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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Judolisco(m): 10:22am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dahustler007:enter family house Asap |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by hansomb: 10:24am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dahustler007:Use what just happen to you as a motivation. |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Zainabthegirl1(f): 10:26am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Lol ode 1 Like |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by JerryJJZ(m): 10:27am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Nigerians and savage responses. Anyways, @OP, you need understand the simple logic to get out of this mess. If not, you will keep going and coming forever. Gambling is more spiritual than physical. The spirit of gambling is like that of pornography. They are both difficult to exclude. I have been a victim of both scenarios. My gambling was worst to the extent I derive beautiful formular and strategies to help me win. Other people use my strategy to win big but it never profited me. I studied bookies like a 3 unit course and I mastered the art of the odds. I read books and subscribed to different punting channels. I dedicated my time to it and I took it as a real business. But in the end, I kept loosing and loosing and loosing. I left countless times and vowed never to come back, na lie oooo... few months later, am back to my Bet9ja. I have to tell you this, so you can understand you are not alone, but I left the crew already. I finally left gambling 5 years ago. And only one principle helped me "Gambling is a spiritual manipulation that bargains your destiny with the physical". To further buttress the fact that gambling is spiritual, you will see yourself imagining things you will buy, even without winning yet. You book games, even in your sleep. Your mind and attention is always in bookies. You dont bother calculating the ratio of your lost funds to your gains. Even if you do, you never have the courage to let go. You seldomly hear whispers on which games to pick. You always, as in, always and always think that your next game may be your breakthrough game, even if it never happens. I make bold to tell you, only your strong will and determination can help you out. You must wholly conclude NEVER to engage in that activity again. When your will is strong enough, your prayer will become more effective. Finally, in my own case, I finally concluded my case was worse because God never wanted me to continue in gambling. My wealth isnt hidden there, and that was it. I dont know if you can relate with this. But this is my story and encounter. If your faith is strong enough, I can provide you with bet9ja log in details so you can calculate how much I burnt in this bookies, you will be shocked sir! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by ihedioramma: 10:28am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dahustler007:[quote author=Dahustler007 post=106399240]Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time. My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to . All the time you won did you let us know ? 1 Like |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by SocialJustice: 10:32am On Oct 04, 2021 |
felixzo1:Na credit alert that guy need not comforting words. |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Rujiano(m): 10:35am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Op how wish you won with that 33k of yours will you call us out? Even the inventors of this gambling whatever do indicate clearly that you should gamble responsibly. You better go to school and free your mind, your money is gone better luck next time. |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by mrkings84(m): 10:37am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dahustler007: |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Lamasta(m): 10:39am On Oct 04, 2021 |
godfrey02:Its a spirit bro once its out you will be free from its grip... |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by samuelson06(m): 10:40am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dahustler007: Dog don leak this one face. Look at what a graduate is saying. Stwepid! |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Juicy001: 10:40am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dont worry, you'll bounce back, make hunger fire you wella first,u no go try this rubbish again..... 1 Like |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by frozen70(f): 10:40am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dahustler007: Experience is the best teacher, this is the right time to mend your ways, the worst us still coming if you don't drop those dirty habits |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by obehi231(m): 10:42am On Oct 04, 2021 |
In summary to all these advice and words of encouragement, you might av learnt a big lesson it was greed on your side u make money gradually hw do you gamble with a full alawee in a foreign state when you knw is nt easy to borrow due to the harsh economic condition 1 Like |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:46am On Oct 04, 2021 |
frozen70: I'm positive this the end of it. I ain't looking back at it. |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:47am On Oct 04, 2021 |
obehi231: I really messed up big time, I'll pull through this phase eventually thanks a lot. |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by SweetDipBenny(m): 10:50am On Oct 04, 2021 |
[/i][i][i][/i] Dahustler007:If u dont smoke weed now will b d best time to smoke. might not solve d problem but will calm u d fvck down calm ursef son |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Ibelearner: 10:54am On Oct 04, 2021 |
[quote author=Dahustler007 post=106399240]Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time. My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead Na pesin wey get money de bet Oga you get mind o 33k for this bubu regime See ehn just try not to visit betting sites ( bet9ja shop) no go near am again. Because if you do, you will still fall for it. And if you feel you can't do without betting, then bet what you can afford as guy please. #GetSenseBru# |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:54am On Oct 04, 2021 |
JerryJJZ: Thanks so much for sharing your story, I'll key into your advice, hopefully I'll get through this. I really appreciate!! |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:56am On Oct 04, 2021 |
SweetDipBenny: Word Thanks bro. |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:57am On Oct 04, 2021 |
samuelson06: Thanks bro. I needed that.. |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by DMCY: 11:02am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dahustler007: Was once in your shoes back then in uni, I was almost sent back home when I used my tuition to play how I was able to get the 65k back till today I don’t understand, na then I know say I gats stop or else it will stop my heart beat. The funniest part of the game is when it remains only one for the game to enter and you’re so sure that team will win and they eventually play 0-0 till 70mins, that’s when your refreshing flashscore every second begins reality dawns on you when they later finished the match like that If it’s night, you just jejely lay on your bed and think to sleep |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Sunkyapogee(m): 11:05am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Visual na your mate? 1 Like |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by lamalang(m): 11:06am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Where are you in Gombe? |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by frozen70(f): 11:09am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dahustler007: Good thinking |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Zeeknow3245(m): 11:09am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Even betting companies say"Stake what you can lose". I have a friend that used collection money to bet. He lost and they dealt mercilessly with him. All his wages and salary was taken for 3 months. He worked for free for those months. Luckily he lived with his parents. Use your head |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by 6ixT8: 11:12am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Freestainworld: That inscription only works on paper and fanciful to the eyes. The magnitude of a gamblers's brain in terms of reasoning is similar to that of a toddler when it comes to feeding his addiction. |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Shadrach1997: 11:14am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Hmmm, betting! Betting!! Betting!!, no man use bet money to succeed, I do play it too before, but if u look at it wella, u will knw say, it doesn't pay, only God can make person leave am, move closer to God and do legit hustling |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by 6ixT8: 11:19am On Oct 04, 2021 |
hansomb: That's if he no forget after the next allawee enter him hand. Na seriously therapy this one need. 1 Like |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Steve0979(m): 11:22am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Tunda fire u !!!!if to say e enter for u u for no com tell us |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by 6ixT8: 11:24am On Oct 04, 2021 |
JerryJJZ: One of the most truest things concerning gambling I've ever read. Your case is similar to that of everyone sir. |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Vaiki(m): 11:31am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dahustler007:You gambled away just 33k and you are crying? Poverty is bad!! |
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by iammolise(m): 11:34am On Oct 04, 2021 |
WILD GUESS; u play game last weekend... I don't think there was any soul that won at all last weekend, strictly bet company week. I've gone off the madness of betting, I only bet like I'm doing the giraffe in an exam. 1 Like |
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