Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

So what do u want us to do now? We should help u wash the clothes?

Soooooooooo?

Do you want us to donate Washing machine money for you or what exactly do you want from us?

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

2 months plus and he already expect you to wash clothes....e even said pack it to your house.... wonders shall never end.....
He should wash his own clothes if he’s not sick
Don’t let any man harass you with wife material issue and use style to turn you to uloma from the village.


It’s the 21st century, everybody should go and buy washing machine ....

SmellySperm:
So what do u want us to do now? We should help u wash the clothes?

@SmellySperm thank you jor, you be true nairalander

Op

You need a little sense, 2 months and you have started washing clothes for who? Because of relationship keep washing the clothes.

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

Are you his wife?
You should just know that the guy doesn't love you or value you

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

Don't mind him.

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

Favor pls end that toxic relationship for your sanity aiit..I see some immature guys using insultive and mockery words just cos you are a female but if it was the other way round they would support their fellow guy man..
End the relationship that guy is a loser..how on earth are you gonna be washing his clothes..
Don't change yourself just to please anyone no matter how important they are to you..
End the relationship and move on with your peaceful life.. I'd appreciate if you don't post your private life on this forum..

He just doesn't respect you and i do not think you ll be happy in a relationship void of mutual respect . You should value yourself enough to end that relationship and work on yourself so you can choose better next time

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

Please can I continue from where he stopped.. let continue.. DM me

Tell him to go to hell also. At this day and age, everyone should do their own laundry. If you must help him, it has to be with a washing machine.

GonzalezAguero:

Favor pls end that toxic relationship for your sanity aiit..I see some immature guys using insultive and mockery words just cos you are a female but if it was the other way round they would support their fellow guy man..
End the relationship that guy is a loser..how on earth are you gonna be washing his clothes..
Don't change yourself just to please anyone no matter how important they are to you..
End the relationship and move on with your peaceful life.. I'd appreciate if you don't post your private life on this forum..

Which book did you read the emboldened from? Everyone is forming love doctor on the internet. Much as I don't agree with what the guy asked for, that statement you made is totally wrong.

If two spouses don't go out of their way to please each other, that marriage will not go beyond one year. I guess your insinuation can only hold if it has to be a mere relationship, not marriage.

SmartPolician:


[s]Which book did you read the emboldened from? Everyone is forming love doctor on the internet. Much as I don't agree with what the guy asked for, that statement you made is totally wrong.

If two spouses don't go out of their way to please each other, that marriage will not go beyond one year. I guess your insinuation can only hold if it has to be a mere relationship, not marriage.[/s]

Next time read without being in a haste to reply me..there is a big difference between"don't change yourself to please anyone" and "don't please anyone"
You ain't really smart..are you?

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

why should you wash his clothes ?

He is too arrogant, if he can't wash it himself what happened to dry cleaners ?

I am a guy too if I am too busy to wash my clothes I take them to dry cleaning. If this one finally marry you then after poo he will call you to wash his bom bom.

how men asks their girlfriends to ask and cook for them is funny to me.

l enjoy cooking and i do my washing my self, na plates i no like to wash sha

SmellySperm:
So what do u want us to do now? We should help u wash the clothes?

Let me tell you, you aren't his girlfriend, his main girlfriend is somewhere and he is simping for her. While he thinks he has seen you finish because i am sure you show him love more than he does and ofcourse he want to use you and dump you. Better run for your life and sanity the kind run that your heel will be touching the back of your head.

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

The bolded is a red flag already. Kindly put an end to the unhappy relationship or endure and remain unhappy.
After all the relationship is not by force but by choice.
Make a choice that gives u lasting happiness today

Call him back and tell him to go to hell.
You have been doing his laundry for him that's why he had the gods to tell you to carry his dirty clothes home and Wash them. If you don't stop him now and you are froming wife material to this kind of ingrate, you will never have peace.
Madam, do yourself a favor and let him know you are not up for such shit. But then I know you will still wash those clothes for him and even ask for more

You and your bf are mad.

For him to ask you to wash his clothes in a relationship that's not even up to 2 months means that you have been washing the clothes for him before. So why not just continue what you have already started? But seriously Sha where people day find all this kind girls

2 months and he's already giving you chores? You dey chop him money sha

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

Madam, you're joking, right?


You're joking, right?


See, listen very well:

He won't love you. There's nothing you can do to make him love you. Accept that.

You're just there to receive punishment for what his ex did to him.

GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

Why will a grown man not be able to wash his own clothes and expect someone else to do it for him? Isn't that irresponsibility of the highest order?

I take it that you have been doing this for him in the past. Why? Are you receiving any favors from him in the relationship? i.e. is he assisting you financially and he expects you to reciprocate in kind? Why does he expect you to wash his clothes?

I'd seriously need a response to the above question to be able to advice you further.

But whatever the case, if you are doing this because you get favors from him then it isn't a relationship but just a trade by barter affair and you should not be emotionally attached. A man who loves you won't ask you to wash his clothes simply because he is gifting you or assisting with your education or something else.

On a general note, any able bodied man who can't wash his own clothes or clean after himself or tidy his own apartment is grossly irresponsible and cannot take care of you as a woman. If a man has the means, he can get a washing machine or employ dry cleaning services to redeem time or even pay cleaners to clean his apartment.

Tell him to buy washing machine to wash his shít. He must be high on his own fart.

That ingrate is using you, she has seen that you love him a lot, maybe you are a good and calm lady, so he fit be doing any rubbish that comes to his mind...

Better dump that boy and move on with your life, I hate rubbish...

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

both of you are working?
next time tell him both of you will do it together,you wash ,he rinse .. peace is back home

gift0123:
That ingrate is using you, she has seen that you love him a lot, maybe you are a good and calm lady, so he fit be doing any rubbish that comes to his mind...

Better dump that boy and move on with your life, I hate rubbish...

see am u don day vex like say na your relationship ,na advice she ask for ,not way to end her relationship ,she doesn't want a lonly life....like say u go help her fine another boyfriend for am

For me o I no fit tell babe wey we have only dated for 2months to wash my clothes, infact i wash my clothes all by myself and I’ve bn doing that for a whole long time now...
op if d bobo desperately wan wash him cloth mk he enter drycleaner haba na so slavery dey start for some pple o