Ten years ago i was in my teens,since my teens down to my early 20s i found it very difficult to have a girlfriend they rejected me back to back even though I was much finer and fresher then than i am these days,but one thing about then was that i usually see those girls dating older guys after rejecting me,but now i am in my late twenties i don't know what really changed the kind of attention and love i get from women (both adults and teenager these days is overwhelming)older ladies are now so kind and loving to me maybe they feel i have reached the age to settle down so i try to avoid them Because i don't want to be roped with pregnancy. But the worst of it all is the teenage girls and the ones in early 20,s before i say him they have given me their phone numbers and and before i know it we are dating.. .why is it so?..

I no want wahala abeg.

Firstly, I want to thank you for this topic and will also give my reasons why it is so.It is common knowledge that most young men of these days lacks proper upbringing, they live a careless and reckless lifestyle, they see women as a competitor and an enemy (redpillers), they see women as sex objects instead of companions, they want to exchange roles by demanding that financial responsibilities are shared equally while other feminine responsibilities remains strictly for the females(misogynists),they want to make money quickly instead of working hard and most of them are now yahoo boys and women been their prey for their rituals, they sit at home doing nothing tangible with the generator on for 24hours and claim they work from home(i wonder if Dangote,Ellonmusk,Bill Gates are working from home),they are very unromantic and so on.So don't blame women who have taken solace in the arms of older men,you know old wine tastes better.Older men pampers you, loves you tenderly,correct your shortcomings without been toxic about it and help you grow to become a wonderful woman (Shade Okoya and Regina Daniels are typical example in this case).I can go on and on but let me stop here for now.

Poverty.

Once they hit 40 & have made some money, they start looking for younger, fresh men.

Women always date up and not down

Women prefer ending up with men older than they are so they can inherit property when the man dies before them ...

Women prefer their men to die before them

SarkinYarki:
Women always date up and not down

Women prefer ending up with men older than they are so they can inherit property when the man dies before them ...

Women prefer their men to die before them

Older men are mostly more matured and understanding.. Again ladies find it easier respecting those older than they.

Anthropology says women prefer older guys because they looking for security. Older men offer than because they have resources. Its a time tested mating strategy to go after the men of higher status because they offer best benefits to them and potential offspring.

Because they feel you will marry in the next one or two years

It's called hypergamy.

Look it up on Google.

Iyaebe:
Firstly, I want to thank you for this topic and will also give my reasons why it is so.It is common knowledge that most young men of these days lacks proper upbringing, they live a careless and reckless lifestyle, they see women as a competitor and an enemy (redpillers), they see women as sex objects instead of companions, they want to exchange roles by demanding that financial responsibilities are shared equally while other feminine responsibilities remains strictly for the females(misogynists),they want to make money quickly instead of working hard and most of them are now yahoo boys and women been their prey for their rituals, they sit at home doing nothing tangible with the generator on for 24hours and claim they work from home(i wonder if Dangote,Ellonmusk,Bill Gates are working from home),they are very unromantic and so on.So don't blame women who have taken solace in the arms of older men,you know old wine tastes better.Older men pampers you, loves you tenderly,correct your shortcomings without been toxic about it and help you grow to become a wonderful woman (Shade Okoya and Regina Daniels are typical example in this case).I can go on and on but let me stop here for now.

A nod to hypergamy

Women who do that are USUALLY of a certain disposition: they depend on men, A.K.A Urgent 2k girls.

If a young woman chooses to be with her mate, she knows she will have to work for her own money. She cannot compete materially with those who date older guys who fund them. She really has to love the young man to be contented. Or she’s just well brought up.

Another category of ladies who want only older guys are those who have terrible character and cannot cede leadership to a man who is their mate or slightly older. They’d rather receive rebuke from an oldie than take correction from their mates. They are the women who think social status can be sexually transmitted. They are also heavily dependent on men. They have high taste that they cannot afford.

A minority category are those who have daddy issues. They need a father figure to cling to.

Loverofpeace:
Ten years ago i was in my teens,since my teens down to my early 20s i found it very difficult to have a girlfriend they rejected me back to back even though I was much finer and fresher then than i am these days,but one thing about then was that i usually see those girls dating older guys after rejecting me,but now i am in my late twenties i don't know what really changed the kind of attention and love i get from women (both adults and teenager these days is overwhelming)older ladies are now so kind and loving to me maybe they feel i have reached the age to settle down so i try to avoid them Because i don't want to be roped with pregnancy. But the worst of it all is the teenage girls and the ones in early 20,s before i say him they have given me their phone numbers and and before i know it we are dating.. .why is it so?..

If you had the opportunity would you advise your teenage sister to date a broke ass teenager?

Iyaebe:
Firstly, I want to thank you for this topic and will also give my reasons why it is so.It is common knowledge that most young men of these days lacks proper upbringing, they live a careless and reckless lifestyle, they see women as a competitor and an enemy (redpillers), they see women as sex objects instead of companions, they want to exchange roles by demanding that financial responsibilities are shared equally while other feminine responsibilities remains strictly for the females(misogynists),they want to make money quickly instead of working hard and most of them are now yahoo boys and women been their prey for their rituals, they sit at home doing nothing tangible with the generator on for 24hours and claim they work from home(i wonder if Dangote,Ellonmusk,Bill Gates are working from home),they are very unromantic and so on.So don't blame women who have taken solace in the arms of older men,you know old wine tastes better.Older men pampers you, loves you tenderly,correct your shortcomings without been toxic about it and help you grow to become a wonderful woman (Shade Okoya and Regina Daniels are typical example in this case).I can go on and on but let me stop here for now.

There are times I am close to giving up on this section, then there comes someone full of wisdom. This post is full of wisdom.

Loverofpeace:
Ten years ago i was in my teens,since my teens down to my early 20s i found it very difficult to have a girlfriend they rejected me back to back even though I was much finer and fresher then than i am these days,but one thing about then was that i usually see those girls dating older guys after rejecting me,but now i am in my late twenties i don't know what really changed the kind of attention and love i get from women (both adults and teenager these days is overwhelming)older ladies are now so kind and loving to me maybe they feel i have reached the age to settle down so i try to avoid them Because i don't want to be roped with pregnancy. But the worst of it all is the teenage girls and the ones in early 20,s before i say him they have given me their phone numbers and and before i know it we are dating.. .why is it so?..

Nigerians girls quantify "freshness" with a good paying job, fat bank account balance, a clean car, and a fine house

No be by fine face or smooth skin

Besides this, truthfully speaking very very few guys between 18 to like 24yrs are even thinking of marriage.

At that age, na only drinking alcohol, clubbing, and knacking girls up and down dem sabi

It’s simple. You are now loaded than you were back then.

Not only older, but taller, richer, smarter, fitter, stronger, and tougher guys. Older men (as in late 20's upwards) are more likely to have these traits. Its no news that women date upwards, and it's upwards expression is infinite. Just be better than her generally.

If a man does well for himself generally, he will experience what it feels to be like an eighteen years old woman, with romantic options scattered around him. He will feel like a fleeting prize that is being competed for, and will be snatched if he makes himself available. Our God is a God of justice, isn't he?

So op, obviously you're not broke, a bit fine and in a circle where you have comparative advantage, meaning that you rank high within the context of attractive men in your society. So enjoy your prime. Just make sure you don't commit to a woman that won't improve your life. If you do that, you just disrespect yourself and your hustle, and all the ancestors before you. Go for the very best, and be happy. You're welcome.

Okey-dokey..

Sheybe before you say "him" they have given you number? Continue, you will soon say "ha"! When you see what you're looking for.

Back to the matter.
The reason why most ladies and girls ( including me) don't like youger guys is simply because of that boyish look about them. As in that masculine structure is not fully formed therefore it doesn't give the lady that confidence and sense of protection she feels being with a man/older guy.

Secondly, they consider the level of maturity both mentally and physically. Every lady wants her man ( not boy) to have that manly presence when walking with him.

That boyish look some guys have is a huge turn off.

They think dating older guys will make them look matured and stands out among their peers...But I've come across older men with milk teeth,and behaves like minors when they are before little girls.

SarkinYarki:
Women always date up and not down

Women prefer ending up with men older than they are so they can inherit property when the man dies before them ...

Women prefer their men to die before them

Mad man ...
Rotf

Loverofpeace:
Ten years ago i was in my teens,since my teens down to my early 20s i found it very difficult to have a girlfriend they rejected me back to back even though I was much finer and fresher then than i am these days,but one thing about then was that i usually see those girls dating older guys after rejecting me,but now i am in my late twenties i don't know what really changed the kind of attention and love i get from women (both adults and teenager these days is overwhelming)older ladies are now so kind and loving to me maybe they feel i have reached the age to settle down so i try to avoid them Because i don't want to be roped with pregnancy. But the worst of it all is the teenage girls and the ones in early 20,s before i say him they have given me their phone numbers and and before i know it we are dating.. .why is it so?..

I don't think they are attracted to older guys these days
I'm my area ehhn, if you be Yahoo boy, you fit date older girl
Na Yahoo boys dey date all the fine girls for this ugbowo, young or old, as far as you dress like one, you'll get a lot of attention from girls

Loverofpeace:
Ten years ago i was in my teens,since my teens down to my early 20s i found it very difficult to have a girlfriend they rejected me back to back even though I was much finer and fresher then than i am these days,but one thing about then was that i usually see those girls dating older guys after rejecting me,but now i am in my late twenties i don't know what really changed the kind of attention and love i get from women (both adults and teenager these days is overwhelming)older ladies are now so kind and loving to me maybe they feel i have reached the age to settle down so i try to avoid them Because i don't want to be roped with pregnancy. But the worst of it all is the teenage girls and the ones in early 20,s before i say him they have given me their phone numbers and and before i know it we are dating.. .why is it so?..

Generalization.
I could never ever date or do anything with an older guy ever.

Think4Myself:

I don't think they are attracted to older guys these days
I'm my area ehhn, if you be Yahoo boy, you fit date older girl
Na Yahoo boys dey date all the fine girls for this ugbowo, young or old, as far as you dress like one, you'll get a lot of attention from girls

ekosodin boy

No they're naturally attracted to matured guys cos this century have proved that age is just a number , perhaps you were still behaving like a kid tho you were a teen or your twenties that is why the ladies didn't accept you.

Another reason they rejected you is because of societal views and they don't want their friends to laugh at them for dating a 'son'.

Because older giys are more patient, mature and financially stable.

...and they don't spend all their free time thinking of only how to open the girl's legs

Because they feel more secured and comfortable around older guys. They see younger guys as fu..ck boys