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Open Letter To Africa Husbands On Successful And Happy Marriage. by LoveUdie(op): 9:10am On Dec 10, 2021
Dear African married men and intending husbands.
She's your wife and also the mother of your children. So stop calling her weird or unprintable names like, “Mami Boy”, “Ma baby” or “lady this or that”. Worse still, when there's a guest at home, you don’t even know what to call her but names such as, ” you!” or “madame!” this is not nice as it doesn't make you romantic. She expected you to be calling names like Queen, Baby Angel, Dearest One, My Darling, My Beloved, and Sweetheart. You shouldn't be calling her these romantic names only when you want to make love to her. Call her these names anywhere, anytime, and everywhere.

Kiss her even without prior notice. Yes kiss her in public as well as at home and stop dodging her public kisses too. Don't give her handshakes and side hugs as if she's just a friend and acquaintance to you. She's your wife and she needs intimacy and romance from you. When you see her in a public place, run to her, kiss her, give a hug and silently tell her, I love you. She will be shy and blush much but women love it and also want to enjoy that quality of love from their man. Why only kiss behind closed doors? She expected that kind of play Abraham played with his wife in public that made the king believe he lied about her being his sister. Stop relating with your wife in a way that makes her look like she's one of your siblings. The fact is that she knows it is difficult for you to do this because of how you were raised, but she needs you to learn to kiss her even when others are around and maybe look at you guys.
Your masculinity doesn’t shift an inch if you do some housework with her especially cooking together, cleaning the house together, etc. It only shows that you really love her and it makes her love you in return, and easily makes ‘that place’ wet and easier for you to enter and enjoy her in the bedroom. Is important to know 1 or 2 things or even 10 things about house chores, this will convince her that you are truly romantic and loving.

Dear African Husbands, stop failing to notice when she has a new hairstyle and when she gets her make-up right. She wants to be appreciated and smiled with by her man, you are the only one that she expected to receive such compliment from, so do without timetable. Say things like.......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2021/12/open-letter-to-africa-husbands-on.html
Re: Open Letter To Africa Husbands On Successful And Happy Marriage. by kellexnuel(m): 12:08pm On Dec 10, 2021
LoveUdie:
Dear African married men and intending husbands.
She's your wife and also the mother of your children. So stop calling her weird or unprintable names like, “Mami Boy”, “Ma baby” or “lady this or that”. Worse still, when there's a guest at home, you don’t even know what to call her but names such as, ” you!” or “madame!” this is not nice as it doesn't make you romantic. She expected you to be calling names like Queen, Baby Angel, Dearest One, My Darling, My Beloved, and Sweetheart. You shouldn't be calling her these romantic names only when you want to make love to her. Call her these names anywhere, anytime, and everywhere.

Kiss her even without prior notice. Yes kiss her in public as well as at home and stop dodging her public kisses too. Don't give her handshakes and side hugs as if she's just a friend and acquaintance to you. She's your wife and she needs intimacy and romance from you. When you see her in a public place, run to her, kiss her, give a hug and silently tell her, I love you. She will be shy and blush much but women love it and also want to enjoy that quality of love from their man. Why only kiss behind closed doors? She expected that kind of play Abraham played with his wife in public that made the king believe he lied about her being his sister. Stop relating with your wife in a way that makes her look like she's one of your siblings. The fact is that she knows it is difficult for you to do this because of how you were raised, but she needs you to learn to kiss her even when others are around and maybe look at you guys.
Your masculinity doesn’t shift an inch if you do some housework with her especially cooking together, cleaning the house together, etc. It only shows that you really love her and it makes her love you in return, and easily makes ‘that place’ wet and easier for you to enter and enjoy her in the bedroom. Is important to know 1 or 2 things or even 10 things about house chores, this will convince her that you are truly romantic and loving.

Dear African Husbands, stop failing to notice when she has a new hairstyle and when she gets her make-up right. She wants to be appreciated and smiled with by her man, you are the only one that she expected to receive such compliment from, so do without timetable. Say things like.......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2021/12/open-letter-to-africa-husbands-on.html
Love this, thanks. U are absolutely right women blossom under love
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