Honest opinions guys, my wife traveled to Belgium before the pandemic to stay with his elder brother who just lost his wife, at least to help take care of his kids until the wife is buried. SHe has been there for 5 months now because of the boarder closure, the only way we communicate is via watsap calls and Facebook messenger, one week ago she called me on video call and I refused to take her calls because I was doing a transaction with my phone at that time but I didn’t tell her my reason for rejecting her video calls, I just kept rejecting the calls, next thing she called audio and when I picked she started saying all sorts and accused me of cheating, she wrote all sorts to me and when I was typing to reply her she blocked me, after few hours she unblocked me but then I blocked her back, she called on messenger and I blocked her there too. I Blocked her from my two Whatsap’s and my Facebook as well. The only way she can reach me is via international call but she is yet to call and I have left her blocked for one week now. Am I doing the right thing? What massage could I be passing along to her with my actions? I just need a way to make her stop accusing me of cheating all the time.
Pls advice and no insults pls.

Maybe you use to cheat on her before,thats why she's suspecting you,unblock her and settle your issues.Please act like a man and stop behaving like your wife

Zzor:
Maybe you use to cheat on her before,thats why she's suspecting you,unblock her and settle your issues.Please act like a man and stop behaving like your wife

I think this is a Lesbian relationship cos obviously two women are involved...
Jokes apart how do you assure a woman apart from her husband for 5 months that she should not fear about her home by blocking her calls? You mentioned you blocked her on all phones which means you could have used another phone to call her up while you do your supposed transaction.
I dont know you sef but i think you were actually cheating. Hehe

A simple " I was busy on the phone when your call was coming in" would have saved this forum all these explanations.

Get off your high horse, arrogance, and temper tantrums you both and apologize to each other.

You guys are still so very immature. Are you newlyweds?

Have you given her any cause to be insecure and distrusting of you in the past?

The past might be what's hunting her to accuse you the way she did even though your direct action of rejecting her calls didn't help any either.

This one doesn't know that he's wife is Cheating

Happy blocking.

When you both grow up, you know what to do.

Pls sir..what just happened is just way too much on your side..I understand that women have their excesses but u could have humbly pick the call to show her what u are doing at that moment and end the call thereafter...even though I know u aren't a saint but having know that your wife has trust issues,u could have show her what u were doing and that u were gonna call her back after u are done...women too are not fools..pls just unblock your wife and settle with her..this happens normally in marriages but pls a week of blocking her is way too much..embrace your wife bro

DaddyRochie1642:
This one doesn't know that he's wife is Cheating

how is she cheating? Don’t say what you don’t know pls.

Beatswim:
Pls sir..what just happened is just way too much on your side..I understand that women have their excesses but u could have humbly pick the call to show her what u are doing at that moment and end the call thereafter...even though I know u aren't a saint but having know that your wife has trust issues,u could have show her what u were doing and that u were gonna call her back after u are done...women too are not fools..pls just unblock your wife and settle with her..this happens normally in marriages but pls a week of blocking her is way too much..embrace your wife bro

thanks a lot.

finewoman:
how is she cheating? Don’t say what you don’t know pls.

Oga you can continue Wailing and Weeping

Am finding it very difficult to drop my opinion cause I don't know if you're a man or woman

Reasonableness/logic over emotions.
Read that again husband.

ZINIBANKS:
Am finding it very difficult to drop my opinion cause I don't know if you're a man or woman

talk to me like your fellow man.

finewoman:
talk to me like your fellow man.

Unblock her and settle it out amicably
She didn't trust you before,cause if she do she wouldn't have given you that first attack

finewoman:
talk to me like your fellow man.

Why the lie with your moniker? Just follow the elders advice.

Upon all the sense wey you get you still come nairaland still dey find insults, well since na you choose am, haff you mad before, is it your wife we are talking here or girlfriend?

Fake story!

He who the gods want to kill, they first make him run mad from smoking weed.

What will it take you to explain your reasons for not picking her call to her? You can't blame her for initially blocking you cos you took her for granted by not picking or even bothering to explain.

You better be a man and unblock her. Only Sissy's behave the way you did. Imagine.. two married mature adults still doing blocking tinz. What do you now expect us singles to do?

What is it with men and blocking their women on social media when issues come up?
Is it their best way of handling issues or What?

You can't solve your problems if you refuse to communicate. Your wife reacted the way she did because she cares. She is worried because you two haven't been together for months. Her mind is playing tricks on her. Be the bigger person and reach out to her. You ca still ask her to apologize for calling you names but you people should not allow the distance to grow even bigger.

What is your motive for blocking her ?
You should be able to settle this matter amicably.
Meanwhile are you a male/ female or shim?

When you kids are ready to settle, you will unblock each other.

bukatyne:
Happy blocking.
When you both grow up, you know what to do.

lol

finewoman:
Honest opinions guys, my wife traveled to Belgium before the pandemic to stay with his elder brother who just lost his wife, at least to help take care of his kids until the wife is buried. SHe has been there for 5 months now because of the boarder closure, the only way we communicate is via watsap calls and Facebook messenger, one week ago she called me on video call and I refused to take her calls because I was doing a transaction with my phone at that time but I didn’t tell her my reason for rejecting her video calls, I just kept rejecting the calls, next thing she called audio and when I picked she started saying all sorts and accused me of cheating, she wrote all sorts to me and when I was typing to reply her she blocked me, after few hours she unblocked me but then I blocked her back, she called on messenger and I blocked her there too. I Blocked her from my two Whatsap’s and my Facebook as well. The only way she can reach me is via international call but she is yet to call and I have left her blocked for one week now. Am I doing the right thing? What massage could I be passing along to her with my actions? I just need a way to make her stop accusing me of cheating all the time.
Pls advice and no insults pls.

. ONE month blocking bro...

Amos1423:
Upon all the sense wey you get you still come nairaland still dey find insults, well since na you choose am, haff you mad before, is it your wife we are talking here or girlfriend?

Is dat how i trained you to respond to adults?

Just asking...is op alright

ZINIBANKS:
Am finding it very difficult to drop my opinion cause I don't know if you're a man or woman

lol

No sign of maturity from you, u dey behave like a teenage lover, which one is she blocked me and I blocked her too?

merieam16:
Just asking...is op alright

he's alright, just a teenager

Woman to woman marriage is still illegal in Nigeria...