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She Confess To Me Today. by fineboynl(m): 9:43pm On Sep 26, 2022
She came to my house today as usual So discussion leads to further discussion and we were arguing on some issues I can’t really say here, so I talk some things about my past after then she said she want to say something and I was like what is it? And I noticed it was difficult for her to say it . But after Persistence and I wanted to sleep with her at the time. but she said she want to announce our breakup. I tell her to announce it. What I heard didn’t even surprise me because I live a kind of life where I don’t take people or relationship serious anymore . And nothing moves or surprises me nowadays.

She told me she was married and have a child. But they are no more. Although the guy still wanted them to come back but it’s over for her. I never take our relationship serious though it just casual for sex and the main time. My concern is if they are legally divorced but she was just beating around that they have returned the traditional stuff to the guys village. But I was asking her of the legality of the status she said the guy impregnated another girl and the girl is living with him and the guy wanted her to join in as two wife’s the guy is abusive and violent also spiritual . She said the matter is in court and they have restrained the guy from coming to her but because of the court on strike the matter have been delayed . She said what the guy said in court is that he still wanted her but if she insists she want to leave she should pay her some millions for all the money he spent so far in marring her.

I don’t sleep with married women but what do you guys think of this matter? I have been sleep with this babe all this while. She keep on saying the affair has ended and that she knows I will not call her again even when I was escorting her she keep saying it. I was just quite and calm because I couldn’t make I decision at the time but part of me knows the baggage and controversy is too much and I couldn’t clear if I should continue sleeping with her. Their relationship has crashed and end. Is it okay to sleep with such girl?
Re: She Confess To Me Today. by slimjohn2k5: 9:49pm On Sep 26, 2022
move on, complications are hard to resolve. moreover since she said the other guy is violent, u may be in arms way
fineboynl:
She came to my house today as usual So discussion leads to further discussion and we were arguing on some issues I can’t really say here, so I talk some things about my past after then she said she want to say something and I was like what is it? And I noticed it was difficult for her to say it . But after Persistence and I wanted to sleep with her at the time. but she said she want to announce our breakup. I tell her to announce it. What I heard didn’t even surprise me because I live a kind of life where I don’t take people or relationship serious anymore . And nothing moves or surprises me anymore.

She told me she was married and have a child. But they are no more. Although the guy still wanted them to come back but it’s over for her. I never take our relationship serious though it just casual for sex and the main time. My concern is if they are legally divorced but she was just beating around that they have returned the traditional stuff to the guys village. But I was asking her of the legality of the status she said the guy impregnated another girl and the girl is living with him and the guy wanted her to join in as two wife’s the guy is abusive and violent. She said the matter is in court and they have restrained the guy from coming to her but because of the court on strike the matter have been delayed . She said what the guy said in court is that he still wanted her but if she insists she want to leave she should pay her some millions for all the money he spent so far in marring her.

I don’t sleep with married women but what do you guys think of this matter? I have been sleep with this babe all this while. She keep on saying the affair has ended and that she knows I will not call her again even when I was escorting her she keep saying it. I was just quite and calm because I couldn’t make I decision at the time but part of me knows the baggage and controversy is too much and I couldn’t clear if I should continue sleeping with her. Their relationship has crashed and end. Is it okay to sleep with such girl?

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Re: She Confess To Me Today. by Franzinni: 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2022
I have never been in your shoes so I can not advice you accurately but in my view I would say it's obvious you love her, I might be wrong but the fact that you are here means you want to continue the relationship. Hey kudos to you G.

But I would say if you find her submissive, caring, motivated, feminine, honest, long sighted, resilient and supportive. Guy forget what mistakes she made in the past and hold her well! But if she has baggages and still want to treat you like these "thotianas and walking cunts with no password" do to simple men on today... Bro hold your peace and swerve for her.

Now on some dumb shit grin I know damn well you still smashed after she told you Dem things. Konji na BA hahahahaha!

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Re: She Confess To Me Today. by rickpat(m): 10:07pm On Sep 26, 2022
let her clear the mess first... that's finalizing the divorce before you know what you want to have with her...for now just give her space..let her fix her life first...if not both of you are just using each other as sex objects...

all the same it depends on what you want...as you said,you only do sex and not with married women..so what are you doing with someone not legally divorced?..now that you know,and her type is against your "code of conduct"..why not just bounce bro...all the same good luck....but remember if you want anything serious with her or you're becoming emotionally attached, please wait for her to finalize the divorce and clear up her baggages... DON'T PUT YOURSELF INTO UNNECESSARY AND AVOIDABLE RISK BY BELIEVING EVERYTHING SHE HAS TOLD YOU ABOUT HER MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS

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Re: She Confess To Me Today. by caiusky(m): 10:09pm On Sep 26, 2022
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Re: She Confess To Me Today. by sisisioge: 11:49pm On Sep 26, 2022
There is something about OP....very amusing grin

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Re: She Confess To Me Today. by Mindlog: 1:22am On Sep 27, 2022
sisisioge:
There is something about OP....very amusing grin

There is a "pattern" about him! cheesy

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Re: She Confess To Me Today. by fineboynl(m): 4:09am On Sep 27, 2022
Franzinni:


Now on some dumb shit grin I know damn well you still smashed after she told you Dem things. Konji na BA hahahahaha!
I didn't smashed her. There is something she said that my dick is still standing despite what she said. She said by now everything should have goon flaccid. Yes it was still erected because I do not have any other emotions that affected me in anyways of what she had said. But the fact I forbid to sleep with a married woman who have once stand in the altar to take a val and traditional marriage to put my life in Jeopardy is what I was just thinking.

I forbid it strongly. But for the fact I was happy before now that I found someone that I have been using to clear sexual pleasures, put me in the edge of the fence. everything was so easy and came fast as She was the one who came to me in the first place. When I propose we meet somewhere on our first date she choose to come to my house instead, and she came with a cab probably hiding, because anytime she was to come my house it must be a drop and that act have been wasting my money, she was scared someone will tell me, because there was a day she meet me and some guys. When she left she was asking what those guys told me.

When she came on the first day that was it as we had sex the first day. And she has been waiting me to love her or show her love. She knows now the rationship has ended and it was short lived. I would have like to continue for the sex but With what I just heard I can't continue to sleep with a marraid woman with all that controversy as it's too hard for me to do.

Now that she told me I cannot do it anymore. I feel relieved though and is time to move on.

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Re: She Confess To Me Today. by Kirkman: 6:40am On Sep 27, 2022
Deep down she loves you but she just has that fear deep within her of trusting men due to her recent experience in her marriage.

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Re: She Confess To Me Today. by Amb1045(m): 7:23am On Sep 27, 2022
Kirkman:
Deep down she loves you but she just has that fear deep within her of trusting men due to her recent experience in her marriage.
women don't love men, they only use men for their own selfish interest. She needed the dig. Lol

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Re: She Confess To Me Today. by Kirkman: 10:37am On Sep 27, 2022
Amb1045:
women don't love men, they only use men for their own selfish interest. She needed the dig. Lol
Of course, body nor be firewood...
Re: She Confess To Me Today. by LofP(m): 10:46am On Sep 27, 2022
grin grin grin Big lies... which court is on strike ? Be careful with women. This girl wants to trap you with pity for her.

Women never take responsibility for their actions.

When she said the man is spiritual, what stops her from being spiritual? grin grin grin

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