Lolz, Abraham did it at 100 and ur dad is just 85yrz, so have u guys find out who the lady or woman is? Next time do some small findings u hear

Abeg allow the man to enjoy his last days as he's tasting that thing he's missed all those decades maybe.

How old is the other woman

Make mama use doggies finish papa day and night like that papa nor go get strength for the other woman again


Tell your mama to try the secret of breaking down the Man

It's called change style

Stop sending him money. Send it to your mother let him go and find the money he will be using for olosho.

Don’t send him money. The woman is only interested in him for the money.

Yoighaman:


Let him know that he is only enjoying 'extra time' and should think more of eternity. He should be frequent at spiritual gatherings at this age. He is lucky to be alive for repentance. See grace wey man dey waste.

What if he's an atheist and don't believe in your fairy tales.

Though, I condemned that barbaric act. But allowing him to enjoy fresh P, don’t forget your dad will be judge on the judgement day. Just be thanking God is not in his youth age, by now you would have welcome his bastard child to the family.

But I always envy my dad, how is doing it, we lost my mom back 2012, up till today my dad has never remarried. Though I know it is hard for him to be seeing these ladies wearing mini skit up and down

mariahAngel:


Only a foolish woman will still be doing all that for a philandering old man.
When I said retirement from wifely duties, I meant all that, including sex.

mmm

Disrespect? Seriously, we underestimate the power of indifference.

She might be indifferent to it. Which is cool I guess
But he’s still disrespecting her though.

At 85, what does your Mom still want with him?

You people should carry the old woman out of there before he implicates her.

GlorifiedTunde:


What did I hear you say?

A man of 85 is not supposed to have sexual urges?

How many 85 Year olds still have erections?

My granddaddy had a side chick when he was well into his 90s and she was also a well known GIVER, I guess that’s what kept him going. It’s a pity your mom has to go through this, let her be strong cos there’s nothing she can do about it

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

Do you want him dead? If not, act like you don't know anything. in fact, support him with more money and advise him to be careful.
At 85, your grandma Should be at least 75, at that age, a woman has zero urge for sex but a man as your grandpa can still maintain erection by grace. So it's a good thing that you even know his concubine, support them the much you can and advise them where necessary, any effort to stop him may drag your family into a big mess because the man may try to satisfy his urge through a househelp.

I respect papa so I won't say what I have in mind

Techguy96:

What if he's an atheist and don't believe in your fairy tales.

Good for him. Let him die in active service then.

Icouldhave:

thanks very much for this, but don't you think it's a little bit too harsh?
we wouldn't want to treat him like a kid or make him feel like we are punishing him for his misdeeds. no matter what he's still the head of the family.

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Better leave that old soldier alone..

Firstly, I will address the person that said “he is not in his senses” that isn’t An insult but you saw it as one. He only meant “something has taken control of him” maybe “hypnotized “
Secondly, it could b your mummy and dad has good sexual life when the strength was there but your mum doesn’t have the strength any longer but the urge is still there for your dad.
He will need an intervention of a psychologist to help you guys out.
They must figure out the reason for the act suddenly
Note: it must be tackled medically, spiritually, physically to win him
Thank you

Make papa no change oil again,na wa o

The best you can do for your dad is to try secure his finances for him, so he doesn't do anything stupid like willing his properties to one miscreant.

Kindly remember baba that HELL FIRE is real biko and he should reduce his flexing but if he's my dad, walahi my mama go hear am cos she's not giving him what he wants and he's seeking for it outside inorder not to die on time and yet she's complaining, she's clearly not doing her duties as a wife and a mother and her upkeep will be drastically reduced until I see changes.

ctrl09:
Firstly, I will address the person that said “he is not in his senses” that isn’t An insult but you saw it as one. He only meant “something has taken control of him” maybe “hypnotized “
Secondly, it could b your mummy and dad has good sexual life when the strength was there but your mum doesn’t have the strength any longer but the urge is still there for your dad.
He will need an intervention of a psychologist to help you guys out.
They must figure out the reason for the act suddenly
Note: it must be tackled medically, spiritually, physically to win him
Thank you

I love what you said here. GOD BLESS YOU. If she's my mom, it is either she resumes her duties in that department fully or she stops complaining and her upkeep will be reduced.

The man is enjoying the final days of his life. Please allow him enjoy it. Just make sure that his property documents are not in his possession so he doesn't give them to his concubine.

Marry another wife for your dad and stop troubling yourself over unnecessary thing!

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

abeg leave the old man to relax now, haba.
do you know if he is using the vega to pleasure momsy?
abeg, the man is on his final lap... let it slide!

Bola146:

I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.


It's a real jazz, 85 old man can't have that power, the woman is just collecting his money. Your father need a serious prayer

Abegi

It's not jazz.

At 85 any man should be allowed to do whatever keeps his mojo up Especially if he is not constituting a nuisance to the community. It is taboo in my culture to discuss your father's sexual interests. You should have a respectful conversation with him if he is overdoing it but essentially leave him the hell alone. If all he gets to do is play with the woman because an erection is unreliable at that age, let him be.

crackhaus:

Kai...

Technically yes we assume she has had the best of him, some women would be very indifferent at this stage and it would be the children doing the worrying out of shame but It seems mama is not indifferent and rightly so.

But seriously 85 year old ? What is papa looking for.
Who even dates an 85 year old man fear no catch the person ni to the extent baba has to be popping Viagra pills. Hmmm

Techguy96:

Name one problem prayer had solve in this life?

Prayer is your power in life, without it you are powerless.

Icouldhave:


exactly my thoughts, your right on point.

i could remember when I was a teenager, every weekdays, the whole family spends it in the church.
he does it codedly, the woman sometimes calls him when he's at home, even a dumb person will know that's her, we can't support his acts it's not right at all, thats why we are looking for a more better way.

With your words,it shows you're not a street type.

If I were the one,I'll be dealing seriously with that woman.And I'll deny ever having a hand in it.
By the time she suffers in the hands of area boys,she will leave another person's husband alone.



I'm not saying you should do that o

Techguy96:

What if he's an atheist and don't believe in your fairy tales.

That is statistically unlikely.