Icouldhave:

upkeeps I send Before a week and half am starting to get calls.
i just tire

I wouldn't bring it up here if I was you

Icouldhave:

how would I know, I don't stay with them only got complains from my mom ending of last year.
he's my dad we respect him very much, that's why we looking for a reasonable way to sort this out.


the last time the family sat and deliberate on this issue, my elder brother asked him if my mom was the one visiting another man, how would he feel.

after that day he didn't talk with my brother close to a month.

You and your brother are foolish.

NoToPile:


Technically yes we assume she has had the best of him, some women would be very indifferent at this stage and it would be the children doing the worrying out of shame but It seems mama is not indifferent and rightly so.

But seriously 85 year old ? What is papa looking for.
Who even dates an 85 year old man fear no catch the person ni to the extent baba has to be popping Viagra pills. Hmmm

A well taken care of 85 year old can look like a 60 year old ...with white teeth sef...

Icouldhave:

people like you make us regret bringing our problems to the outside world in search of solutions.
do have a good evening.

In all honesty, he didn't insult your father.

For him to be cheating on your mom with a known miscreant like you asserted, it could be that his psych has been hijacked by the woman's jazz, hence, making him to act that way.
You said he didn't do such in his youth, how could he have learnt it in his old age where his sex urge should have dropped drastically.

What's worse? He's not very discreet about it.

And being taken away is the only way out or prayers.

When a man starts cheating that he doesn't care that people already know who he's cheating with, it could mean that he's gotten under a spell.

Women are evil.

Chuknovski:
my oldboy is doing same at 82, old soldiers sha

The truth is most people dishing advise here, don't even know what their fathers are doing currently...

Bitter truth.

Nature must fill up the vacuum.

Icouldhave:

It's easy to identify a kid, I might even be older than your dad.

Chai...

Icouldhave:


don't insult him please, act mature.

It is not an insult please.

It is probably a mental condition called dementia...... Its due to old age. Symptoms include:

Behavioural: irritability, personality changes, restlessness, lack of restraint, or wandering and getting lost

Icouldhave:

upkeeps I send Before a week and half am starting to get calls.
i just tire

Send money to him through your mum since he can't be trusted with money

They should leave him joor, sometimes women over flog issues.

Wow, nice

oluwafeolami:



Broski, ur moniker is also my nickname lol

Addressing cheating is overfloging an issue ?

Smh... people I share a country with

Xantel:
They should leave him joor, sometimes women over flog issues.

The man cheating and exposing his wife to stds at his very old age of 85 is not evil.

But it's women that are evil

Aloof:


In all honesty, he didn't insult your father.

For him to be cheating on your mom with a known miscreant like you asserted, it could be that his psych has been hijacked by the woman's jazz, hence, making him to act that way.
You said he didn't do such in his youth, how could he have learnt it in his old age where his sex urge should have dropped drastically.

What's worse? He's not very discreet about it.

And being taken away is the only way out or prayers.

When a man starts cheating that he doesn't care that people already know who he's cheating with, it could mean that he's gotten under a spell.

Women are evil.

mariahAngel:


If you no get mind, no carry family matter come nairaland. Just dey pray make e no reach FP![/i]

are you saying nairaland is meant for stupid people with senseless comments.op said no insult you still ahead to showcase your talent

Icouldhave:

how would I know, I don't stay with them only got complains from my mom ending of last year.
he's my dad we respect him very much, that's why we looking for a reasonable way to sort this out.


the last time the family sat and deliberate on this issue, my elder brother asked him if my mom was the one visiting another man, how would he feel.

after that day he didn't talk with my brother close to a month.

1. Don't finance him directly, incase the finance is the attraction, give all money to your mum for housekeeping and all, or set up an account that very body pays into, and you allocate finance to him on need to be basis.
2. Once the money is finished, sit back and watch

I'm currently in a burial in Benue state, the man died at 108years old while his last child is 11years old. Do the mathematics.

mariahAngel:


Seriously, if I were the mum, I'd be relieved and relish my retirement from wifely duties while living.
Women bother way too much over men matters seriously.
I simply won't be bothered.

Wisdom no go kill you Ada.

perryy:
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What your brother said is an insult to your dad. How wouod he have made such statement? No man wants to imagine another man climbed his wife, but we all know men are naturally polygamous. I won't take that from my son. That is a taboo in my culture. No one dares talk about a married woman sleeping with another man . Your father ought to have disown that son or made to do cleansing on her mother for wishing adultery for her.

Quiet your mouth son.

Icouldhave:

thanks very much for this, but don't you think it's a little bit too harsh?
we wouldn't want to treat him like a kid or make him feel like we are punishing him for his misdeeds. no matter what he's still the head of the family.

You would have said that you aren't ready to take any advise.
Imagine what you wrote here after someone gave you the best advice ever...

Techguy96:

Name one problem prayer had solve in this life?

y

My million naira debt last year.

Icouldhave:


don't insult him please, act mature.

That's not an insult sir, I don't see it as an insult

Icouldhave:

getat, let me see better people comments.
not some kids talks.

ok then keep watching your dad mumu himself to perdition when you find the truth a painful pill to swallow

mariahAngel:


It means she should simply ignore the old man(for her peace of mind).

Seriously, she shouldn't live the rest of her life stressing herself over your dad's infidelity like a young wife. She has you guys(her children)

Young or old a girl is remains a girl

Your dad is not jazzed. He is promiscuous. Stop making excuses for men.

Leave all this talk abegi!

Wey d prick wey him get to take Bleep at age 85?

Iyaebe:
Imagine ooo.Please I want to ask,do old men have erection?

Yes they do. An 100 year old healthy man can still father a child if he wishes.

Icouldhave:

It's easy to identify a kid, I might even be older than your dad.

I thought you are a man? Accept the fact and stop insulting people here if you are indeed 40 old you have almost insulted everybody that adviced you, pages going to 10 . You just included that people should not insult you after how many comments? Nobody insulted you, you need to accept the fact because truth is always bitter ? Koburu

Please don't insult me o

brownemmanuel43:

That's not an insult sir, I don't see it as an insult

And he called himself a man, simple advice he insulted almost everybody

Munzy14:

You want him to kill his father indirectly?

Lol the father wouldn't know he is the one causing that woman to suffer

Aloof:


In all honesty, he didn't insult your father.

For him to be cheating on your mom with a known miscreant like you asserted, it could be that his psych has been hijacked by the woman's jazz, hence, making him to act that way.
You said he didn't do such in his youth, how could he have learnt it in his old age where his sex urge should have dropped drastically.

What's worse? He's not very discreet about it.

And being taken away is the only way out or prayers.

When a man starts cheating that he doesn't care that people already know who he's cheating with, it could mean that he's gotten under a spell.

Women are evil.

Just sit back and read comments, a old man like him hates truths

Akanbiedu:


You and your brother are foolish.

Jesu wetin na

Hmmmm baba still no dey agree ooo ok...

If God make me see that 85 me no go even dey look that side again wallahi

Seh you think say Buhari no dey fvck?

Iyaebe:
Imagine ooo.Please I want to ask,do old men have erection?