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Rree:
If obasanjo and toke could hang on a flight then who are the whoress to judge a man

Do you think Toke finds Obasanjo attractive? She was just after connections, that's all. The person she loves and fell for is her ex-husband Maje. Guess what? Maje is a fitness trainer.

Tell Toke to pick between a guy like Maje and Obasanjo, she will pick Obasanjo. Why? Because she's whorish and a money chaser. Guess what. She'll hoard sex from Obasanjo, steal is money and give it to the guy that looks like Maje whom she will suck and sleep with. Why? The woman in her finds him attractive but sees Obasanjo as a beta male provider aka a meal ticket.

LifestyleTonite:
It's not for the validation of a girl. It is for your own improvement. We live in a society where weakness in men is not frowned at. Look at so many men looking skinny with noodle arms while some are fat. In the past, such men die easily when war comes while the heavily built and fit ones survive. Remember, it's the survival of the fittest, not the fattest.

Women in the past dread weak men, but stupid men haven't realised it. Why do you think BBNaija guys all look well-built? It oozes sex appeal and attraction. If your women doesn't find you attractive physically, just agree that you are just a provider to her who can't get her wet.

A man who works on himself isn't doing it because he wants to be sleeping around. He's doing it because one has to keep improving and developing cos the world is fast changing. Moreover, working out boost health and testosterone which helps sexually.

Look, be sincere to yourself, you are living because of a woman or women. Otherwise, it is rags you will be wearing and not designer clothes. Only a liar will say he doesn't do things because of women. You can have the whole world, but without a woman, it is a waste - ask Adam.

without a woman, you say all is a waste?

Come see guys balling on a stead with no woman.

Nairaland mods keep pushing trashy threads to front page.

egunna:
bros,man up and take charge of your family,financially and otherwise.stop looking for a woman to contribute to ur family upkeep.dey don't call u head of d family for nothing.if she contribute,fine.if she doesn't,no b by force.after all d kids will bear ur name and are yours,so is d family stop looking into a woman's purse.

Read to understand bro. Don't rush to comment.

Like I said earlier. I have a good job n two jobs for that matter. So allow me handle the shit. My choice remains my choice. Shalom

egunna:
bros,man up and take charge of your family,financially and otherwise.stop looking for a woman to contribute to ur family upkeep.dey don't call u head of d family for nothing.if she contribute,fine.if she doesn't,no b by force.after all d kids will bear ur name and are yours,so is d family stop looking into a woman's purse.

May God bless you.

Guys of today are so weak that they go about looking for a woman who will contribute 50/50 in a relationship. Yet, they turn around when the woman doesn't accord them the respect of the head of the house.

That guy you quoted is looking for a woman that will contribute as much as he wants, forgetting that a woman's job is simply to keep the house and watch over the kids.

Later, they start to complain that their wife comes late from the office or suspecting someone is sleeping with her at the office.

In the past, men prefer their wife to stay at home, today weak men can't stand the idea of having a wife that doesn't contribute financially. They now make it seem like her lack of financial contribution makes her a liability, forgetting that she cooks, cleans and is submissive, which is everything a man should require from a woman.

Amanda4life:
Including your sisters.

For me
I'm very useful

Calm down jor,

jrobbins:
without a woman, you say all is a waste?

Come see guys balling on a stead with no woman.

Do you know how lonely they are at night?

Perhaps you thinking having different ladies warming your bed at night is balling? What they need is only one loyal woman in their bed forever, no two or many.

Perhaps you think God was foolish when he created a woman for Adam who had the whole world but was lonely.

LifestyleTonite:
Do you know how lonely they are at night?

Perhaps you thinking having different ladies warming your bed at night is balling? What they need is only one loyal woman in their bed forever, no two or many.

Perhaps you think God was foolish when he created a woman for Adam who had the whole world but was lonely.

I'm talking bout ma cliques. don't need no permanent woman

tensazangetsu20:
This is actually common sense. As a man you must invest in yourself. Physically, mentally, financially and physically. Most men don't love themselves at all. Dress horribly, dont exercise and get very fat with big breasts and big stomach like a woman.

It's horrible and it cost nothing to go to the gym. Just one hour a day and watching ones diet is enough.

Do all these for yourself even if you don't get a lady the confidence you get will be immense. Remember the way you dress and the way you appear generally is how people will address you.

Pile of trash

How'd Ned Nwoko
Appear

tensazangetsu20:
This is actually common sense. As a man you must invest in yourself. Physically, mentally, financially and physically. Most men don't love themselves at all. Dress horribly, dont exercise and get very fat with big breasts and big stomach like a woman.

It's horrible and it cost nothing to go to the gym. Just one hour a day and watching ones diet is enough.

Do all these for yourself even if you don't get a lady the confidence you get will be immense. Remember the way you dress and the way you appear generally is how people will address you.

bottom line and long and short of it is that money still drives it all. Sometimes d chemistry and dynamics is hard to understand. Some of those ones with huge biceps probe a little to know how much they consume

LifestyleTonite:
Quickly check the picture below before reading this short piece.

Welcome back.

Laughing out so aloud in red pill language.

It's time for guys to sit down and tell themselves the truth too and not just sit around and slam girls.

Guys have issues too. Many of them look shapeless or out of shape, yet they want a damsel in their life. When a damsel turns them down because they don't look attractive, they start to pour out their frustration on all girls.

Some think everything has to do with money. They think once they get money, they can get any girl for themselves. That's true to some extent, but you cant get love with just money, just sex which is not as good as knowing you are loved to pieces by the opposite sex.

Money is a tool you use to walk up to love. You use money to hit the gym, eat good food and look fit. But some guys think just buying expensive clothes is what matters, disregarding the fact that they need the right physique to accentuate the clothes.

Look at Wizkid and Tems. Wizkid was snubbed on stage by Tems. Why? Man's too short and boyish. Place Trey Songs or Drake on stage with her, which is clearly a match, and watch her fall over them.

Half the time, some rich men are dating or married to women who don't find them sexually attractive, but they don't know. They think all that matters is giving her money. That they do until they realise that one jobless dude is not only sleeping with their woman but also using the money they give their woman to level up.

Guys, lack of money is not the only reason why you can't find a damsel to love you sincerely. The reason why girls don't love you or even notice you passing by is because you don't love yourself. Imagine guys between 20 and 40 already having potbelly with fat body like a woman. I bet you that the expensive clothes you will rock with that kind of body will look normal or abnormal on you, instead of having that dashing effect it had on the model that rocked it on the runway.

So, guys, instead of joining the gang of guys that bash girls on social media, why not join the click of guys that would rather spend that moment working on themselves financially, spiritually, physically and emotionally?

Hit the gym today. A sexy and fit body will cover up your 'ugly face'. Once you start to work out with visible result, bet it that compliments will start to come your way. I'm a living example. I've always had a cute and handsome face, but I thought that was all I needed until I graduated and saw a decline in advances from ladies. That was when I decided to hit the gym and stay fit. Today, female colleagues, both single and married, do compliment me loudly. Male colleagues see me as an inspiration because I stand out from among them. Guess what I've become? I've become the kind of guy both men and women love. Such is whom ladies love, because ladies flock around who others flock around.

So, red pill guys, enough of female bashing, because to be honest, they owe you nothing. A they want in life is a high value man, not necessarily a rich man, but a man others admire without money attached to him.

The day I decided to love myself was the day I went to meet a carpenter and told him to make a local bench for me to use for bench press exercise. I worked out at home for two months before discovering that there was a gym close to my house, which I later registered in. Then I proceeded to get some workout suppliments. The day I stepped out to Ikeja City Mall to get one was the day I met the love of my life, a gorgeous light-skinned lady that looks like she got cropped out of a magazine. Did I mention that she loves me to pieces and calls me thrice a day with each calls lasting over an hour? She exhausts her airtime and immediately converts to Whatsapp call. The day I met her at ICM, I remember I was getting advances from ladies at the mall that day. Did I look rich? No. Did I look attractive? Yes.

Don't get me wrong, I don't look bulked up like Arnold Schwarzenegger, but I look fit and elegant with tones in the right places. I wish I could post pictures but it's not my style. Right now, I'm working on my finances and about to buy a landed property and work towards marriage next year. I'm also thinking about trippling my hustle next year.

Simply put, I spent my little money on myself by hitting the gym and enjoying myself. Same money would have gone into simping for a girl all in a bid to get her attention. These days, I don't hesitate to lavish on myself, buy nice and expensive shoes. So, I don't see it as a big deal to give my chick nice trips.

It's time for boys to learn to be men and stop whining like sissies. Work on yourself and the love you desire will be yours. Don't forget to pray to God too.

Start in this order:

Spiritually - read the Bible
Financially - work and save
Physically - hit the gym
Emotionally - don't let a lady's rejection or anything get on your nerves.

Peace guys

Hæhahahaha what you said about short Man Wizkid is True, but Wizkid boys will hate it

TarOrfeeek:
Men, do not embark on self improvement to "get girls"


That's a wasteful, empty and self deprecating life to live.

Exercise because you want to be fit.
Grow wealth because you want to be rich.
Spend on yourself because you deserve self love.


DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR A WOMAN'S AFFECTION!

OP, your own folly was declaring the landed property, higher income and adding marriage as an achievement. (BP WK Mangina Simp)

Body go soon tell you.

Haha

InvertedHammer:
/

Any man who set out to impress ladies is a born loser.

The power of indifference reigns supreme.

To get any woman you want, stop caring so much.

Nobody is that important.
/

Except your parents and siblings anything else is void.

Nyascobar1414:
How the Bleep will a sane human do this to get the validation of a girl(mortal).. And besides they have so many weaknesses i.e ... Menstruation and weird natural smell of punnani, foul menstrual blood...
Ah mean, it sounds odd to me..

Have you ever smell it before ni

Isaacpromise1:
1. OP your tems and wizkid analysis is lame weak!

2. Guys, body building, six packs, gym stuffs isn’t for everyone, if you want it - go for it, if you don’t - then don’t force yourself; feel free to be fat, just watch yourself.

3. Any development or value you are adding to yourself should be for yourself alone and not for enticing women or seeking special compliment like Op dey yarn!

4. Life isn’t a competition, just improve yourself and be better, financially, physically, mentally NOT to impress anyone; just do it for yourself and yourself alone.

I love your quotes bro
Thumbs up to you.

Las las, men go realize that marriage is as useless as boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. In fact, it's worse.

Na just toto I wan fûck. Las las, this life na every man to himself.

[quote author=xscoffy post=108239801]Read to understand bro. Don't rush to comment.

Like I said earlier. I have a good job n two jobs for that matter. So allow me handle the shit. My choice remains my choice. Shalom[/quot]your choice.my opinion.

KillAlabi2021:
Pile of trash

How'd Ned Nwoko
Appear

If Regina Daniels is sincere with you, she will tell you she doesn't fit d Ned Nwoko attractive. But because she has a money-hundry mother pushing her, she ended up with her father's mate. Wait for Ned to die and see the guy she will hook up with.

LifestyleTonite:
If Regina Daniels is sincere with you, she will tell you she doesn't fit d Ned Nwoko attractive. But because she has a money-hundry mother pushing her, she ended up with her father's mate. Wait for Ned to die and see the guy she will hook up with.

A dead Ned doesn't care

Abeg, no commess.

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. Nasty.. I'm out of here

What is this nonsense?

LifestyleTonite:
Na only money matter abi? Take money away from most men and see how valueless or clueless they become. As for me, I want to have more than money. That is why I preach improving one's self spiritually, financially, physically and emotionally.

I don't seem to understand why some lazy youths think this thread is about simping. No, it is not. It is about not simping and whining. Once you improve yourself, it is ladies that will be doing the chasing, not you.

Sadly, most clowns think it's all about money. They say just have money and all will be well. No. Have money and step up from there to becoming physically fit, spiritually and emotionally sound. Without the spiritual, motion and physique aspect, you will just be a maga to ladies.

That's the essence of this thread, but guys who can't sacrifice to improve have gotten it wrong to the point that they think all that is needed is money.

Oga Ned Nwoko

Is my mentor

He look unfit according to you

But he's stockpiling up the freshest and tightest hole

LifestyleTonite:
If Regina Daniels is sincere with you, she will tell you she doesn't fit d Ned Nwoko attractive. But because she has a money-hundry mother pushing her, she ended up with her father's mate. Wait for Ned to die and see the guy she will hook up with.

She will still hook up with an average looking guy with a future as a usual.
What is so special about her previous boyfriend?

You must be deluded if you think gyming and spending half of your salary on clothes makes you a lady's catch.

You think women are stupid?

drezzyx:
Just get rich.
Broke bitch don't care how you look like.
They will be like I like your stature.
Meanwhile you look like an amoeba.

Kai let me catch you first

I go just chop your money and clean mouth, dump you if money do mistake and finish

Shebi the only thing you will do is come to Nairaland create thread and wail
Lol as far as money is made
Men are addicted to heartless gold diggers

LifestyleTonite:
Quickly check the picture below before reading this short piece.

Welcome back.

Laughing out so aloud in red pill language.

It's time for guys to sit down and tell themselves the truth too and not just sit around and slam girls.

Guys have issues too. Many of them look shapeless or out of shape, yet they want a damsel in their life. When a damsel turns them down because they don't look attractive, they start to pour out their frustration on all girls.

Some think everything has to do with money. They think once they get money, they can get any girl for themselves. That's true to some extent, but you cant get love with just money, just sex which is not as good as knowing you are loved to pieces by the opposite sex.

Money is a tool you use to walk up to love. You use money to hit the gym, eat good food and look fit. But some guys think just buying expensive clothes is what matters, disregarding the fact that they need the right physique to accentuate the clothes.

Look at Wizkid and Tems. Wizkid was snubbed on stage by Tems. Why? Man's too short and boyish. Place Trey Songs or Drake on stage with her, which is clearly a match, and watch her fall over them.

Half the time, some rich men are dating or married to women who don't find them sexually attractive, but they don't know. They think all that matters is giving her money. That they do until they realise that one jobless dude is not only sleeping with their woman but also using the money they give their woman to level up.

Guys, lack of money is not the only reason why you can't find a damsel to love you sincerely. The reason why girls don't love you or even notice you passing by is because you don't love yourself. Imagine guys between 20 and 40 already having potbelly with fat body like a woman. I bet you that the expensive clothes you will rock with that kind of body will look normal or abnormal on you, instead of having that dashing effect it had on the model that rocked it on the runway.

So, guys, instead of joining the gang of guys that bash girls on social media, why not join the click of guys that would rather spend that moment working on themselves financially, spiritually, physically and emotionally?

Hit the gym today. A sexy and fit body will cover up your 'ugly face'. Once you start to work out with visible result, bet it that compliments will start to come your way. I'm a living example. I've always had a cute and handsome face, but I thought that was all I needed until I graduated and saw a decline in advances from ladies. That was when I decided to hit the gym and stay fit. Today, female colleagues, both single and married, do compliment me loudly. Male colleagues see me as an inspiration because I stand out from among them. Guess what I've become? I've become the kind of guy both men and women love. Such is whom ladies love, because ladies flock around who others flock around.

So, red pill guys, enough of female bashing, because to be honest, they owe you nothing. A they want in life is a high value man, not necessarily a rich man, but a man others admire without money attached to him.

The day I decided to love myself was the day I went to meet a carpenter and told him to make a local bench for me to use for bench press exercise. I worked out at home for two months before discovering that there was a gym close to my house, which I later registered in. Then I proceeded to get some workout suppliments. The day I stepped out to Ikeja City Mall to get one was the day I met the love of my life, a gorgeous light-skinned lady that looks like she got cropped out of a magazine. Did I mention that she loves me to pieces and calls me thrice a day with each calls lasting over an hour? She exhausts her airtime and immediately converts to Whatsapp call. The day I met her at ICM, I remember I was getting advances from ladies at the mall that day. Did I look rich? No. Did I look attractive? Yes.

Don't get me wrong, I don't look bulked up like Arnold Schwarzenegger, but I look fit and elegant with tones in the right places. I wish I could post pictures but it's not my style. Right now, I'm working on my finances and about to buy a landed property and work towards marriage next year. I'm also thinking about trippling my hustle next year.

Simply put, I spent my little money on myself by hitting the gym and enjoying myself. Same money would have gone into simping for a girl all in a bid to get her attention. These days, I don't hesitate to lavish on myself, buy nice and expensive shoes. So, I don't see it as a big deal to give my chick nice trips.

It's time for boys to learn to be men and stop whining like sissies. Work on yourself and the love you desire will be yours. Don't forget to pray to God too.

Start in this order:

Spiritually - read the Bible
Financially - work and save
Physically - hit the gym
Emotionally - don't let a lady's rejection or anything get on your nerves.

Peace guys

Hope your girlfriend’s fairness is real o. Check very well o

LifestyleTonite:
Do you think Toke finds Obasanjo attractive? She was just after connections, that's all. The person she loves and fell for is her ex-husband Maje. Guess what? Maje is a fitness trainer.

Tell Toke to pick between a guy like Maje and Obasanjo, she will pick Obasanjo. Why? Because she's whorish and a money chaser. Guess what. She'll hoard sex from Obasanjo, steal is money and give it to the guy that looks like Maje whom she will suck and sleep with. Why? The woman in her finds him attractive but sees Obasanjo as a beta male provider aka a meal ticket.

You sound naive


Do you think a man like OBJ will allow that to happen

This present generation breeds of girls are a fail. Too lazy to put in the work of being wifely worthy.

There are no too much requirement other than
1) Being Well raised(Behaviour/Background
2) Having understanding/Intelligence/Wisdom
3)Being Loyal/Respect/Subservience

Those are traits of a good woman. But we have slayQueens ready to remove their womanly regalia tailored by nature, just to wear something uglier than being on a man's suit just because they have a few change in their purse owing to woman emancipation from a man-enabled society. They want to usurp nature's order. Lazy bunch.

If you had specify the age range of women that prioritize a fit male body and excessive clothing, you would have been very correct.

From 19-26 year old women.
If you are not looking tight, you would find it very difficult Landing pretty girls in those range.

Even tems fall under that age range.
They are still in the zee world phase.

When they hit 27 and above, their priorities change.

If you spend too much gyming and dressing nice, you would turn those ladies off.
They would see you as a self obsessed boy.

LifestyleTonite:
Quickly check the picture below before reading this short piece.

Welcome back.

Laughing out so aloud in red pill language.

It's time for guys to sit down and tell themselves the truth too and not just sit around and slam girls.

Guys have issues too. Many of them look shapeless or out of shape, yet they want a damsel in their life. When a damsel turns them down because they don't look attractive, they start to pour out their frustration on all girls.

Some think everything has to do with money. They think once they get money, they can get any girl for themselves. That's true to some extent, but you cant get love with just money, just sex which is not as good as knowing you are loved to pieces by the opposite sex.

Money is a tool you use to walk up to love. You use money to hit the gym, eat good food and look fit. But some guys think just buying expensive clothes is what matters, disregarding the fact that they need the right physique to accentuate the clothes.

Look at Wizkid and Tems. Wizkid was snubbed on stage by Tems. Why? Man's too short and boyish. Place Trey Songs or Drake on stage with her, which is clearly a match, and watch her fall over them.

Half the time, some rich men are dating or married to women who don't find them sexually attractive, but they don't know. They think all that matters is giving her money. That they do until they realise that one jobless dude is not only sleeping with their woman but also using the money they give their woman to level up.

Guys, lack of money is not the only reason why you can't find a damsel to love you sincerely. The reason why girls don't love you or even notice you passing by is because you don't love yourself. Imagine guys between 20 and 40 already having potbelly with fat body like a woman. I bet you that the expensive clothes you will rock with that kind of body will look normal or abnormal on you, instead of having that dashing effect it had on the model that rocked it on the runway.

So, guys, instead of joining the gang of guys that bash girls on social media, why not join the click of guys that would rather spend that moment working on themselves financially, spiritually, physically and emotionally?

Hit the gym today. A sexy and fit body will cover up your 'ugly face'. Once you start to work out with visible result, bet it that compliments will start to come your way. I'm a living example. I've always had a cute and handsome face, but I thought that was all I needed until I graduated and saw a decline in advances from ladies. That was when I decided to hit the gym and stay fit. Today, female colleagues, both single and married, do compliment me loudly. Male colleagues see me as an inspiration because I stand out from among them. Guess what I've become? I've become the kind of guy both men and women love. Such is whom ladies love, because ladies flock around who others flock around.

So, red pill guys, enough of female bashing, because to be honest, they owe you nothing. A they want in life is a high value man, not necessarily a rich man, but a man others admire without money attached to him.

The day I decided to love myself was the day I went to meet a carpenter and told him to make a local bench for me to use for bench press exercise. I worked out at home for two months before discovering that there was a gym close to my house, which I later registered in. Then I proceeded to get some workout suppliments. The day I stepped out to Ikeja City Mall to get one was the day I met the love of my life, a gorgeous light-skinned lady that looks like she got cropped out of a magazine. Did I mention that she loves me to pieces and calls me thrice a day with each calls lasting over an hour? She exhausts her airtime and immediately converts to Whatsapp call. The day I met her at ICM, I remember I was getting advances from ladies at the mall that day. Did I look rich? No. Did I look attractive? Yes.

Don't get me wrong, I don't look bulked up like Arnold Schwarzenegger, but I look fit and elegant with tones in the right places. I wish I could post pictures but it's not my style. Right now, I'm working on my finances and about to buy a landed property and work towards marriage next year. I'm also thinking about trippling my hustle next year.

Simply put, I spent my little money on myself by hitting the gym and enjoying myself. Same money would have gone into simping for a girl all in a bid to get her attention. These days, I don't hesitate to lavish on myself, buy nice and expensive shoes. So, I don't see it as a big deal to give my chick nice trips.

It's time for boys to learn to be men and stop whining like sissies. Work on yourself and the love you desire will be yours. Don't forget to pray to God too.

Start in this order:

Spiritually - read the Bible
Financially - work and save
Physically - hit the gym
Emotionally - don't let a lady's rejection or anything get on your nerves.

Peace guys

I was trying to read...like really trying, then my eyes caught the Wizkid and Tems thing and simply told myself...nah... ain't worth it.

KillAlabi2021:
You sound naive


Do you think a man like OBJ will allow that to happen

He will use juju to prevent it from happening?

E be like sey you no know where these olosho girls they enter sef.

CSTRR:
If you had specify the age range of women that prioritize a fit male body and excessive clothing, you would have been very correct.

From 19-26 year old women.
If you are not looking tight, you would find it very difficult Landing pretty girls in those range.

Even tems fall under that age range.
They are still in the zee world phase.

When they hit 27 and above, their priorities change.

If you spend too much gyming and dressing nice, you would turn those ladies off.
They would see you as a self obsessed boy.

Is it a woman above 30 aka evening newspaper that you want to marry? Stay fit and add other resources to enable you land a girl below 27 who still has youthfulness