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there is a girl i love but my parents don't love her,, we both love each other but we quarrel alot,, families set in and we separated,, i traveled and we settled why i was there but later she traveled too,, i am now in naija nut we still cuminacate, she said she can never leave me,, she has a child fir me already andnshe is coming back soon,, i still love her,, is it advicable to still go ahead with the relationship or forget her?.. still till jow i try to love another gal but it not working and this gal in particular,, we have made blood oath

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Learn to be with a woman without impregnating her whn you're not ready.

MufasaLion:
Learn to be with a woman without impregnating her whn you're not ready.

i was ready and we both planned it,, did you even read my oost well

johnsonmartina6:
i was ready and we both planned it,, did you even read my oost well

You never said you were ready. You never said you planned it. All you said was that you were in a relationship.

Anyways, the blood oath you took is nothing. Don't let that put fear in you.

MufasaLion:
You never said you were ready. You never said you planned it. All you said was that you were in a relationship.

Anyways, the blood oath you took is nothing. Don't let that put fear in you.

thanks blood,, but i really love this girl,, but my family refuse to accept,, what should i do

johnsonmartina6:
thanks blood,, but i really love this girl,, but my family refuse to accept,, what should i do

Sincerely, if it were to be me, I ain't gonna care too much about my family's acceptance especially if they are being selfish with their interest. I don't know if you are a residing abroad and only came home for short time, I would suggest you marry her and take your woman abroad since you are obsessed and claim to be inlove with her.

Also, if you take the suggestion I give above, you should be ready for the consequences. You must know your family have your interest at heart even though they would be selfish with it. It's advisable to sit them down and discuss with them.

YOU SHOULD MARRY WHOEVER YOU WANT AS LONG AS IT'S THE PERSON YOU WANT, AND YOU BOTH UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER IN ALL ASPECT. DONT LET YOUR FAMILY DECIDE WHO YOU MARRY, YOU MIGHT REGERT IT.

Please don't put her into everlasting bandage since your parents don't like her, she might encounter troubles in future, let her go.

Both of you did blood oath?

Which kind mumu men God take punish this generation?

Na wa to you op . Well,if you still love her,why not go ahead and settle things up with her.... Because las las,na you wear the shoe...So na only you fit tell the exact place where e take dey pain you..

I ran out of advise when I saw blood oath. Be like small pikin relationship

johnsonmartina6:
i was ready and we both planned it,, did you even read my oost well

You were ready for what exactly? A child or a relationship together? Cause if you were ready then for a life together, you would not now be here asking us any of this now , would you?

You both even went as far as blood oath but not marriage? I don't get it.