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BlackXabbath:
If you are sure you didn't touch her within the said time interval, I suggest you walk! This might look simple to you now but will rear it's ugly head in the nearest future.

I still maintain my stand on the said lady. She lacks self control as a woman.

i can't lie, i touched her

OlawaleBammie:
My heart is broken not cus of my relationship but becus the best friendship i have had over years has collapsed and thislngs are getting deteriorating.

Its a long story but u just have to bear with me cus i have never bn this devastated. Me and my friend hav bn together for years, we were thru tin and thick, wen boys were still pushing omolanke, wheelbarrow, packing erosion sand, which we normally called jamajama just to find something to eat back den in ikorodu.

I have impact in the life of my friend cus i was there wen he needed me most, wen i met him he was about to go into cultism but i stood against it and beseeched him to at least try my advice out, he opted to follow my advice and went ahead to sharpened his skill instead(electrician). After his apprenticeship he got a job in lagos and ever since den he has bn living fine, he has married with a kid and i am happy for him.

Me on the other hand got admitted to an higher institution and that was how i started switching between ekiti and lagos, anytime i resume from school i used to stay in my friend room, many of the times he used to leave me and his girlfriend in his room and travel to abuja, benin, Liberia, ghana, kaduna, etc and i swear by his spirit that nothing would never happened between me and his girlfriend(s)

Ola(my friend) would never allow even his brother to take a girl into his room for intimacy but i am excluded, even if i want to carry ashawo(tho a no dey carry ashawo). If yemi had s*x with a girl today he would tell me, even if its his den gf(now wife) he would still tell me, this is to show u how close we are.

You created this mess for yourself.

I suppose you have consulted your IFA , I mean your pastor over this matter.

I hope this drama matures your decision making mechanism for the best.

I leave with you the peace of the lord that surpasses every confusion.

Shalom.

OlawaleBammie:
This is it, see, i dont take thins too serious,everybody knows that with me. Even if my friend later admit that he did it, e no concern me.

The problem now is dat my fiancee is telling me that i am responsible for her pregnancy, am not sayin an not ready to take responsibility for the pregnancy provided the pregnancy is mine.

tell her to take care of the baby till he/she show face and calculate everything she spent you will give her and more when you confirm na your pikin until then ghost her

Na wa o, this one pass me abeg ...but that your babe sha, she is a true definition of someone who doesn't know what she wants, one leg inside, one leg outside, the only thing i can advise you on is to take a DNA test, as for your friend, let nature take its due course, nothing is hidden under the sun, whether he is guilty or not, time will tell, you don't need to force the truth from anyone

Tell the girl you won't accept the child until DNA test is conducted. If DNA proves the child is not yours, sue her.

You sef why will you accept a girl from your friend.. which kind OT be dat?

Any girl that will come and sleep with you without you two being engaged or married can sleep with any guy when you're away.. So the tears your friend is putting up na wash. Just don't drink or eat carelessly around him or the girl so they don't poision you.

tchidi066:
Na wa o, this one pass me abeg ...but that your babe sha, she is a true definition of someone who doesn't know what she wants, one leg inside, one leg outside, the only thing i can advise you on is to take a DNA test, as for your friend, let nature take its due course, nothing is hidden under the sun, whether he is guilty or not, time will tell, you don't need to force the truth from anyone

tanks my sister.

The tin is she's telling me that am responsible for it, if truly its mine, i would love to take care of both her and d pregnancy. But if it happens that its not mine i dont want to waste money till she put to bed abeg. Money wey a suppose gather take jakpa comit for naija

, tank God am far from either of them

flokii:
Tell the girl you won't accept the child until DNA test is conducted. If DNA proves the child is not yours, sue her.

You sef why will you accept a girl from your friend.. which kind OT be dat?

Any girl that will come and sleep with you without you two being engaged or married can sleep with any guy when you're away.. So the tears your friend is putting up na wash. Just don't drink or eat carelessly around him or the girl so they don't poision you.

Richy4:
Why a prophet will tell u to stay with a "cheating nice girl" and u decide to stay is beyond me to comprehend....Any normal young man would have left after seeing the second chat..

Anyways, I will say what u will like to hear... she seems like a nice girl and would make a perfect wife material... Besides, she's the one holding the key that would prevent u from getting broke in this world... so carry go dear... nothing do you...Hold herooo, don't let go...

Your friendship levels with the guy sounds like the movie "Bestman" Acted by Morris Chestnut.. oh!! what's the name of the other guy..can't remember...

Instead of wasting your tears, this is just a simple matter that plates of pepper soup and a bottle of whatever u guys normally drink can solve...with an SMS saying can we talk... with place, address and time.... Not trying to be a sexist but most guys don't hold grudges follow it up

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