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This write-up is only for married couples.To all nairalanders who are married,i would like to know if you think is appropriate as a married man or woman to continue,firstly, keep your ex phone numbers in your phone contact,and secondly, to continue to speak with him on phone,chat on facebook or whatsapp..;because as a matter of fact i see this tread common these days and worrisome.pls let share ideas o together,who knows it can help so many family manager their present marriage infidelity..thank you for your input..

Keeping contact with your ex after marriage is like playing with a poisonous snake. If you must it has to be completely formal, even with all the formality una still fit loose guard.

Good input!!!

Unless it's for official purposes alone, keeping frequent tabs with your ex is bad and its a sure way to bring issues to your home

I think it depends how they separated

If it wasn't a problem this thread wouldn't exist.

Mandyjosh:
This write-up is only for married couples.To all nairalanders who are married,i would like to know if you think is appropriate as a married man or woman to continue,firstly, keep your ex phone numbers in your phone contact,and secondly, to continue to speak with him on phone,chat on facebook or whatsapp..;because as a matter of fact i see this tread common these days and worrisome.pls let share ideas o together,who knows it can help so many family manager their present marriage infidelity..thank you for your input..

Keeping contact with an ex, is not a bad thing but it's capable of making one to remember the good times if any and go back to that same person

But I believe that, once you are satisfied with your partner in your marriage, especially women, you are likely not to go back to your ex

I think it depends on the person. Some exes are still useful even after one has gotten married.. discipline is key. Presently, I have their contacts. We talk from time to time. I comment on their statuses if need be, and u know, I haven't told anyone of them that I want to see them cos there's no need. We're just friends on WhatsApp. Burning bridges is not my thing even as I got like 4 exes, and it has no effect at all on my marriage cos I don't intend having anything with them.

Yea..i mean one' formal husband or wife...or even boyfriend or girlfriend before you marry someone else

Mandyjosh:
Yea..i mean one' formal husband or wife...or even boyfriend or girlfriend before you marry someone else

If kids were involved, how will one throw away an Ex's contacts?... Who will pay for some of the child's Up keeps?... Buhari

What if the commumication and chatting are becoming just frequents ...what do u suggest