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ojasweb:
Woman and men are different sexually. Not every issues should be addressed with emotions. Face reality, you won't die.

Most women start hating sex at 40. The men on the other hand still like sex and active at older age.

A woman who can't satisfy her husband again at certain age is the one you are claiming equal rights for to go see other men.

How una dey reason self?

Genea:
The man will bury himself… instead of him to be enjoying her companionship, he is having sex up and down.. Well it’s the African mentality, if it were abroad, she sure as hell would have divorced his ass and collected his property… supporting things that don’t make sense

ojasweb:
Woman and men are different sexually. Not every issues should be addressed with emotions. Face reality, you won't die.

Most women start hating sex at 40. The men on the other hand still like sex and active at older age.

A woman who can't satisfy her husband again at certain age is the one you are claiming equal rights for to go see other men.

How una dey reason self?

purples25:
An old man of 85 shouldn't have sexual urge or sex, who gave you the right to decide that, young pup? You think you too will not get old? Because your blood is rushing fresh, you are arrogant, you think you know how grandpa feels in his loins. In fact, I won't insult you.

cococandy:
Women have the highest sex drive around 40
Shut up. Lol

dalass:
It is not an insult please.

It is probably a mental condition called dementia...... Its due to old age. Symptoms include:

Behavioural: irritability, personality changes, restlessness, lack of restraint, or wandering and getting lost

Dextre:
Sorry is it a sexual relationship or just chilling with another woman because if it is sexual, I don’t think there is anything you can do o. Adults that age are like kids, they are very stubborn, they’ll only stop doing certain things when they learn lesson from it

Otenzy:
Your Dad taking viagra at this age is a big problem. It could lead to a heart attack. He has to stop!
I don’t know what you’ll do but he has to stop taking viagra.

simultaneousboi:
You the children should team up, go to the woman's place, give her a warning, also visit her family (husband if married or her husband's family and her own family) let them warn her to stir clear from your Dad or else....!

zakkxx:
Young man don’t believe everything your mother told you because she want to have total control of the money you are sending! Don’t send any dime to your father through your mom!! Continue to send money to him directly!! This are some of the lies women tell to make u hate their father and like her the more!! Even if it is true, advice him and pray for him but continue to send more money to him!! If you refuse to listen you will become a dad if u are not already one and your children will do it to u and u will know how painful it is!! Please send more money to the man!! For training u? More money please!!

idrezee:
They have no such rights.
If he saved all the he spent on them he would have been a wealthy 85 year old, He should have beem able to afford a younger wife. But he served his family diligently and never chetated on their mum but now their mum is too old to sleep with him but he still has sexual urge, what do you want him to do?

ojasweb:
Uncultured. Stinks.

Around 40 and her son (not first) is 40 plus.

cococandy:
Love when it’s women it becomes uncultured but when it’s men it natural.
Keep lying to yourselves.

Your opinion doesn’t change that fact though. Men decline sexually before women. Past 50, most of you need a blue pill to keep it up.

pocohantas:
Lol. It is on Nairaland I see that men can keep firing till 100. Why then do they see old men with younger brides and ask how he is satisfying her? Is it jealousy or the truth?

Why do we keep reading “Man dies while having sex with younger lover in Abuja hotel.”

Anyway, their opinion changes depending on what agenda they are pushing.

Icouldhave:
My dad is 85 and you think am a young boy or a teenager like you.
Wonders will never end.
What if I tell you have had grandchildren, children of now days don't know how to use their brain to think at all

cococandy:
Love when it’s women it becomes uncultured but when it’s men it natural.
Keep lying to yourselves.

Your opinion doesn’t change that fact though. Men decline sexually before women. Past 50, most of you need a blue pill to keep it up.

bukatyne:
Please get your mother someone to do the chores around the house, visit her kids periodically and also her sisters/brothers.

It is time to be pampered and relax.

She cannot be emotionally stressed and add physical stress to it.

@OP:

No comment, it does not seem like you really see anything bad in what Baba is doing.

cococandy:
Love when it’s women it becomes uncultured but when it’s men it natural.
Keep lying to yourselves.

Your opinion doesn’t change that fact though. Men decline sexually before women. Past 50, most of you need a blue pill to keep it up.

ojasweb:
Taking blue pill doesn't justify your claim.

For several years i have managed advertising selling supplement for people in different countries and conducting research.

I have access to people's search queries on Google and i know what both genders at different ages are looking for.

When you talk about blue pill, the question you should ask is what for?

Most men buy blue pill so that they can last longer. Take note, not that they are not sexually active. They mostly want to go beyond their usual 3 minutes. For a fact, sexual act doesn't have any allocated timing.

Wanting to last longer is a different thing, and that doesn't mean a man is not sexually active. Without the pill, they still perform, they only wanted to enhance their performance, reason for pill.

What i see most women looking for is libido booster, complaining that they don't have urge at all and get dry quickly. Men rarely look for libido booster.

So compare and contrast. The discussion here is active. The discussion is not duration. Do your research. The majority of people who use pill are doing so to prolong their performance. Women buy pill to get in the mood.

Midas01:
Carry yourself and gerrout of my mention. Shey na only you get monopoly of insulting people's parents.

Don't contaminate my mentions with your low IQ.

Icouldhave:
one of my daughter lives there she's 24

Icouldhave:
Yours might have wandered and got lost, but mine isn't like that.

He's a well respected man, physically fit and mentally okay.

dalass:
I salute your well respected old man who according to you:

* Never used to cheat on your mom but now does so with well known olosho
* Used to spend money wisely but now money doesn't last in his hands
*Eighty five year old using Veg200! ..

The poor old man's mental capacity is diminishing. He needs saving from himself....

Just Google the word "dementia"

Bola146:
Why not read simple English and understand?! How would I say it? I guess you are the one that is not alright seriously

Icouldhave:
dementia might have affected yours but not mine, he's doing perfectly fine.

dalass:
Bro, you came here spewing trash about your dad about committing adultery, giving his upkeep to a loose woman, yet you say he's perfectly fine!

It he was okay, why the blazes did you put up this topic on Nairaland

FYI mine is late, never experienced the things you accused your dad of

Icouldhave:
oh sorry for your loss, but hope you don't mind me asking.. did dementia killed yours ? did he got lost at several occasions, he didn't know his way to his house..or forgets his name sometimes.
mine isn't like that, he's strong and vibrant like a teenager.

bukatyne:
Please get your mother someone to do the chores around the house, visit her kids periodically and also her sisters/brothers.

It is time to be pampered and relax.

She cannot be emotionally stressed and add physical stress to it.

@OP:

No comment, it does not seem like you really see anything bad in what Baba is doing.

dalass:
You're obviously suffering from the same disease. It runs in your family.


You came complaining about your father. No one did

I had a Doctor who had a research for Dementia in older people. I learnt about it and saw it in old people. FYI. My father died at home, sharp as ever and buried like the King he was.

You're obviously delusional. I have no further words for you...

purples25:
Generally, why treat old people like they are already in their graves? We kinda like to see them as corpses that don't have any sexual urge, or need to relate. I think people are silly anyway. Any small thing makes them discriminate. A man grows old, means he shouldn't socialize, means he can't have sex or wear some kinda clothes, means he shouldn't be loud, prosperous and proud.

When you take away the right to live happily from that old woman or man, then you get surprised when they start abusing minors. It's not an excuse, but look at the inhumane way you categorize them. An old man of 85 shouldn't have sexual urge or sex, who gave you the right to decide that, young pup? You think you too will not get old? Because your blood is rushing fresh, you are arrogant, you think you know how grandpa feels in his loins. In fact, I won't insult you.

After condemning the old men and women to the shadows, you get surprised when 85 is caught raping 6 years. Now baba wants to do normally, its not acceptable because he's old. Mentioning his age again and again like he was supposed to become an angel Cuz he got old. That's exactly the reason he does it! You make him feel like he can't be a man with independent actions because he's old.

Not supporting what he's doing though. But you are treating him like a corpse or a baby. Honestly why should I care, because, as a woman, I see ladies of 30 to 40, not even 50, being treated like they are 93 or halfway in their graves already. There is no difference between how a 30 year old and a 95 year old woman are treated. If you are a 30year old woman, you should just call yourself grandma and dig your grave and hide inside. That's how people act. Meanwhile a man of the sane age is still a 'young vibrant man'. Its stupid.d to be honest.

So I shouldn't have spoken up concerning this man. But I have. You can talk to him about it, like you would cautiously do if he was young. Don't think you can use his age to sabotage him. Talk to him with the same fear and respect. And let him make his independent decision. He is a man still. Not your old dying dog who you can reduce rations of food for and control through such.

Nevertheless, what he is doing is wrong.

okewumi:
My formal landlord was 83 years and the man still they fire. The children organise a young widow of 47 to they cruise together codedly for him. I don't know where it is stated that everybody progesterone should not work at that age.

pocohantas:
Lol. It is on Nairaland I see that men can keep firing till 100. Why then do they see old men with younger brides and ask how he is satisfying her? Is it jealousy or the truth?

Why do we keep reading “Man dies while having sex with younger lover in Abuja hotel.”

Anyway, their opinion changes depending on what agenda they are pushing.