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Smartb0y:
@Op you're a handful and your boyfriend is a simp.

LastProphet:
If you ask me I'd say they still both inexperienced mostly, he will still cheat on her eventually and she will still cheat on another man in the future no matter what she thinks now. We all cheat eventually. 2 "happily" married ladies I got close to innocently ended up being surprising cheats that left me confused. I never rat out on them but learnt my lesson. My neighbor's very strict and beautiful wife gets lashed by her coworker who is a buddy to my childhood friend. All women will cheat all men will cheat except the ugly ones

Favfables:
And men don't need financial assistance??

AdesewaAde:
Hummm
I got this clearly

AdesewaAde:
Sorry eh

Skullano:
Insecurity nah one problem we need to wave off maka our peace of mind.

advanceDNA:
Everybody likes sex...it's not a man thing..

Why do u think there's infidelity everywhere....stop making it look like it's normal for men only.... Cheating is normal for both genders that's not disciplined.... Once you train your self with plenty dicks and pvssy...even if your partner is good...u will still want to change channel...it doesn't matter the gender..

What's even nice about jumpimg from one pvssy to another that you are saying it's normal for men...oga park well jare

lilvicky68:
If I say you should leave him now..

Who would be supporting you financially??

walkingshadow911:
this is why i don't encourage distance relationship in these present times. one party would use d distance has an advantage to cheat. i have been there before....
once the night vid calls is not constant anymore, wahala go start.
u start fighting with your head every now and then.
pls op, dont take distance relationship too serious for your mental wellness o.

don't say i don't warn you o

olorun a wa pelu e

DEMZEE:
Wen it comes to sex women are more pragmatic and selective. It's easier to get sex for women, sex is hard for men to get so therefore we can't b held to that same standard of cheating. Wen it comes to dating and sex women play the game on easy mode and men play the game on hard mode. Women can't get hard mode benefits wen they play the game on easy mode.

The benefits of playing the game on hard mode is that u can have sex with as many people as possible.

A promiscuous woman is a hoe while a promiscuous man is valuable and respected

Men and women are different and view sex differently

AdesewaAde:
Humm
Even when he lied ?

lilvicky68:
If I say you should leave him now..

Who would be supporting you financially??

Starz825:
Aw far
The moniker that mentioned something about body count...I see say you no reply am since you are replying every other person ...
Perhaps you didn't get that clearly...
Abi Oro e kolesi??

AdesewaAde:
I had a sleepless night,I’ve been trying so much not to see a big deal in what happened between my boyfriend and I last night but the more I tried my best on it the more my mind continue telling me it’s a red flag.

The relationship is just five months and we’ve been good since then,he lives in another state,though just an hour drive to my place,we don’t see frequently but that isn’t a problem cause we are both always busy with business. He’s caring,jovial and also someone who will always tell me “look babe,this is the problem between us ,and can we iron it out instead of you giving me cold attitude?” ,he’s a very understanding guy,he do assist me financially ,not that I am a liability,but helps me with my business and I do help him also,in fact I love lending him money cause he will always pay me back in triple folds.

Three days ago,he told me he will be attending a wedding engagement that very day,it was very unusual of him ,cause he do tell me about all his movements but this particular one sounded impromptu,he apologised and said all his friends were around and he dont want to disappoint them. We talked on video call and I sensed everything was good. Few minutes to 9pm ,I messaged him and he told me they were still in town (at a bar) drinking and that he won’t be going home anytime soon that I should go to bed and sleep. He snapped a picture of what they were drinking and sent me,I saw one bottle of malt with straw and immediately I sensed a woman was with them. Initially,he told me it was just four of them on the table,all boys,I put it straight to him that a woman was with him ,he said no and I told him who drank malt amoung them,it was then he said a girlfriend to one of his friends,I smiled and sent him goodnight.
He replied the message with “do you think I am cheating?” I replied “who am I to know what exactly you are doing outside by this time? Good night boo”” I switched off my phone and slept off. Note-this is the first time I will ever think of it that he is having another affair.

Yesterday was Saturday and he told me he will be attending the church wedding and reception,we talked on video call again and he was updating me about his movements from church to reception and from reception to bar again with his friends. He said he will be staying late again that I may go to bed if I want to sleep, I told him “ humm,shaa maa rora” it means “humm ,just be careful” immediately he replied with
“do you think I have a woman here today again?
If Naa when I still dey bear my name (his name) you met me,walahi you go don shout tire.
I go don Bleep one of your friends self “
I was very shocked but I managed to type really,and he replied with “yes,you for don collect and I no go leave you self, but I am calm now,so put your mind at rest and don’t think I am cheating “
I was very heartbroken,though he sounded like he was actually playing,I’ve been trying to erase my mind off it and see it as a joke but at the same time my mind has be telling me it was a clear red flag since a cheat will always remain one

Experience guys,what do you think about this situation?

dhiqson:
You my friend
You're a bastard!!!!! see me laughing like a doll here guy!!!!
Her writeup she loves lending him cause he triple folds it back to her
She's not a liability but she loves him cause he assists her financially these girls no go kill me

AdesewaAde:
Read the post again ,this time slowly

AdesewaAde:
So you want me to be in a relationship with someone who can’t be there for me?

aminusodiq:
i just read your post.... The guy is actually telling u d truth... Its a mind game i play sometimes too... Its just a way to manipulate the mind using reverse psychology. Its easy and im glad u smart enough to decode. He should have told u d truth about the lady at the bar if he had no other plans. And when you realised.. The defense comes.

My solution
- hold on to him while you carefully scrutinize him. Ya'll don't recorgnize real and fall too much for emotions thats why its easier to manipulate you. Well,?money is still involved as you said you love lending him money. If he was a broke ass niggaaa. We wouldnt be here. Ya'll want guys that are heavens on earth and not the blunt one. Ive seen some guys who'd turn stupid just to have you fuckkeddd

- all in all... If u ever fall outta love with him... Tell him and break up rather than cheat and paying back... You increase you body count abd might end up cheating with more than one guy too... Cos its more of revenge than replacement!

- lastly... You can talk it out... Discuss and find a solution. One thing you should know is he'll never admit. I advice you forgive and ignore... While waiting patiently to get him by the balls
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AdesewaAde:
Walahi
So you get sense this much,you are too much
I appreciate

Skullano:
Baba, forget that matter abeg.

I relocated from my base to my babes base and started a new business just to make her feel secured yet she still thinks that any girl that comes around me is my girlfriend.

Some people have trust issues naturally..

walkingshadow911:
aha! this one is beyond Lazarus o.
just imagine you in another state lol

olorun a wa pelu e

AdesewaAde:
I had a sleepless night,I’ve been trying so much not to see a big deal in what happened between my boyfriend and I last night but the more I tried my best on it the more my mind continue telling me it’s a red flag.

The relationship is just five months and we’ve been good since then,he lives in another state,though just an hour drive to my place,we don’t see frequently but that isn’t a problem cause we are both always busy with business. He’s caring,jovial and also someone who will always tell me “look babe,this is the problem between us ,and can we iron it out instead of you giving me cold attitude?” ,he’s a very understanding guy,he do assist me financially ,not that I am a liability,but helps me with my business and I do help him also,in fact I love lending him money cause he will always pay me back in triple folds.

Three days ago,he told me he will be attending a wedding engagement that very day,it was very unusual of him ,cause he do tell me about all his movements but this particular one sounded impromptu,he apologised and said all his friends were around and he dont want to disappoint them. We talked on video call and I sensed everything was good. Few minutes to 9pm ,I messaged him and he told me they were still in town (at a bar) drinking and that he won’t be going home anytime soon that I should go to bed and sleep. He snapped a picture of what they were drinking and sent me,I saw one bottle of malt with straw and immediately I sensed a woman was with them. Initially,he told me it was just four of them on the table,all boys,I put it straight to him that a woman was with him ,he said no and I told him who drank malt amoung them,it was then he said a girlfriend to one of his friends,I smiled and sent him goodnight.
He replied the message with “do you think I am cheating?” I replied “who am I to know what exactly you are doing outside by this time? Good night boo”” I switched off my phone and slept off. Note-this is the first time I will ever think of it that he is having another affair.

Yesterday was Saturday and he told me he will be attending the church wedding and reception,we talked on video call again and he was updating me about his movements from church to reception and from reception to bar again with his friends. He said he will be staying late again that I may go to bed if I want to sleep, I told him “ humm,shaa maa rora” it means “humm ,just be careful” immediately he replied with
“do you think I have a woman here today again?
If Naa when I still dey bear my name (his name) you met me,walahi you go don shout tire.
I go don Bleep one of your friends self “
I was very shocked but I managed to type really,and he replied with “yes,you for don collect and I no go leave you self, but I am calm now,so put your mind at rest and don’t think I am cheating “
I was very heartbroken,though he sounded like he was actually playing,I’ve been trying to erase my mind off it and see it as a joke but at the same time my mind has be telling me it was a clear red flag since a cheat will always remain one

Experience guys,what do you think about this situation?

AdesewaAde:
So you want me to be in a relationship with someone who can’t be there for me?

DMerciful:
Why are you monitoring him upandan? Our forefathers married several wives without issues. Our generation is marrying one yet they wanna hold us by our neck. Relax!

AdesewaAde:
It’s just shameful that you guys now see cheating as fashion,you see it as something that makes a man complete.
This your comment drew me back to my last dating experience,the 3 years relationship cracked just because he cheats a lot and even do boost about it,imagine dating someone who do say it to your face that every man cheats and he will continue to cheat then apologise when being caught,that afterall he will always come back home when done outside.
You guys sees toying with other people’s emotions is just fun.
I will continue with my detective mode and won’t hesitate to cut him off if he is really a cheat, is either you are sincere with me or you let me go.

AdesewaAde:
So you want me to be in a relationship with someone who can’t be there for me?

DMerciful:
Wetin you dey find you go see am!

Just a matter of time before you relax but you will surely relax!

advanceDNA:
this guy.... u are funny... all u have are bunch of fallacy...this is the 21st century..
sex is everywhere is easy for both genders .. cant u see paternity fraud and baby mamas everywhere..


u can paint any type of picture and condition you want,,, a cheating man and a cheating woman are both dirty and irresponsible....

where do u get the idea that a promiscuous man is respected?? By who? his wife? his children? his parents??
maybe his co-dirty friends because even the court will mess him up by taking what he owns in a sane country,

who respects a man for jumping from one pvssy to another.?? nobody...oga there's nothing respectable about not being sexually disciplined.... no matter the gender

DEMZEE:
FACTS DONT CARE ABOUT FEELINGS. MEN AND WOMEN ARE FUNDAMENTALLY DIFFERENT AND VIEW SEX DIFFERENTLY.

A PROMISCUOUS MAN IS VALUABLE AND RESPECTED IN THE SEXUAL MARKETPLACE WHILE A PROMISCUOUS WOMAN IS A HOE.

WOMEN JUST EXIST AND GET SEX FOR EXISTING WHILE MEN MUST CREATE THEIR VALUE TO GET SEXUAL ABUNDANCE. MOREOVER WOMEN WANT AND DESIRE MEN WHO OTHER MEN WANNA BE AND OTHER WOMEN WANNA Bleep

AdesewaAde:
It’s just shameful that you guys now see cheating as fashion,you see it as something that makes a man complete.
This your comment drew me back to my last dating experience,the 3 years relationship cracked just because he cheats a lot and even do boost about it,imagine dating someone who do say it to your face that every man cheats and he will continue to cheat then apologise when being caught,that afterall he will always come back home when done outside.
You guys sees toying with other people’s emotions is just fun.
I will continue with my detective mode and won’t hesitate to cut him off if he is really a cheat, is either you are sincere with me or you let me go.