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The reason many people suffer in marriage is because they refunded to discuss some important things before marriage. Some couples don't discuss these because they are shy while some don't see them as big deal. However,in marriage, Those little things matter a lot. Check out failed marriages,it was ruined by little things. Below are some discussions couples must have before getting married:

1. In my opinion, I believe couples should agree on the number of children to give birth to. If your choices are different, make sure you both reach a conclusion. There are several cases where a party would want more children and the other won't. Issues like this should have been discussed before marriage.

2. You also need to discuss the place of residence. Where do you want to reside when married? Some couples plan to rent an apartment, then start building their house. It's advisable they sit down and discuss the state they wish to reside. The environment you choose have influence on your children.

3. Couples need to talk about finances! Finance is a crucial aspect that affects many marriage.If you don't have enough money, you might not enjoy your marriage that well. I am not saying marriage is all about money. However, if you check many challenges facing marriages today, not having money contributed to it greatly.

4. Before you get married to someone, know his sexual fantasies. If you are not comfortable with them, don't bother going to marriage with the person.Try and Know the way the person thinks about sex and how often he wants it. If you know you are a lady who is not a big fan of sex, don't Marry someone who is addicted it. This has caused several divorces.

I will like to have your comments regarding this.

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Ahmback:
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Good writeup and really helpful. Please read this post for more topics to talk about before marriage.
https://beautifulrosesnigeria.org/10-things-to-discuss-in-relationship/

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Beautifulrosen1:
Good writeup and really helpful. Please read this post for more topics to talk about before marriage.
https://beautifulrosesnigeria.org.ng/10-things-to-discuss-in-relationship/