself, fear of GOD and above all Purity and a sense of cleanliness.

This is something every man should want to have atleast for himself before marriage.

A neighbor of mine is married to a sleep around man. One-day she was telling me not to think of getting married. I asked her why?

She said that she was a virgin before marriage. Did all the tests and was clean. After marriage, she said she started having different STI's anyhow. Every month it was treatment. Until she was diagnosed with HIV.

She said it was from the husband becos he later confessed that he was been sleeping around since his twenties.

Before she left, she told me she will poison him to death before December this year and noone will trace it to her becos she knows what to do. After his death, she will travel far away where noone will see or know her

She said it with pain and bitterness in her heart.

That her husband is already a dead man walking. This is October.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:35pm On Oct 03, 2021
emmyN:


Men are never virgins. Virginity is a term ascribed to women alone.
bros,you don fall my hand i swear

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 4:36pm On Oct 03, 2021
Joeboy4ever:
so clean cups don’t make a great drink those that mean you I’ll drink from a cup picked up from the gutter without being washed or you I’ll drive your car without tyres let’s call a spade a spade op is right, take it or leave it


You will drink from a cup picked up from the gutter without being washed if you are also one.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by NigeriaIsGreat: 4:37pm On Oct 03, 2021
CaveAdullam:
1. Women that says virginity doesn't matter has seriously messed up with their lives during their h0e/party/appreciative days by accumulating a significant truckloads of body counts. Or, have been fvcked mercilessly by a single guy or two (and involved) in a relationship that led nowhere.

1b. The women that says virginity doesn't matter are the same women who will not marry repentant rapists, ex convicts, paedophiles. They always prefer the good to go men for a long lasting relationship. Ditto for men when selecting good suitors for their sisters and daughters.

2. When women want to retire or have retired you hear the mantra from their mouth: "virginity doesn't guarantee good marriage... not all virgins are loyal (in their cognitive bias minds, h0es are loyal)...who will you choose between a virgin with bad character and a h0e with good character(all of a sudden, virgins have bad characters: a very stupid comparison)...virgins also get involved in other kinds of sexual depravity: mouth action, anal sex, masturbation blah blah blah". They always find possible ways to rationalize their stupidity in order to save face and this is done by ridiculing virginity.

3. Because the above women sexual market value has dropped greatly, they begin to pretend repentance, behave as good fellows, seeming patient and loyal. But why didn't they remained like this from the onset? Why did they enjoyed or spent their past lives carelessly without giving a thought about the future? They didn't because:

4. a foolish beta man will come one day and asked for their hands in marriage; a man who doesn't care for the well-being of his genetic line. Since society comprises emasculated men in high degree, virginity doesn't matters. Since these men are feminized and sexually thirsty, they wouldn't bother vetting their so-called fiancées or be able to withstand the destruction of the beautiful illusions they hold concerning these women.

5. Virginity is fertility! Virgin women ranks higher than their non virgin counterpart. Non virgin women are even more predisposed to sexual infections and diseases.

6. O yes! Virgin women are more loyal, faithful, submissive and have a happy and long standing marriage. The lower her body count, the lower her propensity to divorce.

7. Like I said somewhere before, individuals must be judge based on their principles, personalities and what they represents overtime. This is necessary so that we won't fall into fundamental attribution biases.

Quite alright, repentant h0es or non virgin women are not evil, and many still got good qualities. However, inasmuch as the intersexual dynamics is concerned, selecting for the best amongst women is necessary and virgin women always comes first! Non virgin women can still qualify if they pass the scrutiny test.

8. As being wealthy, strong, powerful and brave comes first before moral values, ethics, principles when women are choosing men for marriage, same way virginity comes first for men. Homo sapiens are sexually dimorphic, hence, the need for different qualities in both mates. And as far as the genetic pool and evolution is concerned, these qualities matters and are the most significant factors considered when choosing a mate.

The fact that cars do have accident on the road doesn't mean we should prefer damaged cars to brand new ones. At least starting with the best of cars enormously guarantees a sweeter ride and a safer journey. The best cars can be enjoyed by the owner and will even be appreciated more as it depreciates over the years. (This is not about cars but true of cars).

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by cococandy(f): 4:38pm On Oct 03, 2021
shaybebaby:

Exactly.
To be fair, there are many with sense..I've seen some of this thread.
But these dumbasses? Their ideas are more virulent than the covid delta variant. Probably just as destructive.

Where have you been kiss
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Kajaard: 4:38pm On Oct 03, 2021
Meek127:
bros,you don fall my hand i swear

I tire for that guy undecided

Imagine him saying virginity is reserved for only women. I take it he was joking sha undecided

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:38pm On Oct 03, 2021
cooooooks:
So this is why productivity is so low in Nigeria.

People are focused on useless topics.


Must you vomit such waste?
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 4:38pm On Oct 03, 2021
duality:


Why not this way...

If you were to choose between a virgin with good character and a non virgin with bad character. Which will you choose.

There's something in most people that makes them accentuate the negative to justify their stance


Does that erase the fact that there are no negativities in virgins same way there are positives in non virgins?

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by SweetDipBenny(m): 4:38pm On Oct 03, 2021
I dont think marrying a virgin is a good idea. She never experience life. She b hungry to experience other men.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by emmyN(m): 4:39pm On Oct 03, 2021
Meek127:
bros,you don fall my hand i swear

Let it stay fallen then, make motor jam am
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 4:39pm On Oct 03, 2021
Hamiltonii:


Ashawo! Borehole!
I think you are confusing me with your mum.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by derecho(m): 4:39pm On Oct 03, 2021
Friend, who told you "there's nothing like male virgins"?
And what do you mean by nature does not place value of male virgins? If you are Christian, you would have read the special reward for men who didn't defile themselves with women.

There are some men who kept themselves from sex before marriage.

In case you don't know, sex(especially before and outside marriage) is one major reason men are weak.
Check most men who are easily manipulated by women, their major weakness is sex.

Abeg no make that mistake o.


Vinnie2000:




My Friend!;
There is Nothing like Male Virgins!

I have said it here B4

Nature/society DOES NOT place any value on Male Virginity!
Infact, you as a 26 yr old dude, gather a group of girls and tell Dem you are a Virgin, Many will Deride and think of you as a Weirdo! sad embarassed

But for Ladies, Their Virginity is Like Precious Diamond!
It has always been of High value!! smiley

So you see, Male Virginity is Thrash! Female virginity is Bae! wink smiley

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by highchief1: 4:40pm On Oct 03, 2021
deavicky:
after sleeping with other girls, I hope u are not planning to marry a Virgin. Because karma exist. If have had slept with 10 girls, 10 men will definitely sleep with ur wife even if u like go to Israel to marry.
I was lucky to marry a virgin.Grace found me.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by afadi2410: 4:40pm On Oct 03, 2021
jmoore:


Ride the car with flat worn out tyres.

Drink with a cup that was picked from a septic tank.

What does borehole guarantees?


My brother married a virgin,but today,they are divorced

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by highchief1: 4:41pm On Oct 03, 2021
JovialJune:


So what is the difference between you and her? Are you not Nigerian used?
lol I am.make una Dey close una legs small.I no no how my guy take go end up with such girl.girl when Dey swallow cum like smoothies

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by gift2xl: 4:42pm On Oct 03, 2021
PUTTING YOURSELVE UNDER THIS COMMANDMENT, GUARANTY SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE. " WIFE BE SUMMISIVE TO THEY HUSBAND, HE IS THE HEAD OF THE WIFE. HUSBAND LOVE THEY WIFE." IT'S NOT OPTIONAL. EPHESIANS 5.21-26. IT'S MARRIAGE LAW. SO IT'S IN YOUR FAVOUR TO CHOSE WHOM TO MARRY AND OBEY THE LAW. YOUR AT LIBERTY TO CHOSE WHOM YOU WANT TO MARRY, BUT NOT AT LIBERTY OF THE MARRIAGE LAW. SO YOU DONT BLEAM ANY ONE FOR CHOSING YOUR WIFE OR HUSBAND FOR U. PEACE
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by NigeriaIsGreat: 4:42pm On Oct 03, 2021
Omonigho1976:
before I got married to my wonderful wife years ago I was going out with one virgin in my church who was carrying her virginity on her head like a trophy barking it on anyone who cared to listen that shes a virgin at 29 but this particular girl in question is the most selfish and self centered female ever known to man, nothing makes sense unless it comes from her, she always wants everything to go her way, when I notice this indelible trait in her I did a tactical withdrawal. Fast forward to present, this same virgin has 3 kids for three different men and each of the 3 marriages didn't last up to 2 yrs each. She's currently a single mother. In marriage it maturity and character that counts that's what sustains a family and not virginity, get your priorities right bro or your case will end in premium tears!!!
There are hundreds of thousands of loosed girls who doesn't even worth anything in presence of her family talkmore of the husband
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 4:42pm On Oct 03, 2021
Gbolarshow:
I married my wife of six years a virgin after ten years of friendship. I never and will never for a day doubt her chastity or question her whereabouts. Forget westernization or modernization, virginity is a virtue and our ladies should strive to keep it for their own good. I will respect and care for my wife till eternity.


Virginity is a virtue true, so why didn't you strive to be a man of virtue before you got married? Why were you a used rotten diick before marrying your wife? Doesn't she deserve a man of virtue?

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:43pm On Oct 03, 2021
emmyN:

Let it stay fallen then, make motor jam am
lol
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Kajaard: 4:43pm On Oct 03, 2021
highchief1:
lol I am.make una Dey close una legs small.I no no how my guy take go end up with such girl.girl when Dey swallow cum like smoothies

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by NigeriaIsGreat: 4:43pm On Oct 03, 2021
highchief1:
I was lucky to marry a virgin.Grace found me.
Congrats bro. I graciously tap in your grace
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:43pm On Oct 03, 2021
shaybebaby:

You know, I don't disagree with you because you are holding yourself to the same standard. It's the hypocrites that gall me.

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