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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by irrefragable: 8:43am On Nov 18, 2021

AfroKnight:

I don’t think you guys understand the Op.

It’s not that he doesn’t want those around him to succeed. No. He just wants his success to be more than theirs. He wants a life where he can be the one who’s magnanimous, helping others and getting the accolades as a chairman.

But this will only exhaust your resources and your mental strength. Na you go tire.

There will always be someone better, richer, stronger and smarter than you. Accept that reality and find happiness in the wins of others. When people around you are winning, take it as a sign that your own win is getting close. Be happy for them.

If someone always wants to be only one that people benefit from, it follows that he or she won't like other people to grow beyond a certain level so they would continue being dependent on him or her, and that is witchcraft, or don't you think so?

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Tomblaize: 8:45am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy

I want to be the giver always

This guy is from a highly dysfunctional family where he is loved only on the condition that he must provide.

His parents, (especially his mother) withholds her LOVE and ATTENTION, and only shows it to the child that provides the most.

It is not your fault that you are this way bro. It is your parents fault.

Your parents are suffering from a mental illness called - Narcissistic Personality Disorder

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by mrdino(m): 8:45am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy

I want to be the giver always

Jealousy is one of the inherent human attributes, but when it goes to a high extent, it becomes witchcraft. It will be hypocritical of me to judge you, because I am not perfect.

My advice:
You can turn this negative energy (of jealousy) into something positive by letting it motivate you to work harder (also prayerfully) and diligently pursue those achievements you envy in others.

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 8:56am On Nov 18, 2021

When I said 90% of NLders are dumb, Seun will become angry.... I went through 1st and 2nd thread, and there was no mention of psychopathy..

Op is obviously suffering from this very condition.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by geokay777(m): 9:07am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.
You're a step closer to becoming a better person, keep doing things for people who can't pay you back.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy

I want to be the giver always

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by xjiggy: 9:10am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy

I want to be the giver always

You're suffering from what is called the Messiah mentality syndrome. Try learning to celebrate others or else it may destroy you in future. Wishing you the best

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 18, 2021

You're a Sadist. And many Nigerians are like you

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 9:17am On Nov 18, 2021

HenryDion:
When I said 90% of NLders are dumb, Seun will become angry.... I went through 1st and 2nd thread, and there was no mention of psychopathy..

Op is obviously suffering from this very condition.

sociopath too. And sadism

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by EkelediliBuhari: 9:25am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy

I want to be the giver always

This is a blessing in disguise

You have an inborn drive to success above peers.. all you have to do is make sure you don’t allow your self to be driven to sabotaging others…

Almost all billionaires are wired this way… driven to success above every one else

Find a purpose/hustle and put all your passion into it… I can guide you through if you need

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by TuFab(f): 9:42am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
Africa reasoning noi pass so.

Oyibo has a better and sexy name for this

You're suffering from the highest form of narcissism plus psychopathy.
You need both psychological and spiritual deliverance.
I hope people close to you can detect your problems and avoid you like the plague that you are.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by excell0001: 9:46am On Nov 18, 2021

youbare not a witch yet atlesst you admit the problem Try and work on yourself

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by gudugudumeje: 9:48am On Nov 18, 2021

YOU DESERVE TO BE HATED. IT IS IN UR FAMILY BLOOD TO DESTROY PEOPLE MAKING Progress. Sadists generation you belong to and the family you come from where you were not exorcised of this evil God will destrny and shatter.

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Onyiiobi7735(m): 9:58am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
yes I want to be better than you.
till I die.

i want You to be under my shadow

Lol! Bleating Hausa goat,you will be under my shadow, because witches belong there.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by bigcee(m): 10:13am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
Don't hate me.

am Just a realist

Realist? Na wa o undecided

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by vikstandon(m): 10:14am On Nov 18, 2021

Reprogramme your mind about what success is.... I told myself growing up that, is better to have everyone around me with bread than be the one dishing out bread... Sometimes it could be a burden... When all around you is well to do, you have less a burden and strife.

The sweet money spending...is the one that doesn't really need to come off your pocket... Homies been able to rally round you when you cough or sneeze... They can't do that if they've got nothing to offer.

Pray to have wealthy people around you with a heart of Gold... It would be hard to tell if you are lacking...this is because the money would course from all angles making you a pool.

While growing up in a family of 5 boys... If we have 4 eatable things to share, I noticed if you give it out to four persons, the one without ends up going with the larger share...what was the brain behind it... the 5th is the Pool...He is happy others are having and ends up greater.

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by bigcee(m): 10:28am On Nov 18, 2021

LollySeaSide:
My best friend is someone exactly like you.
Unfortunately, he hardly lasts two years in a workplace.
I talk to him about his problem at least twice every other week.
Unfortunately, he doesn't see it as a problem.
He thinks he's smart.
Do you also think you are smart?

Narcissism!

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by gidado14(m): 10:30am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy

I want to be the giver always

You need deliverance youre a front table seat in the devils office, if you dont stop hatred will kill you

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Truvelisback(m): 10:33am On Nov 18, 2021

bigcee:
Narcissism!

Not necessarily Narcissism, it could be spiritual problem. A kind of limitation.

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Double0h7(f): 10:35am On Nov 18, 2021

HenryDion:
When I said 90% of NLders are dumb, Seun will become angry.... I went through 1st and 2nd thread, and there was no mention of psychopathy..

Op is obviously suffering from this very condition.

If he was then he wouldn't have this insight into his feelings. Psychopaths are unable to introspect and identify their negative thought patterns. This guy is a healthy youngster who has identified a personality flaw in himself and he has taken the first step to changing.

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by bigcee(m): 10:37am On Nov 18, 2021

You want to be the one helping others?

It's just about your Ego. You want to help others so that it can boost your Ego. Not that you're a kind person or something. I don't keep people like you around me. Make you no go poison my drink undecided

Narcissism.... Bro, f**King Narcissism undecided

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by bigcee(m): 10:39am On Nov 18, 2021

Truvelisback:
Not necessarily Narcissism, it could be spiritual problem. A kind of limitation.

Lol

his problem is f**King psychological. Nothing spiritual. I have a friend like that. I had to set boundaries cool

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by bigcee(m): 10:44am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
i don't want you to be successful and be on top of your game just like me.

i want you to beg me for money

i want to feed you

Your comment speaks alot about you.

Pride, Ego, control, power, attention, dominance, Narcissism. I just dey laugh sha grin

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 10:45am On Nov 18, 2021

Double0h7:
If he was then he wouldn't have this insight into his feelings. Psychopaths are unable to introspect and identify their negative thought patterns. This guy is a healthy youngster who has identified a personality flaw in himself and he has taken the first step to changing.

He's here seeking for help doesn't mean he really need it. Some of the traits of a psychopath is craving for attention for oneself, which is exactly what this post is all about.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by bigcee(m): 10:46am On Nov 18, 2021

HenryDion:
He's here seeking for help doesn't mean he really need it. Some of the traits of a psychopath it's craving for attention for oneself, which is exactly what this post is all about.

May God bless you my brother. You know Dem well grin

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 10:57am On Nov 18, 2021

EkelediliBuhari:
This is a blessing in disguise

You have an inborn drive to success above peers.. all you have to do is make sure you don’t allow your self to be driven to sabotaging others…

Almost all billionaires are wired this way… driven to success above every one else

Find a purpose/hustle and put all your passion into it… I can guide you through if you need

Thanks

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by bigcee(m): 11:01am On Nov 18, 2021

Flier:
99% of the people at the top,I mean successful people has this problem though they don't do evil,they just want to be the best,it's not a serious problem as long as you don't turn it to evil
Even if you don't have it now ,once you get rich you will have the problem,as I said,the feelings last seconds and make sure you don't turn it to evil

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 11:04am On Nov 18, 2021

Flier:
99% of the people at the top,I mean successful people has this problem though they don't do evil,they just want to be the best,it's not a serious problem as long as you don't turn it to evil
Even if you don't have it now ,once you get rich you will have the problem,as I said,the feelings last seconds and make sure you don't turn it to evil

We never turn it to evil.

I just want to be the best at all times

THE NUMBER ONE GUY IN CHARGE

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by SpiritLifeNG: 11:26am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
Lies.

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy.

I want to be the giver always

You're probably a narcissist.check it up

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by merits(m): 11:50am On Nov 18, 2021

That's why you too can't be successful in life.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Don1987(m): 11:59am On Nov 18, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Ps that is witchcraft spirit, pray against it if want to succeed

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy

I want to be the giver always

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Double0h7(f): 12:00pm On Nov 18, 2021

HenryDion:
He's here seeking for help doesn't mean he really need it. Some of the traits of a psychopath is craving for attention for oneself, which is exactly what this post is all about.

Lol. That's another way to look at it but we can't play armchair psychiatrists and diagnose people as psychopaths. I think we should offer solutions to his problems and validate his feelings because we are human and we are prone to negative thoughts and feelings.

People demonizing him would only make it worse.

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Don1987(m): 12:05pm On Nov 18, 2021

That is witchcraft spirit, pray against it if you want to succeed, you may it take it as normal feeling like anyone but
It will take toll on you if you don't stop it now. Don't give the devil chance to rule you, thereby becoming a problem to people in future

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