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Sonnobax15:
So what else is it that guarantee a good married ma'am?

@ will to remain married & one should have pyschological sufficient and always optimistic to apologise/4gives and sacrifices (altruism)

UncleKoboko:
EVEN IF THE MAN IS CHEATING TOO,
MEN DON'T FORGIVE INFIDELITY.

I think so too.

Iyaebe:
Good attitude and behavior can't keep a man that doesn't want to be kept. Statistics proves that 90% of women with good attitude and behavior ends up in a bad marriage.

Some people will just sit down and make up foolish assumption based on a myopic experience and confidently call it statistics...
Mtttttcheeeeewww....
Statistics kor...

Hayee:
The couple's in number 7 fit each other
But sincerely marriage is not easy

Even boy friends and prostitution is not easy. Think of how many times you were hurt. Even in a family there are cracks. Let us not demonise marriage and celebrate prostitution that is an abomination till tomorrow.

Iyaebe:
Marriage is easy abeg,stop the competition and let the care givers give care while the providers provide,its that simple.This is in response to Hayee

Don't mind the immoral generation. As if they are happier in their flirting than the married.

At least, as a pharmacist I can't count the number of singles that have come for counseling due to heart break and mental health thereof.

bdchange:
One thing I am very certain of and I always tell any lady I am involved with is that my happiness comes first. So if I am happy and able to manage my worries while being single. It should even be better when I am Married else what the Bleep am I doing in it.

I hope you find a woman that’s willing to put you first. If everyone were to have your attitude, no marriage will survive.

Olayetan:
This are comments from whites.

If it were to be nigerians

This are the comments you will be seeing.

1, my husband is not the biological father of our children

2, i have 4 different sugar daddies that gives me money for sex

3, I'm sleeping with my husband brother

4, i have 3 baby mamas outside and she doesn't know

5, i used charm/kayamata to hold him down

So on

Weyrey!
Spot on.

It's number 11 for me

If you think you're married and did not marry your wife as a virgin, that marriage is illegitimate and unlawful.

If your woman is already deflowered before you married her, she is someone's else wife not your. You shouldn't pay to take her home because she's not yours.

A woman is your wife only if you marry her a virgin and you yourself deflowered her.

Thank you.

I love my husband and am so happy in our marriage, and I see it lasting for the rest of our lives. But my whole life, I’ve been able to cut ties with people without a second thought; I don’t want to do that with my husband, but the fact that I wouldn't really be bothered if we did end up splitting is troublesome.

This is my greatest fear.

AdaNri1:
I hope you find a woman that’s willing to put you first. If everyone were to have your attitude, no marriage will survive.

You are not getting me. In marriage two becomes one right? Which means she comes first to me and I come first to her. Once both of us understand this arrangement, then there is nothing to worry about. Which means her happiness is paramount to me and mine to her. But in a case where I care about her happiness but she doesn't care about mine. What else am I doing in that marriag. This is my point.

UncleKoboko:
Sex is the highest form of relationship between a man and a woman.
Sex is also like the highest thing women give in a relationship.

When a woman start giving the same sex to multiple people and she's caught, she'll never have her self worth and values again in the sight of her husband or boyfriend.

Another thing is when your man learns about your past whoring life... He'll take revenge on you for what you did even when he's not in your life....

BODYCOUNT SAYS A LOT ABOUT A WOMAN'S PERSONALITY.


Women also likes taking revenge on men for cheating by cheating too. When women do this, it's better they keep it a secret and never let themselves to be caught.
Taking revenge on a man by cheating and still keeping the man is extremely dangerous. It's like fighting a battle you can never win especially if the man is in good form too. In your decline, he'll take his revenge and na woman go suffer pass.

THIS IS THE MAJOR THING CAUSING PROBLEM IN MANY MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIP TODAY.

You are not totally right though. A virgin raped will not be killed but rather, the rapist will be killed. For adulterers, both will die.

petite626:
amin ooo JESU

♥️

bjcole:
Marriage doesn't need two people to make it work, most successful marriages you see there happened because one individual decided to make it work and often it's the woman, sometimes the man too.

If this is true why then some very and highly successful people can't make their marriage work the way they handle their businesses successfully? I will tell you the answer, which is because the success of the marriage doesn't lie with them. It is dependent on both parties. If you still don't get why it involve the two parties I will give you another point.

I wish to write my own but I will not. Marriage no be beans o.

4,7 and 10 are mind blogging.. marriage is the deepest form of human.(An institution where no one can graduate from,it an institution where no best grades for spouses or excellent remarks..it an institution that give rooms for many carryovers) So deep that no man can explain it..

It full of secrecy lax with scuttle love.. you can't be too careful to be heartbroken..

These secret are the ones they will ever go down with if some don't get to know..

There's no joy in reading this cos it brings more suspense and fear for those who are yet to get into it..

For every gadmn day I see more reason I shouldn't involve myself in the prison yard called marriage, I can never.
Baby mama is bae

bdchange:
You are not getting me. In marriage two becomes one right? Which means she comes first to me and I come first to her. Once both of us understand this arrangement, then there is nothing to worry about. Which means her happiness is paramount to me and mine to her. But in a case where I care about her happiness but she doesn't care about mine. What else am I doing in that marriag. This is my point.

Ok, I agree with that. That’s exactly what a couple should do. Anyone not willing to put their spouse first should think about being single.

Iyaebe:
A good marriage is highly dependent on the manboth parties with some good atrributes like uprightness, faithfulness, firm grip,totally in charge and very good core family values.Men with this attributes find it easy to control their homes and tame their wives to their satisfactions.You can't be faulty as a man and expect to have a good home,I'm not ruling out flaws as no one is perfect but marriage demands a lot from both parties hence the reason it is advisable to work on our major flaws before thinking marriage.

There is no actual manual to having a successful marriage. Keeping a Healthy marriages isn’t dependent on the man alone, it’s a two-way thing.If couples Be good in your deed, not one mischievous and the other be good, no.it won’t work
Do what is right as an individual while hoping your partner play their own part accordingly.
In all, for marriage to work, both parties must put in the work.
Shalom

Jonathan:
I think the most secret married people keep from eachother and the world revolves round INFIDELITY.
Infidelity is the major reason why marriages don't work and eventually crashes.

No man in his right sense can tolerate their wife cheating or imagine another man having sex with their wife.

No man usually also forgive that act.

Infidelity, bad attitude and poverty are the major enemies of marriage

UncleKoboko:
Sex is the highest form of relationship between a man and a woman.
Sex is also like the highest thing women give in a relationship.

When a woman start giving the same sex to multiple people and she's caught, she'll never have her self worth and values again in the sight of her husband or boyfriend.

Another thing is when your man learns about your past whoring life... He'll take revenge on you for what you did even when he's not in your life....

BODYCOUNT SAYS A LOT ABOUT A WOMAN'S PERSONALITY.


Women also likes taking revenge on men for cheating by cheating too. When women do this, it's better they keep it a secret and never let themselves to be caught.
Taking revenge on a man by cheating and still keeping the man is extremely dangerous. It's like fighting a battle you can never win especially if the man is in good form too. In your decline, he'll take his revenge and na woman go suffer pass.i

THIS IS THE MAJOR THING CAUSING PROBLEM IN MANY MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIP TODAY.

Brother man ..... Body count says alot about ladies....if your body count as a lady don pass three before your marriage...you likely to cheat esp if your husband isn't good in bed....

At worst your hubby should be your third...

Iyaebe:
A good marriage is highly dependent on the man with some good atrributes like uprightness, faithfulness, firm grip,totally in charge and very good core family values.Men with this attributes find it easy to control their homes and tame their wives to their satisfactions.You can't be faulty as a man and expect to have a good home,I'm not ruling out flaws as no one is perfect but marriage demands a lot from both parties hence the reason it is advisable to work on our major flaws before thinking marriage.

Now THIS!!!!!!!
makes a lot of sense

What's the dark secret in all that.. Ok mine is when I was 2yrs old mom use to wear me pampas.. it's a secret that I have hidden from my wife since we got married..

My brother I don't think so, I think the best kept secret by married couple is the fact that many still regret marrying who they call their wife or hubby. Given a second chance many married people will not remarry who they call their wives today. Fact is That many are still in their marriage simply because of their kids.

Jonathan:
I think the most secret married people keep from eachother and the world revolves round INFIDELITY.
Infidelity is the major reason why marriages don't work and eventually crashes.

No man in his right sense can tolerate their wife cheating or imagine another man having sex with their wife.

No man usually also forgive that act.

Oga forget AMEN this and that, marriage is some hard work, tolerance, anger management, forgiveness sometimes even regrets. It's more of practical than prayer matter. after all prayer without good work is a dead ass

nesgeeek:
I shall never regret that I am married. Amen.

Jonathan:
I think the most secret married people keep from eachother and the world revolves round INFIDELITY.
Infidelity is the major reason why marriages don't work and eventually crashes.

No man in his right sense can tolerate their wife cheating or imagine another man having sex with their wife.

No man usually also forgive that act.

By no man, are u referring to both genders?

Cos its harder for women.

Saintmary:
Now THIS!!!!!!!
makes a lot of sense

I have sense,I just enjoy going astray most times with my comments.

Iyaebe:
You should be same age with my last born,I'll be turning 65 by December 14th.

Lol

Benitoh:
If you think you're married and did not marry your wife as a virgin, that marriage is illegitimate and unlawful.

If your woman is already deflowered before you married her, she is someone's else wife not your. You shouldn't pay to take her home because she's not yours.

A woman is your wife only if you marry her a virgin and you yourself deflowered her.

Thank you.

If we are to follow that your rules, so many men will remain unmarried like forever o

Iyaebe:
I have sense,I just enjoy going astray most times with my comments.

Buhahahahaha.

Just keep doing you.

No15? I need a clearer picture.