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Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by moyosore32: 8:03pm On Dec 15, 2021

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Call him back and tell him to go to hell.
You have been doing his laundry for him that's why he had the gods to tell you to carry his dirty clothes home and Wash them. If you don't stop him now and you are froming wife material to this kind of ingrate, you will never have peace.
Madam, do yourself a favor and let him know you are not up for such shit. But then I know you will still wash those clothes for him and even ask for more

Asin na that take it home part weak me finish
Like cmon

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Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by arthurwillia(m): 8:43pm On Dec 15, 2021

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

Where una Dey see this kind relationship

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Nicepoker(m): 8:52pm On Dec 15, 2021

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

If you don't want to end up like 62years old unmarried single mum Iyaebe. Just respect yourself and go wash those clothes grin

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Nobody: 8:56pm On Dec 15, 2021

I don't know if it's just me oh but I find it highly uncomfortable to ask woman to wash my clothes, regardless of the fact I have a washing machine.

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Nobody: 9:00pm On Dec 15, 2021

larryking540:
see am u don day vex like say na your relationship ,na advice she ask for ,not way to end her relationship ,she doesn't want a lonly life....like say u go help her fine another boyfriend for am

Ok so she should remain in bondage in the name of staying in a relationship? it's best she leave that boy and stay on her own, she will still meet another man who will love her truly.

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Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Nobody: 9:05pm On Dec 15, 2021

Nicepoker:
If you don't want to end up like 62years old unmarried single mum Iyaebe. Just respect yourself and go wash those clothes

If naa your sister will you give her such advice?? You guys are saying all this trash because she is a woman, if a guy had created this thread on how" the girlfriend ask for money without sex" you guys will advice him to leave the lady, then call him a weakling and all. Now your fellow man is using this lady as a slave you are here spitting nonsense.......

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Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Nobody: 9:06pm On Dec 15, 2021

gift0123:
If naa your sister will you give her such advice?? You are saying all this trash because she is a woman, if a guy had created this thread on how" the girlfriend ask for money without sex" you will advice him to leave the lady, then call him a weakling and all. Now your fellow man is using this lady as a slave you are here spitting nonsense.......

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Nicepoker(m): 9:08pm On Dec 15, 2021

gift0123:
If naa your sister will you give her such advice?? You guys are saying all this trash because she is a woman, if a guy had created this thread on how" the girlfriend ask for money without sex" you guys will advice him to leave the lady, then call him a weakling and all. Now your fellow man is using this lady as a slave you are here spitting nonsense.......

Don't take this life too serious. No one gets out of it alive. Since you didn't see the sacarsm laced in my post I am sorry I can't help you.

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by debbydams(f): 9:26pm On Dec 15, 2021

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

lol just two month he's saying u should wash his clothes, my simple advise for you is to walk out of the relationship..

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by gassbee: 9:30pm On Dec 15, 2021

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

drop that useless boyfreind n hope and pray for a more responsible boyfreind , u deserve someone better

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by debbydams(f): 9:34pm On Dec 15, 2021

gift0123:
If naa your sister will you give her such advice?? You guys are saying all this trash because she is a woman, if a guy had created this thread on how" the girlfriend ask for money without sex" you guys will advice him to leave the lady, then call him a weakling and all. Now your fellow man is using this lady as a slave you are here spitting nonsense.......

dont mind him, by their fruit u shall know them..there was a day like that..I went to my bf place he stylishly told me his cloths is dirty and he's too busy too wash them, he said I should at least help him since he's busy..I told him point blank ' I can't wash your cloths o, look at my hand I don't have strength to wash and if we enventually settle down pls we need washing machine o Im not strong.. i can do anything but not laundry

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Nobody: 10:10pm On Dec 15, 2021

debbydams:
dont mind him, by their fruit u shall know them..there was a day like that..I went to my bf place he stylishly told me his cloths is dirty and he's too busy too wash them, he said I should at least help him since he's busy..I told him point blank ' I can't wash your cloths o, look at my hand I don't have strength to wash and if we enventually settle down pls we need washing machine o Im not strong.. i can do anything but not laundry

The same with me,I don't like laundry especially jeans, most times I hate buying those jeans because washing it is a pain in the ass.

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by larryking540: 11:05pm On Dec 15, 2021

gift0123:
Ok so she should remain in bondage in the name of staying in a relationship? it's best she leave that boy and stay on her own, she will still meet another man who will love her truly.

you already called her relationship bondage because of cloths Washing,let's ask the op what the guy has done for her before ,of course there should be ,1 or 2 before the guy can have the ordacity , except this op is an ungrateful person in her relationship, relationship na hardwork it's self let's stop deceiving ourselves

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by larryking540: 11:06pm On Dec 15, 2021

gift0123:
The same with me,I don't like laundry especially jeans, most times I hate buying those jeans because washing it is a pain in the ass.

see them lazy folks ,after fixing claws u call nails how can u wash

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Nobody: 11:23pm On Dec 15, 2021

larryking540:
see them lazy folks ,after fixing claws u call nails how can u wash

My dear you are free to say watever thing you want to say, but I will never wash jeans, I go manage wash shirts and polo once in three months, rather he should go and buy washing machine... That's all

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Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by larryking540: 1:24am On Dec 16, 2021

gift0123:
My dear you are free to say watever thing you want to say, but I will never wash jeans, I go manage wash shirts and polo once in three months, rather he should go and buy washing machine... That's all

u see how u are drifting in support of you washing ,compare to before ,,,,so soft jeans washing is an offense to the hands of a female also ...?

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Newyorkitis(m): 6:38am On Dec 16, 2021

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

This scenario usually plays out but not always about washing of clothes.

My point is this: men love to marry who they can control by testing that out in a relationship while women would not want that control when they are not married to the guy yet.

So, let him know that you are not disrespectful but presently, your hands are tied considering the nature of your job.

If he doesn't listen, just know that he is a control freak.

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Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by Nobody: 8:11am On Dec 16, 2021

larryking540:
u see how u are drifting in support of you washing ,compare to before ,,,,so soft jeans washing is an offense to the hands of a female also ...?

My reply doesn't imply to a boyfriend, I mean in marriage I may wash small, but i can never wash for a boyfriend, not even boxers.

Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by larryking540: 11:00am On Dec 16, 2021

gift0123:
My reply doesn't imply to a boyfriend, I mean in marriage I may wash small, but i can never wash for a boyfriend, not even boxers.

how far you ,?if he also restriction help he will give to you , wouldn't you call him an unserious person as a man who which to get married to you ,so tell me what you boyfriend can't do for you ,I wouldn't want to name any so u don't feel I am biase ,name things you boyfriend shouldn't do for you ?

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