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Laughing out so aloud in red pill language.

It's time for guys to sit down and tell themselves the truth too and not just sit around and slam girls.

Guys have issues too. Many of them look shapeless or out of shape, yet they want a damsel in their life. When a damsel turns them down because they don't look attractive, they start to pour out their frustration on all girls.

Some think everything has to do with money. They think once they get money, they can get any girl for themselves. That's true to some extent, but you cant get love with just money, just sex which is not as good as knowing you are loved to pieces by the opposite sex.

Money is a tool you use to walk up to love. You use money to hit the gym, eat good food and look fit. But some guys think just buying expensive clothes is what matters, disregarding the fact that they need the right physique to accentuate the clothes.

Look at Wizkid and Tems. Wizkid was snubbed on stage by Tems. Why? Man's too short and boyish. Place Trey Songs or Drake on stage with her, which is clearly a match, and watch her fall over them.

Half the time, some rich men are dating or married to women who don't find them sexually attractive, but they don't know. They think all that matters is giving her money. That they do until they realise that one jobless dude is not only sleeping with their woman but also using the money they give their woman to level up.

Guys, lack of money is not the only reason why you can't find a damsel to love you sincerely. The reason why girls don't love you or even notice you passing by is because you don't love yourself. Imagine guys between 20 and 40 already having potbelly with fat body like a woman. I bet you that the expensive clothes you will rock with that kind of body will look normal or abnormal on you, instead of having that dashing effect it had on the model that rocked it on the runway.

So, guys, instead of joining the gang of guys that bash girls on social media, why not join the click of guys that would rather spend that moment working on themselves financially, spiritually, physically and emotionally?

Hit the gym today. A sexy and fit body will cover up your 'ugly face'. Once you start to work out with visible result, bet it that compliments will start to come your way. I'm a living example. I've always had a cute and handsome face, but I thought that was all I needed until I graduated and saw a decline in advances from ladies. That was when I decided to hit the gym and stay fit. Today, female colleagues, both single and married, do compliment me loudly. Male colleagues see me as an inspiration because I stand out from among them. Guess what I've become? I've become the kind of guy both men and women love. Such is whom ladies love, because ladies flock around who others flock around.

So, red pill guys, enough of female bashing, because to be honest, they owe you nothing. A they want in life is a high value man, not necessarily a rich man, but a man others admire without money attached to him.

The day I decided to love myself was the day I went to meet a carpenter and told him to make a local bench for me to use for bench press exercise. I worked out at home for two months before discovering that there was a gym close to my house, which I later registered in. Then I proceeded to get some workout suppliments. The day I stepped out to Ikeja City Mall to get one was the day I met the love of my life, a gorgeous light-skinned lady that looks like she got cropped out of a magazine. Did I mention that she loves me to pieces and calls me thrice a day with each calls lasting over an hour? She exhausts her airtime and immediately converts to Whatsapp call. The day I met her at ICM, I remember I was getting advances from ladies at the mall that day. Did I look rich? No. Did I look attractive? Yes.

Don't get me wrong, I don't look bulked up like Arnold Schwarzenegger, but I look fit and elegant with tones in the right places. I wish I could post pictures but it's not my style. Right now, I'm working on my finances and about to buy a landed property and work towards marriage next year. I'm also thinking about trippling my hustle next year.

Simply put, I spent my little money on myself by hitting the gym and enjoying myself. Same money would have gone into simping for a girl all in a bid to get her attention. These days, I don't hesitate to lavish on myself, buy nice and expensive shoes. So, I don't see it as a big deal to give my chick nice trips.

It's time for boys to learn to be men and stop whining like sissies. Work on yourself and the love you desire will be yours. Don't forget to pray to God too.

Start in this order:

Spiritually - read the Bible
Financially - work and save
Physically - hit the gym
Emotionally - don't let a lady's rejection or anything get on your nerves.

Peace guys

Men, do not embark on self improvement to "get girls"


That's a wasteful, empty and self deprecating life to live.

Exercise because you want to be fit.
Grow wealth because you want to be rich.
Spend on yourself because you deserve self love.


DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR A WOMAN'S AFFECTION!

OP, your own folly was declaring the landed property, higher income and adding marriage as an achievement. (BP WK Mangina Simp)

Body go soon tell you.

TarOrfeeek:


Men, do not embark on self improvement to "get girls"


That's a wasteful, empty and self deprecating life to live.

Exercise because you want to be fit.
Grow wealth because you want to be rich.
Spend on yourself because you deserve self love.


DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR A WOMAN'S AFFECTION!

OP, your own folly was declaring the landed property, higher income and adding marriage as an achievement. (BP WK Mangina Simp)

Body go soon tell you.

You said it all. THREAD CLOSED

Just get rich.
Broke bitch don't care how you look like.
They will be like I like your stature.
Meanwhile you look like an amoeba.

Nice one there.

After you get married don't you ever stop hitting those muscles well. I have lots of guyz who were into fitness stuffs but as soon as they got married they stopped. See them looking shapeless now.


No Pain
No Gain.

This is actually common sense. As a man you must invest in yourself. Physically, mentally, financially and physically. Most men don't love themselves at all. Dress horribly, dont exercise and get very fat with big breasts and big stomach like a woman.

It's horrible and it cost nothing to go to the gym. Just one hour a day and watching ones diet is enough.

Do all these for yourself even if you don't get a lady the confidence you get will be immense. Remember the way you dress and the way you appear generally is how people will address you.

drezzyx:
Just get rich.
Broke bitch don't care how you look like.
They will be like I like your stature.
Meanwhile you look like an amoeba.

You think so??

How the Bleep will a sane human do this to get the validation of a girl(mortal).. And besides they have so many weaknesses i.e ... Menstruation and weird natural smell of punnani, foul menstrual blood...
Ah mean, it sounds odd to me..

What are your gym supplements

TarOrfeeek:


Men, do not embark on self improvement to "get girls"


That's a wasteful, empty and self deprecating life to live.

Exercise because you want to be fit.
Grow wealth because you want to be rich.
Spend on yourself because you deserve self love.


DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR A WOMAN'S AFFECTION!

OP, your own folly was declaring the landed property, higher income and adding marriage as an achievement. (BP WK Mangina Simp)

Body go soon tell you.

You people should keep lying to yourselves. Men will always desire the attention of women, especially beautiful women.

Nezzjnr:
You think so??

I have seen worse .

TarOrfeeek:


Men, do not embark on self improvement to "get girls"


That's a wasteful, empty and self deprecating life to live.

Exercise because you want to be fit.
Grow wealth because you want to be rich.
Spend on yourself because you deserve self love.


DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR A WOMAN'S AFFECTION!

OP, your own folly was declaring the landed property, higher income and adding marriage as an achievement. (BP WK Mangina Simp)

Body go soon tell you.

You appear intelligent but that's not what it is. You failed to see the essence of the post. Where did I say men should improve on themselves all because of girls? I made it clear that the reason girls are snubbing them is because they themselves have not loved themselves by investing in themselves.

You can't tell me you didn't see where I mentioned the things guys need to work on which is about themselves. Trust me, no one achieves those things and don't have both girls and guys admiring them.

Also, who told you marriage is not an achievement? Dumb youths of today have been brainwashed by westernisation to think marriage is nothing. A married man is one or more persons better than his single counterpart. He has a wife who helps him do certain things and children who are gifts from God. But brainwashed fellows like you end up with baby mamas who milk you of child support while strangers insert their pipe in the hole your child came from all because "marriage is not an achievement".

I think at this point I will declare you stupid for saying landed property and higher income are not achievements. What is an achievement to you? Smoking weed? I guess your mum still feeds you for you to be absent of your senses.

Well, I believe the wise ones have gotten the sense out of the thread.

Nyascobar1414:
How the Bleep will a sane human do this to get the validation of a girl(mortal).. And besides they have so many weaknesses i.e ... Menstruation and weird natural smell of punnani, foul menstrual blood...
Ah mean, it sounds odd to me..

It's not for the validation of a girl. It is for your own improvement. We live in a society where weakness in men is not frowned at. Look at so many men looking skinny with noodle arms while some are fat. In the past, such men die easily when war comes while the heavily built and fit ones survive. Remember, it's the survival of the fittest, not the fattest.

Women in the past dread weak men, but stupid men haven't realised it. Why do you think BBNaija guys all look well-built? It oozes sex appeal and attraction. If your women doesn't find you attractive physically, just agree that you are just a provider to her who can't get her wet.

A man who works on himself isn't doing it because he wants to be sleeping around. He's doing it because one has to keep improving and developing cos the world is fast changing. Moreover, working out boost health and testosterone which helps sexually.

Look, be sincere to yourself, you are living because of a woman or women. Otherwise, it is rags you will be wearing and not designer clothes. Only a liar will say he doesn't do things because of women. You can have the whole world, but without a woman, it is a waste - ask Adam.

Wahala for these people ooo,
On a norms, a guy has to keep himself looking healthy, for business and personalty purposes.
Avoiding obesity, good haircuts, healthy skin and all.
I no com understand the fck reason why this should be for a girl who is obviously after my money.
Nairaland peeps henn simple Common Sense!

tensazangetsu20:
This is actually common sense. As a man you must invest in yourself. Physically, mentally, financially and physically. Most men don't love themselves at all. Dress horribly, dont exercise and get very fat with big breasts and big stomach like a woman.

It's horrible and it cost nothing to go to the gym. Just one hour a day and watching ones diet is enough.

Do all these for yourself even if you don't get a lady the confidence you get will be immense. Remember the way you dress and the way you appear generally is how people will address you.

Finally, someone with load of sense.

Ask ladies and guys to pick one out of the three below. They will all pick the guy I. The middle. Only liars will pick otherwise.

PlaysNigeria:
Wahala for these people ooo,
On a norms, a guy has to keep himself looking healthy, for business and personalty purposes.
Avoiding obesity, good haircuts, healthy skin and all.
I no com understand the fck reason why this should be for a girl who is obviously after my money.
Nairaland peeps henn simple Common Sense!

@bold
Be
At the end of the day, who enjoys the benefit of the business and personality? Is it not woman? But you want to sound smart let you don't give a damn, but in the corner you are simping for women .

If you are not living because of a woman then you ought to be in the forest.

LifestyleTonite:


You appear intelligent but that's not what it is. You failed to see the essence of the post. Where did I say men should improve on themselves all because of girls? I made it clear that the reason girls are snubbing them is because they themselves have not loved themselves by investing in themselves.

You can't tell me you didn't see where I mentioned the things guys need to work on which is about themselves. Trust me, no one achieves those things and don't have both girls and guys admiring them.

Also, who told you marriage is not an achievement? Dumb youths of today have been brainwashed by westernisation to think marriage is nothing. A married man is one or more persons better than his single counterpart. He has a wife who helps him do certain things and children who are gifts from God. But brainwashed fellows like you end up with baby mamas who milk you of child support while strangers insert their pipe in the hole your child came from all because "marriage is not an achievement".

I think at this point I will declare you stupid for saying landed property and higher income are not achievements. What is an achievement to you? Smoking weed? I guess your mum still feeds you for you to be absent of your senses.

Well, I believe the wise ones have gotten the sense out of the thread.

only God will help you as a man if you are part of my kindred in Imo state and not yet married at 40yrs

All these Red pillers sef, have never seen any handsome man fro this forum. Ugly set of people forming red pillers to cover up

LifestyleTonite:


Finally, someone with load of sense.

Ask ladies and guys to pick one out of the three below. They will all pick the guy I. The middle. Only liars will pick otherwise.

It's not even for women. obesity comes with so much health issues I don't see why someone will be okay being that. I don't know which brand of red pill men on nairaland consume but my brand of red pill admonishes me to improve myself everyday. Physically, mentally and financially. One of my red pill mentors. He well known amongst red pillers is fucking ripped. I don't know any major known red pill dude who is fat, obese or skinny.

Keeping fit is very okay. It helps you with the kind of confidence just being rich does not give.

But you must be financially independent before you start thinking about gyming o.. because fine bobo without money be like benz wey no fit start..

All the rubbish you wrote there are mere assumptions, no facts to back it up.. you are still a kid. You don't know how the world works

I knew this thread will make FP & get lots of likes from feminists and misandrists

We Ladies also have our preferences, don't blame men.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

And this one here has a mother and probably sisters o.
See as him open mouth yakata dey abuse women.
Nairaland.com kids everywhere.
Spits.




The two people below should just get married next weekend please...

Lol

But The average Nigerian Guy is fit...

Very funny

Lol

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them