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Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Ventura1: 10:28pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Bullies are everywhere, we need a paradigm shift in our individual character to effectively fight bullying. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by SeriouslySense(m): 10:31pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
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Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by chinyce(m): 10:41pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
I don't think Bullying us the Issue here. Bullying has always been with us from when School was invented. Bullying could Mar or Build a child. The issue here is Cultism. Sly died because he Rejected Cultism. Those senior boys did not kill him by bullying. They killed him through cultist activities. Secrecy, untouchable by school Authorities, fear among other Children, seaminly above the law. These are few attributes of Cultist Practice. The issue is Cultism not necessarily Bullying. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Odidigboigbo(m): 10:44pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
blamingthedevil:Why dragging Ayedepo into this? What's business with Oyedepo with seniors bullying the juniors. Mention one School that seniors does not bully the juniors? People are condemning the Sylvester issue because of the end result. Even those complaining has once bullied their juniors when they were in School. That is children and adulisence life for you. Even at home, sometimes, we get bullied by our elders. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Odidigboigbo(m): 10:47pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:Nothing new here, except you didn't attend boarding school. It's even worst in the olden days. |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by vineyardfarms: 10:49pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Drag them to court to claim damages, by the time they pay big bucks, they be force to put their house together. Report to a higher authority like G. O'S TO INTERVANE. |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Magnoliaa(f): 10:51pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
MsFaith: 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Magnoliaa(f): 10:53pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
xynerise: I HOPE this is not a justification? |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Odidigboigbo(m): 10:57pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
xynerise:borty children that cannot withstand a small play. I remember a day I visited my sister, I met one her children at the gate crying. I asked what was the issue, only for him to tell that the gateman called him big head. If you see beating I gave him that, it reformat his brain by force by fire. |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by jaszplus12(m): 11:01pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
On one hand, some of these bullies actually picked it up from HOME! Do you know that most mothers bully their kids without admitting it? What about fathers? They are not left out as they too in a bid to show that they're in charge they bully wives and this trickles down to the children. Let's look inwards, how you treat your kids reflect on them. How you treat your husband/wife is seen by the children! How you treat your domestic servants isn't hidden either... Since you can get away with it so also the child who become a bully feels powerful!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by pocohantas(f): 11:01pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
xynerise: You are not supposed to stand bullying. The problem is with the bully. 4 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Glink2018(m): 11:06pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Why bring it up when you have been pacified...and thank God it was any member of the staff or principal that bully your son.... And the person that bullies your son is also a child from one irresponsible parent. |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Eriokanmi: 11:07pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Since the day I bullied a girl and she reported me to my mum during our school's end of the year party, I'd vowed never to bully anyone again. I flogged this girl to the extent that she was crying uncontrollably. I was punished and out of annoyance, I refused to go back to school with her. By the time I now got to school, dem don share all the gift finish, including the delicacy which had been causing me to salivate. Its a day I'd never forget. Bullying is not good, should be condemned 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by HitSong: 11:09pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
This bastard was a bully back in the days... Badagry grammar school. Sodiq Olori It will never be well with you wherever you are |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Odidigboigbo(m): 11:11pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
ANDREW91:Which of them is yours? Mine is Edo boys |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by HitSong: 11:15pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
This bastard was a bully back in the days ... Badagry grammar school. I will still give him a beating of his life anytime I see him. Sodiq Olori It will never be well with you wherever you are. 2 Likes
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Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by tnerro1(m): 11:17pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
The country has destroyed its future leaders, no more hope, if you can jakpa with your kids, don’t waste time 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by delpee(f): 11:22pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
I was in boarding school all through secondary up to A levels. I never had these issues probably because there were specific laws and school traditions in place to prevent bullying. All my siblings went to boarding schools too. I remember that my younger brother complained that seniors often took his provision and sometimes his meals. He sometimes had to fetch water for some seniors but nothing really injurious to his health. That was a Fed. Govt. College. It seems that serious bullying became rampant in the 90s and appears to have gotten so much worse. Parents have a huge role to play in all this. Watch/study your children so that you can easily notice changes in behaviour and comportment. Listen in a loving and friendly manner to get out necessary information from them. (I actually used to enjoy listening to school gists from my kids.) You learn a lot from that and know when it's time to speak to the authorities or move. A distant or carefree parent never gets to learn much till it's too late. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:32pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
xynerise: I wonder what you mean by violence. An act of bullying doesn't have to get physical for it to have debilitating consequences on the recipient. Stop making excuses for bullies. They're horrible people! |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by clothingonline(m): 11:33pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
See what social media caused if you ever attend boarding school and you not bullied it’s a lie so why tag names and schools |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Paperbag(m): 11:46pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
illmatic101: Same as me broh . When i run home this man will drive me back and hand me over to the principal to flog me . This had a big effect on our relationship even till today ... Now he begs me to visit them at home or call , the same home he never liked me being .. I called him recently about this news and he was saying he never new it was this bad ..i then found out from my mum he actually confessed running away from boarding house too to bcom a day student because of bullying n beating ....omo i weak , i just tire for the man ...people are wicked shaa ,like this my papa and Sylvester killers na same tin 2 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Algold: 12:04am On Dec 08, 2021 |
Hoarding school and bullying be like friends |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by PoliteActivist: 12:19am On Dec 08, 2021 |
Oleka1: IKBARUTEN11: Two former secondary school bullies spotted. (The topic makes them uncomfortable) |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by bjtinz: 12:20am On Dec 08, 2021 |
jaszplus12: How exactly does a parent bully his children. You mean if I flog my child that's bullying? I really think some of you guys are taking this thing too far. 2 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by PoliteActivist: 12:22am On Dec 08, 2021 |
chinyce: You can't see that they are the same? A clique of students bullying a loner or misfit student is essentially a cult |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by bjtinz: 12:27am On Dec 08, 2021 |
chinyce: Very true. A very important distinction which is lost on many people. What happened to Sly is reprehensible and should never be condoned Problem now is even simple acts of disciplining a child is taken as bullying. For instance a senior asks you to kneel or 'pick pin' for misbehaving and people now term that as bullying. Seriously? � |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by PoliteActivist: 12:27am On Dec 08, 2021 |
delpee: You totally ignored the cult aspect. Did the violent campus cults of these days exist in those days?? |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by PoliteActivist: 12:29am On Dec 08, 2021 |
bjtinz: How come other countries (like US) produce movers and innovators without any student kneeling or picking pins?? |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by PoliteActivist: 12:32am On Dec 08, 2021 |
bjtinz: Of course some parents bully their children, sometimes to the extent of leaving permanent marks. Children need to be protected by society and by the law!! |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by nnamdi640: 1:39am On Dec 08, 2021 |
Nigeria and rubbish. Everyone want to claim victims, soon this chapter go soon close. |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by Daboomb: 1:57am On Dec 08, 2021 |
TalkTalkTwins: Not just our Secondary Schools, Nigeria has always been a Dog-eat-Dog Kontiri. Go and see how New Recruits into the Police and miltiary Academies are treated by their Seniors and Superiors and you will understand why they come out and begin to terrorise Civilians. The first thing a graduate of NDA wants to do, as in first accomplishment after graduation, is to brutalise innocent, unarmed Civilians, because BULLYING is a strong part of their training. Did you not see how that useless[b] Senator Abbo[/b] slapped a lady at her front desk Shop? What manner of bullying can be greater than that? Did you not see what that Code of Conduct Chairman Muktar or what is his name, did to the Parking attendant at that Shop in Abuja, just for asking him to park properly? What punishment did the get? Nothing. He even has the temerity to threaten and lock up his Victim, due to our "BigManism Syndrome". These things trickle down to the younger generation and the current, unfortunate Govt and Leader has made matters worse for all of us. Mindless Brutality everywhere. Nigeria is morally and mentally messed-up, we are just about to start seeing the results. 2 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by bezimo(m): 2:05am On Dec 08, 2021 |
Well I don't know what to say..but folks like me who attended secondary school in the mid 90s to early 20s.will know bullying is natural in boarding school,much less a military school that I attended. What kind of punishment didn't I serve from seniors, but when we were seniors we bullied the juniors in return..its am unending cycle..but bullying someone to the point of killing the fellow was a no no and that changes everything. |
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