Imustnottalk:
If you are rich make sure you enjoy your life because if you don't na another person go use your money catch cruise

Of course. But as a family man, the least you can do is ensure that all your wealth goes to your children, in case of incasity.

A made man with four children shouldn't be so sloppy to allow this rubbish. The so-called brothers can steal the cash on ground if they are lucky enough to have first access to the property, but all the confirmed assets and bank accounts? Haba na. A man must put structures on ground to ensure the children wouldn't be bullshitted.

Jman06:
Truckloads of excuses! Women have always looked for rich men from the days of Methuselah. But modern women have taken it up to a whole new level by abandoning their own supposedly traditional responsibilities of taking care of the house, submitting to their husbands and being the virtuous woman. Instead, they want to stay in a man's house and claim equality and feminist even while living off the man like a parasite.

Stop justifying the promiscuity of today's ladies! If you are dating a guy and he fails to propose, you don't start cheating on him because of that, you simply breakup and look for someone who'll propose. But we all know that the reason behind cheating is economic, sizing as many men's pockets as possible and checking who is SIMPle enough to marry that one.

Woman offend you in your former life?
Do not wish bad for any gender no matter the havoc they have caused. Not sure you have a child and if you do, not sure you have a girl child.

If you have a girl child, I pray you live long to see her husband in this situation or more. Then, you understand why you respect people no matter the gender or havoc.

Now, the woman is the problem because she's female and brothers are right because they are male? And you co-accept their attitude? Without even checking whether the news is fake or real or even listen to both sides.. All these just because you dislike the female gender.?

For real. You must be a psychopath.

hedonido:


Of course. But as a family man, the least you can do is ensure that all your wealth goes to your children, in case of incasity
A made man with four children shouldn't be so sloppy to allow this rubbish. The so-called brothers can steal the cash on ground if they are lucky enough to have first access to the property, but all the confirmed assets and bank accounts? Haba na. A man must put structures on ground to ensure the children wouldn't be bullshitted.ti

bro no one knows when death will come I bet if the man knew that day he wouldn't have gone anywhere.its a good thing secure the future for kids and wife but people always forget their family members those are the people who mostly stand with you when one is still struggling so always include them that's when peace can reign.if you trust your wife please don't always hide anything from her and make no your movements because anything can sup at anytime or if you son is old enough to handle things reveals everything to him . that was how I lost a land because my father didn't reveal where the land is to me before his death

meetme01:


Woman offend you in your former life?
Do not wish bad for any gender no matter the havoc they have caused. Not sure you have a child and if you do, not sure you have a girl child.

If you have a girl child, I pray you live long to see her husband in this situation or more. Then, you understand why you respect people no matter the gender or havoc.

Now, the woman is the problem because she's female and brothers are right because they are male? And you co-accept their attitude? Without even checking whether the news is fake or real or even listen to both sides.. All these just because you dislike the female gender.?

For real. You must be a psychopath.

Though the news maybe fake, I reacted based on what's happening in our society these days. In most cases, people blindly support women in situations like this all with the excuse of taking care of the man's children. Many women who were not there when the man hustled his money have capitalized on the societal sentiments to kill their husbands and personalize his wealth. Whereas in many cases even, the man's family take care of his children better. In my own family, we have children of dead poor uncles who are under our roofs being taken care of. So, I know that no woman will take care of my children better than my siblings.

If I have daughters, I'll raise them to be independent minded. To make their own money and have some wealth of her own that can be inherited. Not hoping and looking for a man to leach on. I'll teach them to relate with the humanity in men and not with their material possessions like most Nigerian ladies of nowadays do.

SarkinYarki:


When you touch it you share your destiny

Sarikin Yarki

Jman06:
Or rather lazy wife fighting over property she does not own, so that she can use them to start flexing with his lovers!

Someone like me ehn, my spirit will be happier knowing that property and wealth are with my blood brothers than with some useless wife. Provided my brothers take care of my children's needs(that's if they're still small), I'll like it if they fight and claim my property.

Better still, I'll write my will, settle my children directly and also settle my brothers. Wife is not getting anything from me tbh, she should work for her own property!

I've seen children suffer greatly because their Uncles took charge of their deceased father's properties. Many promising lives have been cut short or destinies delayed because of that. Brothers usually take care of their families first before they think of others. I remember the case of a man who trained his brother and later made him the administrator of his estate. It was always a herculean task getting him to sign cheques for the children's school fees and needs even though they reverted to public schools and they had sufficient funds from their dad's investments. The woman ended up taking on so many petty jobs in addition to the basic one just to survive. She had no say and wasn't keen on remarrying.

May we be blessed to guide and care for our kids till they're strong enough to stand on their own. May we live long to reap the fruits of our labour.

Always best to write a will. A wife can be restricted due to lack of trust but she remains the best guardian for her children.

This had better not be true because the man hasn't even buried yet

Bob-Oseni, who was to catch a flight to the US, briefly made a detour to see the project at the invitation of the developer but did not walk out alive.

If only he had just gone straight to the airport...

Jman06:
Nonsense and "support"! No woman in this age supports any man to create wealth! They only wait for a man to suffer and make his money before they come to claim the glory. Even working class ladies would rather look for a ready made man to siphon his wealth. It is what it is.
In my family, we even take care of poor late uncle's children let alone our brother's children, so forget that angle you're going.

With what ladies of nowadays are turning into and how marriages have become, If I later decide to get married, I'll jealously guard my wealth from my wife, taking care of only my children and blood relatives. While writing my will, I'll do exactly as I stated earlier.

Marry first instead of coming here to vibrate

Ishilove:

Marry first instead of coming here to vibrate

Jman06:
I have my own plan with women, but I'm never gonna let her have access to my wealth just for being "beautiful" (beauty is relative). Once I have 2 or 3 kids, she is totally on her own.

You really have a lot of growing up to do

Hathor5:

Abi na? See how he is writing epistles about what he knows nothing about

Ishilove:

Abi na? See how he is writing epistles about what he knows nothing about

There are many of them on this forum. The less experienced, the louder.
They will have their awakening once they grow up.

Ifesinachi22:
Please what is the work of SHARE on Nairaland

Very good question. I have wanted to ask this question.

Hathor5:


There are many of them on this forum. The less experienced, the louder.
They will have their awakening once they grow up.

Sis, I couldn't have said it better

delpee:


I've seen children suffer greatly because their Uncles took charge of their deceased father's properties. Many promising lives have been cut short or destinies delayed because of that. Brothers usually take care of their families first before they think of others. I remember the case of a man who trained his brother and later made him the administrator of his estate. It was always a herculean task getting him to sign cheques for the children's school fees and needs even though they reverted to public schools and they had sufficient funds from their dad's investments. The woman ended up taking on so many petty jobs in addition to the basic one just to survive. She had no say and wasn't keen on remarrying.

May we be blessed to guide and care for our kids till they're strong enough to stand on their own. May we live long to reap the fruits of our labour.

Always best to write a will. A wife can be restricted due to lack of trust but she remains the best guardian for her children.

You know you are exaggerating things. You have seen those, yet I have seen cases where a man died and his brothers took over his wealth and handled things very well to the point that they were able to send the man's children abroad for studies. I have also seen cases where the man died poor and his brothers took over the training of his children up to university levels. You lots don't see all those ones but are quick to poke nose if the man happens to be rich.

Ishilove:

You really have a lot of growing up to do

Emotional blackmail as usual. When a guy does not agree with your selfish feminist agenda, it's either he's not a "real man" or "he has a lot of growing up to do". Sorry, I'm not the type to fall for such blackmails.

I simply stated my opinion on the subject matter and went further to state how I would love my wealth to be handled if such fate befalls me God forbid. I have my reasons. If you don't agree with me (which I knew you wouldn't), simply scroll down to the next poster.

beejaay:


See how you opened up your ignorance and uselessness.. You generalized every female which your families are among.. Someone even pointed to the fact that not all of them are like that and you still rejected him and went on with your rabid tantrum forgetting you have females around you... You see next time learn not to generalize cos it will come back to hunt you.. If you have hardworking females around so those other people have hardworking and wonderful females around them even if it's just 5%.... There is profit in introspection, use it to your advantage... Everything is not curse and abuse, grow up and be a man you born to be

Full. "Grown up". We have seen you and your growth. I stated my opinion and what I'll do with women, it is non of your business, is it? Grown up people know how to mind their businesses but 1mbeciles like yourself would not mind their businesses even they claim to be grown up.

I wonder where the hypocritically bigoted, greedy, disingenuous, and wannabe sophisticated lots and their self-hate contentious and contemptuous fellows are to come and continue peddling their lies that the Igbo men and culture are the ones that do treat widows and women in general unfairly even when news and evidence every passing second like this one have continually shown the actual culprits.

What of those who lost their money in the investment, who will refund their investment? It's very important for those who want to invest in real estate to make inquiries on any particular project they intend to invest on by getting relevant information from the development agency in the state government where the project is situated.

Such is life! Can you imagine close family members fighting over the assets of the deceased with his remain yet to be buried?

Nawa

Nawa, is these not too early?

Englandboy:
It too early for that why can't they allow the dead to rest

I bow ooo

PrinceOfLagos:
As if they've been waiting for the news of his death in the collapsed building so they could rush his properties

I suspect spiritual cause

Jman06:
I don't have the kind of useless sisters and daughters you have.

My sisters are hardworking and not banking on swindling other men's resources in the name of marriage. Likewise if I have a daughter, I'll raise her to be an independent woman who'll not hope on a man's wealth. I'll teach her to relate with the humanity in men and not their material substance because that way, she'll find the right man to be comfortable with.

Your sisters and mothers are always different. Always!!!

Jman06:
You're free to hold your opinion on the subject matter just like I'm also free to hold mine.

And I repeat, if I couldn't write my will before dying, my spirit will be more at peace knowing that my blood brothers are controlling my wealth than some useless wife But I know I'll do a proper will beforehand so I can share my wealth the way I want and no wife is getting a dime from my wealth. I have my reasons and my reasons are justified.



Shalom too

You have no reason to marry or even have kids. Your brothers end up flexing your own money with their own wives and kids, while you end up being bitter with yourself. Ladies not all men are marriage able and worth risking your 9 months for.

meetme01:


Woman offend you in your former life?
Do not wish bad for any gender no matter the havoc they have caused. Not sure you have a child and if you do, not sure you have a girl child.

If you have a girl child, I pray you live long to see her husband in this situation or more. Then, you understand why you respect people no matter the gender or havoc.

Now, the woman is the problem because she's female and brothers are right because they are male? And you co-accept their attitude? Without even checking whether the news is fake or real or even listen to both sides.. All these just because you dislike the female gender.?

For real. You must be a psychopath.

Do not pay much attention to the bitter man... his daughters or sisters being hardworking and all that can not stop them from being intimidated by their husbands and families

Imustnottalk:
bro no one knows when death will come I bet if the man knew that day he wouldn't have gone anywhere.its a good thing secure the future for kids and wife but people always forget their family members those are the people who mostly stand with you when one is still struggling so always include them that's when peace can reign.if you trust your wife please don't always hide anything from her and make no your movements because anything can sup at anytime or if you son is old enough to handle things reveals everything to him . that was how I lost a land because my father didn't reveal where the land is to me before

Some fathers are in the habit of hiding things from their families. That's how debtors showed up in a man's burial unannounced and the wife has to start paying what she never knew about and later realized the husband lent some people money and she does not know how to approach them on it because she does not know on what terms the money was borrowed and how much, in fact when she approached some they end up making her look like a liar and she has six kids.

Jman06:
Truckloads of excuses! Women have always looked for rich men from the days of Methuselah. But modern women have taken it up to a whole new level by abandoning their own supposedly traditional responsibilities of taking care of the house, submitting to their husbands and being the virtuous woman. Instead, they want to stay in a man's house and claim equality and feminist even while living off the man like a parasite.

Stop justifying the promiscuity of today's ladies! If you are dating a guy and he fails to propose, you don't start cheating on him because of that, you simply breakup and look for someone who'll propose. But we all know that the reason behind cheating is economic, sizing as many men's pockets as possible and checking who is SIMPle enough to marry that one.

Honourable, off your mic...

Jman06:
Though the news maybe fake, I reacted based on what's happening in our society these days. In most cases, people blindly support women in situations like this all with the excuse of taking care of the man's children. Many women who were not there when the man hustled his money have capitalized on the societal sentiments to kill their husbands and personalize his wealth. Whereas in many cases even, the man's family take care of his children better. In my own family, we have children of dead poor uncles who are under our roofs being taken care of. So, I know that no woman will take care of my children better than my siblings.

If I have daughters, I'll raise them to be independent minded. To make their own money and have some wealth of her own that can be inherited. Not hoping and looking for a man to leach on. I'll teach them to relate with the humanity in men and not with their material possessions like most Nigerian ladies of nowadays do.

Uncle, how do you know the so called wife is lazy... no matter how they care for ur kids when u gone,it can never be like their own. I know some women are bad and all that... but picking a bad one is entirely your fault because you entered into the marriage with open eyes and showed her off to the world as your Queen,better still found her fit to bear children through her.If your dad acted that way towards your mum how would you feel no matter the millions he bequeath you.Ok you said the wife will flex the wealth with another man after you gone, so your jealousy has even gone beyond this world... your brothers too will flex your wealth with their wives and even side chicks that never knew how your wealth was made... all in all na woman go cruise your money las las so what difference are they to the one that risked her life to give you kids that made you a father. If you think she is lazy, then why marry a lazy woman, is it that you no get taste, when you can marry women like your hardworking, save-the-day, woman-power sisters? Try tame your bitterness before it consumes you one day.

delpee:


I've seen children suffer greatly because their Uncles took charge of their deceased father's properties. Many promising lives have been cut short or destinies delayed because of that. Brothers usually take care of their families first before they think of others. I remember the case of a man who trained his brother and later made him the administrator of his estate. It was always a herculean task getting him to sign cheques for the children's school fees and needs even though they reverted to public schools and they had sufficient funds from their dad's investments. The woman ended up taking on so many petty jobs in addition to the basic one just to survive. She had no say and wasn't keen on remarrying.

May we be blessed to guide and care for our kids till they're strong enough to stand on their own. May we live long to reap the fruits of our labour.

Always best to write a will. A wife can be restricted due to lack of trust but she remains the best guardian for her children.

It's his type that will follow his brother's wife to drag properties.