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When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Interesting15: 6:30am On Nov 28, 2021
It is not uncommon seeing women who are always complaining about how they keep meeting men that are only interested in sleeping with them. In fact, some women now thinks there are no responsible men out there that still have full control over themselves and don't fornicate or commit adultery (or other immoral acts)

If you are a single lady who has been dumped by several guys because of your no-sex-till-marriage stance, and you are now getting tired (or about to compromise), this message is meant to strengthen you not to settle for less, and not to allow any guy make you sin against God your Creator.

What God has instructed is that sexual pleasures should only be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution. So, if you have made a decision to honour Jesus with your life (and body) by adhering to His commandments, then you should not allow anyone make you feel sorry for your purity stance, and you should not allow anyone push you off the path of sexual purity.

Many ladies do ask, "why do I keep meeting men that want sex before marriage?".. The answer is simple: "You keep meeting men who are ungodly and without the fear of God"

I can assure you that there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honouring God with their bodies. When I say God-fearing men, I'm talking about men that have made Jesus Christ their Lord and Savior, and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. In fact, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be

I see some ladies today living anyhow they want and will always say, 'I want a God-fearing man' (or will always complain that all the men coming to them are only irresponsible sex-chasers). Well, likes will always attract likes. A born again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives anyhow (indulge in acts contrary to God's Will).

Therefore, to attract a God-fearing born again Christian, you must be a guniune child of God too (God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship). So, you must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior and start living a life devoid of sin and iniquity. Focus on serving God in spirit and in truth, and He knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man that will ensure you have a joyful marriage

Please, don't compromise your purity stance. I know you are getting older and many of your mates are already married. But listen to me, God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. You are facing those temptation because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he could to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Men that are disturbing you for sex are majorly agents of satan that were sent to ruin your life. Please, don't allow them. If you are currently in a sinful relationship where you and the guy are already indulging in immoral activities, quit the relationship immediately, and ask God for forgiveness.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Interesting15: 6:31am On Nov 28, 2021
This is a generation where God is raising women (especially young women) that He will grant great authority and power to enact great influence in various spheres and sectors, with the aim of bringing Glory to His Name and establishing the Kingdom of God on earth. Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Worship God in spirit and in truth through Jesus Christ our Lord.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Emvico34: 6:32am On Nov 28, 2021
True talk. Op u nailed it. God will not give his children to the ungodly ones. You will always reap what you sow. You can't eat your cake and still have it

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Interesting15: 6:37am On Nov 28, 2021
Listen to me all women out there. One of the core reasons why most randy men feel they have a right to using your body as pleasure satisfying tool, is because they think you don't have any other thing to bring to the table apart from your body. Hence, it is necessary to get yourself empowered. Now, talking about empowerment, I'm not just talking about financial empowerment (because there are still many 'rich' ladies out there who still present their bodies as an immoral pleasure-satisfying-tool ). I'm however talking about True and Divine Empowerment. The empowerment of the Spirit, Soul and Body. How can you experience this?

It's simply by having an eternal relationship and communion with God through Jesus Christ His Son. When you surrender your life to Christ in truth, that's when you can have dominion over everything God created (spiritually and physically).

You will get to discover your purpose (the role God wants you to play in life). And He will help bring up resources needed to live a quality and fulfilled life (discovering your talents, getting busy with your vision, etc). This is True and Divine Empowerment. Hence, GENUINELY give your life to Christ, and embrace Him as Lord and Savior. Simply call upon the Name of the LORD, and you will be saved.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Interesting15: 6:38am On Nov 28, 2021
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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Sunmolar(m): 6:52am On Nov 28, 2021
There are girls or agents of seduction in the world too,who aim at distorting the destiny of innocent boys too. In the guise of dating or courtship they initiate & trap children of God with premarital sex without demands. Resisting them requires a lot of grace & discipline due to the curiosity of ' I never taste this fruits before by her prey.'

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by DropsMic(m): 8:09am On Nov 28, 2021
Yawn

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by nextBIGthing: 9:55am On Nov 28, 2021
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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Fyie: 9:56am On Nov 28, 2021
I can't read through...but I sha know the post is about women.

These particular creatures are on earth to destroy men, and men can't do without them.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by NwaAmaikpe: 9:56am On Nov 28, 2021
shocked



Don't let these preachers decieve you.
Even the Bible warns in Songs Of Solomon 8:4, "Do not arouse or awaken love, Until it is it's time.”

The Bible knows that once you've tasted sex, you must always crave for it; and because water will always find it's level, you must yield to that craving either with your own hands or through the help of another.

Life is simple abeg, we must not let hypocrites make it any complex for us.

If you are conjied, and you see someone who is willing to help you out, please don't think twice before spreading your legs.
For every leg you close, there are over 5 girls willing to spread the same legs for that man.
So use your kpekus to your advantage.

That's why good girls marry late and wrongly while the bad girls never run out of suitors and have better husbands; because they don't attach so much value to what men value in women.

The same pastor who tells you not to fornicate before marriage is shagging the chorister.
The same pastor will not tell you that your sexual performance can determine the future of that relationship, if it will end as a one-time fling or a forever thing.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by BigSarah(f): 9:56am On Nov 28, 2021
Sex before marriage is not a sin, if I'm lying ask Mary mother Of Jesus...

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by GboyegaD(m): 9:56am On Nov 28, 2021
If you are genuine of your intentions, then walk the walk. You can't keep dressing inappropriately and think he doesn't have a right to think about you as a tool for sexual pleasure.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by FutureIsFemale(f): 9:57am On Nov 28, 2021
ALL MEN WANT SEX. What are you saying?

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by TinubuGoQuench(f): 9:57am On Nov 28, 2021
Forget plenty talk. Sex is part of human existence whether married or not. Religion is a scam.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by WeedAddict: 9:57am On Nov 28, 2021
As the lady has only tótó to offer nko?? grin

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by PandoraObi: 9:57am On Nov 28, 2021
When you dress like a prostitute you attract dogs, the way you dress is the way you are addressed, people look at you, your utterances, attitude, your posture before approaching you

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by 88natzy(m): 9:57am On Nov 28, 2021
I don't have any advice to give.
The spinsterhood has no pattern. Good girls are single while bad ones are getting married every Saturday.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by tiswell(m): 9:57am On Nov 28, 2021
That's when you have a very fiery and jealous spiritual husband grin

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by ImoleNaija: 9:58am On Nov 28, 2021
The only way to avoid sex is avoiding romantic relationship.

If you're truly spiritual & godfearing as you claim, it wouldn't be hard for God to show you your right partner even if it would only take you 1-month courtship before marriage.

Pitifully, some girls want no-sex-relationship because they think they are now old enough to get married, so they want their kpetus to have some rest before the last man comes.

If you're a virgin girl or boy & want no sex, stay away from romantic r/ship, I mean bf & gf stuff.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by playapayaski: 9:58am On Nov 28, 2021
Hmm

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by sofeo(m): 9:59am On Nov 28, 2021
It's alright.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Ernerstdavid55(m): 9:59am On Nov 28, 2021
grin dat picture is dat u ,ur fine o

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Vnnapoo: 9:59am On Nov 28, 2021
Ok
Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Dottore: 9:59am On Nov 28, 2021
The truth is that the primary interest of every man in most male and female relationship is sex. yes we all want sex. Every other thing is secondary.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by bcomputer101: 9:59am On Nov 28, 2021
Ladies use your brain ooo. 98% of guys nowadays won't buy no-testing vehicle.



Most of these pastors preaching "no sex before marriage" didn't even marry as a virgin but they will be the first to judge you.

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Vnnapoo: 9:59am On Nov 28, 2021
Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by iLoveYouToo(m): 10:00am On Nov 28, 2021
Premarital sex is the least of mankind’s problems


Let's focus on the basics, let’s discourage lying, stealing and cheating

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by JADEK04: 10:00am On Nov 28, 2021
Interesting15:
This is a generation where God is raising women (especially young women) that He will grant great authority and power to enact great influence in various spheres and sectors, with the aim of bringing Glory to His Name and establishing the Kingdom of God on earth. Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Worship God in spirit and in truth through Jesus Christ our Lord.you are bless

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Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by matm: 10:01am On Nov 28, 2021
And when you meet ladies and girls who need sex and want to lure u to bed by all means but u don't want them, what do you do? In your place of work,school,yard etc but u don't want b/c u don't want to dent ur image or don't like them .
Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by JADEK04: 10:01am On Nov 28, 2021
Interesting15:
This is a generation where God is raising women (especially young women) that He will grant great authority and power to enact great influence in various spheres and sectors, with the aim of bringing Glory to His Name and establishing the Kingdom of God on earth. Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Worship God in spirit and in truth through Jesus Christ our Lord
You are bless

Re: When You Only Meet Men That Only Want Sex by Carlylepneuma: 10:01am On Nov 28, 2021
U get addressed in accordance to ur dresses... U attract wt u are so ladies dt feel they are been treated in such a way that they don't appreciate well they should change their circle, mindset, and approach toward life entirely....

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