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I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by bbyby01: 8:31pm On Jul 12, 2019
I started seeing this girl 5 weeks back. I had this feeling she is the one. I know she loves me. I know she might also be involved with some other guys but I feel she needs time to end them.
this evening, I don't know what led me to check her messages and what i saw mehn...
One message was like "baby sorry I wont be able to come this evening again. Let the food be another time"

And another was asking her why she had to terminate his baby. All were sent on the same day to her.
And to add, I tried to quit her last week over some related issues. Even her friends were calling me to beg that she isn't eating, etc.



Please guys I need advice. What should a brother do?
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by MJBOLT: 8:35pm On Jul 12, 2019
i believe you are dating a PUBLIC LIABILITY COMPANY,confront her with what you know and japa.

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by catwalq(f): 8:40pm On Jul 12, 2019
Confront her with you know,and if she tries to get angry at you for going through her phone,don't fall for it. She wants to curve the issue at hand.

Let her response inform your decision.

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by vingeophysicist(m): 8:52pm On Jul 12, 2019
she is a real player.

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Sanemind(m): 8:53pm On Jul 12, 2019
bbyby01:
I started seeing this girl 5 weeks back. I had this feeling she is the one. I know she loves me. I know she might also be involved with some other guys but I feel she needs time to end them.
this evening, I don't know what led me to check her messages and what i saw mehn...
One message was like "baby sorry I wont be able to come this evening again. Let the food be another time"

And another was asking her why she had to terminate his baby. All were sent on the same day to her.
And to add, I tried to quit her last week over some related issues. Even her friends were calling me to beg that she isn't eating, etc.



Please guys I need advice. What should a brother do?
Be a man and quit that r/ship in a healthy way,so that nobody will drink snipper

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Cioccolata: 8:54pm On Jul 12, 2019
It's the same story for every Nigerian girl.
You wouldn't meet anyone decent. Pray for her.

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by spongeisback: 9:10pm On Jul 12, 2019
Women are polygamous in nature. At least she calls you and makes you happy. A woman can have sex with other guys without falling in love with them, but since she's remorseful please forgive her. You know they're more men then women don't be greedy.

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by bbyby01: 9:26pm On Jul 12, 2019
spongeisback:
Women are polygamous in nature. At least she calls you and makes you happy. A woman can have sex with other guys without falling in love with them, but since she's remorseful please forgive her. You know they're more men then women don't be greedy.
Seriously?
I'm serious here please
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by spongeisback: 9:48pm On Jul 12, 2019
Yes I am serious too. Just pray for her.
bbyby01:

Seriously?
I'm serious here please

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by palmshots: 10:34pm On Jul 12, 2019
Guy play along, chop ur own comot
save thysef some future heartbreak

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Lonestar124: 10:38pm On Jul 12, 2019
Funny her friends said she is not eating and you take it serious, sorry that has been the trick women used to delude guilible men.

If there is one thing a man should learn is to fellow his instinct always and before you make a decision you have capture pros and cons of if in your mind without people views....keep strait to your decision and do not conceal your feeling with people emotion it will mar you.

As for me you make a good decision like who want to date or marry a woman that have committed abortion, thank your angel for revealing her secret which many ladies will never open up to thier partner no matter the pressure..As a result of numerous abortion committed many girls of generation are walking with damage womb shame!

I always advice my unmarried friends to impregnant thier partner before paying the brideprice.......my sperm will not be functional and my wife will be carrying empty miscarriage sack womb because of her dirty lifestyle and some people
will cannote i might be suffering from low sperm count never! i can't endure the trauma please.....

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by bbyby01: 6:46am On Jul 13, 2019
Lonestar124:
Funny her friends said she is not eating and you take it serious, sorry that has been the trick women used to delude guilible men.

If there is one thing a man should learn is to fellow his instinct always and before you make a decision you have capture pros and cons of if in your mind without people views....keep strait to your decision and do not conceal your feeling with people emotion it will mar you.

As for me you make a good decision like who want to date or marry a woman that have committed abortion, thank your angel for revealing her secret which many ladies will never open up to thier partner no matter the pressure..As a result of numerous abortion committed many girls of generation are walking with damage womb shame!

I always advice my unmarried friends to impregnant thier partner before paying the brideprice.......my sperm will not be functional and my wife will be carrying empty miscarriage sack womb because of her dirty lifestyle and some people
will cannote i might be suffering from low sperm count never! i can't endure the trauma please.....
thanks dude

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by dayleke: 6:47am On Jul 13, 2019
vingeophysicist:
she is a real player.

Even na MVP sef. grin

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by dayleke: 6:57am On Jul 13, 2019
embarassed
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Quality20(m): 6:58am On Jul 13, 2019
just Marry like that she gonna change

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by J4JUVENTUS(m): 9:29am On Jul 13, 2019
Cioccolata:
It's the same story for every Nigerian girl.
You wouldn't meet anyone decent. Pray for her.
Not true... Check well boss... And again,prayer can't save a nyph na..... He should just leave her..... She go get sense las las ,wen all d guys discovers she is a cheat and leaves her...

Evening news paper loading...
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by luvyaself95(m): 9:56am On Jul 13, 2019
What advice do you need again when you already get one from the girl...

Bottom line >> terminate everything you have for her...

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Jaqenhghar: 10:01am On Jul 13, 2019
bbyby01:
I started seeing this girl 5 weeks back. I had this feeling she is the one. I know she loves me. I know she might also be involved with some other guys but I feel she needs time to end them.
this evening, I don't know what led me to check her messages and what i saw mehn...
One message was like "baby sorry I wont be able to come this evening again. Let the food be another time"

And another was asking her why she had to terminate his baby. All were sent on the same day to her.
And to add, I tried to quit her last week over some related issues. Even her friends were calling me to beg that she isn't eating, etc.



Please guys I need advice. What should a brother do?

Its not for people but for you. If you don't wamt a relationship no be by force. Forget all this crying. In 2 weeks time she will be fine. As you can see she has lots of me on the side

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Nobody: 10:15am On Jul 13, 2019
Quality20:
just Marry like that she gonna change
exactly my thought. no one is perfect
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by ThisCouldBeUs: 11:13am On Jul 13, 2019
There are still decent ladies, though few.
Cioccolata:
It's the same story for every Nigerian girl.
You wouldn't meet anyone decent. Pray for her.
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by flexxyworld(m): 11:21am On Jul 13, 2019
Just for the records.. guys don't breakup or quit, we just ghost. but was there too confront again, you know better. so its your decision too make, either stay or go but don't ever think you can change her, so if you staying be sure you can endure and not get so jealous and in case you wanna bounce, this life is too short and you only live ones.. The end

from a dear brother

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by flexxyworld(m): 11:25am On Jul 13, 2019
Cioccolata:
It's the same story for every Nigerian girl.
You wouldn't meet anyone decent. Pray for her.

bros haba fear God na. . have you met every Nigerian Girl before making this conclusion?? you sef need prayer join..
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by bbyby01: 11:50am On Jul 13, 2019
flexxyworld:
Just for the records.. guys don't breakup or quit, we just ghost. but was there too confront again, you know better. so its your decision too make, either stay or go but don't ever think you can change her, so if you staying be sure you can endure and not get so jealous and in case you wanna bounce, this life is too short and you only live ones.. The end

from a dear brother
"Just ghost"
I love the sound of that. Thanks brodah
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Godsfavour78: 1:06pm On Jul 13, 2019
Cioccolata:
It's the same story for every Nigerian girl.
You wouldn't meet anyone decent. Pray for her.
i guess you speaking for your sisters and family members,friends and the kind of girls you roll with wink
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Godsfavour78: 1:10pm On Jul 13, 2019
flexxyworld:


bros haba fear God na. . have you met every Nigerian Girl before making this conclusion?? you sef need prayer join..
that guy just disappointed me. I saw him make a very intelligent comment on another thread and was amazed only to see this dumb comment here. No one is perfect sha.
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jul 13, 2019
Lonestar124:
Funny her friends said she is not eating and you take it serious, sorry that has been the trick women used to delude guilible men.

If there is one thing a man should learn is to fellow his instinct always and before you make a decision you have capture pros and cons of if in your mind without people views....keep strait to your decision and do not conceal your feeling with people emotion it will mar you.

As for me you make a good decision like who want to date or marry a woman that have committed abortion, thank your angel for revealing her secret which many ladies will never open up to thier partner no matter the pressure..As a result of numerous abortion committed many girls of generation are walking with damage womb shame!

I always advice my unmarried friends to impregnant thier partner before paying the brideprice.......my sperm will not be functional and my wife will be carrying empty miscarriage sack womb because of her dirty lifestyle and some people
will cannote i might be suffering from low sperm count never! i can't endure the trauma please.....
lol
Im very unpredictable and cunny....see,I will play along while I express my anger.

Infact all my ex do think I'm coming back 2dem bcoz of d way I always end mine.

#Wisdom is d principal tin

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Glory147: 2:02pm On Jul 13, 2019
bbyby01:
I started seeing this girl 5 weeks back. I had this feeling she is the one. I know she loves me. I know she might also be involved with some other guys but I feel she needs time to end them.
this evening, I don't know what led me to check her messages and what i saw mehn...
One message was like "baby sorry I wont be able to come this evening again. Let the food be another time"

And another was asking her why she had to terminate his baby. All were sent on the same day to her.
And to add, I tried to quit her last week over some related issues. Even her friends were calling me to beg that she isn't eating, etc.



Please guys I need advice. What should a brother do?

Just Quit The Relationship In The Most Peaceful Way That You Can.... I Am Talking From Experience, If You Don't Quit It Now, I Promise You That You Will Regret It.
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by carter009(m): 2:22pm On Jul 13, 2019
He is saying they truth.
Godsfavour78:
i guess you speaking for your sisters and family members,friends and the kind of girls you roll with wink
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Godsfavour78: 2:39pm On Jul 13, 2019
carter009:
He is saying they truth.
that's your truth not mine.

You can speak for yourselves. No need to genaralize. I myself have met far more bad than good. But I would be a big fool and liar to agree with him.
Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Athiefku: 3:17pm On Jul 13, 2019
These games are for 2 players.

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:45pm On Jul 13, 2019
wink....... cheesy funny one!
spongeisback:
Women are polygamous in nature. At least she calls you and makes you happy. A woman can have sex with other guys without falling in love with them, but since she's remorseful please forgive her. You know they're more men then women don't be greedy.

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Re: I think she is a real player. Advice needed please by Olorunnim: 6:22pm On Jul 13, 2019
Hummm Awon Agba so ni pe




































































Just Ghost her if you're not interested, but if you're, Confront her with the evidence and let her know you L**E Her, But Be wise to monitor her actions and if she doesn't improve from her HOEY Way Then Ghost Her.

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