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Fear of starting all over


This is a major reason why people continue being in an abusive relationship.

Know this:


The hardest part of a relationship is the beginning stage - starting all over.


Learning someone from the scratch - adapting to their pattern of thoughts, patterns of behaviour, character, way of living, their choices and preferences, it's actually overwhelming.


Often times when you hear people say that they don't want to go into a relationship, they just want to be on their own, it's usually because they are scared of walking through that journey of knowing someone from the scratch...


And most times after taking their time to know this person the relationship wouldn't still work out, hence they prefer to be on their own.


So for people that are in an abusive relationship, when they break up with their current partner and if it happens to be those people who can't stay a day without being in a relationship, it is usually a whole lot of thing for them


So instead of them going through that hurdle of finding a new partner, learning them from the scratch and adapting to their ways, they prefer to stay in the abusive relationship.


Most people prefer to stay in an abusive relationship than start a new harmonious one because of the stress of starting all over.


Mind you, if you happen to be on this table, it's not good enough a reason to remain in an abusive relationship...


You deserve someone that will love you good and treat you like a king/queen that you are.


You won't know which would turn a happy relationship if you don't give a new relationship a chance.

I love to see you happy in your relationship,
Your favourite Relationship Expert,
Damian Uchenna.

Paswankidamian:
Fear of starting all over


This is a major reason why people continue being in an abusive relationship.

Know this:


The hardest part of a relationship is the beginning stage - starting all over.


Learning someone from the scratch - adapting to their pattern of thoughts, patterns of behaviour, character, way of living, their choices and preferences, it's actually overwhelming.


Often times when you hear people say that they don't want to go into a relationship, they just want to be on their own, it's usually because they are scared of walking through that journey of knowing someone from the scratch...


And most times after taking their time to know this person the relationship wouldn't still work out, hence they prefer to be on their own.


So for people that are in an abusive relationship, when they break up with their current partner and if it happens to be those people who can't stay a day without being in a relationship, it is usually a whole lot of thing for them


So instead of them going through that hurdle of finding a new partner, learning them from the scratch and adapting to their ways, they prefer to stay in the abusive relationship.


Most people prefer to stay in an abusive relationship than start a new harmonious one because of the stress of starting all over.


Mind you, if you happen to be on this table, it's not good enough a reason to remain in an abusive relationship...


You deserve someone that will love you good and treat you like a king/queen that you are.


You won't know which would turn a happy relationship if you don't give a new relationship a chance.

I love to see you happy in your relationship,
Your favourite Relationship Expert,
Damian Uchenna.

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