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My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 12:37pm On Dec 12, 2021
I didn't know it was hard to pray, untill I was given microphone today unexpectedly.

I wouldn't say I disgraced myself, but bro you supposed know how that kind thing dey be.

Elders are there, deacons and deaconess are there ever ready to be called at any giving opportunity, na me when sit down my own jejely for congregation dey look time...na pastor see call.

The full church was just observing as the usher was bringing the mic to where I stood.

I fumbled, even my voice for the speaker echo, the way my voice sounded in the speaker, some people Burst laugh.

Where I want start from,

My buddie that came with me to the church.(guy man just smiling sheepishly)

I just had to coordinate myself a little, I kept it short and simple.

Well, na small thing dey disgrace person.

A young man like myself go come dey fool myself say I nor sabi pray.. thank jah for how it played out.
It wasn't really that bad... he's not supposed to Take me unaware.

Because it was just as if the pastor get me for mind before.

Ever since have been attending that church it's elders, deacons, evangelist he normally calls to give closing prayer... and I know he normally informs them down.

As for my pastor am thinking about having a chat with him, I really didn't like it.

He can't just take me unaware like that.
if he wanted me to pray the closing prayer, he should. Have sent the usher with a piece of note to come inform me.
That would have been better, not calling me unexpectedly.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by devilmaycry: 12:41pm On Dec 12, 2021
U should be grateful to grace such among the congregation...
In righteousness "keyboard" ...this is how Jesus will come unexpectedly...how prepared re we?...

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Femmyfestus: 12:46pm On Dec 12, 2021
devilmaycry:
U should be grateful to grace such among the congregation...
In righteousness "keyboard" ...this is how Jesus will come unexpectedly...how prepared re we?...
Righteousness2
Righteousness2:
This is why we Preach on the Need to live Prepared and In the Conciousness of our Eternity. Because this is how the Coming of JESUS Christ will be. Unexpectedly and Suddenly.
Mr righteousness never disappoints.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 12:50pm On Dec 12, 2021
devilmaycry:
U should be grateful to grace such among the congregation...
..
no I don't like it.
you can't just take me unaware like that.


if he wanted me to pray the closing prayer, he should have sent the usher with a piece of note to come inform me.

that would have been better.

not calling me unexpectedly.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by 9182736455O1999(m): 1:05pm On Dec 12, 2021
Iol i've experienced such sha. But mine was to sing praise.

na so all the songs i know fly commot from my head sad . I no know how that moment carry pass sef.
i was just praying in my mind that the ground should open nd swallow me.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 1:08pm On Dec 12, 2021
9182736455O1999:
Iol i've experienced such sha. But mine was to sing praise.

na so all the songs i know fly commot from my head sad . I no know how that moment carry pass sef.
i was just praying in my mind that the ground should open nd swallow me.
that kind thing is not good.

If you want somebody to do something in the congregations, it's right you inform them down..so that they be prepared for it.

he doesn't know my state of mind at that time, forget if my body is in church.
my man dey think many things.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by SUCKCESSFUL: 1:11pm On Dec 12, 2021
I had a similar experience years back.
Mine was during the Midweek service.
I just felt like going to church that Wednesday.
You know how it's mostly the elderly coming for the Midweek, so they where happy to see me.
Omo as E reach praise and worship, one maale carry mic come give me, na so my body system change "ozugbo ozugbo".
Shame upon shame.
I come dey stutter, cheesy my voice wasn't helping also, it became hoarse.
Church steward pikin can't even lead the church in praises cry
The shame no be here.
Some things need not be experienced twice!

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Ryda(m): 1:12pm On Dec 12, 2021
*In Righteousness voice
That's how rapture will take you unawares.

Since you kept it short and simple quit complaining.
In life be ready always.

I once had similar experience and it was even my closest friend that called me out.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by 9182736455O1999(m): 1:27pm On Dec 12, 2021
KiNg0G:

that kind thing is not good.

If you want somebody to do something in the congregations, it's right you inform them down..so that they be prepared for it.

he doesn't know my state of mind at that time, forget if my body is in church.
my man dey think many things.
very true

but are you familiar with the pastor or the both of you hardly interact with each other.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Foodqueen(f): 1:32pm On Dec 12, 2021
And u are calling the mods, to come and do what exactly

We Don hear your gist, what else

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 1:33pm On Dec 12, 2021
9182736455O1999:

very true

but are you familiar with the pastor or the both of you hardly interact with each other.
am just a floor member who goes there sometimes.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 1:35pm On Dec 12, 2021
Foodqueen:
And u are calling the mods, to come and do what exactly

We Don hear your gist, what else
gerat my friend.

people sharing their experiences are not humans?

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Righteousness2(m): 1:38pm On Dec 12, 2021
This is why we Preach on the Need to live Prepared and In the Conciousness of our Eternity. Because this is how the Coming of JESUS Christ will be. Unexpectedly and Suddenly.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:47pm On Dec 12, 2021
Funny. What's the big deal in being called out to pray? Prayer which is something you do always? Don't meet your pastor to complain, just let it go oga.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by 9182736455O1999(m): 1:50pm On Dec 12, 2021
KiNg0G:
am just a floor member who goes there sometimes.
Ok.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 1:55pm On Dec 12, 2021
ok

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 1:57pm On Dec 12, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Funny. What's the big deal in being called out to pray? Prayer which is something you do always? Don't meet your pastor to complain, just let it go oga.
always you say.

but do you know they is difference between praying for yourself at home and praying for the full congregations in the church?

when I prayed to God, I used pidgin English, talk to him like he's my guy... which I know he understands.

but today I used the pidgin english, na laugh I got from the congregations... before I switched to english.. I had to use it....I don't like that.

I was not prepared, at that time thinking on how to drive home.. if I was going to branch a friend place or go home to eat first..or Branch a restaurant on my way driving.

so many thoughts.


and I was just called unexpectedly.

you don't see anything wrong in that?

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Whyzaid(f): 3:03pm On Dec 12, 2021
You should have told him that you are not in the spirit.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Nobody: 4:00pm On Dec 12, 2021
KiNg0G:
I didn't know it was hard to pray, untill I was given microphone today unexpectedly.

I wouldn't say I disgraced myself, but bro you supposed know how that kind thing dey be.

elders are there, deacons and deaconess are there ever ready to be called at any giving opportunity, na me when sit down my own jejely for congregation dey look time...na pastor see call.
the full church were just observing as the usher was bringing the mic to where I stood.

I fumbled, even my voice for the speaker echo, the way my voice sounded in the speaker, some people Burst laugh.

where I want start from,

my buddie that came with me to the church.(guy man just smiling sheepishly)

I just had to coordinate myself a little, I kept it short and simple.

well, na small thing dey disgrace person.

A young man like myself go come dey fool myself say I nor sabi pray.. thank jah for how it played out.
it wasn't really that bad... he's not supposed to Take me unaware.

because it was just as if the pastor get me for mind before.

ever since have been attending that church it's elders, deacons, evangelist he normally calls to give closing prayer... and I know he normally informs them down.

As for my pastor am thinking about having a chat with him, I really didn't like it.

he can't just take me unaware like that.
if he wanted me to pray the closing prayer, he should
have sent the usher with a piece of note to come
inform me.
that would have been better.
not calling me unexpectedly.

cc
lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44
Talk to him about it in a polite manner..

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 4:02pm On Dec 12, 2021
Whyzaid:
You should have told him that you are not in the spirit.
very good, next time
Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 4:06pm On Dec 12, 2021
GonzalezAguero:
Talk to him about it in a polite manner..
yes I will, nor be quarrel matter.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by VanDerWaalforces: 4:18pm On Dec 12, 2021
KiNg0G:

always you say.

but do you know they is difference between praying for yourself at home and praying for the full congregations in the church?

when I prayed to God, I used pidgin English, talk to him like he's my guy... which I know he understands.

but today I used the pidgin english, na laugh I got from the congregations... before I switched to english.. I had to use it....I don't like that.

I was not prepared, at that time thinking on how to drive home.. if I was going to branch a friend place or go home to eat first..or Branch a restaurant on my way driving.

so many thoughts.


and I was just called unexpectedly.

you don't see anything wrong in that?

Smiles! U would definitely do better next time u are called. Just learn and move on. Don't discuss it with him. He just helped U and U would realize this latter.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Richy4(m): 4:19pm On Dec 12, 2021
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
I was totally looking for the offence my brother, I couldn't see it...

What if he was led by the spirit to tell u to pray that you might be the one that could save the situation at that moment... I heard The Spirit controls the physical.. Abi u never hear am grin

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 4:44pm On Dec 12, 2021
Richy4:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
I was totally looking for the offence my brother, I couldn't see it...

What if he was led by the spirit to tell u to pray that you might be the one that could save the situation at that moment... I heard The Spirit controls the physical.. Abi u never hear am grin
hahahaha, so the spirit when lead am nor tell am say na how to discharge go tie my last sk when I leave for table dey my mind.

no offence for him telling me to pray, but he should have informed me.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Richy4(m): 5:15pm On Dec 12, 2021
KiNg0G:

hahahaha, so the spirit when lead am nor tell am say na how to discharge go tie my last sk when I leave for table dey my mind.

no offence for him telling me to pray, but he should have informed me.
cheesy cheesy grin grin grin
He should inform u first to pray? Haba Mallam!!! Hankali cheesy..
When u decide in the morning to go to church, What was going through your mind about the activities that happens in there?... Besides, Prayers is not only meant for the preachers alone buddy...

On the day Christ breathe his last on the cross, The veil was torn... Which signifies that everyone has access to the father.. it was no longer the duty of the priest alone to pray...So if u were asked to pray, u are part of the body of Christ and u have access to the throne as well...

You shouldn't even worry about fanciful words that people use while praying.. it's about communication to God, and he alone understands what was in your heart...

Informing you first will make the prayer Rehearsed and diluted like a poem in my opinion.. pleasing to the ears but might not cross The rooftop of your church. grin grin grin

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 5:20pm On Dec 12, 2021
Richy4:

cheesy cheesy grin grin grin
He should inform u first to pray? Haba Mallam!!! cheesy..
When u decide in the morning to go to church, What was going through your mind about the activities that happens in there?... Besides, Prayers is not only meant for the preachers alone buddy...

On the day Christ breathe his last on the cross, The veil was torn... Which signifies that everyone has access to the father.. it was no longer the duty of the priest alone to pray...So if u were asked to pray, u are part of the body of Christ and u have access to the throne as well...

You shouldn't even worry about fanciful words that people use while praying.. it's about communication to God, and he alone understands what was in your heart...

Informing you first will make the prayer Rehearsed and diluted like a poem in my opinion.. pleasing to the ears but might not cross The rooftop of your church. grin grin grin

bros it be like you be pastor, nor be so them dey do matter!.
if you dey do like that you better stop am.

during jesus teaching people in The wilderness, how many person he point make them pray for the gathering?.


informing me first for make better sense, even jesus christ informed us say he dey come soon... we should be prepared.


if he tell usher to come tell me say na me go take closing prayer during offering time, it bad?


how him go just call my name like that, unexpectedly.

talk better thing jhor

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Richy4(m): 5:31pm On Dec 12, 2021
KiNg0G:


bros it be like you be pastor, nor be so them dey do matter!.
if you dey do like that you better stop am.

during jesus teaching people in The wilderness, how many person he point make them pray for the gathering?.


informing me first for make better sense, even jesus christ informed us say he dey come soon... we should be prepared.


if he tell usher to come tell me say na me go take closing prayer during offering time, it bad?


how him go just call my name like that, unexpectedly.

talk better thing jhor

grin grin grin
My brother I no be pastoroo... Infact I am very far from becoming a pastor... In church, I'm one of the technical team that do livestreaming... But hey, that's by the way..

But what was the lesson learnt from the parable of the ten virgins?... Let me save u the time... It's to be prepared always...

I'm really glad you made out time today to be with the Lord.. Sorry it didn't go well with your well organised lifestyle and plan..

Please do not take it to heart.. he didn't mean to embarrass you... He probably thought both of you were on the same page grin grin

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Godons1: 6:08pm On Dec 12, 2021
KiNg0G:
I didn't know it was hard to pray, untill I was given microphone today unexpectedly.

I wouldn't say I disgraced myself, but bro you supposed know how that kind thing dey be.

elders are there, deacons and deaconess are there ever ready to be called at any giving opportunity, na me when sit down my own jejely for congregation dey look time...na pastor see call.
the full church were just observing as the usher was bringing the mic to where I stood.

I fumbled, even my voice for the speaker echo, the way my voice sounded in the speaker, some people Burst laugh.

where I want start from,

my buddie that came with me to the church.(guy man just smiling sheepishly)

I just had to coordinate myself a little, I kept it short and simple.

well, na small thing dey disgrace person.

A young man like myself go come dey fool myself say I nor sabi pray.. thank jah for how it played out.
it wasn't really that bad... he's not supposed to Take me unaware.

because it was just as if the pastor get me for mind before.

ever since have been attending that church it's elders, deacons, evangelist he normally calls to give closing prayer... and I know he normally informs them down.

As for my pastor am thinking about having a chat with him, I really didn't like it.

he can't just take me unaware like that.
if he wanted me to pray the closing prayer, he should
have sent the usher with a piece of note to come
inform me.
that would have been better.
not calling me unexpectedly.

cc
lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44

The first time I was asked to pray in public, I automatically became a chronic STAMARER grin. I stammer from the begining to the end of the prayer. To mention Jesus name sef come hard me. I really disgraced myself that day.

After that incident, I stopped going to Church for over a year cause of shame. Me wey dress very well that day to impress one Girl wey i dey eye that time. I even made sure I sat close to her grin grin

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by KiNg0G: 6:13pm On Dec 12, 2021
Godons1:


The first time I was asked to pray in public, I automatically became a chronic STAMARER. I stammer from the beging to the end of the prayer. To call Jesus name sef cone hard me. I really disgraced myself that day.

After that incident, I stopped going to Church for over a year cause of shame. Me wey dress very well that day to impress one Girl wey u dey eye that time. I even made sure I sat close to her grin grin
na so it dey be sometimes

some pastor's dey intentionally do am, to for fool the person.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Rollsnjaguar(m): 6:19pm On Dec 12, 2021
Godons1:


The first time I was asked to pray in public, I automatically became a chronic STAMARER grin. I stammer from the begining to the end of the prayer. To mention Jesus name sef come hard me. I really disgraced myself that day.

After that incident, I stopped going to Church for over a year cause of shame. Me wey dress very well that day to impress one Girl wey i dey eye that time. I even made sure I sat close to her grin grin

I can't stop laughing grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Magnoliaa(f): 7:09pm On Dec 12, 2021
Someone came to share good news here, a marriage anniversary. You told him nobody cares.

People will comment, you will troll them from here to Gwagwalada.

Now you're coming to share your own experience, and to probably get sympathisers? Why? Because you think your experience is valid and your subjective reality matters? You want people to comment and see reasons with you? No be attention you dey seek for too?

Insult me o. Slut-shame me for this comment. Na your way. I am waiting.

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Re: My Pastor Offended Me Today In Church (Experience) by Mariangeles(f): 7:24pm On Dec 12, 2021
KiNg0G:

that kind thing is not good.

If you want somebody to do something in the congregations, it's right you inform them down..so that they be prepared for it.

he doesn't know my state of mind at that time, forget if my body is in church.
my man dey think many things.

When next you’re called to pray unexpectedly and you don’t know what to pray, just say Dear God, thank you. or you just thank God for everything you’re grateful for that you can remember at that moment. Prayer should not be complicated, just sincere and heartfelt.

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