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Datboredberry:
How did I not see that you threatened my relationship...?

I didn't see this comment...

wasn't threatening, just trying to save you from an inevitable heart ache.

Datboredberry:
I've dated a Pakistani... Yasir. Three months until I ruined it... He was perfect... Sorry I don't believe in stereotypes... If not, I would think Nigerian men are nothing but broke scammers.. which they all aren't...

Yeye pikin fell in love with a PKK terrorist. Be careful, miss lover girl

i926:
Yeye pikin fell in love with a PKK terrorist. Be careful, miss lover girl

she think say we be bad news

Datboredberry:
We met on Facebook... I liked his comment on a page then checked his profile... He was so handsome, I saved the link to his account and even downloaded his pictures...

The next day I logged back in... I saw that he had sent a friend request which I immediately confirmed!

We started chatting... I kept my distance for a while cause he's really attractive, I thought he would be a snub... So I wasn't too invested.

But he was really nice... Extremely polite and I thought it was cute cause he could probably get any girl with the worse of manners...

We exchanged contacts... and took our chat to WhatsApp.

It was all perfect despite the time difference with is exactly 6 hours...

He's really cute; dark long hair, full lips...I teased him that he's prince Eric...

He's working... Hoping to get into school next year... He's a Christian, I'm an Atheist but he nearly tempted me to convert!

He speaks Spanish often...and it's so romantic...

The only issue was his self-esteem... He would say the worse things about himself... I thought it was all silly cause he's playful, funny, extremely smart and incredibly handsome...

But he's sort of shy... And confessed that he lacks confidence...

Anyways... We would chat for hours about anything... Our countries, ice-cream, our past relationships...etc.

Every was great till I ruined it last night...

I told him to tell me about the first time he had sex... I did it because I wanted to manipulate him into sexting... He's older than I am but is so polite, he rarely brings up sex.

He really tried to please me with the story, which I encouraged... Then I became jealous... no girl wants to hear how amazing your first sexual partner was...

So I decided to hurt him by asking how big his penis is... Told him to measure it...blah blah blah...

He became upset... Just used several emojis to express his annoyance then asked if that's what I like... I got tired of being nasty and told him no... afterall, I've never had sex... I told him that I was jealous and his story was making me slightly insecure...

He sent a message that he was sorry... he's stupid for doing so... I responded that it was alright...

But he wouldn't move on!!! He spent the evening being sad and sorry... He sent voice notes, saying in both English and Spanish that he's sorry... That he feels so bad for ruining everything... He understands if I want to leave... He's a nobody to be important... And so many other annoying things...

I have my own issues... I'm sensitive and he is too... obviously.

I find it hard to connect with people emotionally because of my trust issues... So I make the entire relationship revolve around sex to avoid catching feelings... But it always gets boring after a while...

He on the other hand deals with his trust issue by wallowing in self-pity and it's hard to deal with...

He was different... He made me feel like the teenager I am... And it was so sweet since we were both nervous, eager to please each other...

Last night was awful... I told him I was tired and wanted to sleep... He wanted to send a voice note saying in Spanish many sweet things but I felt really nasty...

We slept off mad at each other...

you collect money from am... as a naija girl if you no bill am, the you useless.

Datboredberry:
He told me goodbye then blocked my account... I felt so bad this morning seeing he had done so!!!

I used my other number to send a message... Asking if he's certain...

Update:

He's online and just responded asking if it's me...

I'm worried if he's still sad... Or he would impulsively block this account...

where una dy take see all dis ppl abeg gv me link mk I find any colombia girl take hold body

i926:
Yeye pikin fell in love with a PKK terrorist. Be careful, miss lover girl

He was sweet... The kindest soul... He promised to get me vaccines when he found out I hadn't been vaccinated.. even assist me with my school work...

Better than some people I know...

Flowboi:
where una dy take see all dis ppl abeg gv me link mk I find any colombia girl take hold body

No!!!

On Facebook though... I met my would-be boyfriend on a Facebook page on Africa...

KingDash:
you collect money from am... as a naija girl if you no bill am, the you useless.

Nah... I really don't bill guys.. it's usually the other way round...

I paid for my first boyfriend's jamb... Sent the other money occasionally... And the third, I would sneak food outta my family home to feed... Or just get provisions and twice gave him cash to travel to Kaduna... He plays football...

I don't get why you people associate love with sex or money...

Datboredberry:
Thread closed:

We've gotten back together! He admitted that he was being dramatic... I apologized too... He's so sweet!

I'm extremely happy... But I wish he would stop thinking so low of himself...

Thread closed...

Thank God for you. can you drop link where you meet your Colombia bf,?me too I'm, looking for a Colombia gf

SaintBishop:
Thank God for you. can you drop link where you meet your Colombia bf,?me too I'm, looking for a Colombia gf

Issokay... I met my love on Facebook!

On a page.. I met most guys there...

Datboredberry:
Nah... I really don't bill guys.. it's usually the other way round...

I paid for my first boyfriend's jamb... Sent the other money occasionally... And the third, I would sneak food outta my family home to feed... Or just get provisions and twice gave him cash to travel to Kaduna... He plays football...

I don't get why you people associate love with sex or money...

wow... abeg make I date you na, I need your kind in my life.

KingDash:
wow... abeg make I date you na, I need your kind in my life.

you won try luck.

SarutobiEky:
you won try luck.

I dey find love of my life like this..

KingDash:
I dey find love of my life like this..

good luck bro. God go see you through.

SarutobiEky:
good luck bro. God go see you through.

na joke oh.. I no need her punk ass.

KingDash:
na joke oh.. I no need her punk ass.

lmao.. I talk am no let her see am o. She go dey cry o.

Datboredberry:
Issokay... I met my love on Facebook!

On a page.. I met most guys there...

Is not ok, ooo you didn't tell me on what group on Facebook did you guys meet! Common,help a brother out.