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| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by BabaIbo: 10:20am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Montaque:You don't have a reasonable point abeg. The guy you quoted made more sense than you 1000 times. Is that how she used to travel often? Same people like you will wyne if you travel and the woman is still calling you for upkeep money which you expect her to be able to offset till you're back, but you can't even play a small fraction of her role at home. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Obiorahpcfg: 10:23am On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:Leaving the house is very childish my dear. As a professional marriage counselor, be the man of the house that's all. You have to frown seriously on her leaving the house without proper arrangement or else, the worst will still happen. (1) Call here siblings and tell them what happened (2) You all should plan and get a house helper to take care of your mother in-law. This will make your wife a bit relaxed. And you should be part of paying the house helper. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Origin(f): 10:23am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Weaker sex indeed... Marriages making women fedup with all the stress and all the wahala... and some people will say what does a woman do self... Go and do it now. imagine a woman turned to slave inside marriage. man cannot lift hand do any thing as my dad would always say it is not what is under you that you will use to work.... its your hands bro. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Vyolet(f): 10:23am On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:..your wife doesn't contribute anything, you don't gain anything from her yet she leaves home for just one day, you are already confused on how to handle things. It's a good thing that she left, you must learn by force, money is not everything. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by spencekat(m): 10:25am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Montaque:Exactly,you got it.Well,the deed has been done,the man needs to brace up and take care of his kids.When she comes back, they need to sit down and talk. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Akorkor(f): 10:28am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Cry me a river. If she doesn’t do anything or you gain anything from her, why Are you crying? Men should also learn to take responsibility at home. She’s not your slave, and she has a life before marrying you. Those children carried your name, not hers, so if you like, don’t make your children happy and be here regretting that you married her. You didn’t even tell us your side; maybe you have been coming home late in the night, and even when you are at home, you contributed nothing to care for the kids. Yeye. Entitled Nigerian men everywhere |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Originalsly: 10:29am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Has your wife arrived at her mother?.... and did she experience ehmmm..... extensive transportation delays? Do you even keep in touch with her? I know why I'm asking. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Cornerstone2018: 10:32am On Dec 24, 2021 |
It's obvious you don't take part in the life of those kids except finances, you said your wife is of no benefit to you, so why are you crying here, your wife maybe tired too, maybe she needs sometime off too. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Nobody: 10:34am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Bro there's a issue both of you nursing please try to figure it out |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by StreetFight: 10:35am On Dec 24, 2021 |
chii8:Has the wife been paying children's school fees, house rent, using her money to buy food for the house, using her money to buy clothes for the children? If she has not, then taking care of the house is 100% her responsibility. I don't know why the guy will even get a housemaid for a woman who does not add anything financially to the family. Is the cankerworm the Bible talked about? |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by dokxavi: 10:38am On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86: ![]() I couldn't help laughing. How is she now your wife? |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by SIRTee15: 10:43am On Dec 24, 2021*. Modified: 11:16am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Simran94:I'm not supporting the op. But this is not about Men v women. It's about the helpless kids At least thank God he stepping up albeit struggling. What if he's an irresponsible deadbeat dad who also decided to abandon the kids. I'm not interested in the acrimony in the home, children shouldn't suffer bcis of that. Obviously the woman knows her husband doesn't know to cook, why then punish the kids by leaving them without making provisions for good food. That's my issue. All this political correctness flying around makes no sense. The woman is guilty of child neglect. Simple. Or u think social service will support the woman if the children report to their teachers that they've not been eating good food since their mum went away. They will simply remove the children from that toxic home while both parents will be hauled b4 a judge to explain their irresponsible behaviours. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Mood11: 10:43am On Dec 24, 2021 |
diogo23:Yes |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by queenblossom(f): 10:46am On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:You are regretting not marrying from Enugu or Anambra, another man somewhere is regretting marrying from Anambra and Enugu. The bottom line is that, this is is not balance. Whatever you have, just nurture it because no one is perfect including you. I know that if I sit your wife down now she will narrate her long epistle why she is tired of marrying you |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by lagosrd: 10:57am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Mood11:You're been economical with the truth. The women is messing up things . if he leaves the house, its still same you people that will say all manners of things against him. Let the women use her senses and stop being stupid in her marriage. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by tradepunter: 11:00am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Starseed:Most reasonable advice I have seen... |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by lagosrd: 11:02am On Dec 24, 2021 |
SIRTee15:God bless you and after seeing this post I advice the women to go and sin no more. Political correctness and gender equality is the real issue here. Leaving home without adequate preparation will cause more harm then good. All these helpless unmarriable girls here are just ranting. Until they marry we will talk then |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Lolachef(f): 11:02am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Oga back to the War room. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by joowealth(m): 11:02am On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:Oga, reason well na, is it untill her mama die before you allow her? The bolden Parag says it all. She is the only one to take care of that woman right now. Pls bear with her, do the needful and be considerate. Thanks |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Bishop(m): 11:06am On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:I don't want to put stuffs in your end, at the same time be sure she is really with her mum,i won't say more than this |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akinade28(f): 11:08am On Dec 24, 2021 |
KiNg0G:I like your mindset, God bless you bro |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akpunda86(op): 11:10am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Wow many responses,fellas attacking me I'm just coming back from the market,hmm on 24th,I'm doing soup for the kids,please I said I'm not against my wife travelling but all should be in the freezer,I bring the funds I do the markets,is very painful for people insulting me,yea I transferred some dough thru her 4 d mum,our plan was for her to travel after Xmas,maybe 26th come back on 31st with a well planned journey but this,I asked said soup in the freezer,while just a plastic of soup. My own folks are sick with old age and I ain't against one going to see the mum but the manner of travel, Happy Christmas all fellas |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Tallesty1(m): 11:15am On Dec 24, 2021 |
pocohantas:Only the fortunate ones will meet the home at all |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by techWriter5: 11:15am On Dec 24, 2021 |
You too betweens inside stove and taya. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by mrkings84(m): 11:24am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Oga carry your children go the nearest eatery make them flex this Xmas too. Their mother trying to see her mum just for few days should not be a cause for much concern. Inukwo!! |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by wirinet(m): 11:24am On Dec 24, 2021*. Modified: 12:26pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
StylesX:Thank you my brother. The OP sounds like a male chauvinist who see marriage as a slave master relationship. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akpunda86(op): 11:28am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Friend22:Haha bro compliments,I just shared a predicament here and not solutions oga,Iv sent a message to family members and if such happens again as she is there I'll get boys to waybill her properties home that I have made up my mind. And sorry bro instead a pastor can dwell in my family matters better I beg Seun Here to settle it.pastor Ke. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Nobody: 11:29am On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:if you leave the house for her for months like you said she'll find time to cheat, feed your children with money gotten from sexual activities.. Sir, seek the face of God and pray for your marriage..... |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by larryking540: 11:30am On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:bro , there is something I want to tell u ,not every lady knows what is untiy in a family some people mostly ladies use fight to settle misunderstanding ,I will use my self for example ,u see your type of hux ,it's almost similar like my whole growing up ,the best you can do is to make sure the kids are happy trust me ,that singular fact alone is what I use in respecting my father even when my mom acted the same way your wife is acting,make sure the kids don't feel the absence of their mother ,buy them ice cream ,little little things to have fun with and please teach them unity ,that's wat has kept me and my siblings going ,I just got back from another state to see my siblings with the husband it's all love bro , peace |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by larryking540: 11:32am On Dec 24, 2021 |
INDUSTRIALFAN:man if u are not married it's best you keep shut ,give a woman one inch and be expecting 5inch ,, |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by blazetitov: 11:33am On Dec 24, 2021 |
webosky:There was no emergency. You guys are creating excuses for a wife failing in her duties. Even if there was an emergency, she still planned to travel. Make plans for for your family. That's not hard now. |
| Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by larryking540: 11:35am On Dec 24, 2021 |
KiNg0G:and you never felt anything wrong about your house hold ,and I guess that's the same step u are taking also ,disunity at home ...think like a man has send many men to early grave ,think logically |
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