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Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by Richy4(m): 6:19am On Dec 01, 2021
injuredman:


My OP asked if she doesn't owe the husband an apology. Maybe I shouldn't even bring it here since I don't have the permission to share all that he found. Also, my disappointment in the priest friend is making me upset with people on a faceless forum like this. Yes, my friend is angry, yet he still wants the priest to retain his office. And yes, he has damaging evidence that would affect the Priest's Faculty if reported. Why the deleted chats? Why refusal to address the suspicion? Plus other classified evidences.

We are very good at giving out non practical advice, but when we are beneficiaries of such actions we speak differently?
My guy is hurting reading some of the comments here, and I feel bad bringing it here. It is shameful and painful enough that he is going through what he is going through in the hands of a wife. Reading through this is another blow to him.
>>I'm so sorry if different opinions upsets your friend.. It was not intentional.. We are human, we all think differently...and we see things differently...
I didn't plan to make any one to feel angry over an opinion especially when they are hurting...

>>As for what u said about individuals not applying certain behaviours that they dished out, I don't think that I was among those people because what I say offline is still what I do online.. I don't know how to pretend or have a split personality... It's not my thing..

>> I still maintain and believed that the priest took an oath of allegiance and signed confidentiality agreement with the church not to disclose anything he discussed with his congregants, so he can never say a thing.. I still believe that the fact that Priest A got questionable character, does not mean Priest B or C or D got one...

>>I still maintain that The wife will be in a better position to disclose why she was deleting messages and chats she had with the Priest..

>>> I still think your friend should have a decent conversation with the wife since confrontation isn't working.. the communication gap has already set in because of suspicion... Maybe they need a marriage counselor...
That will be a neutral ground where everyone will air out their displeasure and work out a lasting solutions..

>> Again my apologies to your friend for thinking that there are no evidence to substantiate his claim that the wife was cheating..(I still stand by it until we see or hear it) but let him know that public opinion doesn't echo yes only... There are No.. and there are indifferences as well.. Cheers
Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by Richy4(m): 6:49am On Dec 01, 2021
bdchange:

Some of your comments sound funny to me. How long will it take you guys to understand that in marriage, husband and wife comes first. Every other person including your pastor, priest, Imam, Alfa, mother, father, siblings and the rest are secondary. Any issue you want to discuss with any other person should be known first by your partner. She keeps deleting the chats history between herself and the priest and you are saying privacy. Privacy from who? Someone that should be her number one confidant. If the priest is actually truthful to himself and God, he should have informed the wife to carry the husband along immediately. The priest should better marry her if the husband kicks her out. Nonsense and ingredients.

Maybe u should read my previous post how I expressed how annoying it was for a wife to put the priest or pastors over their husbands..

I don't have anything else to say on this matter again So that it won't upset the husband sad because it seems that different opinions was upsetting him already...

So if u have something to say to make him feel better and that will bring solutions to his concerns and problem please do say it..
Cheers

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Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by MPESA(m): 11:50am On Dec 01, 2021
frozen70:


There must be a reason for her actions

Once a woman doesn't get satisfied with her man, there is tendencies of misbehaving


It that all you have to say.... you can't justify unjustifiable.
Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by crackhaus: 8:09pm On Dec 01, 2021
Favfables1:


When a person acts in a manner regarded as suspicious, he/she puts himself or herself in a position that will cause others to misinterprete his/her motive...

We can't say for sure whether or not she is cheating, buh her actions are indeed suspicious...

Why is she always deleting her chat with that priest?? What is she hiding that she doesn't want her husband to see?? Why is she being defensive and dismissive when confronted about the time she spends with the priest?? And in marriage who should be your greatest confidant, a priest or your spouse??
If it smells like a rotten corpse, then there's definitely something rotten around.

That woman cheated... it should be obvious to any discerning person.

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Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by crackhaus: 8:12pm On Dec 01, 2021
Richy4:
But you were not even sure if it was an infidelity... U were simply speculating....
<< The wife has not spoken...
<<The Mutual friend (Priest) have not said anything to any of you...
So how did you know that indeed adulterous act actually took place

She only tells the husband that whatever she did wrong, that she has confessed to God.
You seem to have deliberately ignored this part in a bid to appear open-minded.
Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by Richy4(m): 8:19pm On Dec 01, 2021
crackhaus:



You seem to have deliberately ignored this part in a bid to appear open-minded.

My bro.. I have applied Full stop on this thread.. I would have answered u.. but I was clearly upsetting someone grin..
Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by crackhaus: 8:19pm On Dec 01, 2021
Richy4:


My bro.. I have applied Full stop on this thread.. I would have answered u.. but I was clearly upsetting someone grin..
Lol
Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by Gloriagee(f): 12:37am On Dec 02, 2021
Your friend
Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by eyinjuege: 6:36am On Dec 02, 2021
Why are you guys roping the priest into their marital squables?
Perhaps she confessed something to him and he counsels her. He will keep it confidential, normally.
Deleting chats may mean she doesn't want anyone else to know what she told the priest. It may really have nothing to do with infidelity.
Perhaps she thinks her husband is judgemental hence not confiding in him
Some people use what you tell them against you.
It's a problem in their marriage and it really may have nothing to do with the priest.
Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by kelechiodo(m): 10:34am On Dec 03, 2021
injuredman:


Lol!
You are done defending the indefensible just to look like a good Catholic?
Yes, if I am lying or trying to paint the Catholic priesthood bad, the curse is mine. Otherwise, it is yours.
Let everyone say Amen!

Stop quoting me. All your words are on you and yours solely.
Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by kelechiodo(m): 11:15am On Dec 03, 2021
Richy4:


My bro.. I have applied Full stop on this thread.. I would have answered u.. but I was clearly upsetting someone grin..
You even have time for the op. People full of suspicious tendencies, conspiracy theorists. You see I once took my pregnant wife to a general hospital and met my guy who is also from nearby village as mine. When he wanted to question (clamp) her, he asked me to leave them when he perceived some uneasiness in my wife's expression. The marriage was 6 months old then. Till today, I refused to ask the doc what they discussed. I don't want to put him in difficult position of loyalty to me and his professional ethics. I know without being told that any prodding from me will make him to behave like the priest, distancing himself from me.

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