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Admin please approve, never mind my english error m not use to posting.
I know there are great intelligent people on this platform.
In a short note, ��� I don't know what to do out of this two.
Am a civil servant, responsible family man in late 30s live in Nigeria I have opportunity to get some money from inheritance bt I must confess am not living a comfortable life in terms of the house am living, post that am holding in office and so on, i get irritated easily e:g I have lil girls and boys as my senior which can give me order at anytime which pains me alot because I didn't do more school because of finance and we lost our parents at toddler, am thinking should I travel out in search of a greener pastures or I stay by and use the money to set-up business although I do transport and I know little about it, I need your advice because the money can only cover one very well with my findings, and I don't want to disappoint my children. Please Am confused.

A lizard in Nigeria will not become a crocodile in London. If you are facing these things in Nigeria, you will face worse abroad. Life abroad is for those who are educated not just with a paper, but with skills. Not just any skill, but 21st century skills. Clearly you do not have these. I will advise you to stay back and improve yourself.

If you have the resources n correct contact I beg jakpa for the seck of ur children,if not you will regret later. Am a civil servant talking from experience.

Doesn't it cost money ... lots of it to go abroad?... when you get there ... what is the plan? Plan A and Plan B .... Plan C to return if A and B don't work out. How much money will you have on arrival to maintain you until you hopefully find a job? If you have a problem with young people telling you what to do... how will you manage... if you get a job and a young girl is your supervisor.... which is verrrrry common abroad ? Look before you leap.

I like to say am proud of your response but remember that the money over there is better than that of here and having many things easy may kill my stress and anger. In terms of skill am a good driver and four man in many Field and with God I believe in my self. Pls I need more advice am very much with you ma and sir.

beebe007:
I like to say am proud of your response but remember that the money over there is better than that of here and having many things easy may kill my stress and anger. In terms of skill am a good driver and four man in many Field and with God I believe in my self. Pls I need more advice am very much with you ma and sir.

Your dreams are valid young man and you have the right to pursue it, if you have made up your mind to japa please do so.

You don't necessarily need to degree to acquire a 21st century skills especially in I.T, if you're technologically inclined go for it, learn a skill to prepare yourself for the world out there, maybe some other skill if I.T doesn't work for you.

Do your research about the country you want to migrate to, know the skills in demand in today's workforce. Save money and plan, nothing is impossible.
Good luck.