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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 4:18pm On Oct 15, 2021

Bolarineliza202:
For me to approach a guy and tell him how I feel about him,I don't know about other girls oo, but to me that's the last thing I will ever do.

You haven't seen the guy that will move you yet!!

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Bolarineliza202(op): 4:22pm On Oct 15, 2021

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
You haven't seen the guy that will move you yet!!

Honestly speaking I have (speaking from experience).It's just all about self control.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 4:27pm On Oct 15, 2021

Bolarineliza202:

Honestly speaking I have (speaking from experience).It's just all about self control.

Where is the guy now?? You just ignored him

Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Bolarineliza202(op): 4:32pm On Oct 15, 2021

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
Where is the guy now?? You just ignored him

Of course,I did even though I still sees him,but I no longer have any crush on him again.
It was even about after 3 to 4 weeks or so that I stopped having crush on him,I just fathomed everything because I don't wanna fall my ego even with all the burning sensations in my heart whenever I sees him then.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 4:37pm On Oct 15, 2021

Bolarineliza202:
Of course,I did even though I still sees him,but I no longer have any crush on him again.
It was even about after 3 to 4 weeks or so that I stopped having crush on him,I just fathomed everything because I don't wanna fall my ego even with all the burning sensations in my heart whenever I sees him then.

To me, you are just hurting yourself.

You see someone you like and he was giving you in your words 'burning sensations' but beacuse of Nigerian mentality and your ego you supressed it!!

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by PrinxArthur1(m): 4:40pm On Oct 15, 2021

I have and I still have evidence, only that I know who bleeped her before ,

Here's the story , there was once a big boy working for my popsy , because my old man is a welder ,the guy had interest in a girl,meanwhile the girl is a family friend, they dated but prior to them dating I was interested in her, and I told her about my feelings, but she friendzone me , I was pissed, I moved on , but while they were dating she got pregnant and I got to know through another employee of my dad,erstwhile she later aborted the baby thinking that guys didn't find out

Years later , she chatted me up and i was responding and she asked me if have a girlfriend ,and I said No and she said "Do you care to be my boyfriend"

I ghosted her and avoided Facebook like a day or so, and came back on the chat without pleasantries and Typed Capital NO with my full chest.

I knew she wanted to trap me but thank God for red pill

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Bolarineliza202(op): 4:46pm On Oct 15, 2021

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
To me, you are just hurting yourself.

You see someone you like and he was giving you in your words 'burning sensations' but beacuse of Nigerian mentality and your ego you supressed it!!

I did hurt myself,but I am happy about it,atleast now that I suppressed it,that means I will be able to control even something bigger than that,which I surprisingly did later.
It's indeed Nigeria's mentality,guys tend to tell their friends or so about girls crushing on them and even coming to them and they feel they are on top of the world and they will start misbehaving,knowing other girls will crush on them,if the current girl leaves.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 4:54pm On Oct 15, 2021

Bolarineliza202:
I did hurt myself,but I am happy about it,atleast now that I suppressed it,that means I will be able to control even something bigger than that,which I surprisingly did later.
It's indeed Nigeria's mentality,guys tend to tell their friends or so about girls crushing on them and even coming to them and they feel they are on top of the world and they will start misbehaving,knowing other girls will crush on them,if the current girl leaves.

There you go again... stereotyping guys!! And all this are just hearsay.

Who knows maybe the guy secretly was crushing on you too and scared of approaching and would've like and appreciated if you did approach and maybe you guys would be dating now!!
But you heard or seen guys acting like so then you just stereotype him

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by 2braithe: 4:59pm On Oct 15, 2021

Bolarineliza202:
Guys come and talk oo,our pretty nairalanders ladies are shy ,so come and share your own experience.

None has but a lot has shown me greenlight.
I get compliments everywhere I go."You're handsome, you're this and that"

Annoying part is,all those who showed me greenlight are not my taste.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Connected1: 5:02pm On Oct 15, 2021

Bolarineliza202:
I did hurt myself,but I am happy about it,atleast now that I suppressed it,that means I will be able to control even something bigger than that,which I surprisingly did later.
It's indeed Nigeria's mentality,guys tend to tell their friends or so about girls crushing on them and even coming to them and they feel they are on top of the world and they will start misbehaving,knowing other girls will crush on them,if the current girl leaves.

You were actually meeting the wrong persons.

Don't generalize okay.

Personally, I hate girls who pretend emotionally alot, I know women have so much dramas, but there's a limit I can condone.

If as a girl, you were crushing on me seriously and you couldn't tell me and you allowed me to date someone that's doesn't like me back.

I swear wahala go dae, e go just shock you if I mistakenly hear say you dae like me.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Bolarineliza202(op): 5:07pm On Oct 15, 2021

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
There you go again... stereotyping guys!! And all this are just hearsay.

Who knows maybe the guy secretly was crushing on you too and scared of approaching and would've like and appreciated if you did approach and maybe you guys would be dating now!!
But you heard or seen guys acting like so then you just stereotype him

It's not a matter of stereotyping.
I have shame as a lady so I don't approach guys.
I love the normal procedure that a guy should declare his feelings for a lady,and then if the lady seems interested she can reciprocate then,I have never at a point in time gotten desperate for attention of guys,neither do I look out for em.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 5:10pm On Oct 15, 2021

Bolarineliza202:
It's not a matter of stereotyping.
I have shame as a lady so I don't approach guys.
I love the normal procedure that a guy should declare his feelings for a lady,and then if the lady seems interested she can reciprocate then,I have never at a point in time gotten desperate for attention of guys,neither do I look out for em.

Normal Procedure??

Times has changed, it's not the 80s or 90s anymore.. we are in 2021

Most guys will appreciate if a girl approaches them....flee from Nigerian Mentality

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by pansophist(m): 5:17pm On Oct 15, 2021

Ladies have told me they got feelings for me and that we should date, but I suspect that those that didn't do it have probably being burnt by guys who made asking guys out a big deal. Usually a lady will give you green light or at best, inspect your character, to determine if you're the type that makes it a big deal because she finds you attractive.

But if she is assured of your maturity, then yes, she probably will tell that she got feelings for you. If you're not into her, please just politely decline, and not make it seems like she did wrong having feelings for you. To find someone attractive is normal and natural.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Bolarineliza202(op): 5:17pm On Oct 15, 2021

Connected1:
You were actually meeting the wrong persons.

Don't generalize okay.

Personally, I hate girls who pretend emotionally alot, I know women have so much dramas, but there's a limit I can condone.

If as a girl, you were crushing on me seriously and you couldn't tell me and you allowed me to date someone that's doesn't like me back.

I swear wahala go dae, e go just shock you if I mistakenly hear say you dae like me.

It's not a matter of me meeting with the wrong person.I don't approach guys and I will never do so no matter what.
You can never know if I am crushing on a guy as well,I be strong lady wink

and I love keeping my crush like that,feelings are meant to be controlled and I will keep on controlling my feelings no matter what.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by pansophist(m): 5:20pm On Oct 15, 2021

I dated the first lady that asked me out. Maybe it's been shy or uptight, but I just don't ask ladies out. Unless I can see clearly in such a way that it can not be misinterpreted that she likes me, then I proceed to romantic negotiations.

Usually, it is women that choose men, not otherwise. So why ask her out? It she wants you, you'll know. I attract, not chase. I just keep doing me, and the girl that finds me attractive will appear, and as usual, she will give you all the signs for you to ask her out, so it's either i pick up on that or just pretend like I didn't see it.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Bolubaba(m): 5:22pm On Oct 15, 2021

There's nothing special about it. She asked me out and till date, I still thank God she did.
We are happily married with 2 boys and 2 girls. The only advise I'll give to ladies who intend shooting their shot is to first study the level of maturity of her target. Maturity is not by age. So select your target carefully.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by sampsonub100: 5:24pm On Oct 15, 2021

Bolarineliza202:
I can't give any greenlight as well,in the end he will later end up telling me that I was the one that made passes at him should in case anything later happen,I won't drag my ego through the mood,I am kindda proud , I have promised myself that I won't think with my heart long time ago,I now think with my head.

Baby girl, this one don pass ego. This one na pride and you know that it goes before a fall. The least you can do for a man you fancy is to give him green and let him do the approaching. Even if he doesn't approach you, you still have your ego intact.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Smartb0y: 5:24pm On Oct 15, 2021

pansophist:
I dated the first lady that asked me out. Maybe it's been shy or uptight, but I just don't ask ladies out. Unless I can see clearly in such a way that it can not be misinterpreted that she likes me, then I proceed to romantic negotiations.

Usually, it is women that choose men, not otherwise. So why ask her out? It she wants you, you'll know. I attract, not chase. I just keep doing me, and the girl that finds me attractive will appear, and as usual, she will give you all the signs for you to ask her out, so it's either i pick up on that or just pretend like I didn't see it.

many wont agree with your view

Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Bolarineliza202(op): 5:25pm On Oct 15, 2021

OLDESTWARRIBOY:

Normal Procedure??

Times has changed, it's not the 80s or 90s anymore.. we are in 2021

Most guys will appreciate if a girl approaches them....flee from Nigerian Mentality

I know but I still can't bring myself to do that,whether it's no longer practiced or not,it's my personal decision.

Note;a relationship where a guy make the first move is pretty lovelier than a relationship where a girl make the first move.
If in case a fight ensue between the two parties the guy will tell the lady that afterall it was the lady that made move on him.
Abeg,Elizabeth respect herself jhawe wink

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by HajiaNotu: 5:28pm On Oct 15, 2021

pansophist:
Ladies have told me they got feelings for me and that we should date, but I suspect that those that didn't do it have probably being burnt by guys who made asking guys out a big deal. Usually a lady will give you green light or at best, inspect your character, to determine if you're the type that makes it a big deal because she finds you attractive.

But if she is assured of your maturity, then yes, she probably will tell that she got feelings for you. If you're not into her, please just politely decline, and not make it seems like she did wrong having feelings for you. To find someone attractive is normal and natural.

Spot on.

Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by pansophist(m): 5:30pm On Oct 15, 2021

Smartb0y:
many wont agree with your view

Na their problem be that. Only the human male think say na men de choose woman. In all animal kingdom, na female dey choose men. Of course I'm not referring to forced scenario like rape, but normal healthy relationship.

Biblically, it is the same thing. That a woman should choose her man and submit to him. So what's the fuse? Where lots of men got it wrong is thinking that the intensity in chase will make a woman love them back. No, it only makes her to recruit him as a maga. Women choose men.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Bolarineliza202(op): 5:35pm On Oct 15, 2021

sampsonub100 :
Baby girl, this one don pass ego. This one na pride and you know that it goes before a fall. The least you can do for a man you fancy is to give him green and let him do the approaching. Even if he doesn't approach you, you still have your ego intact.

Abeg let pride fall if e won fall,I no dey give any green light to any guy,I am not even ready for dating problem yet."Today you no call me,tmao you no reply my text and the likes''
Ma stay like this till I am ready to handle all those issues.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Silentgroper(m): 5:37pm On Oct 15, 2021

thesicilian:
For guys like us wey fine small come get small money and dey mobile, we no dey hustle for babe, na dem dey rush us

Oloun!!.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Smartb0y: 5:37pm On Oct 15, 2021

pansophist:
No, it only makes her to recruit him as a maga.

Hahaha i love this

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Silentgroper(m): 5:41pm On Oct 15, 2021

2braithe:
None has but a lot has shown me greenlight.
I get compliments everywhere I go."You're handsome, you're this and that"

Annoying part is,all those who showed me greenlight are not my taste.

i can relate

Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by The5DME(m): 5:44pm On Oct 15, 2021

pansophist:
I dated the first lady that asked me out. Maybe it's been shy or uptight, but I just don't ask ladies out. Unless I can see clearly in such a way that it can not be misinterpreted that she likes me, then I proceed to romantic negotiations.

Usually, it is women that choose men, not otherwise. So why ask her out? It she wants you, you'll know. I attract, not chase. I just keep doing me, and the girl that finds me attractive will appear, and as usual, she will give you all the signs for you to ask her out, so it's either i pick up on that or just pretend like I didn't see it.

So you don't approach ladies on the road? embarassed

Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by pansophist(m): 5:52pm On Oct 15, 2021

The5DME:
So you don't approach ladies on the road?

Not at all. I go just smile, appreciate the attractive creature in front of me, then ignore. Woman no de finish, them full everywhere.

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Smartb0y: 5:56pm On Oct 15, 2021

pansophist:
Not at all. I go just smile, appreciate the attractive creature in front of me, then ignore. Woman no de finish, them full everywhere.

i like your style

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 5:59pm On Oct 15, 2021

Bolarineliza202:

I know but I still can't bring myself to do that,whether it's no longer practiced or not,it's my personal decision.

Note; a relationship where a guy make the first move is pretty lovelier than a relationship where a girl make the first move.
If in case a fight ensue between the two parties the guy will tell the lady that afterall it was the lady that made move on him.
Abeg,Elizabeth respect herself jhawe

Says who??

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Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Silentgroper(m): 6:03pm On Oct 15, 2021

Smartb0y:
many wont agree with your view

i do agree with him. When is hintona going to chase u though?

Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by Smartb0y: 6:05pm On Oct 15, 2021

Silentgroper:
i do agree with him. When is hintona going to chase u though?

who!!

Re: Guys,has A Lady Ever Toast You,how Did You Felt And What Was Your Reply. by bdon123(m): 6:14pm On Oct 15, 2021

Whazar:
she didnt have the gut so she wrote a letter instead

the nacking was out of this world as i had no feelings for her
i used her as my Bleep toy
shes married now though

Giv us more details pls...we like tru life stories

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