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Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by BabaIbo: 10:20am On Dec 24, 2021
Montaque:
That is one of the problem in the present matter, even the least problem. The problem here is that the woman places priority on seeing her mum (or whatever it is she went for) than taking care of her kids. Who would leave her kids suddenly without a back up plan? That's the problem.
You don't have a reasonable point abeg.

The guy you quoted made more sense than you 1000 times.

Is that how she used to travel often?
Same people like you will wyne if you travel and the woman is still calling you for upkeep money which you expect her to be able to offset till you're back, but you can't even play a small fraction of her role at home.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Obiorahpcfg: 10:23am On Dec 24, 2021
akpunda86:
Good morning fellas and compliments of the season. Some are happy some are not but we all thank God for life.
Happy Christmas all.

Well fellas sincerely wish I have the power to terminate my marriage I'm fed up 200%.

Is Christmas season of love all families stay together but my wife left home to her villa to see mum, yeah is a gud stuff going home to see parents, but if well planned. We planned after 25th she can go at least stay with the kids, suddenly she said she wanna go, I let her go, just yesterday wanted to eat, our helper said no soup in freezer, Kai I have to go buy soup outside. Today 24th, I'm gonna go to market to buy soup stuff.

It is very painful. I regret getting married cos in this season any sensible person knows families gonna be together. In fact kids need to enjoy it as we did during our time.

Salad we can't do, not that I don't have the money but I can't do it.

Her mum I told I'm not against ur daughter coming to see you, but she has to put her house in order first before embarking on a long journey.

Makes me regret a lot of stuff marrying outside my state, infact one can remarry, my spouse no go pass Enugu/Anambra.

Her mum sick, going see her I'm not against, my kids all crying all day long mummy mummy, I try pacify them.

Every December Na stress. It is true it is women that are mostly good in taking care of parents though we guys also do our best, but my wife has 3 brothes all married, as it is Xmas none of the wives is around so the daughters fall on.

I'm not writing this long epistle just that I feel bad as I don't know wat to do, sexually I gain noting from her, financially she doesn't support, it is only challenges she brings to me. If it continues like this, I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.
Leaving the house is very childish my dear. As a professional marriage counselor, be the man of the house that's all. You have to frown seriously on her leaving the house without proper arrangement or else, the worst will still happen. (1) Call here siblings and tell them what happened (2) You all should plan and get a house helper to take care of your mother in-law. This will make your wife a bit relaxed. And you should be part of paying the house helper.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Origin(f): 10:23am On Dec 24, 2021
Weaker sex indeed...

Marriages making women fedup with all the stress and all the wahala...

and some people will say what does a woman do self...


Go and do it now. imagine a woman turned to slave inside marriage.

man cannot lift hand do any thing


as my dad would always say it is not what is under you that you will use to work....

its your hands bro.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Vyolet(f): 10:23am On Dec 24, 2021
akpunda86:
Good morning

I'm not writing this long epistle just that I feel bad as I don't know wat to do, sexually I gain noting from her, financially she doesn't support, it is only challenges she brings to me. If it continues like this, I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.
..your wife doesn't contribute anything, you don't gain anything from her yet she leaves home for just one day, you are already confused on how to handle things. It's a good thing that she left, you must learn by force, money is not everything.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by spencekat(m): 10:25am On Dec 24, 2021
Montaque:
That is one of the problem in the present matter, even the least problem. The problem here is that the woman places priority on seeing her mum (or whatever it is she went for) than taking care of her kids. Who would leave her kids suddenly without a back up plan? That's the problem.
Exactly,you got it.Well,the deed has been done,the man needs to brace up and take care of his kids.When she comes back, they need to sit down and talk.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Akorkor(f): 10:28am On Dec 24, 2021
Cry me a river. If she doesn’t do anything or you gain anything from her, why Are you crying? Men should also learn to take responsibility at home. She’s not your slave, and she has a life before marrying you. Those children carried your name, not hers, so if you like, don’t make your children happy and be here regretting that you married her. You didn’t even tell us your side; maybe you have been coming home late in the night, and even when you are at home, you contributed nothing to care for the kids. Yeye. Entitled Nigerian men everywhere
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Originalsly: 10:29am On Dec 24, 2021
Has your wife arrived at her mother?.... and did she experience ehmmm..... extensive transportation delays? Do you even keep in touch with her? I know why I'm asking.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Cornerstone2018: 10:32am On Dec 24, 2021
It's obvious you don't take part in the life of those kids except finances, you said your wife is of no benefit to you, so why are you crying here, your wife maybe tired too, maybe she needs sometime off too.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Nobody: 10:34am On Dec 24, 2021
Bro there's a issue both of you nursing please try to figure it out
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by StreetFight: 10:35am On Dec 24, 2021
chii8:
Hmmmm....you just said she went to visit her sick mother?You said money is not the issue,then cook nah....You sound like a father who's not always around so you don't know much about taking care of the family.Is it your wife's fault that you can't pacify your own crying children nor cook for them?The in-law is sick and sickness doesn't give a pre information before it comes.

Oga,man up and take care of your children,biko!

Now because you can't cook and pacify your own crying children, you are thinking of divorce.Na waoooo, there's nothing Reverend no go see for pulpit shocked
Has the wife been paying children's school fees, house rent, using her money to buy food for the house, using her money to buy clothes for the children? If she has not, then taking care of the house is 100% her responsibility. I don't know why the guy will even get a housemaid for a woman who does not add anything financially to the family. Is the cankerworm the Bible talked about?
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by dokxavi: 10:38am On Dec 24, 2021
akpunda86:
Good morning fellas and compliments of the season. Some are happy some are not but we all thank God for life.
Happy Christmas all.

Well fellas sincerely wish I have the power to terminate my marriage I'm fed up 200%.

Is Christmas season of love all families stay together but my wife left home to her villa to see mum, yeah is a gud stuff going home to see parents, but if well planned. We planned after 25th she can go at least stay with the kids, suddenly she said she wanna go, I let her go, just yesterday wanted to eat, our helper said no soup in freezer, Kai I have to go buy soup outside. Today 24th, I'm gonna go to market to buy soup stuff.

It is very painful. I regret getting married cos in this season any sensible person knows families gonna be together. In fact kids need to enjoy it as we did during our time.

Salad we can't do, not that I don't have the money but I can't do it.

Her mum I told I'm not against ur daughter coming to see you, but she has to put her house in order first before embarking on a long journey.

Makes me regret a lot of stuff marrying outside my state, infact one can remarry, my spouse no go pass Enugu/Anambra.

Her mum sick, going see her I'm not against, my kids all crying all day long mummy mummy, I try pacify them.

Every December Na stress. It is true it is women that are mostly good in taking care of parents though we guys also do our best, but my wife has 3 brothes all married, as it is Xmas none of the wives is around so the daughters fall on.

I'm not writing this long epistle just that I feel bad as I don't know wat to do, sexually I gain noting from her, financially she doesn't support, it is only challenges she brings to me. If it continues like this, I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.
grin grin grin

I couldn't help laughing. How is she now your wife?
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by SIRTee15:
Simran94:
Oga, you are only judging from one side of the story. The OP is obviously hiding details for him to say he is 200% fed up of the marriage and wants a divorce. Do you think a woman will purposely leave her kids starving and would go and take care of her sick mother? And it is easy to defend the OP because he is a man and every man wants to keep the train of "Women are Evil" going.
I'm not supporting the op. But this is not about Men v women. It's about the helpless kids
At least thank God he stepping up albeit struggling. What if he's an irresponsible deadbeat dad who also decided to abandon the kids.
I'm not interested in the acrimony in the home, children shouldn't suffer bcis of that.
Obviously the woman knows her husband doesn't know to cook, why then punish the kids by leaving them without making provisions for good food. That's my issue.
All this political correctness flying around makes no sense. The woman is guilty of child neglect. Simple.

Or u think social service will support the woman if the children report to their teachers that they've not been eating good food since their mum went away.
They will simply remove the children from that toxic home while both parents will be hauled b4 a judge to explain their irresponsible behaviours.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Mood11: 10:43am On Dec 24, 2021
diogo23:
Will you be okay with this comment if you are in his shoes?
Yes
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by queenblossom(f): 10:46am On Dec 24, 2021
akpunda86:
Good morning fellas and compliments of the season. Some are happy some are not but we all thank God for life.
Happy Christmas all.

Well fellas sincerely wish I have the power to terminate my marriage I'm fed up 200%.

Is Christmas season of love all families stay together but my wife left home to her villa to see mum, yeah is a gud stuff going home to see parents, but if well planned. We planned after 25th she can go at least stay with the kids, suddenly she said she wanna go, I let her go, just yesterday wanted to eat, our helper said no soup in freezer, Kai I have to go buy soup outside. Today 24th, I'm gonna go to market to buy soup stuff.

It is very painful. I regret getting married cos in this season any sensible person knows families gonna be together. In fact kids need to enjoy it as we did during our time.

Salad we can't do, not that I don't have the money but I can't do it.

Her mum I told I'm not against ur daughter coming to see you, but she has to put her house in order first before embarking on a long journey.

Makes me regret a lot of stuff marrying outside my state, infact one can remarry, my spouse no go pass Enugu/Anambra.

Her mum sick, going see her I'm not against, my kids all crying all day long mummy mummy, I try pacify them.

Every December Na stress. It is true it is women that are mostly good in taking care of parents though we guys also do our best, but my wife has 3 brothes all married, as it is Xmas none of the wives is around so the daughters fall on.

I'm not writing this long epistle just that I feel bad as I don't know wat to do, sexually I gain noting from her, financially she doesn't support, it is only challenges she brings to me. If it continues like this, I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.
You are regretting not marrying from Enugu or Anambra, another man somewhere is regretting marrying from Anambra and Enugu. The bottom line is that, this is is not balance. Whatever you have, just nurture it because no one is perfect including you. I know that if I sit your wife down now she will narrate her long epistle why she is tired of marrying you
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by lagosrd: 10:57am On Dec 24, 2021
Mood11:
Maybe she's equally tired (of you and the marriage) and needed to take some time off..
Does she know you are here on Nairaland opening a thread about her?

Man up and take care of your kids. Don't worry about a perfect salad whatever you are able to make serve it to them with love cheesy

BTW, when you knew that women from Enugu or Anambra make better wives and mothers why didn't you marry from there in the first place?
You're been economical with the truth. The women is messing up things . if he leaves the house, its still same you people that will say all manners of things against him. Let the women use her senses and stop being stupid in her marriage.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by tradepunter: 11:00am On Dec 24, 2021
Starseed:
My brother, I feel your pain. When you marry a bad wife, the devil will stop following you cos he has settled you for life.

Women can be very funny at times but you need God's wisdom to follow them. This part of your marriage challenge is part of the one you vowed for better and for worse. Just deal with it and endure it. It will pass.

Try and pray for grace to continue. Get closer to your wife. Show her more love and care. Buy her gifts, take her out. Ensure you rekindle the love you once had for her. Then watch and see the miracle of change in her life. Goodluck
Most reasonable advice I have seen...
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by lagosrd: 11:02am On Dec 24, 2021
SIRTee15:
I'm not supporting the op. But this is not about Men v women. It's about the helpless kids
At least thank God he stepping up albeit struggling. What if he's an irresponsible deadbeat dad who also decided to abandon the kids.
I'm not interested in the acrimony in the home, children shouldn't suffer bcis of that.
Obviously the woman knows her husband doesn't know to cook, why then punish the kids by leaving them without making provisions for good food. That's my issue.
All this political correctness flying around makes no sense. The woman is guilty of child neglect. Simple.

Or u think social service will support the woman if the children report to their teachers that they've not been eating good food since their mum went away.
They will simply remove the children from that home while both parents will be hauled b4 a judge to explain their irresponsible behaviours.
God bless you and after seeing this post I advice the women to go and sin no more. Political correctness and gender equality is the real issue here.

Leaving home without adequate preparation will cause more harm then good. All these helpless unmarriable girls here are just ranting. Until they marry we will talk then
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Lolachef(f): 11:02am On Dec 24, 2021
Oga back to the War room.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by joowealth(m): 11:02am On Dec 24, 2021
akpunda86:
Good morning fellas and compliments of the season. Some are happy some are not but we all thank God for life.
Happy Christmas all.

Well fellas sincerely wish I have the power to terminate my marriage I'm fed up 200%.

Is Christmas season of love all families stay together but my wife left home to her villa to see mum, yeah is a gud stuff going home to see parents, but if well planned. We planned after 25th she can go at least stay with the kids, suddenly she said she wanna go, I let her go, just yesterday wanted to eat, our helper said no soup in freezer, Kai I have to go buy soup outside. Today 24th, I'm gonna go to market to buy soup stuff.

It is very painful. I regret getting married cos in this season any sensible person knows families gonna be together. In fact kids need to enjoy it as we did during our time.

Salad we can't do, not that I don't have the money but I can't do it.

Her mum I told I'm not against ur daughter coming to see you, but she has to put her house in order first before embarking on a long journey.

Makes me regret a lot of stuff marrying outside my state, infact one can remarry, my spouse no go pass Enugu/Anambra.

Her mum sick, going see her I'm not against, my kids all crying all day long mummy mummy, I try pacify them.

Every December Na stress. It is true it is women that are mostly good in taking care of parents though we guys also do our best, but my wife has 3 brothes all married, as it is Xmas none of the wives is around so the daughters fall on.

I'm not writing this long epistle just that I feel bad as I don't know wat to do, sexually I gain noting from her, financially she doesn't support, it is only challenges she brings to me. If it continues like this, I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.
Oga, reason well na, is it untill her mama die before you allow her? The bolden Parag says it all.

She is the only one to take care of that woman right now.

Pls bear with her, do the needful and be considerate. Thanks
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Bishop(m): 11:06am On Dec 24, 2021
akpunda86:
Good morning fellas and compliments of the season. Some are happy some are not but we all thank God for life.
Happy Christmas all.

Well fellas sincerely wish I have the power to terminate my marriage I'm fed up 200%.

Is Christmas season of love all families stay together but my wife left home to her villa to see mum, yeah is a gud stuff going home to see parents, but if well planned. We planned after 25th she can go at least stay with the kids, suddenly she said she wanna go, I let her go, just yesterday wanted to eat, our helper said no soup in freezer, Kai I have to go buy soup outside. Today 24th, I'm gonna go to market to buy soup stuff.

It is very painful. I regret getting married cos in this season any sensible person knows families gonna be together. In fact kids need to enjoy it as we did during our time.

Salad we can't do, not that I don't have the money but I can't do it.

Her mum I told I'm not against ur daughter coming to see you, but she has to put her house in order first before embarking on a long journey.

Makes me regret a lot of stuff marrying outside my state, infact one can remarry, my spouse no go pass Enugu/Anambra.

Her mum sick, going see her I'm not against, my kids all crying all day long mummy mummy, I try pacify them.

Every December Na stress. It is true it is women that are mostly good in taking care of parents though we guys also do our best, but my wife has 3 brothes all married, as it is Xmas none of the wives is around so the daughters fall on.

I'm not writing this long epistle just that I feel bad as I don't know wat to do, sexually I gain noting from her, financially she doesn't support, it is only challenges she brings to me. If it continues like this, I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.
I don't want to put stuffs in your end, at the same time be sure she is really with her mum,i won't say more than this
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akinade28(f): 11:08am On Dec 24, 2021
KiNg0G:
you self, nor be crime for person to visit her mama especially when she's sick.

so if your wife nor dey, hungry go beat you and your children die?

when you get money for your pockets?

bros you pass weakling
nor be say na work periods..
you can't even make your kids Happy without your wife

I dey shame for you







ps:
I was once raised in a home, where if my mom is
sick...or she's not around...house go just dey one
kind. . throughout that period...(everything paused)
because everything was on her...apart from the
money coming from dad.
it nor supposed to be so.
till that day I say my own family can't be like that.(that's why I do things myself)
I like your mindset, God bless you bro
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akpunda86(op): 11:10am On Dec 24, 2021
Wow many responses,fellas attacking me I'm just coming back from the market,hmm on 24th,I'm doing soup for the kids,please I said I'm not against my wife travelling but all should be in the freezer,I bring the funds I do the markets,is very painful for people insulting me,yea I transferred some dough thru her 4 d mum,our plan was for her to travel after Xmas,maybe 26th come back on 31st with a well planned journey but this,I asked said soup in the freezer,while just a plastic of soup.
My own folks are sick with old age and I ain't against one going to see the mum but the manner of travel,
Happy Christmas all fellas
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Tallesty1(m): 11:15am On Dec 24, 2021
pocohantas:
E think say e easy, make e run am naw. Later they’ll say housewives are lazy. Leave house for them and travel for just 1 day, you will come back to meet the home upside down. grin
Only the fortunate ones will meet the home at all
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by techWriter5: 11:15am On Dec 24, 2021
You too betweens inside stove and taya.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by mrkings84(m): 11:24am On Dec 24, 2021
Oga carry your children go the nearest eatery make them flex this Xmas too. Their mother trying to see her mum just for few days should not be a cause for much concern. Inukwo!!
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by wirinet(m):
StylesX:
You make it seem like it's a taboo for men to cook, you married a wife not a cook, she shouldn't have a life just because she's married to you, instead of you to get closure and make her your friend you're talking about Enugu girls, maybe she feels the same way about you and can't wait to get away from you too, get your sh!t together and take care of your kids like a man instead of whining on NL like a lil b!tch.
Thank you my brother. The OP sounds like a male chauvinist who see marriage as a slave master relationship.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akpunda86(op): 11:28am On Dec 24, 2021
Friend22:
Wallahi I hate this trend of people coming online to.seek for advise when you have family members or even elders offline that can do a better job than the "wise ones" you want to consult.

It gradually emasculating men,and I hate it!

I did not bother tp read whatever soul rending appeal you want to attract.
Oga,go and meet your elders or your pastor for better advise and stop making a full of yourself with online views, they may help but they can never be as honest in their advise as those who know you well enough.
Haha bro compliments,I just shared a predicament here and not solutions oga,Iv sent a message to family members and if such happens again as she is there I'll get boys to waybill her properties home that I have made up my mind.

And sorry bro instead a pastor can dwell in my family matters better I beg Seun Here to settle it.pastor Ke.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Nobody: 11:29am On Dec 24, 2021
akpunda86:
I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.
if you leave the house for her for months like you said she'll find time to cheat, feed your children with money gotten from sexual activities.. Sir, seek the face of God and pray for your marriage.....
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by larryking540: 11:30am On Dec 24, 2021
akpunda86:
Good morning fellas and compliments of the season. Some are happy some are not but we all thank God for life.
Happy Christmas all.

Well fellas sincerely wish I have the power to terminate my marriage I'm fed up 200%.

Is Christmas season of love all families stay together but my wife left home to her villa to see mum, yeah is a gud stuff going home to see parents, but if well planned. We planned after 25th she can go at least stay with the kids, suddenly she said she wanna go, I let her go, just yesterday wanted to eat, our helper said no soup in freezer, Kai I have to go buy soup outside. Today 24th, I'm gonna go to market to buy soup stuff.

It is very painful. I regret getting married cos in this season any sensible person knows families gonna be together. In fact kids need to enjoy it as we did during our time.

Salad we can't do, not that I don't have the money but I can't do it.

Her mum I told I'm not against ur daughter coming to see you, but she has to put her house in order first before embarking on a long journey.

Makes me regret a lot of stuff marrying outside my state, infact one can remarry, my spouse no go pass Enugu/Anambra.

Her mum sick, going see her I'm not against, my kids all crying all day long mummy mummy, I try pacify them.

Every December Na stress. It is true it is women that are mostly good in taking care of parents though we guys also do our best, but my wife has 3 brothes all married, as it is Xmas none of the wives is around so the daughters fall on.

I'm not writing this long epistle just that I feel bad as I don't know wat to do, sexually I gain noting from her, financially she doesn't support, it is only challenges she brings to me. If it continues like this, I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.
bro , there is something I want to tell u ,not every lady knows what is untiy in a family some people mostly ladies use fight to settle misunderstanding ,I will use my self for example ,u see your type of hux ,it's almost similar like my whole growing up ,the best you can do is to make sure the kids are happy trust me ,that singular fact alone is what I use in respecting my father even when my mom acted the same way your wife is acting,make sure the kids don't feel the absence of their mother ,buy them ice cream ,little little things to have fun with and please teach them unity ,that's wat has kept me and my siblings going ,I just got back from another state to see my siblings with the husband it's all love bro , peace
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by larryking540: 11:32am On Dec 24, 2021
INDUSTRIALFAN:
What fvckery is this? Who de raise these kain men wey de embarrass us like this? So as a man, you can’t do any of the things you listed? How did you live as a bachelor? You even have a help in the house except ur help is also a child which in this case would be tagged child abuse.
man if u are not married it's best you keep shut ,give a woman one inch and be expecting 5inch ,,
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by blazetitov: 11:33am On Dec 24, 2021
webosky:
The kind of men in this country makes we wonder how some women are still enduring in their marriages, so if the was an emergency where your wife had to travel immediately, y'all will starve at home ni, this is the same set of men that will say if a woman cannot cook it is a no-no. How far now?
There was no emergency. You guys are creating excuses for a wife failing in her duties. Even if there was an emergency, she still planned to travel. Make plans for for your family. That's not hard now.
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by larryking540: 11:35am On Dec 24, 2021
KiNg0G:
I don't need to get married to apply common sense to issue like this.


some of you men are weaklings ....I know what am saying.

I was once raised in a home, where if my mom is sick...or she's not around...house go just dey one kind. . throughout that period.

because everything was on her...apart from the money coming from dad.

it nor supposed to be so.
think like a man
and you never felt anything wrong about your house hold ,and I guess that's the same step u are taking also ,disunity at home ...think like a man has send many men to early grave ,think logically
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