Beebah2000:
She's still praying about it.
So, GIVE HER SPACE

2muchDrag:
shift

Beebah2000:
Oga, no space ooo. Go and sit down on the floor.

SmellySperm:
You're her backup. Incase her ticket cut, she'll fall back to u. Her prayer is still processing...

TMTR:
You lack abundance mentally and I am not even talking financially

Thisisa:

In what aspect then

Thisisa:
My experience with ladies hasn't been all nice. Though I hadn't been a SIMP.

Latest experience is a girl I met DEC 2019. We were good friends. One of the mistake I made was that I didn't shoot my shot early.

We continued to be friend. I noticed she's very nice girl. She given me a lot bought nice cloth for me on my bday. And all.

So about 6month after I met her. That was last I asked that we should be in a relationship. She said no.

And later on started moving even more closer to me.

I lost my job August last year.

I felt we began to be distant. So I left it that way. Till fdbuary March this year. When she called and questioned why I have not been chatting, calling etc.

Ever since, she calls me etc, and even assist me in terms of job search. she had even giving money when I was seriously down financially even with asking.

She tells me misses me and all sort.

I was non committal because I really do not know what she wants friendship or relationship.



So the beginning of last month I spoke to her again about been in a relationship, she said she would pray about. Ever since no communication from her.

Will it be a good advise for me to chat her. And what can I say?

Thisisa:
My experience with ladies hasn't been all nice. Though I hadn't been a SIMP.

Latest experience is a girl I met DEC 2019. We were good friends. One of the mistake I made was that I didn't shoot my shot early.

We continued to be friend. I noticed she's very nice girl. She given me a lot bought nice cloth for me on my bday. And all.

So about 6month after I met her. That was last I asked that we should be in a relationship. She said no.

And later on started moving even more closer to me.

I lost my job August last year.

I felt we began to be distant. So I left it that way. Till fdbuary March this year. When she called and questioned why I have not been chatting, calling etc.

Ever since, she calls me etc, and even assist me in terms of job search. she had even giving money when I was seriously down financially even with asking.

She tells me misses me and all sort.

I was non committal because I really do not know what she wants friendship or relationship.



So the beginning of last month I spoke to her again about been in a relationship, she said she would pray about. Ever since no communication from her.

Will it be a good advise for me to chat her. And what can I say?

helinues:
Work on yourself, your financial, your emotions before thinking of working on any relationship

Jeremani:
U still post this story again?

FriendsAndFans:
You are a rebound bro just tell her you want sex with her... Make it straight to the point, that you want a lot of sex and much more of it

HedwigesMaduro:


Some girls like relationship to start with a direct flow from friendship to commitment. Asking her puts a bump in that flow. Let it flow naturally. Don't ask her again. Act like you're her man and see how she'll be all yours.

Thisisa:

Yes I need to. So I won't make a rash, decision I could regret later

Nancyeke:
My humble assessment she wanted you guys to friends. Shed given you the I'd pray about it sentence to be nice enough.
I will advise you to stop thinking about her has more but rather just a good friend