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Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by sherlockhush(m): 11:46am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Oga , just hire a good cook this period. This is a period of going out. There are places in mind to visit with your children and will never plan to even come back home. My kids always look towards spending time with me than their mom cos to me, I am fun to be with. Any day I am at home, me and my kids try something different to eat, there is always the joy I always have when I am with them and they always appreciated it. You can send your mother-in-law to come over for the Xmas and have a large family Holiday. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Klass99(f): 11:51am On Dec 24, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by wirinet(m): 11:54am On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:Compliments of the season you too. May you find happiness this season and beyond. You do have the power to terminate the marriage. If it's a court wedding, employ a lawyer and file at the nearest magistrate court. If it's traditional marriage, get your people together to go to your wife's people to return the bride price. It's most probably an emergency. You said further down that her mother is sick. It depends on the nature and seriousness of the sickness. She wanted to be there for her mother in case she dies. You my friend is being unreasonable for getting angry and wanting a divorce because your wife went to see her sick mother during Christmas. Is this the last chrismas that will happen before Jesus comes? Besides are you a child? To most men Christmas is for children. Abi you expect your wife to take you to see father Christmas? Family is supposed to be together every time (as situation demands) and not only at Christmas. Nothing stops you from taking the children out after she gets back. There is no law that says you can only take your children out on Christmas days. You mean you can't prepare ordinary salad? And you are proud to say that? Well should out to Niger Delta guys - We dey cook pass our wives. My children alway look forward too days I take over the kitchen. They all tell my wife that I am a better cook. It was an emergency. She didn't have time or state of mind to put her house in order before going to see her sick mother. Why can't you help her put the house in order? After all marriage is supposed to be a partnership and not a employer/ employee relationship. Marriage is not about tribe or clan, but about love, understanding and respect. There are lots of marriages from the same clan failing, even couples from Enugu/Anambra. Her mum is sick and all you care about is your own selfish interest? You are very cruel and selfish. Your kids are crying all day even though they are in your custody? You must be a bad father then. I stayed alone with my kids for 1 week when their mother went to the village to bury her elder brother. There was no crying. Women are closer and more emotionally attached to their parents than guys. Most women take care of their parents after marriage than men.
You need to look into yourself and make necessary adjustments. You don't seem to love your wife and it shows. That's why she probably don't show you love too. You want to her to sexually satisfy you but you are treating her like a house girl. It doesn't work that way. My bother look into the mirror, and there you will find your problems. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by moorevic(m): 12:01pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86: And you deemed it necessary to publicize what happened in your marriage online!!!! Couldn't you fix it up yourself and stop trying to paint your partner black. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Kinzo0917(m): 12:04pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
1x2x3:. Best advice so far. May God bless you and your family |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akpunda86: 12:05pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
wirinet: Thanks for the breakdown but 4 a man to break it down like this shows that u must be very intelligent but at same time jobless cos I can't see how a gainfully employed man can be breaking this,true we in season of love but my firm still running. .Fastest don't always win the race,my wife mum have no life threatening sickness just arthritis,and I never objected to her travelling but let it be after Xmas,ok oga intelligent. All she got to do is stock the freezer and rest I can do,even her elder sis that knows value of marriage all of us in same state is here with kids. On state marrying from a close state or same state does not define a marriage,wat I meant a closer state wife can go cum bk same day. So Niger Delta man drink ur sapele water in peace.i believe u drunk as u typed this. Compliments 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by purpleicious(f): 12:06pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Before you accuse her, check yourself.But that notwithstanding, she should have put the house in order before leaving.Two wrongs don't make a right. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akpunda86: 12:08pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
moorevic: So as online we all anonymous ,didn't seek ur opinion just shared an experience Oga perfect,if wanna share perfectly I go face book.Fun of nairaland is d anonymous nature. So take a pill and Chill |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by wirinet(m): 12:21pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86: I am jobless as I have other (plenty others) jobbing for me. In fact I am on my bed right but I am still coordinating by businesses. If you have job for me, I would but mind, since you seem to be very jobfull. Now, I am just giving you mature advice. Having been married for 15 years, I assume I am qualified to give you advice on marital issues. I had thought you posted the thread to ask for advice. I didn't realise you desired an echo chamber. You have poor communication with your wife and you don't think of highly of her and her opinion. If you had better communication, you would have told her your conditions before she is allowed to travel. Under normal circumstances my wife (who incidentally is from Imo) cooks for 2 weeks at a time and divides the food in compartments in the freezer. So even if she travels for 2 weeks, we will not starve. You are the head of the family, you need to lead but in love. Discuss your requirements, plans, and aspirations with your wife in order to achieve a common goal. I don't like the fact that you are threatening divorce on a very minor issue. You are talking like you did your wife a favour by marrying her. Yes! Sapele water is our culture, but at the same time woman no fit use food do shakara for us. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by StylesX: 12:26pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
wirinet:I tell you, I wonder the kind of Wimpy men we have these days. |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by pocohantas(f): 12:35pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Tallesty1: Hahahaha. The home must remain o. But you go still do that work wey you take break from. |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akpunda86: 12:38pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
wirinet: Haha compliments again bro .ur advice noted bro.sorry 4 wrong words used in this season of love. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by tnerro1(m): 12:59pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Welcome her back with correct slap, she will think she entered the wrong house |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Theyoungmatron: 1:02pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
GUY!!!!! GUY!!!! One gallon of Hennessey for you, sir wirinet: |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Theyoungmatron: 1:02pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
When kids from abusive family talks you will know tnerro1: 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by tnerro1(m): 1:07pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Theyoungmatron: When kids from spoilt homes reply someone, you will know |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by mercyymai(f): 1:21pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
blazetitov: Pele married man, so becos of her immediate family which still have the husband to take care of the children, she should leave her sick mother? Do u know the urgency of the call from home? Dz man is just looking for where to wail and get cheap pity and I guess he know Nairaland is full of people like him. Dz is just one sided story. If you ask the woman, she too go talk ground go full 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Spicy128(f): 1:21pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
If you have made provision for her to do the necessary preparations before her trip you will not be here complaining, you claim money is not the problem, why then is there no food in the house, please, feel her plight too 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Theyoungmatron: 1:24pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
I'd rather be from a spoilt home with sense than abusive home without conscience tnerro1: 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Sterope(f): 1:30pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
How can you come out and tell everyone you can't take care of your children? Are you not ashamed of yourself? 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by godofuck231: 1:35pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
She go rod comot this thing from here abeg |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by dorofloxy(f): 1:38pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Mood11:I tire ooooo 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Montaque(m): 1:39pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
KiNg0G: When you were young, I know you didn't stay/put up with only your father all the time your mum was not present at home. It's only natural to know what you can do so your absence can't be felt like it is happening now. The man's issue is another thing and people here has addressed it. I won't use my kids to square up with my husband. |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by wirinet(m): 1:40pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:Thanks. Please make sure you give those children a memorable Christmas, take them out to a mall or cinema (avoid the beaches). Then when their mother comes back from the village, have a heart to heart talk. The situation might be more serious than she is telling you. Women are sometimes mysterious beings, they sometime expect us to be mind readers. Ask her why she abandoned the children when they need her for Christmas. Encourage her to pour out her mind about the marriage. Why does she not cook in bulk. Cooking everyday can be draining. Have a merry Christmas and a happy New Year. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Montaque(m): 1:42pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
BabaIbo: She should make alternative arrangement for her kids sustainance while she is away. It's no brainer. She should not use the welfare of her kids to prove a point to her husband. |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Valuc: 1:47pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Who gave her transport money to travel with? You! Where you informed? Yes... Did you grant her the go ahead? Yes.. so cus no soup inside fridge doesn't it mean there are no other things left inside the fridge to eat... You wudnt tell us those ones. When last did you give her soup money.. if u keep record ... U sud know wen soup will finish for another payment.. so bros park one side 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by blazetitov: 2:27pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
mercyymai: Ok Ma. |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Goldentulip2: 2:29pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
I wish i could get a clearer situation from BOTH sides otherwise I cant comment on this issue |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by tnerro1(m): 2:31pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Theyoungmatron: That’s your cup of tea asshole |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Kobojunkie: 2:42pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:You even have a "Helper", yet you are here to complain about what exactly? |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by akpunda86: 2:45pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Just 12 year bro Na kids companion bro thou trying hahaha. I'm not complaining oga I just shared my predicament.This a forum buddy, |
Re: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by Kobojunkie: 2:46pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
akpunda86:1. Who made this rule you keep throwing about that suggests family must be together during the season? 2. You can't cook or you don't know the way to the store or something? 3. So she went to be by the side of her sick mother and you are a leper where it concerns taking care of your own children? 4 Likes |
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