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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 22, 2021
Jessepaid:
grin grin
The boobs sef look like silicon(fake),I no even like fake boobs or ass,it just turns me off.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 4:07pm On Dec 22, 2021
MJBOLT:
Dem go marry o grin no go whine yourself
Nigerian men carry marriage for head pass Nigerian women


Nigerian men have this unusual obsession with getting married, almost equal to/or more than their women. It should be the other way round where, the women are obsessed with trying to get a man's precious COMMITMENT and doing everything possible to live up to the standard that makes one deserving of a man's time, energy, and resources.

Getting married is not the problem in itself. It is the poor quality of women that they almost kill each other to slave for. It creates a situation where women are flooded with so much choices that their sense of entitlement/poor sense of accountability hits the roof and men continuing to lower their standards for mediocre vaginas. I don't envy their position.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 4:18pm On Dec 22, 2021
The Emasculation of Modern Men

The Emasculation of Men Is Doing Society No Favors
-Ryan Moffatt


There are few products more synonymous with manhood than the razor. Boys watch their fathers for years awaiting their turn to partake in the daily ritual. Lather, shave, rinse, repeat. It was a simple yet symbolic rite of passage into a forever-binding entanglement with the biological realities of being a man. It was an innocuous task that had little part to play in the political arena.

Last month’s Gillette commercial changed all that. The two-minute video, which quickly went viral and drew both praise and scorn, asks men to “be better” while juxtaposing scenes of bullying, leering, and mansplaining as a chorus of suburban dads standing before barbecues chant “boys will be boys.”

The response was swift, and a tidal wave of consumers smashed their Gillette razors in defiance and disgust at Gillette’s characterization of men. To the ad’s supporters, this was evidence that Gillette was on point and that any man who took exception only resented being outed for his own bad behavior.

The truth, however, is not so simple.

A Collective Shaming
The ad struck a nerve because of its insinuation that men are brutes who need sorting out. The dads chanting “boys will be boys” as the ad depicts men behaving badly makes a clear statement: All men either partake in or excuse this behavior.

Gillette’s intention may have been benign but they took the wrong approach by virtue signaling their progressiveness and taking their entire customer base to task. Though the ad rightfully exposes those men who may be reprehensible in character, the rest are forced to share a collective shame and accept an inherent toxicity in their gender. And that is Gillette’s great mistake. It asks men to be better by insinuating they are malevolent by nature.

This brings us to the #MeToo movement, which has also placed good men in an awkward position. Not knowing what society will accept of them, they are relegated to uncomfortable silence, wary of expressing their views.

There was a time in Western society when men were expected to adhere to a set of heroic values—to protect, provide, and lead. This was the measure of a man. Such attributes gave each man something to aim for.

But as society has progressed, these values are often seen as antiquated. Some might argue that they are an ill fit for our modern world. To outwardly embody heroic, stoic virtues is to open oneself to criticism for perpetuating gender stereotypes.

In this time of moral relativism there is no North Star for men to chart their course. As a result of decades of gradual emasculation, men no longer know what manhood means.


The Lost Boys
If manhood is in crisis, boyhood is not far behind.

Warren Farrell and John Gray’s well-researched book “The Boy Crisis” offers some sobering statistics about the many challenges facing the next generation of men. It’s irrefutable that boys are falling behind across many key metrics.

Worldwide, boys are 50 percent less likely than girls to meet basic proficiency standards in reading, math, and science. In North America young men now account for only about 40 percent of recent university graduates, and the high school dropout rate for boys is nearly double that of girls. Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder diagnosis in boys is on the rise, as is the suicide rate.

Gray and Farrell closely correlate this decline to one common denominator: absent fathers. Missing in most of these boys’ lives is a male role model. Boys fare better with good men in their lives to provide the guidance and moral compass necessary for a meaningful life. The void left by absent fathers can easily be filled by the negative influences of social media, pornography, and video games, preventing boys from taking the difficult but necessary steps toward self-actualization and manhood.

As Farrell and Gray put it: “The traditional boy’s journey to self-sacrifice incorporated service to others, and required responsibility, loyalty, honor, and accountability. It created his mission. And his mission created his character.”

Adolescent male energy can be channeled in a positive direction if it’s not chastised and repressed. The competitive drive is not the tyrannical impulse it has been made out to be, and when grounded with strong morals it can shift the balance of the world toward the good.

Pathologizing Masculinity
The American Psychological Association (APA) recently released its Guidelines for Psychological Practice with Boys and Men. Conservative critics have expressed concern that the new guidelines are nothing more than an attempt to pathologize masculinity itself.

Most surprising is the guidelines’ explicit rebuke of what it calls “traditional masculinity ideology.” The term is ill-defined but seems to encompass the whole of masculinity.

“Socialization for conforming to traditional masculinity ideology has been shown to limit males’ psychological development, constrain their behavior, result in gender role strain and gender role conflict, and negatively influence mental health,” the guidelines state.

“Traditional masculinity ideology” as determined by the APA fails to acknowledge the virtuous side of masculinity, namely, a sense of duty, self-sacrifice, and pursuit of a noble and moral goal. To discredit these ideals with such a broad brush is more likely to result in confusion rather than cohesion. Without acknowledging the principled ideals of the women and men who came before, future generations may well be taught that their forebears were nothing more than tyrannical oppressors.


The guidelines go further, stating: “Research suggests that socialization practices that teach boys from an early age to be self-reliant, strong, and to minimize and manage their problems on their own yield adult men who are less willing to seek mental health treatment.”

Strength and self-reliance are necessary traits in overcoming life’s inevitable challenges. Taken to an unhealthy and isolated extreme they are bound to have a negative effect, but self-reliance in the conventional sense of the word promotes following one’s conscience and avoiding conformity. It’s even more bewildering to argue against strength as a desirable quality. Are the guidelines suggesting that weakness and dependence are the qualities men and boys should be cultivating?

To be fair, the guidelines attempt to address very real mental health problems plaguing Western Society, but it seems they have thrown the baby out with the bathwater by over-generalizing masculinity as a negative trait.

There is a reason masculine virtues have long been held in high esteem—they formed the cornerstone of Western civilization and evolved over thousands of years to create the high standard of living we enjoy today.

It is not the virtues themselves that are the problem but a confusion over their application and definition. The indecency depicted in Gillette’s ad should not be attributed to masculinity per se, but to a perversion of the virtuous ideals and high aspirations of good men.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 4:32pm On Dec 22, 2021
The Emasculation of Modern Men 2

Wussy Man Syndrome: The Emasculation of Men in our Society
-Rafa Conde Aug 24, 2017

“The Wussy Man Syndrome is a disorder in a man that divides his core into part Wimp and part Pus**, in other words a coward with no guts.”
I have been contemplating writing on this subject for sometime. In light of some of the situations that I have experienced lately and individuals that I have met on and off line, I decided to put pen to paper.

So let’s start off by defining what I call the Wussy Man Syndrome (WMS): It is a disorder in a man that divides his core into part Wimp and part Pus**, in other words a coward with no guts.
The Urban Dictionary defines Wussy as a person who whines all day and sits around and cries like a little baby over nothing. A person who will blow anything out of proportion and create drama to forget about their sad miserable lives. So now that you have the definition let me rev the engines.
Well, basically one of the starting points where men begin to fall into Wussy mode today is at home, especially in their relationships and family life.
Many men are afraid of their woman because they pound them down to a point where they get their balls ripped off. These men were most likely low in the alpha-male category and then crashed after a few years getting beat down by their alpha-partners. Now, I am only blaming the beat down partially on the woman, just read Dr. Laura’s Blog “Why Men Choose To Be Wussies”. This is not the woman’s fault completely. It is way more the man’s fault for being weak hearted and not having a backbone. The man at some point needed to step up and man up to the Man he is was supposed to be. Just a tid-bit of information, women don’t want cowards, they want to be loved, respected and protected by their Man…but that is an entirely different article.

www.manofwar.live
The reality is that this world has a lot more Men with WMS than Warrior Minded Men. Soldiers, Police Officers and Fire Fighters are a very small part of the population. There are some strong warrior minded businessmen, entrepreneurs and hard working men out there that live by a warrior’s code, however they are few and far between. The typical mindset of a Man with WMS is a weak one. The desire to dramatize and over exaggerate an incident is evident in his mannerisms and his inter-action with people.

For those that have a question about how I gathered this information, listen up. I have been training men and women (overwhelming majority of men) for well over a decade. Most of the people that I train are warrior minded men such as police officers , soldiers and and vetted civilians. I have trained hundreds if not thousands throughout that time frame. I also meet many different types of people all the time, that is part of my job. Based on my observations and experience I have noticed a shift in men. A shift from alpha to wussy. From confidence to whining. Yes, there have always been wussies in our society, however over the last decade I have seen a sharp increase in emasculation.
Now let me make myself very clear. When I say alpha, I am referring to a male that exudes confidence and stability. Not the bravado-macho type wannabe.

What is perplexing is that most of our society prefers men to be wimpy. We have seen an out pour of Men suffering from WMS this last election, more than I have ever seen. Love and Light, Hugs and Kisses are terms that are in the center of the typical wussy social media bio and at the center of their life. While there is nothing wrong with Love and Kisses what I find disgusting is the lack of balance. Men suffering WMS are single sided and gutless. They believe the world is all sunshine and rainbows, no pun intended. When the shit hits the fan they are the first ones running for the door leaving everyone else behind to die. These same men hide behind their keyboards attacking others with their pent up anger giving their bullshit opinions on topics that they have absolutely no clue about.

I write this article not to dog these men but rather to help them wake up from LaLa Land. This world needs men that are strong, courageous and compassionate. Men that can love and defend their families from the evil that lurks this earth. Men that will not put themselves first and extend a hand to those in need. Men that lead by example. These men in my book are called warriors.

I urge men that are struggling with WMS to take a look at their life. Ask questions that might be difficult to answer such as- Why am I lacking courage? Where is this pent up anger coming from? Why am I hating on others that are successful or that I do not agree with? Why do I hide behind my computer? Why is it difficult for me to be a leader? Evaluate where you are and what you want your legacy to be.

If you have had it and want to be cured of WMS, here is a bit of advice. It’s all about finding yourself, finding your masculinity, your alpha. No you don’t have to binge watch John Wayne’s western collection or the John Wick saga. First off, toughen up. Seek discomfort. Yes get uncomfortable. Turn the AC off, walk barefooted on the hot street, go to a concert and rub elbows with people. If you are frightened by it…make sure you do it.

Basically, progressive growth comes from pushing yourself through discomfort. Seek good pain through training in physical activities such as martial arts or fitness. Once you hit the pain zone stay in it and make it your starting point. Start off by pushing yourself a few minutes. at a time. Before you know it, you will start breaking out of your mold and start saying goodbye to WMS. The goal is to be able to look in the mirror and see a man that is starting to step by leading from the front. Your confidence will increase, your anger will diminish and your life will start changing in a positive direction.

Kick WMS in the ass and man up. This world needs men that can walk the walk and bring back masculinity, and remember masculinity is not a bad word.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 4:51pm On Dec 22, 2021
THE MATRIX RESURRECTIONS had this to say about the bluepilled.
SHEAPLE = Blue-pilled/simps.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 4:53pm On Dec 22, 2021
And this was our reply:

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dasanchez1(m): 5:18pm On Dec 22, 2021
sajmark:
"IT IS SO MUCH SIMPLER TO BURY REALITY THAN IT IS TO DISPOSE OF DREAMS"


~Matrix: Resurrections
What does it mean please?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by manny99(m): 5:23pm On Dec 22, 2021
Brother, you spoke as if you are in my mind. Let me tell you alittle about myself. Am in my early 30s,have been a virgin and an introvert. All the relationship have always been having, have always been the one investing. But with my encounter with this lady, it has been different. She does all the call, do some give away for me and she also help with my office work if have been over loaded.
Is not that I don't have other ladies but most of them are just pest so I avoid most of them. They want you to always call, send me urgent 2k. All this got me frustrated. To even talk to ladies nowadays is something else for me.
However, I will be open to your advice that will help more

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 5:25pm On Dec 22, 2021
The Emasculation of Modern Men 3

The Emasculation of Men In Our Society
-Johnny Youssef March 31, 2016

What do many television shows, movies (mostly comedies), and reality TV have in common? Almost all of them have a male lead role portrayed as childish, stupid, and Hot. After my latest blog post on “5 Reasons Why Christian Men Are Not Pursuing Women”, several men expressed some of the struggles they face and shared how they felt which has lead me to follow up with this post. The more I speak to men, the more I see how this frustration is an issue that many of them share in common:



Think of shows like “The Big Bang Theory”, “Modern Family”, and “King of Queens”; even superheroes that used to be sophisticated, intelligent, and hopeless romantics, are now being portrayed in a different light. Chris Pratt’s character “Peter” in “Guardians Of The Galaxy” and Chris Pine’s “Kirk” in “Star Trek” are the heroic protagonists, who also happened to be childish, stupid and Hot. If you take a look at almost all reality TV, you will notice that they always cast at least one guy with these attributes.

Another irony you will find is that all of these shows and movies typically have a sophisticated, intelligent, woman that has to continuously “fix” the man or knock him down a peg or two if he shows any signs of strength or confidence. If a show or a movie portrayed the woman with those negative attributes, there would be an uproar and endless accusations that the writers, producers, and networks are sexist.

When we as men are being told from almost every media outlet that we are stupid and our brains aren’t located in our heads, we start to believe it. It’s becoming more difficult for a man to embrace their opinions and to embrace any sort of a leadership abilities whether at home or at work.

This serious problem is leading to many negative outcomes. When men are being forced to shut their mouths and believe that they are just immature boys, they end up getting stuck in their teenage years. A huge percentage of millennial males are uninterested in the idea of getting married. A lot of this lack of motivation comes from associating marriage to being controlled. When men say things such as “A happy wife is a happy life”, they are really saying “We are too dumb to understand women so we will just shut up, be submissive, and do whatever they want so that we can keep them happy and our lives aren’t miserable”. These men don’t see marriage as a place of respect and compromise from both ends.

Emasculating men in our society has led men to stay boys. Our society applauds a guy that sleeps around with girls without any sort of commitment or sacrifice and despises a guy with any sort of expectations from his wife or that wants to be a leader leading a home.

Don’t believe me? Let’s compare two big shows, Hugh Hefner’s “Girl Next Door” and Kody Brown’s “Sister Wives”

Hugh Hefner, the Playboy founder is celebrated by many in our society and is viewed as a powerful man. After all, he is able to get as many girls as he wants into his bedroom while making a lot of money doing it. On the other hand, Kody Brown, a Mormon that is married to four women, is despised and looked at as a sexist pig.

While I find polygamy to be extremely disturbing, I think it’s a tragedy that we praise the player who uses women as objects and despise the man whose religious beliefs gives him the option to have multiple wives. After all, both of them are sleeping with bunch of women. The main difference is that one is in long-term committed marriages (Brown) while the other is using them until he gets bored (Hefner).

The way our society has praised and criticized men for the wrong reasons, has led the way for many men, like Hugh Hefner, to stay teenage boys; unable to commit and unable to treat women the way they should be treated.

There are legitimate reasons why men have been portrayed in a negative light including women legitimately feeling used and unsafe by men. The solution, however, is not to bring men down as some sort of revenge. We are called to call men to rise up rather than embrace lies and spread them to a whole society.

Even within the church, I have seen so much emasculation that has not only discouraged me, but also scared me, of the idea of marriage. For some reason, it is acceptable in a small group setting for a wife to tell her husband “You are just a bad cook” or “honey, you can’t function one day without me” in front of people for a good laugh but imagine a husband telling the same words to his wife in front of others. Why have we accepted a double-standard? Have we forgotten that one of the core longings for a man is to feel respected?

It seems that society has accepted the notion that men have clear roles in marriage but women have none; that men are guilty until proven innocent but women are innocent until proven guilty.

My all-time favorite show is “Friends”; when I recently watched it, I was disturbed by how, for so many years, I thought Joey, the guy who is childish, dumb, and Hot, is hilarious. One of the main recurring jokes throughout the seasons is that Joey sleeps with many women but never remembers their names or calls them back. This is not funny. It is wrong and it sends a message to women that they have every right to look down on men and treat them as children, idiots, and Hot beings.

What can we all do about it?

1. We need to encourage boys to grow up and become men: sophisticated, intelligent, and responsible.
2. We need to recognize mens’ leadership skills, opinions, and the need to feel respected.
3. We need to stop praising or even laughing with boys that sleep around, objectify women, and refuse to commit.
4. We need to stop the double-standard adopted in our society where it’s okay for women to casually mock and criticize men.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TRP1: 5:26pm On Dec 22, 2021
Finally Got to this last place
I’ve being Reading since 2020 but sometimes I’ll have to take break due to school activities
man just gotta pend some things before I was able to follow up the thread day and night for like a week +
I’ll be dropping my experience here soon
But one thing I know for sure is
ALL SIMPS GONNA DIE A MISERABLE DEATH cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TRP1: 5:35pm On Dec 22, 2021

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 6:07pm On Dec 22, 2021
luminouz:

Damnnnnnnnn!!!
This is so sad. She knacked his head on a wall and denied him sex?

Nobody respects a doormat!!! It's where you rub your dirty feet on to clean them. How did he think any sane woman would respect him if he thinks he is her doormat?

*Sighs*

That seems to be a common mentality amongst many married men. I think white people phrased that mentality as:
"Happy wife, happy life" --- if you want happiness or peace of mind then it's your responsibility to make her happy (like a parent and a child).

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 6:30pm On Dec 22, 2021
TRP1:
UBUNJA (I need to Bless you heavily from my heart )
CaveAdullam
CAPSLOCKED
Martinez39s

Please kindly send me a Dm or if you can drop your account details here no problem sirs
I need to fund you Bosses some stuffs for Christmas

If you know anyone that have contributed massively to this platform kindly do well to mention their name and let me run some check also


I’m just a broke masturbator though cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Faboosuarez(m): 6:33pm On Dec 22, 2021
TRP1:
UBUNJA (I need to Bless you heavily from my heart )
CaveAdullam
CAPSLOCKED
Martinez39s

Please kindly send me a Dm or if you can drop your account details here no problem sirs
I need to fund you Bosses some stuffs for Christmas

If you know anyone that have contributed massively to this platform kindly do well to mention their name and let me run some check also


I’m just a broke masturbator though cheesy
D
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:35pm On Dec 22, 2021
TRP1:
UBUNJA (I need to Bless you heavily from my heart )
CaveAdullam
CAPSLOCKED
Martinez39s

Please kindly send me a Dm or if you can drop your account details here no problem sirs
I need to fund you Bosses some stuffs for Christmas

If you know anyone that have contributed massively to this platform kindly do well to mention their name and let me run some check also

I’m just a broke masturbator though cheesy

Me that's broke, and here is urgent 2K? Haaa...


Thanks man.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 6:44pm On Dec 22, 2021
You really can't shame the shameless.


If too much wisdom no kee this man, too much sarcasm will cheesy
CaveAdullam:


Me that's broke, and here is urgent 2K? Haaa...

0230 485 145
Wema Bank.

Thanks man.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:45pm On Dec 22, 2021
SOZINN:


grin grin grin
You
Guy, anyone wey in give you make him forget that one
That one Don follow you go grin grin
grin grin

At least he won't be stressed again... I don lighten his load.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:50pm On Dec 22, 2021
Dizzyyish:


That seems to be a common mentality amongst many married men. I think white people phrased that mentality as:
"Happy wife, happy life" --- if you want happiness or peace of mind then it's your responsibility to make her happy (like a parent and a child).

That's some premium lager BS if you ask me
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:53pm On Dec 22, 2021
Please, I'd appreciate if we can coordinate the giveaway on another thread. I'm afraid the thread may soon be flooded with requests and account details.

@TRP1

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 7:07pm On Dec 22, 2021
No society has ever developed tough men in times of peace...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 7:18pm On Dec 22, 2021
luminouz:
I was younger when Spartacus came out but I never forgot a statement made by one actor on the show.


Ashur(The Syrian) talking to Oenomaus(Doctore):

You, Gannicus, Crixus and Spartacus are all the same. You all fall to ruin for women plowed by other men's Cöcks.


THEN:

My grandmother:
No matter how beautiful she is, unless she is a virgin, there is a man who is tired, fed up and oversaturated, from fuqin her.



NOTE: when next you want to die on a woman's issues, REMEMBER THESE MUDAFUCKIN QUOTES.

Whose house am I coming to eat on Xmas day? grin



When Oenomaus(Doctore) discovered it was true, He tried to advice CRIXUS next time they met..
Crixus: I have saved naevia

Oenomaus (Doctore): She is a woman,a delicate creature in the best of times, driven by desires unknown to people who place their trust in them..


Crixus didn't heed advice..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 7:22pm On Dec 22, 2021
[quote author=MJBOLT post=108716479][/quote]

Only to find out your shawty is sharing same thought with you, but she can't even wait till Christmas before going to see them, hoes don't care what time of the year it is
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 7:37pm On Dec 22, 2021
I can't believe the calibers of people we have here. It seems many here can be easily baited. All it will take is money. No wonder these nairaland vaginarians keep laughing at us. They know all what it will take for many of you to renounce the red pill is money and vagina.

So, someone random promise to do giveaways and you are already rushing to post your account details on a public forum. You are also doing it on a thread like this where it is better to stay hidden than known due to the nature of our society.

Did you guys even take time to do simple research? A click on the name of the person showed he/she has spent less than one hour on this forum even though they registered 2 months ago. Doesn't that ring a bell?

For the ones that posted their account details, do you know I can easily get your details, especially your name? In fact, I did for one and saw his full name. Imagine the amount of other information I get about you having gotten your full name. This is internet age for the love of God.

Quite disappointed especially seeing that the people falling for the trap are quite popular here.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by VillageBus(m): 7:49pm On Dec 22, 2021
TRP1:
UBUNJA (I need to Bless you heavily from my heart )
CaveAdullam
CAPSLOCKED
Martinez39s

Please kindly send me a Dm or if you can drop your account details here no problem sirs
I need to fund you Bosses some stuffs for Christmas

If you know anyone that have contributed massively to this platform kindly do well to mention their name and let me run some check also


I’m just a broke masturbator though cheesy
senior man abeg if the giveaway fit reach me
5004901094 standard chartered

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wanbissaka: 7:50pm On Dec 22, 2021
TRP1:
UBUNJA (I need to Bless you heavily from my heart )
CaveAdullam
CAPSLOCKED
Martinez39s

Please kindly send me a Dm or if you can drop your account details here no problem sirs
I need to fund you Bosses some stuffs for Christmas

If you know anyone that have contributed massively to this platform kindly do well to mention their name and let me run some check also


I’m just a broke masturbator though cheesy
seniir mahn i follow oooh

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:58pm On Dec 22, 2021
Calibrator:
You really can't shame the shameless.


If too much wisdom no kee this man, too much sarcasm will cheesy

"Lemme alone o".

"Me nor haff entitlement mentality ".

I need to upgrade my keyboard and buy the real extra virgin olive oil, those ones in dark green bottles...you know what I mean. Winks!

I still need some proper calibration in my life...Martinez39s has left me alone after he found a single mother and a sugar mummy with 4½ kids. I'm all alone. (Tears starts flowing).

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TRP1: 8:04pm On Dec 22, 2021
CaveAdullam:


Me that's broke, and here is urgent 2K? Haaa...

0230 485 145
Wema Bank.

Thanks man.
i sent fund for local Turkey sir
I’m just a broke masturbator cheesy(even though I don’t masturbate lols )

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TRP1: 8:06pm On Dec 22, 2021
Ketapu:
I can't believe the calibers of people we have here. It seems many here can be easily baited. All it will take is money. No wonder these nairaland vaginarians keep laughing at us. They know all what it will take for many of you to renounce the red pill is money and vagina.

So, someone random promise to do giveaways and you are already rushing to post your account details on a public forum. You are also doing it on a thread like this where it is better to stay hidden than known due to the nature of our society.

Did you guys even take time to do simple research? A click on the name of the person showed he/she has spent less than one hour on this forum even though they registered 2 months ago. Doesn't that ring a bell?

For the ones that posted their account details, do you know I can easily get your details, especially your name? In fact, I did for one and saw his full name. Imagine the amount of other information I get about you having gotten your full name. This is internet age for the love of God.

Quite disappointed especially seeing that the people falling for the trap are quite popular here.
Baba chill before you start judging
No Trap here lmao
Had to create a new moniker around October because I don’t want any of my moniker to be known sir.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TRP1: 8:11pm On Dec 22, 2021
Ketapu:
I can't believe the calibers of people we have here. It seems many here can be easily baited. All it will take is money. No wonder these nairaland vaginarians keep laughing at us. They know all what it will take for many of you to renounce the red pill is money and vagina.

So, someone random promise to do giveaways and you are already rushing to post your account details on a public forum. You are also doing it on a thread like this where it is better to stay hidden than known due to the nature of our society.

Did you guys even take time to do simple research? A click on the name of the person showed he/she has spent less than one hour on this forum even though they registered 2 months ago. Doesn't that ring a bell?

For the ones that posted their account details, do you know I can easily get your details, especially your name? In fact, I did for one and saw his full name. Imagine the amount of other information I get about you having gotten your full name. This is internet age for the love of God.

Quite disappointed especially seeing that the people falling for the trap are quite popular here.
But baba you dey reason far ooo like which one is denouncing redpill citizenship grin
And also Chief there’s no other shit you can do with the account number sir
if na so e easy I’m sure almost everyone funds would have being wiped outta their account lols (not excluding Billionaires self cheesy)
Boss try dey calm down biko

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TRP1: 8:14pm On Dec 22, 2021
luminouz:
Please, I'd appreciate if we can coordinate the giveaway on another thread. I'm afraid the thread may soon be flooded with requests and account details.

@TRP1
I’m very sorry sir
And also it’s not a giveaway sir but giving back to people that have helped here.
if we take some hrs to help people here ion think it’s bad sir

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:20pm On Dec 22, 2021
TRP1:

i sent fund for local Turkey sir
I’m just a broke masturbator cheesy(even though I don’t masturbate lols )

Got it!

Thanks man. I'm still a masturbator even though you remove the shame of brokeness from my life.

I sincerely appreciate.

God bless.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ItachiGold(m): 8:29pm On Dec 22, 2021
Tonnyray:
The Emasculation of Modern Man

The Emasculation of Men Is Doing Society No Favors
-Ryan Moffatt


There are few products more synonymous with manhood than the razor. Boys watch their fathers for years awaiting their turn to partake in the daily ritual. Lather, shave, rinse, repeat. It was a simple yet symbolic rite of passage into a forever-binding entanglement with the biological realities of being a man. It was an innocuous task that had little part to play in the political arena.

Last month’s Gillette commercial changed all that. The two-minute video, which quickly went viral and drew both praise and scorn, asks men to “be better” while juxtaposing scenes of bullying, leering, and mansplaining as a chorus of suburban dads standing before barbecues chant “boys will be boys.”

The response was swift, and a tidal wave of consumers smashed their Gillette razors in defiance and disgust at Gillette’s characterization of men. To the ad’s supporters, this was evidence that Gillette was on point and that any man who took exception only resented being outed for his own bad behavior.

The truth, however, is not so simple.

A Collective Shaming
The ad struck a nerve because of its insinuation that men are brutes who need sorting out. The dads chanting “boys will be boys” as the ad depicts men behaving badly makes a clear statement: All men either partake in or excuse this behavior.

Gillette’s intention may have been benign but they took the wrong approach by virtue signaling their progressiveness and taking their entire customer base to task. Though the ad rightfully exposes those men who may be reprehensible in character, the rest are forced to share a collective shame and accept an inherent toxicity in their gender. And that is Gillette’s great mistake. It asks men to be better by insinuating they are malevolent by nature.

This brings us to the #MeToo movement, which has also placed good men in an awkward position. Not knowing what society will accept of them, they are relegated to uncomfortable silence, wary of expressing their views.

There was a time in Western society when men were expected to adhere to a set of heroic values—to protect, provide, and lead. This was the measure of a man. Such attributes gave each man something to aim for.

But as society has progressed, these values are often seen as antiquated. Some might argue that they are an ill fit for our modern world. To outwardly embody heroic, stoic virtues is to open oneself to criticism for perpetuating gender stereotypes.

In this time of moral relativism there is no North Star for men to chart their course. As a result of decades of gradual emasculation, men no longer know what manhood means.


The Lost Boys
If manhood is in crisis, boyhood is not far behind.

Warren Farrell and John Gray’s well-researched book “The Boy Crisis” offers some sobering statistics about the many challenges facing the next generation of men. It’s irrefutable that boys are falling behind across many key metrics.

Worldwide, boys are 50 percent less likely than girls to meet basic proficiency standards in reading, math, and science. In North America young men now account for only about 40 percent of recent university graduates, and the high school dropout rate for boys is nearly double that of girls. Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder diagnosis in boys is on the rise, as is the suicide rate.

Gray and Farrell closely correlate this decline to one common denominator: absent fathers. Missing in most of these boys’ lives is a male role model. Boys fare better with good men in their lives to provide the guidance and moral compass necessary for a meaningful life. The void left by absent fathers can easily be filled by the negative influences of social media, pornography, and video games, preventing boys from taking the difficult but necessary steps toward self-actualization and manhood.

As Farrell and Gray put it: “The traditional boy’s journey to self-sacrifice incorporated service to others, and required responsibility, loyalty, honor, and accountability. It created his mission. And his mission created his character.”

Adolescent male energy can be channeled in a positive direction if it’s not chastised and repressed. The competitive drive is not the tyrannical impulse it has been made out to be, and when grounded with strong morals it can shift the balance of the world toward the good.

Pathologizing Masculinity
The American Psychological Association (APA) recently released its Guidelines for Psychological Practice with Boys and Men. Conservative critics have expressed concern that the new guidelines are nothing more than an attempt to pathologize masculinity itself.

Most surprising is the guidelines’ explicit rebuke of what it calls “traditional masculinity ideology.” The term is ill-defined but seems to encompass the whole of masculinity.

“Socialization for conforming to traditional masculinity ideology has been shown to limit males’ psychological development, constrain their behavior, result in gender role strain and gender role conflict, and negatively influence mental health,” the guidelines state.

“Traditional masculinity ideology” as determined by the APA fails to acknowledge the virtuous side of masculinity, namely, a sense of duty, self-sacrifice, and pursuit of a noble and moral goal. To discredit these ideals with such a broad brush is more likely to result in confusion rather than cohesion. Without acknowledging the principled ideals of the women and men who came before, future generations may well be taught that their forebears were nothing more than tyrannical oppressors.


The guidelines go further, stating: “Research suggests that socialization practices that teach boys from an early age to be self-reliant, strong, and to minimize and manage their problems on their own yield adult men who are less willing to seek mental health treatment.”

Strength and self-reliance are necessary traits in overcoming life’s inevitable challenges. Taken to an unhealthy and isolated extreme they are bound to have a negative effect, but self-reliance in the conventional sense of the word promotes following one’s conscience and avoiding conformity. It’s even more bewildering to argue against strength as a desirable quality. Are the guidelines suggesting that weakness and dependence are the qualities men and boys should be cultivating?

To be fair, the guidelines attempt to address very real mental health problems plaguing Western Society, but it seems they have thrown the baby out with the bathwater by over-generalizing masculinity as a negative trait.

There is a reason masculine virtues have long been held in high esteem—they formed the cornerstone of Western civilization and evolved over thousands of years to create the high standard of living we enjoy today.

It is not the virtues themselves that are the problem but a confusion over their application and definition. The indecency depicted in Gillette’s ad should not be attributed to masculinity per se, but to a perversion of the virtuous ideals and high aspirations of good men.
Great men creates good times
Good times creates weak men
Weak men creates hard times
Hard time creates Great men
And the cycle continues

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