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So swearing is now an act of believing people......If she didn't swear it does not mean ur friend got her pregnant, no go put person wey no know anything for trouble ooo plus ur girl na OLOSHO

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Mennnnnnnn,op,you don lose your best friend, PERIOD!!!

Sometimes,it's preferable to handle such issues with a calmed mind.....Tho I understand you did what you did out of anger..But I doubt if your friendship will ever be the same as before again..

#Fear women and live long football united

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,op,you don lose your best friend, PERIOD!!!

Sometimes,it's preferable to handle such issues with a calmed mind.....Tho I understand you did what you did out of anger..But I doubt if your friendship will ever be the same as before again..

#Fear women and live long football united

The problem is i cant even face him, at least to say my rubbish

OlawaleBammie:
The problem is i cant even face him, at least to say my rubbish

Try to have a talk with him, but if he wouldn’t, just give him space.
With time, the whole truth will be revealed.

Don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re human after all, and humans are bound to make mistakes.

Mariangeles:
Try to have a talk with him, but if he wouldn’t, just give him space.
With time, the whole truth will be revealed.

Don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re human after all, and humans are bound to make mistakes.

Thanks bro, how i wish this is a dream sha.

OlawaleBammie:
The problem is i cant even face him, at least to say my rubbish

You just got to be man now . Try create chance,make una two stroll out go dey alone for inside one bar...... Drink up and thrash una issue like guymen... Nobody's wey big pass fvck up . Same thing happened to me and my best friend way back, precisely 2012,but in my own case,my guy do am . I no fight am..Juts small quarrel and everything was back to normalcy.....But that actually taught me a lesson,like never to trust my friend when it comes to woman matter

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This one don pass best friends... Nah bromance

I no dey do friends again oh... E get why...

....Sorry about what you are passing through but have you thought that your friend could be guilty of the accusation ?

I can't say for sure but the way he's making a mountain out of a mole is suspicious.

Well,you are a man and you should not be afraid to confront him except you are not sure of yourself either.

OlawaleBammie:
Thanks bro, how i wish this is a dream sha.

One thing I must tell you is to never doubt your instincts.
According to you, the time adds up from when he spent the night at your girlfriend’s to how old the pregnancy is.
If he turns out not to be guilty, you apologize and move on with your life.
Never give up truth for friendship.

Sonnobax15:
You just got to be man now . Try create chance,make una two stroll out go dey alone for inside one bar...... Drink up and thrash una issue like guymen... Nobody's wey big pass fvck up . Same thing happened to me and my best friend way back, precisely 2012,but in my own case,my guy do am . I no fight am..Juts small quarrel and everything was back to normalcy.....But that actually taught me a lesson,like never to trust my friend when it comes to woman matter

Did your guy deny it at first?

Mariangeles:
Did your guy deny it at first?

Yeah,he did..But it was the girl who exposed it....Later on,that was years after,that was when my friend opened up

For all we know, your childhood friend might be saying the truth or arrogantly lying.

Issues like this calls for head-on tackle. What if he agrees in the long run (let's assume) that he slept with her within that period?,. What are you going to do with your fiancee now she's pregnant?

I don't think your friend is ready to bear the shame of sleeping with his buddy's gf( was his ex though). It doesn't speak well of a true all-weather friend.

My advice?

This is what my type will do. Sideline the lady in question. Yes, quit your communication with her for the moment. She's too loose to be your fiancee, talk more of being a life partner.

Give your friend a break, say a week. Ask him for a date, pls be straight with him. You are not a kid anymore. He's still an asset to you no matter the condition or situation of things.

Try to reason with him, if he still maintains that he didn't touch her, let it slide. He's knows you inside out. It's hard but you guys have gone a long way to separate for what exactly?

Sonnobax15:
Yeah,he did..But it was the girl who exposed it....Later on,that was years after,that was when my friend opened up

Just imagine!

Mariangeles:
One thing I must tell you is to never doubt your instincts.
According to you, the time adds up from when he spent the night at your girlfriend’s to how old the pregnancy is.
If he turns out not to be guilty, you apologize and move on with your life.
Never give up truth for friendship.

thanks bro, that is why that am still insisting on my surest DNA test which is the swearing despite been bullied.

Klass99:
OlawaleBammie,

I read your story (even though it was headache inducing ) and this is what I think - the fact that your friend went to swear and has been crying upadan doesn't mean he is innocent.

Guilty people or people with something to hide tend to wail the loudest and tend to be very dramatic too, when called out like this. And your friend is being too dramatic for my 6th sense or if you like call it female intuition.

Think about it for a minute, the scammers who have been busted on this forum are usually the ones who cry/swear the loudest that their story is not a scam and they use God's name a lot when soliciting help.

I don't trust that, your friend is being truthful and it's just my instincts speaking, from reading your narrative alone.

sir am sorry for how i constructed the story, am sorry for the headache,just that i am not in the right frame of mind.

Sonnobax15:
You just got to be man now . Try create chance,make una two stroll out go dey alone for inside one bar...... Drink up and thrash una issue like guymen... Nobody's wey big pass fvck up . Same thing happened to me and my best friend way back, precisely 2012,but in my own case,my guy do am . I no fight am..Juts small quarrel and everything was back to normalcy.....But that actually taught me a lesson,like never to trust my friend when it comes to woman matter

Hmmm

Well, i can only call him on fon as he's in lagos and i reside in benin

JONNYSPUTE:
....Sorry about what you are passing through but have you thought that your friend could be guilty of the accusation ?

I can't say for sure but the way he's making a mountain out of a mole is suspicious.

Well,you are a man and you should not be afraid to confront him except you are not sure of yourself either.

that is the problem, how can i be outrightly and 100% sure wen i wasnt there with dem?? How.

Like seriously, otisunmi

BlackXabbath:
For all we know, your childhood friend might be saying the truth or arrogantly lying.

Issues like this calls for head-on tackle. What if he agrees in the long run (let's assume) that he slept with her within that period?,. What are you going to do with your fiancee now she's pregnant?

I don't think your friend is ready to bear the shame of sleeping with his buddy's gf( was his ex though). It doesn't speak well of a true all-weather friend.

My advice?

This is what my type will do. Sideline the lady in question. Yes, quit your communication with her for the moment. She's too loose to be your fiancee, talk more of being a life partner.

Give your friend a break, say a week. Ask him for a date, pls be straight with him. You are not a kid anymore. He's still an asset to you no matter the condition or situation of things.

Try to reason with him, if he still maintains that he didn't touch her, let it slide. He's knows you inside out. It's hard but you guys have gone a long way to separate for what exactly?

This is it, see, i dont take thins too serious,everybody knows that with me. Even if my friend later admit that he did it, e no concern me.

The problem now is dat my fiancee is telling me that i am responsible for her pregnancy, am not sayin an not ready to take responsibility for the pregnancy provided the pregnancy is mine.

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Oro sunukun.

OlawaleBammie:
This is it, see, i dont take thins too serious,everybody knows that with me. Even if my friend later admit that he did it, e no concern me.

The problem now is dat my fiancee is telling me that i am responsible for her pregnancy, am not sayin an not ready to take responsibility for the pregnancy provided the pregnancy is mine.

If you are sure you didn't touch her within the said time interval, I suggest you walk! This might look simple to you now but will rear it's ugly head in the nearest future.

I still maintain my stand on the said lady. She lacks self control as a woman.