₦airaland Forum

Coly2012:
Oga, be calming down,"watin dey happen for okeke house dey also happen for okafor house," so don't take it personal,I gave my bike guy our cylinder to refill for me while going to work today, because madam insisted that it's gas or nothing,as she use stove to cook on Sunday n yesterday and insisted that it can happen again and me insisted it will continue till forthernotice and after much I non go gree! I non go gree she gave me a subsidy of 1k as support na him be say I buy am todayoooo.
Oga no marriage is completely complete,we just disagree to agree,pls give peace a chance because of ur children, family and future,pls call her to order as the head of the family.

U tolerated your wife does not mean every other man should tolerate nonsense from the wife. This is pure rubbish I must say, imagine the effontry. I can't just imagine telling my wife to use stove for the meantime and she refuse, I can't just imagine that

misterme:
Facebook?? Someone took this to Facebook? I am most surprised. I only wanted to use this faceless forum to vent my frustration and ease the pain my heart. I didn't even think it will go beyond a few views. Na waa o. It is well

-Not Facebook (FB), rather Front-page (FP) (of Nairaland).

-You need assistance and a supportive life partner(another wife). Otherwise; see you, see your early grave!

PDJT:
-Not Facebook (FB), rather Front-page (FP) (of Nairaland).

-You need assistance and a supportive life partner(another wife). Otherwise; see you, see your early grave!

Ok, my mistake.

rottennaija:
Bros, it's world over. The price hike is world over, not just here. This period is when we are beginning to feel the impact of covid19 pandemic, money printing, supply chain disruption, trade sanction by the US against China among other things. I has nothing to say do with buhari.

Oga your mumu never do.. Did you hear of price hike in USA, China, Or even the UK. You should educate yourself. The reason for the price hike is as a result of the tariff imposed on imported gas recently by your darling daddy. For your information we are flaring gas everyday in this Nigeria.

OGHENAOGIE:
allow him to rant like a for nothing... Maybe buhari now fix prices of products...

BMC zombie and their followers spotted.

Pele OP times are hard.

People are barely surviving.

misterme:
And I am very very angry. Gas I used to buy 2800, then 3k, 4k, and 5k. Suddenly it jumped to 7500 and now (today) 9250 in Port Harcourt. I am very very angry. Let no one here disturb me with nonsense news about Buhari and his nonsense South Africa Trade fair and nonsense. No cross me today o. I fit beat person

The gas finished yesterday. I told my wife that yesterday that I will buy the gas today because I needed to get to work and somehow raise money to augment what I have to be able to buy the gas. I told her to use the kerosene stove that yesterday and this morning. Guess her reply? She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.
For the sake of my 3 children I still had to buy the gas today.

I had not eaten in my house for a month now. The reason is that she said that they money I gave her for upkeep in October was not enough (I give her 62.5% of my monthly salary every month for our home upkeep). As a result she refused to give me food from around the middle of the month when she said the money had finished. She cooked for herself and the children (possibly from her own salary). When I gave her upkeep money for this month I told her not bother keeping food for me so that the money will go far enough. That's where we are till now. I have no intention of ever eating her food until she acknowledges that she was wrong and apologizes.

Now I know this WON'T happen. She will rather die than admit she's wrong or apologize. This is why I know that the mistake of a marriage is heading for the rocks and I am ready for it. Nonsense and ingredients. I have endured this nonsense for 15 years. I am done. Anything whe won happen tomorrow, make e happen today.

Oga please calm down ooo no do things the way you will regret but your wife not try at all she be your help meet now, sorry o God forbid bad thing if you lost your job fa? So she won't runs house upkeep with her salary, kai nawa for somewomen now a days o. Well I thanks God these things are happening to Nigerians at least we can reasons well now, 2015 I shout shout nobody is ready to listen even my labour that is a barrister was talking trash them, its good everybody eye clear now

PDJT:
-No problem. As long as you know what you want and that the man you’re replying to already has two wives.

In this economy? Wow

PDJT:
-Not Facebook (FB), rather Front-page (FP) (of Nairaland).

-You need assistance and a supportive life partner(another wife). Otherwise; see you, see your early grave!

He should have known she'd b a difficult helpmeet when she got angry over 4k phone he dashed his cousin but fine face and kini didnt allow him reason well.

Will you keep quiet there!

Do you know why the gas is ever going up?

rottennaija:
Bros, it's world over. The price hike is world over, not just here. This period is when we are beginning to feel the impact of covid19 pandemic, money printing, supply chain disruption, trade sanction by the US against China among other things. I has nothing to say do with buhari.

AutoChick4U:
In this economy? Wow

-Polygamy is even the best in a bad economy. Instead of two households, you have one with three or more adults combining resources and sharing the highs and lows of living in this world. These also mean less demand on the non-existing housing market.

-Polygamy is far much better than single-parenthood that are now destroying western societies with all the pathological consequences. Today, countries like the UK spend more on their welfare state than on any of their economic sector and their national debt is rising like insecurity in Nigeria.

PDJT:
-Polygamy is even the best in a bad economy. Instead of two households, you have one with three or more adults combining resources and sharing the highs and lows of living in this world. These also mean less demand on the non-existing housing market.

-Polygamy is far much better than single-parenthood that are now destroying western societies with all the pathological consequences. Today, countries like the UK spend more on their welfare state than on any of their economic sector and their national debt is rising like insecurity in Nigeria.

When there's peace, its OK. I guess I'll have to agree with you on that fact that its better than single parenthood.

AutoChick4U:
When there's peace, its OK. I guess I'll have to agree with you on that fact that its better than single parenthood.

-There is peace in my home because everyone knew what they were getting into from the beginning- a polygamous home where peace, respect, harmony, and partnership (PR-HP) are the core values, and my wives gets treated with respect and honour- they don’t hide anything from me, and I respect and honour them without hesitation. We try and eat together when everyone is home and we have even had bath together a few times! Nothing to hide in our relationship, and when one is working the other looks after the children and do the school run...etc

-I always advise singles not to shy away from polygamy, and as long as they drop their infantile ego, they will be fine and gets all the protection they need, against the harsh realities of single-parenthood.

rottennaija:
By what measure? They came in to a system that was at least working in some ways. What was working in Nigeria that Buhari came in to see?

I agree. They met working system.
But be honest to yourself, is better than any of the people you mentioned above?
If you say yes which one?

Don't take decision when u are angry, when both of you Re in ground state...pls settle matter amicably..but 62.5% of your salary is not a wise decision...this implies you will be Working for her through out your life.... pls Change Gear..

Drunkdick85:
I agree. They met working system.
But be honest to yourself, is better than any of the people you mentioned above?
If you say yes which one?

My dear, take any of those people and give them Nigeria to govern with its present challenges and see if they will perform any better. Personally, I won't want to be Nigerian President.

fxexperts:
Oga your mumu never do.. Did you hear of price hike in USA, China, Or even the UK. You should educate yourself. The reason for the price hike is as a result of the tariff imposed on imported gas recently by your darling daddy. For your information we are flaring gas everyday in this Nigeria.

BMC zombie and their followers spotted.

God punish you and your entire generation bastard

misterme:
And I am very very angry. Gas I used to buy 2800, then 3k, 4k, and 5k. Suddenly it jumped to 7500 and now (today) 9250 in Port Harcourt. I am very very angry. Let no one here disturb me with nonsense news about Buhari and his nonsense South Africa Trade fair and nonsense. No cross me today o. I fit beat person

The gas finished yesterday. I told my wife that yesterday that I will buy the gas today because I needed to get to work and somehow raise money to augment what I have to be able to buy the gas. I told her to use the kerosene stove that yesterday and this morning. Guess her reply? She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.
For the sake of my 3 children I still had to buy the gas today.

I had not eaten in my house for a month now. The reason is that she said that they money I gave her for upkeep in October was not enough (I give her 62.5% of my monthly salary every month for our home upkeep). As a result she refused to give me food from around the middle of the month when she said the money had finished. She cooked for herself and the children (possibly from her own salary). When I gave her upkeep money for this month I told her not bother keeping food for me so that the money will go far enough. That's where we are till now. I have no intention of ever eating her food until she acknowledges that she was wrong and apologizes.

Now I know this WON'T happen. She will rather die than admit she's wrong or apologize. This is why I know that the mistake of a marriage is heading for the rocks and I am ready for it. Nonsense and ingredients. I have endured this nonsense for 15 years. I am done. Anything whe won happen tomorrow, make e happen today.

Calm down, take it easy! Two wrong can't make a right. In marriage one person has to be a fool, for it to work. Since you seem to be the one that is sensible (supposed f**l), pls for the seek of the children forgive her excesses.
The economy is hard and the devil is taking advantage of it to hit hard on marriages. Hold on, this phase shall pass soon.

OGHENAOGIE:
God punish you and your entire generation bastard

Punish your entire generation. zombie dickhead., bastard Animal.

Dreytonisback:
I have nothing to say relating the gas complaint

My brother @OP
Once your own wife isn't disturbed or pained or having sleepless nights just bc you didn't eat her food and watches you struggle and make scarifies, yet she's not bothered

Bros go do DNA, I use God beg u
If you no get the money tell me we go gather money for you .
Tufiakwa make I sleep for the same room with a woman who's unapologetic

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Op hacken to the voice of this man, this is the best and wisest decision u are to take.

wunmi590:
The begining of your write up was so funny....

That's by the way...

Honestly, please never think of anything divorce, I have lesser experience in marriage, as I'm still new in the marriage world, please never for once think about divorce, as it will also have effect on your children....

Please call your wife and talk to her, explain the situation of things, and I'm sure she would change...

What I hate most in marriage is broken home, as I'm always careful of what I say and what I do at home that would warrant divorce, please, I beg you as the head of the house

So bcs of his children, he should just be dying in silence?
Op abeg this is the worst advice so far, op deserve happiness and joy not sorry and anguish. Op if divorce would give u joy pls do without looking back. Bcs BP drugs are expensive this day and if u die bcs of your wicked and heartless woman wahala, another man go continue fucking her from where u stopped.

I have realized that the only way to survive in Nigeria is to commit crime and enter prison,no how no how u go see food chop

misterme:
You are funny sir. You can't fathom how a man will set aside 62.5% of his monthly income for house keeping alone. Your error lies in the fact that you assume all Nigerians earn huge salaries. No, we all don't.

Let me create a scenario for you. Imagine you had a good job 16 years ago. You worked in the pharmaceutical marketing industry. You earned decent salary. You also had a legitimate way to make extra income while in the field. You had an official car. You met a beautiful young lady in one church program. One thing led to another and 3 years later you two were married.

Less than 2 months after, you realize you have made the greatest mistake of your life. You realize that the person you thought you knew is totally different from the person now living in your house as your wife. Within the first few months of the marriage she ran away a number of times from your house for several days. The marriage almost ended even before the end of the first year of the marriage. The reasons were so flimsy. In fact on one occasion she said she's done with the marriage because I gave my little cousin a small phone of 4k without telling. Note that she was in school then in the North and I was in a city in the South East. I visited my uncle (who mostly trained me in the Uni). His last daughter lost her phone. I just reached out and gave her my second phone after removing my sim. About an hour later my wife called me on that line but couldn't reach me. She later called on my main line. I told I gave my cousin my 4k phone. She was so angry she said she's no longer marrying.

Today I seriously regret not insisting on ending the marriage as she wanted it.

I can go on and on. Catalog of woes for these 15 years. There were some (though few moments) of happiness. That's why we have 3 children.

When Buhari came to power, my company downsized. I was redeployed to where I couldn't work because it will involve telling lies everyday literally. I had some side hustle then. I decided to resign instead of positioning myself for life of lies.
Perhaps that was a mistake. I tried but couldn't get another job. Either the companies needed younger persons or the needed some with MBA in marketing. Both conditions were not in my favour. I only have B.Pharm. I also lost a lot of money on forex trading. I was compelled to take up employment as a superintendent pharmacist in a Community Pharmacy. Ask any pharmacist you know how much community pharmacists who are not owners of the business earn.

You ask how I pay rent and school fees? As a Superintendent Pharmacist I get paid a reasonable amount every January when I preregister the Pharmacy and renew the operational license. This amount takes care of schools for 2nd term and rent. First term and third term schools fees are always a struggle. But God has been faithful, working a number of miracles for us including using family members to help. This is how I have been managing for about 6 years now. My goal is to set up my own Pharmacy early next year. I have been able to get some people to commit to financing it.

I don't have to tell you all these but I am in the mood to write today. Besides it helps to ease the pain the heart.

Everything I wrote earlier is the truth. Forgive the typo errors. I was walking to the Pharmacy where I work when I modified the message and typed the second part of the write. Hence the errors

I know how much a pharmacist in your category earns.
So what about your wife, is she still with u?
I am happy that u are a medical personnel and u know the cost of BP drugs. So u gat to do what u gat to do to make u happy

smasher1:
For a woman that has given you 3 kids, wrong approach.

So he should endure till death bcs of his wife and kids?
this is dumb comment, every hustler deserves happiness and he should not jeopardise his happiness for anything including wife

PROPHETmichael:
She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.

You missed the chance of returning her to her mum in the village and have peace on this day.

Gbamsolutely, when she said it, that was the opportunity it gave op to return her to her mother for proper upbringing.

PDJT:
-No problem. As long as you know what you want and that the man you’re replying to already has two wives.

Confirm Odogwu naha.

misterme:
Ok, my mistake.

Better reason waiting that baba dey tell u now before u join your ancestors, bcs if u join your ancestors another man go continue fucking her where u stopped.
U deserve better than what u are getting from your heartless wife.

fxexperts:
Oga your mumu never do.. Did you hear of price hike in USA, China, Or even the UK. You should educate yourself. The reason for the price hike is as a result of the tariff imposed on imported gas recently by your darling daddy. For your information we are flaring gas everyday in this Nigeria.



BMC zombie and their followers spotted.

Don't mind all these foolish zombies, he was the one asking where he would do boy boy sometime ago

PDJT:
-There is peace in my home because everyone knew what they were getting into from the beginning- a polygamous home where peace, respect, harmony, and partnership (PR-HP) are the core values, and my wives gets treated with respect and honour- they don’t hide anything from me, and I respect and honour them without hesitation. We try and eat together when everyone is home and we have even had bath together a few times! Nothing to hide in our relationship, and when one is working the other looks after the children and do the school run...etc

-I always advise singles not to shy away from polygamy, and as long as they drop their infantile ego, they will be fine and gets all the protection they need, against the harsh realities of single-parenthood.

na to give u TITLE FOR NAIRALAND, I THINK IGWE NKE NBU GA ADI MMA

OGHENAOGIE:
God punish you and your entire generation bastard

HV u finished doing your boy boy

fxexperts:
Punish your entire generation. zombie dickhead., bastard Animal.

thunder fire you and your entire generation bastard God will punish you times 50

is it the price of gas or your wife that is the problem..i don't know