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Negroid001:
Omo beware of snakes oooo.
Was into one chick like that. I no know say one of my egbon for adugbo dey chike am. As guy wey i be. I dey do normal, i no send anybody. Babe started feeling insecure when noticed the caliber of women i was mingling with.(I dey chop some steady sef). As e bad reach, babe don collect my number for her front before. Even her friends dey chop snubbing from me. At the same i was very prudent with spending of money and all. The thing pain hanti ehn.
So this egbon, let's call him bro snake lol. I got to find out that through his younger bro who is my og that he was snitching behind me. Omo see egbon wey i trust. Every thing wey i discuss about the babe with am, baba dey go re tell am. Even dey show am all my other girlfriends. Dang! See snitching. I didn't say shi, i cut off contact with everyone including the shima. Stopped picking her calls.
I eventually moved out to a new apartment at ajah away from the hood. I got a random call from a friend(of blessed memories) he told me the shima was now dating bro snake. I told him i saw all coming and thanked him. Babe wey i don forget.
Came around recently and learnt she has given birth for bro snake o. Omo, i hold my head dey thank my stars. Dude looks lean asf now.
Fr Simps can go to extreme levels because of punaa. Taah!

Bro snake no try o lol.. And you dodged a bullet, these broads don’t worth the stress. Snakes like that egbon are to be avoided at all cost.

Emotionss:
Another one baits the dust.

So yesterday evening, one of my FWB was behaving funny and acting all emotional and whatnot after our sexual season.

She was like = babe. I still don't understand why you're not interested in a serious/commitment relationship. I mean you can get any woman you want.

My Response= There's currently no woman alive today that have the qualities I seek in a woman up to the extend of me considering having a commitment relationship with her.

HER = Even Me ?

ME= Even you.

HER= So what am I to you ?

ME= You're One of my FWB. That was our agreement. And I have Not said anything or Given you any impression that I wanted something more.

HER= but I thought we have something special going on between us.

ME= look Alice. There's no such thing as special anything between us. Yes the sex it great, but that is all there is. Nothing more.

Las last madam said she can't continue with our FWB arrangements anymore. She wants something more because she is catching feelings for me.

Me I have already composed a termination later on why we should End our FWB contract, and go our separate ways.

Even after specifically telling them what you want from them and what not to expect from you, once in a while, they always mess things up by catching feelings and wanting something more.

if we may probe deeper, the question is, do they really catch feelings as they usually suppose or just another shit test and manipulative tactics to get us succumb to their will and commit us?

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] oh I see, you are the shaolin monk-strike-300-with-one blow sperm retention type...good for you..Happy wet dreams.[/color]

Good for you too, whatever it is that you are!

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]That was a network mishap from my end...Now f"*k off.[/color]

Redpill alpha and Omega. The chief orchestrator of pussy fvcking. It was a pleasure.

heartofcity12:
Bro snake no try o lol.. And you dodged a bullet, these broads don’t worth the stress. Snakes likes that egbon are to be avoided at all cost.

I dey tell you bro. Baba shatter all the bro codes.

heartofcity12:
Bro snake no try o lol.. And you dodged a bullet, these broads don’t worth the stress. Snakes likes that egbon are to be avoided at all cost.

Snake deserve high blood pressure

Smartb0y:
Snake deserve high blood pressure

Baba help me carry my troubles. Omo Simping na rubbish mehn.

Omo see another one

Focus on your purpose and have a mindset as this. #trp

This

Saw this comment by iLegendd and thought it deserves a space here.

I act poor when I meet people, especially women. I want to see how I'll be treated first before I let you into my real world.

I hide a lot at the initial stage. After you've fallen in love without knowing much, I can now open up.

Getting women because of crib or money is fake love and inferiority on the guy's part. Most men are the reasons for fake love. They start showing off that they are rich on the first day of meeting a woman.

If a woman already knows I'm rich, I see her love as fake, but I play along (while being stingy).

Making a woman love you is easy when you're poor. Just have a sense of humor, be intelligent, be naughty to an extent, don't have mouth or body odor (use a good fragrance), don't brag about any achievement, be unpredictable and not always available. Learn psychology and how women/human work.

Most importantly, don't invest emotions first. Just be free and easygoing as you keep the conversation fun, humorous, and naughty. Don't forget to keep her wanting more. (It's attractive and it builds emotion which turns to love.)

This means, end the conversation when she's enjoying it the most. Always put her in a position to anticipate your next conversation with her. Keep thing intrigue and unpredictable.

Finally, don't profess love (like Ozo and Saga) even if she does and don't ask her out — just start acting as her boyfriend from the first day without proposing. Tease her and don't be focused on outcome, but the FUN. (You're already her boyfriend from the first encounter, so why ask her out or ask her if she has a boyfriend?)

The problem broke guys have about women is inferiority complex — they think it's all about money. Money and fine boy is a bonus, but confidence and humor is key.

Also, most men/boys don't work on self-improvement — they focus only on making money fast at all cost to avoid being oppressed by Yahoo boys.

Wise men/boys take their time to handle self-improvement and they don't chase money or women — they attract them with wisdom, knowledge, and confidence.

Unfortunately, not all men are wise just the same way not all women are wise.

Deep. Hard times make strong men, strong men make good times. Good times make weak men, weak men make hard times.

sajmark:
Saw this comment by iLegendd and thought it deserves a space here.

I act poor when I meet people, especially women. I want to see how I'll be treated first before I let you into my real world.

I hide a lot at the initial stage. After you've fallen in love without knowing much, I can now open up.

Getting women because of crib or money is fake love and inferiority on the guy's part. Most men are the reasons for fake love. They start showing off that they are rich on the first day of meeting a woman.

If a woman already knows I'm rich, I see her love as fake, but I play along (while being stingy).

Making a woman love you is easy when you're poor. Just have a sense of humor, be intelligent, be naughty to an extent, don't have mouth or body odor (use a good fragrance), don't brag about any achievement, be unpredictable and not always available. Learn psychology and how women/human work.

Most importantly, don't invest emotions first. Just be free and easygoing as you keep the conversation fun, humorous, and naughty. Don't forget to keep her wanting more. (It's attractive and it builds emotion which turns to love.)

This means, end the conversation when she's enjoying it the most. Always put her in a position to anticipate your next conversation with her. Keep thing intrigue and unpredictable.

Finally, don't profess love (like Ozo and Saga) even if she does and don't ask her out — just start acting as her boyfriend from the first day without proposing. Tease her and don't be focused on outcome, but the FUN. (You're already her boyfriend from the first encounter, so why ask her out or ask her if she has a boyfriend?)

The problem broke guys have about women is inferiority complex — they think it's all about money. Money and fine boy is a bonus, but confidence and humor is key.

Also, most men/boys don't work on self-improvement — they focus only on making money fast at all cost to avoid being oppressed by Yahoo boys.

Wise men/boys take their time to handle self-improvement and they don't chase money or women — they attract them with wisdom, knowledge, and confidence.

Unfortunately, not all men are wise just the same way not all women are wise.

My current girlfriend met me in a much similar situation. I was off work and not too buoyant. Babe no even send, the love and respect she shows me ehn. 1 week she randomly sent me upkeep money, i wanted to cry. Another week she handled my subscription and other menial stuffs.
I'm picking up myself, things are now somewhat better. Nobody need to tell me to give myself brain. Because what am i looking for again in a woman. I even cut off my sugar mummy and other radarada girls i was bleeping.
To cap it all, I'm yoruba and she's igbo.
Igbo girls are well trained forget. I no dey get luck with my tribe women, most of them dey hungry, the ones wey no bill you dey always get werey for head lol.

sajmark:
Saw this comment by iLegendd and thought it deserves a space here.

I act poor when I meet people, especially women. I want to see how I'll be treated first before I let you into my real world.

I hide a lot at the initial stage. After you've fallen in love without knowing much, I can now open up.

Getting women because of crib or money is fake love and inferiority on the guy's part. Most men are the reasons for fake love. They start showing off that they are rich on the first day of meeting a woman.

If a woman already knows I'm rich, I see her love as fake, but I play along (while being stingy).

Making a woman love you is easy when you're poor. Just have a sense of humor, be intelligent, be naughty to an extent, don't have mouth or body odor (use a good fragrance), don't brag about any achievement, be unpredictable and not always available. Learn psychology and how women/human work.

Most importantly, don't invest emotions first. Just be free and easygoing as you keep the conversation fun, humorous, and naughty. Don't forget to keep her wanting more. (It's attractive and it builds emotion which turns to love.)

This means, end the conversation when she's enjoying it the most. Always put her in a position to anticipate your next conversation with her. Keep thing intrigue and unpredictable.

Finally, don't profess love (like Ozo and Saga) even if she does and don't ask her out — just start acting as her boyfriend from the first day without proposing. Tease her and don't be focused on outcome, but the FUN. (You're already her boyfriend from the first encounter, so why ask her out or ask her if she has a boyfriend?)

The problem broke guys have about women is inferiority complex — they think it's all about money. Money and fine boy is a bonus, but confidence and humor is key.

Also, most men/boys don't work on self-improvement — they focus only on making money fast at all cost to avoid being oppressed by Yahoo boys.

Wise men/boys take their time to handle self-improvement and they don't chase money or women — they attract them with wisdom, knowledge, and confidence.

Unfortunately, not all men are wise just the same way not all women are wise.

Learnt a lot from this

Thanks Sir

ProphetJeroboam:
Life hack for my bros-
Set up a date with a girl that is perceived by society to be a 9 or a 10. Take her out and while you are on that date, have a good time and enjoy yourself, make videos and pictures showing you and the 9/10. The purpose of this date isn’t necessarily to fvck the 9/10 and I’ll explain why. When you are back home, upload a picture or two that is clearly showing you having fun with the 9/10 with some suggestive captions. Make sure the pictures is viewed by the girls on 6,7,8 scale in your contact lists then launch your attack on them and ask them to come over. You’ll get a 70% success rate with this and it works like a charm. I’ll choose an army of 6,7,8 over simping for a 9 or 10 any day. The accompanying abundance mentality that this brings will drastically improve your dating game. If you’ve got game and you fvck the 9/10 then double W for you bro.

Note- You don’t need to go all out on the date with the 9 or 10, she is basically a means to an end.

Keep 'em coming brother...

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gshsj:
if we may probe deeper, the question is, do they really catch feelings as they usually suppose or just another shit test and manipulative tactics to get us succumb to their will and commit us?

She is not catching any feelings. Madam is trying her luck. She was hoping the freaky sex we had has softened my resolved about commitment Relationship.

They are always trying their luck to see if they can successfully manipulate a brother into their marriage trap.

Sometime last year One of My FWB tried to "convince" me to allow her redecorate my Apartment to a more mature settings, instantly told her an Authoritative No. She later told me she wanted to use the decoration as a gateway to have unrestricted and unsupervised access to my Apartment and subsequently my life.

Madam wanted to use decoration form wife material...

They have been trying and will continue trying.

ThisisIkemefuna:
So for you, fvck is for those that their life is in order?

You guys have started. What's your problem? Allow him share his knowledge in peace

ThisisIkemefuna:
Let them choose you. Don't go orchestrating any kind of scheme to make a woman lay with you. That already suggest that you are insecure and pervasive. You seem open minded and civil so we can communicate and learn.

To me maintaining frame means doing other things that empowers your masculinity except for putting all your attention on women. When your masculinity is empowered, women naturally comes to you without any scheme whatsoever.

What I wrote up there is simply PUA dating advice for whoever is interested. What you will not do is question a man’s ability to juggle situations in his life and call him insecure and perverse for not living life according to your books. The fundamentals of masculinity is exercising freedom. My post doesn’t fit your lifestyle, you scroll down for the ones that do. Another approach to my post is go out on a date with the 9-10,enjoy yourself because you deserve it, post pictures on your WhatsApp status and the 6,7,8 will flood your dm’s because it is in the nature of women to want guys who hang out with hotter females than themselves. Lighten up bro. The point of my post is exercising the masculine abundance mentality,dating hack 101. My so called “scheme” will require a day’s worth of execution at best so let the guys who want to have fun, have fun. You’re not more masculine than any of us here. We are not all choked up with life’s problems. Pray tell, what are the activities you engage in that increases your masculinity and make you this chick magnet that you are?

Heryormilekan:
Very Valid. Reverse psychology

I do this most times. Acknowledging the ugly ones while ignoring the pretty ones.

In their mind, but 'I'm prettier than the girl he's appreciating or something is on my face'

You tell a pretty girl she’s not that pretty and you tell an ugly girl she’s the prettiest you’ve seen then withdraw attention and ghost. The game is too simple bro.

ProphetJeroboam:
You tell a pretty girl she’s not that pretty and you tell an ugly girl she’s the prettiest you’ve seen then withdraw attention and ghost. The game is too simple bro.

You don't even have to tell em their pretty, just act like they're invisible and watch the magic.

Negroid001:
You don't even have to tell em their pretty, just act like they're invisible and watch the magic.

Too easy bro.

Junnior:
You guys have started. What's your problem? Allow him share his knowledge in peace

Bros allow me have social interaction in peace. What's your problem?

ProphetJeroboam:
Too easy bro.

If 9 simps tell a woman she is beautiful and 1 redpiller tells her she's ugly.
She'll be attracted to the redpiller.

Negroid001:
If 9 simps tell a woman she is beautiful and 1 redpiller tells her she's ugly.
She'll be attracted to the redpiller.

Women tend to go for “that one guy”

ThisisIkemefuna:
Na fvck una come life come do ni?

Actually the answer to your question is yes!
The purpose of life is SIMPLE but not SIMPLISTIC.

The ULTIMATE purpose of life is SURVIVAL.

Na eat you come this life come do ni?

Na fvck you come this life come do ni?

However you choose to answer the above questions doesn't change the fact that they are both equally vital for the survival of all living things.

If everyone stopped eating today, humans will be extinct in a few days.

If everyone stopped fvckin today, humans will be extinct in a few years.

sajmark:
Saw this comment by iLegendd and thought it deserves a space here.

I act poor when I meet people, especially women. I want to see how I'll be treated first before I let you into my real world.

I hide a lot at the initial stage. After you've fallen in love without knowing much, I can now open up.

Getting women because of crib or money is fake love and inferiority on the guy's part. Most men are the reasons for fake love. They start showing off that they are rich on the first day of meeting a woman.

If a woman already knows I'm rich, I see her love as fake, but I play along (while being stingy).

Making a woman love you is easy when you're poor. Just have a sense of humor, be intelligent, be naughty to an extent, don't have mouth or body odor (use a good fragrance), don't brag about any achievement, be unpredictable and not always available. Learn psychology and how women/human work.

Most importantly, don't invest emotions first. Just be free and easygoing as you keep the conversation fun, humorous, and naughty. Don't forget to keep her wanting more. (It's attractive and it builds emotion which turns to love.)

This means, end the conversation when she's enjoying it the most. Always put her in a position to anticipate your next conversation with her. Keep thing intrigue and unpredictable.

Finally, don't profess love (like Ozo and Saga) even if she does and don't ask her out — just start acting as her boyfriend from the first day without proposing. Tease her and don't be focused on outcome, but the FUN. (You're already her boyfriend from the first encounter, so why ask her out or ask her if she has a boyfriend?)

The problem broke guys have about women is inferiority complex — they think it's all about money. Money and fine boy is a bonus, but confidence and humor is key.

Also, most men/boys don't work on self-improvement — they focus only on making money fast at all cost to avoid being oppressed by Yahoo boys.

Wise men/boys take their time to handle self-improvement and they don't chase money or women — they attract them with wisdom, knowledge, and confidence.

Unfortunately, not all men are wise just the same way not all women are wise.

I know this isn't the right section for this, but I'm curious to know what he meant by not chasing money. How do you attract money with wisdom, knowledge and confidence without chasing it?

Money is not a female so I'm not sure the same rule applies.

ProphetJeroboam:
What I wrote up there is simply PUA dating advice for whoever is interested. What you will not do is question a man’s ability to juggle situations in his life and call him insecure and perverse for not living life according to your books. The fundamentals of masculinity is exercising freedom. My post doesn’t fit your lifestyle, you scroll down for the ones that do. Another approach to my post is go out on a date with the 9-10,enjoy yourself because you deserve it, post pictures on your WhatsApp status and the 6,7,8 will flood your dm’s because it is in the nature of women to want guys who hang out with hotter females than themselves. Lighten up bro. The point of my post is exercising the masculine abundance mentality,dating hack 101. My so called “scheme” will require a day’s worth of execution at best so let the guys who want to have fun, have fun. You’re not more masculine than any of us here. We are not all choked up with life’s problems. Pray tell, what are the activities you engage in that increases your masculinity and make you this chick magnet that you are?

Please ignore anyone trying to hinder you from sharing your knowledge. Just ignore and continue.

heartofcity12:
Beta clowns always leading with money, meanwhile she’s daydreaming about the guy who “took her for granted”. The body language says it all.

On top woman 'may don use tatoo zanzan her breasts'.

Like you said, "she's daydreaming about the guy that ignored and took her for granted"...perhaps, the photographer.

See the way she clutched her hands outside the guy's. The guy be crawling like snake just to get her attention even in a private location and his expenses. Damn nigga!

sajmark:
Actually the answer to your question is yes!
The purpose of life is SIMPLE but not SIMPLISTIC.

The ULTIMATE purpose of life is SURVIVAL.

Na eat you come this life come do ni?

Na fvck you come this life come do ni?

However you choose to answer the above questions doesn't change the fact that they are both equally vital for the survival of all living things.

If everyone stopped eating today, humans will be extinct in a few days.

If everyone stopped fvckin today, humans will be extinct in a few years.

Alright brother.

Bossman, on behalf of all the men that have paid for free food in the hands of these cunning creatures.

I say thank you!!

Ilekokonit:
I remember some years ago, I met this Unilag girl and once she started playing hard to get, I deleted her number (which I do for all women who play hard to get). Fast forward to 2 weeks later a strange number called me and since i don't memorize any numbers, I said who is this and she mentioned her name. Short story, she agreed to go on another date and on reaching Unilags Moremi Hall she came inside the car with her friend.

We got to Mr Biggs around Adekunle bus stop and I ordered food for 3 of us and to my surprise, they asked that their own should be packed as take away. I didn't talk and kept eating my food.

Once I finished my food, I got up and took their food packs away from them and gave the 2 packs to the male and female security guards at Mr Biggs and i mentioned so the Unilag girls could hear that these 2 guards are more useful than you 2.

Why would they think they can use me as a driver who will also buy them food and they don't have time to sit down and eat the meal with me. !!!

I left Mr Biggs and walked fast to my car, started the car, drove close to them and flung their lecture notes out of my car window onto the street and from my rear view mirror, I saw them pick up their notebooks from the floor and board an Okada to go back to Unilag. What nonsense especially seeing that I had deleted her number earlier but the freeloader decided to call me when she was hungry, brought her freeloading friend in tow and then decides not to have 5 minutes to spend with me eating her food ? She must have thought her presence in my car alone was enough reward for me. The stupid cow.

I'm sure that after I snatched the food bags I earlier bought them from them and handed it to the security guards, threw their lecture notes out of my car window and drove off leaving them to pick their notes from the floor and clamber onto an Okada with hungry stomachs, they will think twice before taking another man for granted.

CaveAdullam:
On top woman "may don use tatoo zanzan her breasts".

Like you said, "she's daydreaming about the guy that ignored and took her for granted"...perhaps, the photographer.

See the way she clutch her hands outside the guy's, the guy be crawling like snake just to get her attention even in a private location and his expenses. Damn nigga!

Lmao . “Guy be crawling like snake just to get her attention” got me

Junnior:
I know this isn't the right section for this, but I'm curious to know what he meant by not chasing money. How do you attract money with wisdom, knowledge and confidence without chasing it?

Money is not a female so I'm not sure the same rule applies.

People who chase money never really get to the bag, the only way to get the bag is to set a trap for it.
The money referred to in the above statement isn't 5k, 10k, 20k but millions.

Chasing money only gets you what is referred to as stay afloat money, it never makes you rich.

See chasing money as using your strength to make money, then see attracting money as using your mind to make money.

When Mark Zuckerberg was creating Facebook he was using his knowledge to to set a trap for (attract) money.

When you invest money and it yields a lot of profit, that is using wisdom to attract money.

In a nutshell, WORK SMARTER NOT HARDER!!!