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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 9:23am On Oct 04, 2021
Just 33k....Abeg use all the coming months... MUGUdinho

grin grin grin grin

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Achico: 9:23am On Oct 04, 2021
It will pass inugo? Dats life no kee urslf
But if to say u chop now u no go com nairaland come tell us
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 9:24am On Oct 04, 2021
Lamasta:


Die by fire.....

Do this for 3 days with fasting and you will be free in Jesus name....


Ire ooooo


LOL... Die by fire will not stop all these things.. If you can cut yourself off from internet is the only solution..


I see bet house as a toilet and whenever I pass by any bet house, I look at it with disgust because I see people who are pained standing outside, young guys thinking about their life... It's just too bad.. If only our govt can step in and close these bet shops..

All networks were able to ban twitter after the presidency gave an order,
If our network can also ban them too it will be good

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by vickydevoka(m): 9:24am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
Gambling is bad especially when u are from poor background. Two guys i know killed themselves bcus no hope. Hunger n frustration everyday.

Leave gambling for rich people or people with hand work.

Teachers, corpers, small salary earners n SME should stay completely off.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by BeeBeeOoh(m): 9:24am On Oct 04, 2021
chatinent:


E pain me.
And you took it personal cheesy cheesy

Who vexed you this morning?

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by iscom(m): 9:25am On Oct 04, 2021
Karleb:


I will advice against giving him a kobo. Let him learn the hard way.

It's even better that it's just 33k and there's hope next month. If he doesn't learn now, he might gamble with a million tomorrow.
The good thing people don't help a gambler smiley
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 9:26am On Oct 04, 2021
Herbephe1:
I was tempted yo gamble last week.My roommate has being winning bet9ja since last week,he bought plenty food and while I feed only on garri..I asked him of just 1k to buy food stuff, the guy unleash unprintable words on me because I used to discourage him from gambling. Few days later my lecturer a friend sent 2k to me..I used 1k to buy kulikuli and used the remaining play bet9ja,... Now I'm back to square one... betting is evil, dissociate yourself from it.





LOL.... Your story just made me laugh....
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Olumaeme: 9:26am On Oct 04, 2021
You a gambler, Crying after a loss? More like an assassins, scared of sound of gunshot!

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by chatinent: 9:27am On Oct 04, 2021
BeeBeeOoh:
And you took it personal cheesy cheesy

Who vexed you this morning?

Lols.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by EmekaBlue(m): 9:28am On Oct 04, 2021
bet9ja has made alot of money from youths especially this buhari regime

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 9:28am On Oct 04, 2021
vickydevoka:

Gambling is bad especially when u are from poor background. Two guys i know killed themselves bcus no hope. Hunger n frustration everyday.

Leave gambling for rich people or people with hand work.

Teachers, corpers, small salary earners n SME should stay completely off.



I'm working on that.
Thanks so much for the word!
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by vickydevoka(m): 9:29am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
Borrow online. Especially from fair money or carbon, no go borrow from sokoloan o, Easy credit , l credit n xcredit. Dem go call ur mama n papa, use ur picture do billboard for oshodi..

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Deen100: 9:32am On Oct 04, 2021
Gandollar:
Op needs raba, not all these motivational talks mbok. shocked

Chaiiiiiiiiii, na only you really sabi wetin dey sup. grin grin
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Trimjos: 9:33am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

Drop ur akant
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by vickydevoka(m): 9:33am On Oct 04, 2021
Gandollar:
Op needs raba, not all these motivational talks mbok. shocked
If u have it will give him. Bcus u knew someone that killed himself bcus of something like dis
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Aklee4994(m): 9:33am On Oct 04, 2021
Gambling or betting pls
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by vickydevoka(m): 9:34am On Oct 04, 2021
SimeonOTC:


NYSC total allowance is about 396k for 12months..I was able to save 300k from it.., after p.o.p, the state I serve paid us 96k, making it appropriately 400k, as I type this now, the money is still in my acct since February we passed out..how was I able to save this much? I am low-key nigga, never gambled, wasteful or even have a girlfriend dispite have lots of younger ones that look up to me, I have big problems, but I handle the strategically..that aside anyway..

O.p I laugh you, if you dnt stop, I swear bro, you go suffer.. heavy suffer..
I ones gambled long time ago.. gambling does interest me..I really don't know why.. there is a spirit in me that always fight anything that takes away my hard earn funds, I go back to the drawing board to see how to starve the thing or addict or better still, look for an alternative.

O.p try this little solution, it may rewire your brain.

Channel all your funds into a 'legit' saving financial app, where you can watch the money grow through interest or investment, apps like cowry saving app, rice investment app, piggyvest..
Always login just the way you login your bet app to check your money and interest been sent to you daily and also check for other investment opportunities in the app, check for other people's savings and funds they have invested, you will be amaze and challenged to save and invest like them or more than then, you will shock to know that in this country, people save like mad mangrin, I jst loggin piggyvest and saw some saved 5milli in his target savings, about approximately 20-40k interest will be paid to him every month for absolutely doing NOTHING!!

Try this, but first, delete and unsubscribe from all bet apps as well as uninstalling them..starve yourself from betting for some days.
Niceo one
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by drealcivilceno(m): 9:35am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:



The thing just happen I no know how e sup! I feel ashamed of myself right now... The plan is to stop but I keep falling.
Thanks for the tips bro.
How were you able to stop yours! I need tips abeg! Everything happen online like magic!

What do you want to use the winnings for?.. To buy cloth abi and car abi, to show off.

Listen, gambling is not bad, it is the way you play that is weird, just as laughing is not bad but when it is done improperly, people think you a fool.

Play what you can afford and for it's future usefulness... That is why whenever you loose, you feel like shit.

You are contributing to economy, and it will get to your turn someday, but have enough to survive till that time.

Let no one put you down, no one ever knows the truth, we all say things that fits our narrative and that is it.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by VULCAN(m): 9:35am On Oct 04, 2021
Surprisingly, your problem isn't gambling.

Your problem is indiscipline.

Gambling is just where you chose to express your lack of discipline.

I read a post here a few days ago of a guy who never bets more than N100 and sometimes he wins good money.

I respect that level of discipline.

The fact that you also cannot teach the kids is another sign of your indiscipline.

Teaching those kids is supposed to take place regardless of what happens unless there is a death in the family or something close to that.

But your indisciplined self wants to abandon that responsibility.

Let me share advise now

Decide that you will NEVER bet more than N1000 at once and if you lose then the next bet must be N900 and if you lose then the next bet must be N800 and so on.

Only if you win do you go back to betting N1000

If you lose 10 times in a row then you pack it up as that is a clear sign that it is not for you.

If you can discipline yourself you can do this, if you can't then your type has already lost their future because you will bet with your company's money and end up in jail.

It's because you haven't seen anybody who destroyed their life by uncontrolled gambling that you are still there.

Only the disciplined survive

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dshocker(m): 9:38am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

You are not yet dead,until you have died angry

My only advice to you is that bokoharam is recruiting and their entry level pay is 100k...
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by solexzy: 9:38am On Oct 04, 2021
Use your next month's salary and play sure 2 odd to regain what you lost �
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Thompz43(m): 9:39am On Oct 04, 2021
Just 33k and you want to die
I lost 270k last week champion league and it felt like the whole world was against me, life goes on bro

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Map1(m): 9:41am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
you are not dead,you are still alive.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by bmdmix11: 9:41am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
so we should do what, if any one help u u will keep doing same thing.

when u use leg waka go work u go think am b4 u gamble.

u no fit use 1k gamble make u rest

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 9:41am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

See it as an investment went wrong and you will definitely feel better smiley.....

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 9:41am On Oct 04, 2021
felixzo1:
please relax every problem in life has a solution. there is always a way out, only time will give you options on what best to do.

do not beat your self too much , we all make mistakes but be willing to learn from them and grow. No gambling it destroys.
you are a good person!
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Waltzpower: 9:43am On Oct 04, 2021
CaveAdullam:
This darkness you're witnessing now will pass away. Just take everything slowly, 2-4 months from now, you look back and leap for joy for this hurdle scaled through.

Try and mingle with the locales in your community. I believe they will have good hearts towards you as a Corp member. What's important here is not too much fretting, murmuring and crying. If you can eat daily even if it's once, you can overcome.

Only you can elevate yourself, please do!

Thanks.
Brilliant submission.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by sakanifemi123(m): 9:45am On Oct 04, 2021
That should serve as lesson to you, no need to worry or depression because that can affect your health which may add to your problem. Compare your life with a man that lost all her entire savings life into hand fraudster, he didn't do anything either move on with her life.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 9:45am On Oct 04, 2021
InvestorO:


See it as an investment went wrong and you will definitely feel better smiley.....


That won't solve the problem bro.
I wanna get rid of the habit
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Tundex911: 9:46am On Oct 04, 2021
Shey na when all those big team lose you con dey stake with your 33k...

Oluwa a wa pelu e

Smh

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 9:46am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
yesterday was a destruction for gamblers i lost 5k from my alawee tnx to the zenith i tried to fund my bet9ja to stake more and the bank code refuse to do it i tried to fund it again wth my card and the transaction kept failing
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by SonofGod231: 9:47am On Oct 04, 2021
Aklee4994:
Gambling or betting pls
What's the difference?! Gamblers is it not betting they do? And sports betting and prediction is it not uncertainty?!
All involves money,uncertainty and addiction so they're the same.

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