We met on Facebook... I liked his comment on a page then checked his profile... He was so handsome, I saved the link to his account and even downloaded his pictures...

The next day I logged back in... I saw that he had sent a friend request which I immediately confirmed!

We started chatting... I kept my distance for a while cause he's really attractive, I thought he would be a snub... So I wasn't too invested.

But he was really nice... Extremely polite and I thought it was cute cause he could probably get any girl with the worse of manners...

We exchanged contacts... and took our chat to WhatsApp.

It was all perfect despite the time difference with is exactly 6 hours...

He's really cute; dark long hair, full lips...I teased him that he's prince Eric...

He's working... Hoping to get into school next year... He's a Christian, I'm an Atheist but he nearly tempted me to convert!

He speaks Spanish often...and it's so romantic...

The only issue was his self-esteem... He would say the worse things about himself... I thought it was all silly cause he's playful, funny, extremely smart and incredibly handsome...

But he's sort of shy... And confessed that he lacks confidence...

Anyways... We would chat for hours about anything... Our countries, ice-cream, our past relationships...etc.

Every was great till I ruined it last night...

I told him to tell me about the first time he had sex... I did it because I wanted to manipulate him into sexting... He's older than I am but is so polite, he rarely brings up sex.

He really tried to please me with the story, which I encouraged... Then I became jealous... no girl wants to hear how amazing your first sexual partner was...

So I decided to hurt him by asking how big his penis is... Told him to measure it...blah blah blah...

He became upset... Just used several emojis to express his annoyance then asked if that's what I like... I got tired of being nasty and told him no... afterall, I've never had sex... I told him that I was jealous and his story was making me slightly insecure...

He sent a message that he was sorry... he's stupid for doing so... I responded that it was alright...

But he wouldn't move on!!! He spent the evening being sad and sorry... He sent voice notes, saying in both English and Spanish that he's sorry... That he feels so bad for ruining everything... He understands if I want to leave... He's a nobody to be important... And so many other annoying things...

I have my own issues... I'm sensitive and he is too... obviously.

I find it hard to connect with people emotionally because of my trust issues... So I make the entire relationship revolve around sex to avoid catching feelings... But it always gets boring after a while...

He on the other hand deals with his trust issue by wallowing in self-pity and it's hard to deal with...

He was different... He made me feel like the teenager I am... And it was so sweet since we were both nervous, eager to please each other...

Last night was awful... I told him I was tired and wanted to sleep... He wanted to send a voice note saying in Spanish many sweet things but I felt really nasty...

We slept off mad at each other...

He told me goodbye then blocked my account... I felt so bad this morning seeing he had done so!!!

I used my other number to send a message... Asking if he's certain...

Update:

He's online and just responded asking if it's me...

I'm worried if he's still sad... Or he would impulsively block this account...

I might have ruined my relationship by being a bitch... And I've realised that interracial relationships don't work out for me...

Not with the Moroccan guys, Egyptian boy, Essam...and Egyptian girl, Tota...

Thread closed:

We've gotten back together! He admitted that he was being dramatic... I apologized too... He's so sweet!

I'm extremely happy... But I wish he would stop thinking so low of himself...

Thread closed...

yawn

house10s:
yawn

What necessitated this comment? I made it clear I'm here to vent... But everything it okay now...

He and I didn't break up!

We're going to have a heart-to-heart conversation soon... It's needed.

Try French men. They are perfect!!

Datboredberry:
What necessitated this comment? I made it clear I'm here to vent... But everything it okay now...

He and I didn't break up!

We're going to have a heart-to-heart conversation soon... It's needed.

still yawning

Catfish account and super story.. Orisirisi

Good to Know u guyz are back

house10s:
still yawning

A lot of hate coming from you... You should try to know me first...

But I guess some folks hate good love stories.

AoifeNightfall:
Try French men. They are perfect!!

Really? I always had a problem with Europeans... I once tried a relationship with a Pole... Ended really badly... Because race got into it and he tried the whole domination ish...

Its easier with men who are minorities too...

I love Moroccans... But I've concluded they have issues... Algerians also...

This is my first Hispanic boyfriend... It's so sweet...

Jeremani:
Good to Know u guyz are back

Thank you! I woke up... Cried and listened to several sad songs...

I'm dramatic... But I'm still trying to trust him...

One argument and he blocked me... Seems we'll both be really careful...

over online matter u were keeping ur distance from online relationship lol.


yawn

yungchop:
Catfish account and super story.. Orisirisi

Honestly, no... I'm really friendly but I don't see race while dating...
Dark chocolate, vanilla... I love them all...

why do i have an inkling that you're a dude with a hairy blokos. lol. conversely, you also strike me as paid internet agent, employed to spin yarn out of thin air just to elicit engagement and activity on this fora.

house10s:
over online matter u were keeping ur distance from online relationship lol.


yawn

Who told you we wouldn't meet? I'm traveling to Colombia next year...

Anyways, we love each other very much...

HOLLY GRAM COLOMBIA. WORLD OF KUSH AND GANGSTER. ABOBI DAT PLACE FOLLOW 4 MY DREAM LAND. WTF MAN

marvelous000:
why do i have an inkling that you're a dude with a hairy blokos. lol. conversely, you also strike me as paid internet agent, employed to spin yarn out of thin air just to elicit engagement and activity on this fora.

Lol... Nope... I have lots of wild stories... Even the one where I left school to spoke weed for the first time with a Nigerian boy I had just met... He threatened to rape me... But I don't regret him...best three days relationship...

Don't think of life as black and white... People aren't simple...why assume our life's are too?

Mtcheew....all this small small girls and their story,

When others are thinking and strategizing about how they will survive the remaining 1 year of buhari Regime,your own na Columbia guys,will Columbia guys reduce the price of cooking gas and spaghetti in the market

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM COLOMBIA. WORLD OF KUSH AND GANGSTER. ABOBI DAT PLACE FOLLOW 4 MY DREAM LAND. WTF MAN

Lol! And this is a few days after I watched a movie on Pablo Escobar!

But my boyfriend is extremely decent.. we've discussed the drugs and cartel.. I pray he's always safe...

But fun fact: Nigerians are the third largest consumers of marijuana...

I feel you're a weed man... I never got high smoking weed...

Cigarettes do it for me... But tried weed once and was bored

theophilusj31:
Mtcheew....all this small small girls and their story,

When others are thinking and strategizing about how they will survive the remaining 1 year of buhari Regime,your own na Columbia guys,will Columbia guys reduce the price of cooking gas and spaghetti in the market

no...he would speak Spanish while I masturbate..

But I respect your hustle to survive the remaining one year.. I didn't vote for Buhari.. I'm allowed to be happy..

Datboredberry:
Lol! And this is a few days after I watched a movie on Pablo Escobar!

But my boyfriend is extremely decent.. we've discussed the drugs and cartel.. I pray he's always safe...

But fun fact: Nigerians are the third largest consumers of marijuana...

I feel you're a weed man... I never got high smoking weed...

Cigarettes do it for me... But tried weed once and was bored

HOLLY GRAM LOLS. I JUST HOPE UR BF IS NOT A GANGSTER OR IN DRUGS.. DOES Gs AR REAL DANGEROUS. WEN IT COMES TO GANGSTER MOVIES, I NEVER SEE WHO ACT AM REACH DOES PEOPLE.. WTF MAN

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM LOLS. I JUST HOPE UR BF IS NOT A GANGSTER OR IN DRUGS.. DOES Gs AR REAL DANGEROUS. WEN IT COMES TO GANGSTER MOVIES, I NEVER SEE WHO ACT AM REACH DOES PEOPLE.. WTF MAN

Lol. He isn't certainly... He complains alot about the drugs... But he's into cars... That's what he's passionate about... He's a sweetheart, I cannot imagine him dealing drugs...

It's sad tho how the cartel take advantage of the young guys there...

Datboredberry:
Lol. He isn't certainly... He complains alot about the drugs... But he's into cars... That's what he's passionate about... He's a sweetheart, I cannot imagine him dealing drugs...

It's sad tho how the cartel take advantage of the young guys there...

OKAY GUD LUCK

Try Afghan men next time. They are patient, romantic and are pacifists.

U are just too over anxious about everything.





Las Las

i926:
Try Afghan men next time. They are patient, romantic and are pacifists.

I've dated a Pakistani... Yasir. Three months until I ruined it... He was perfect... Sorry I don't believe in stereotypes... If not, I would think Nigerian men are nothing but broke scammers.. which they all aren't...

Innobee99:
U are just too over anxious about everything.





Las Las

See me bragging last month that I'm above falling in love...

I'm just so anxious... If he breaks my heart, I'll never trust again...

I don't like happy endings. Wey my nukes abeg? I won scatter everywhere!

SarutobiEky:
I don't like happy endings. Wey my nukes abeg? I won scatter everywhere!

How did I not see that you threatened my relationship...?

I didn't see this comment...