Jonathan:
I think the most secret married people keep from eachother and the world revolves round INFIDELITY.
Infidelity is the major reason why marriages don't work and eventually crashes.

No man in his right sense can tolerate their wife cheating or imagine another man having sex with their wife.


No man usually also forgive that act.
YOU ARE SO RIGHT BRO

Labadi69:


All this work wey una dey talk up and down. Na by force to marry? Anyone that looks at marriage like work is only marrying because of society.

Marriage is not compulsory in these modern days abeg. If you as a man wan nack, find okpo or all these Instagram girls of nowadays wey go nack you collect money. To cook, go restaurant or find better cook and pay am. To clean and wash clothes, get a maid and pay am well. You want kids, give one nice rich girl bele and voila, you can just stay at home and be resting well while she raises the child.

Marriage is not compulsory in the modern world abeg.

BestRicePlug28:
Marriage is not easy abeg, who wants to marry now, come let's marry make babies and grow old. Just mind your business let me mind mine.

bdchange:
One thing I am very certain of and I always tell any lady I am involved with is that my happiness comes first. So if I am happy and able to manage my worries while being single. It should even be better when I am Married else what the Bleep am I doing in it.

bdchange:
One thing I am very certain of and I always tell any lady I am involved with is that my happiness comes first. So if I am happy and able to manage my worries while being single. It should even be better when I am Married else what the Bleep am I doing in it.

Divoc19:
This is the only way a marriage will last for ever. It's not all about dominance.
Up you sis

IamAsiri:


You are not totally right though. A virgin raped will not be killed but rather, the rapist will be killed. For adulterers, both will die.

UncleKoboko:

So what does this have with secrets, cheating and getting caught?

Use your brain nau

Iyaebe:
You should be same age with my last born,I'll be turning 65 by December 14th.

killmods:
Oshey sugar mummy

Iyaebe:
I think I know u, can you show me your face

killmods:

Lol.. me show face on Nairaland.. Lmao

Iyaebe:
Why are you all especially guys on this forum always hiding yourselves, why?

Iyaebe:
Good attitude and behavior can't keep a man that doesn't want to be kept. Statistics proves that 90% of women with good attitude and behavior ends up in a bad marriage.

bdchange:
One thing I am very certain of and I always tell any lady I am involved with is that my happiness comes first. So if I am happy and able to manage my worries while being single. It should even be better when I am Married else what the Bleep am I doing in it.

bdchange:

If this is true why then some very and highly successful people can't make their marriage work the way they handle their businesses successfully? I will tell you the answer, which is because the success of the marriage doesn't lie with them. It is dependent on both parties. If you still don't get why it involve the two parties I will give you another point.

SeriouslySense:
It's still not a healthy marriage, for one person to continually give positivity and grace (caring energy) to the relationship, and the other person is not bothered, because that can eventually drain the person out, and eventually both parties become toxic or resentful.

Right because on the worse day or when a person is down, they need their partner to believe in he/her, even when they don't believe in themselves.

Labadi69:


All this work wey una dey talk up and down. Na by force to marry? Anyone that looks at marriage like work is only marrying because of society.

Marriage is not compulsory in these modern days abeg. If you as a man wan nack, find okpo or all these Instagram girls of nowadays wey go nack you collect money. To cook, go restaurant or find better cook and pay am. To clean and wash clothes, get a maid and pay am well. You want kids, give one nice rich girl bele and voila, you can just stay at home and be resting well while she raises the child.

Marriage is not compulsory in the modern world abeg.

bjcole:


You are absolutely correct, however, not everyone would get it right in marriage. And that didn't means you have to still keep doing trials again to get it right. The day an individual decides to make his or her marriage works. He or she would go extra miles. It's not easy, it's sacrifice, but it worths it eventually.

Goldie16:
It's number 11 for me