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NovesaTillie:
The good book says it is better to live in a house with leaking roof than living with a nag.

Hitting your wife in any form for any reasons makes you an abuser and a violent person. Like how will you even think of hitting her is she your child?
Let me tell you something my father said, women are like children and children are ignorant of many things. The best way to instill discipline and command respect in your home as the man of the house is through psychological means, actions like not eating her food, sleeping on the same bed with her but never having sex with her, silent treatment. These things melt any woman to either show remorse because she doesn't know you next actions or expose her true character and you can end the marriage.




Hitting a woman is like beating a child.
The first time Will definitely scare her, second time she will see you like a beast and the next time it happens she will begin to formulate defence mechanisms. If you are unlucky she will kill you by poisoning.

What you wrote here makes a lot of sense.

Nahunger:
I understand the frustration a man can face due to pressure from work, extended family, peer pressure and other forms of issues which could fall in the range of financial, religious, promiscuous (women) colleagues at work and all that.

It's more disturbing when the man comes home after the days work hoping to find peace only to be greeted with a nagging woman and an ungrateful wife who seizes every opportunity to complain, bring up issues at every slight opportunity.

I do not subscribe to hitting a women but sometimes this cruel and vile rage crawls up to give her a resounding slap, which I strongly over come due to my descipline and principles.

I see some other men flare up in rage and beat their wife this in turn makes their wife fear and respect them unlike what is obtainable with me..

Please guys does hitting your wife when she errs makes one a man who is in total control of his home?

There are ways men can beat their wives without touching them. Women want their husbands love and attention so use psychological means to punish her. First find out if she is angry with you because of something, someone might have given her a wrong information, jealousy can make some women behaviour fun.

If you discover your wife is misbehaving weird for no reason, play some games with her feelings to bring her back to order, you can go and stay in a friend's house for sometimes, she will assume that you are seeing somebody else and she will be calling people to beg you. You can ask the same people she call to advice her on how to be a good wife.

Have vowed never to hit a woman,Na only shout I fit shout for her that one alone self go send better signal say I no dey happy at all

chinchonglee:
So if the woman hits me first and i retaliate, it makes me a coward?

You guys have given women so much power to frustrate men. The society support women even when they are clearly at fault. Bunch of simps

I wrote from personal stance, I didn't make my stance a standard.
Personally, I can't imagine battering women like wrestling a fellow man? It's pure stupidity.
I rather invest the energy on something productive.
If I have given women power as you purported, I won't be a divorcee.
The joke is on your foolishness.

Any man that beats his wife is a big fool it can make you a man instead it will bring down your respect and also any woman tha beats her husband is a fool.

ugwumichael:
That's why I used the word "some".

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Anyone who descend into physical maltreatment for whatever reason in a relationship does not deserve to be one to begin with.

Anyone who stays in a relationship of physical abuse is suffering from lack of self appreciation and lack good self esteem

stanliwise:
Anyone who descend into physical maltreatment for whatever reason in a relationship does not deserve to be one to begin with.

Anyone who stays in a relationship of physical abuse is suffering from lack of self appreciation and lack good self esteem

Aptly put