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Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Roon9(m): 10:33pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Kriss216: Ok what's 420 |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Roon9(m): 10:34pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Daveambition: Dem just turn me down this night o I miss yarn for car earlier 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by lancasterboy: 10:48pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Why will a man provide for his family, hustle daily bread and come back to act like a househusband. If he didn't have a job, will his wife hustle money and wash plate when she comes home? What a woman cannot take, a man should not take it too. 7 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Votukpa(m): 10:48pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Why on God's green earth would any self-respecting man take himself through this hellish experience?? Why would a man GO OUT and be a provider for his home and return to it to perform domestic duties with his wife, all in the name of marriage and homemaking? Disgusting. No man can live long, going through what you're counselling men to do. That, I assure you. The home is a woman's office, let her operate it. Why would she get tired of doing what she was designed by the creator to do. Conversely, the office of a man is outside the home in the 'competitive market place': where he creates value to earn purchasing power. Notice how we don't get tired of going out there to 'grind' on the daily. This aptly describes the unspoken agreement man and wife come into, within the confines of marriage. Let each play the role they are configured for. In other words, stop asking monkeys to swim in the ocean. Stop asking fish to leave the ocean to climb trees. To make a bad situation worse, she denies him sex, not because she's tired, but because she wants her honorable husband to assist her in her domestic duties. It's funny how she might even decide to lay on her back and do nothing while the man engages in more 'work', should she decide to acquiesce to his sexual advances. Pathetic. You're right when you say she is training him. That's the female imperative in case you don't know. Her objective is to have full control over him until he is worn out, while doing as little as possible.. If he gives in to her 'training', the stress of living with that witch he calls a wife, will sooner of later take a toll on his vitality and bring him close to his death. Make no mistake about it: A good woman is indeed hard to find. She will bring a man good, all the days of her life. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Votukpa(m): 10:56pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
sanchell: How disrespectful. I hope God forgives you and you don't die childless. However, if you are incorrigible, feel free to go Bleep yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by ERCROSS(m): 11:05pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Mac12: Na you go even tire for the space self. 24km space 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Kobojunkie: 11:08pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest:If only these Young ones could learn these lessons now so they do not continue the culture of foolishness that ruined their fathers before them. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by sanchell: 11:10pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
yawnz |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Okeedu(m): 11:13pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
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Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by jimcaddy(m): 11:30pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Nigerian women are so funny... Women are funny. But Nigerian women are funnier. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
TIREDNESS!!!!!!!!! Work, house chores, taking care of kids, school run OMG the greatest is body changes that reduces the sexual urge 4 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Kobojunkie: 11:31pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Votukpa:I think many of you go in to marriage thinking you become gods by it. When you lived as a bachelor, did you not provide and at the same time take care of domestic chores? Why do you now pretend that marriage sets you above doing the same domestic chores, only this time, for your own home that you build with your wife? I guess the problem is not entirely yours but also that of the self disrespecting woman who will allow you marry her as house help. Way too many women with very low sense of self out there. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
ednut1: That's a lie you know... 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Kellzzyy: Are you married? No be by mouth Oga. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 11:36pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Mac12: At least he can bath the kids or is that for women? He really needs to help because you are overwhelmed |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Kobojunkie: 11:38pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
lancasterboy:If a man chooses to marry a Woman without a hustle of her own, that is what he wants. If a woman chooses to marry a man with a hustle of his own, that is what she wants. Now to then suggest that because the man's choice is a woman without a hustle means he should no longer wash plate, bath his kids etc. , is foolishness. Unless the woman agreed that she would handle all the chores, such a conclusion is idiocy at best. Your woman is not your house help. If you don't want to have to do chores in your own house, make this information available even at the time you are dating any woman so she understands that you are looking for a woman who jobless woman who will double as a house help. These things aren't written somewhere in Stone. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
gbagagbogo: The denial is not mostly intentional, overwhelmed with house chores . Most married men become so unromantic that the wife loses interest in sexual intimacy. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by litaninja(m): 11:50pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Or maybe the wife can act like an actual mature human being and open her bloody mouth to let him know that he hasn't been helping out as much as she would like. Common sense right? Kobojunkie: |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Kobojunkie: 11:52pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
litaninja:I don't understand! How does a wife resorting to nagging her husband amount to commonsense? |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Kobojunkie: 11:58pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Votukpa:Leave God out of your foolishness abeg! God talk say He created some Eunuchs from birth, some were made Eunuchs in this life and some chose to become Eunuchs for the sake of His Kingdom... if you believe the childless are somehow cursed, then you know nothing of God but delusions you have likely been fed with about Him. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by calcal: 12:02am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Or11: You are not a civilized person, you have a great wife. She is not your slave that will continue to do all the house chores without any help from you. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Kobojunkie: 12:03am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Mac12:But why would any human being do this to self ? What do you gain from living this way?. You got married so you could enjoy not having to go it alone yet clearly, in the marriage, you are stil going it alone, why? You are too tired to have sex because you are burdened by it all. Your husband may himself be getting his kicks outside and I wonder what exactly is in all of this for you? 7 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Mac12(f): 12:10am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Never wished it upon myself but situation of the country kept us this way. Saving towards something big even though the salary isn't encouraging at all. Things was a bit easier until the covid 19 came up, Since then it's been hell. All these will end some day; working towards that and believing God. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Nobody: 12:21am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Mac12: Madame If you don't change your routine you might just fall down one day in coma. As opposed to popular believe, a lot of families in Nigeria got married when they were struggling. No matter how poor you are, there are steps you can take to make things better, money isn't the only solution. I didn't grow up rich. - When you wake up by 4AM, he should also wake up as well, preparing children for school can be done by anyone when taught how to do it. Your MIL staying with you is another human burden that needs catering for, It is not a robot that will do the work. - Anyone who leaves work early should be able to go & pick kids from school, It is not a woman's job to pick up their own kid. - Do a non-negotiable Ajo or Esusu donated by both of you, use the money to purchase a washing machine. At this point you should choose either living the rest of you life on a wheel chair if your back bone breaks or you buy that washing machine. - On cases where you fall ill, things shouldn't be left undone. That's why people marry wives who have jobs, so they can help out when medical issues happen to one person. The people who don't need to help their wives are the ones who have enough money to hire people to do those chores. Not for families earning combined low income. If you kill yourself, there is no reincarnation for you. So berra live your life well. 5 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Mac12(f): 12:25am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Your comment got me crying... My husband too is not having it funny financially, i worry and feel for him sometimes. I guess this is our rough time, i don't have a choice but to do my part as a wife and mother even though it's telling on me. It's just a phase that will pass. For the sex, that's the least of my problems right now. If he's getting it outside, i don't know o. It's Christmas, yet nothing dey for children because we are saving for rent and school fees. Bro, no be everybody wan begin reason their matter for people o. Sometimes i weep at night, crying to God for a change. Regarding hubby's financial story, the matter na for another day 6 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Awise09(m): 12:39am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Or11:Helping my wife do house chore is a thing of choice and she can never I mean never denied me of sex because I didn't help her for how now. Their some things we men are not supposed allowed during relationship before marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Mac12(f): 12:40am On Dec 25, 2021 |
truthsayer009: Bro, person no dey use suffering brag o. It has never been like this. Hubby lost so much during the covid that we had to start selling our properties to survive. Got married when i was serving. After serving, had to relocate to Lagos. Started my fashion training( thats what ive always wanted to do) but the stress made me have series of miscarriages that i had to stop doing anything till I put to bed, same thing happened with my second child. In order not to remain idle, i started applying for jobs until I finally got this one though the pay is not encouraging. We are saving towards a lot. Its not like I am enjoying this life style, who no like better thing? Just had to open up on why most women deny their husband sex. Truly I feel tired after everything and that's why. I'm combining my current work with making easy wears(placed on orders) to manage and save as well so I could go back to further my training. Been able to get a sewing machine; so you see, i am moving forward. Hubby wants to get someone( a relative) that would come stay with us. Like I've been saying, this is a phase... 6 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Verysmart101: 12:42am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:And when has sex in marriage become a prize for help rendered? Really!! That is the reason why some men get side cos of this rubbish behaviour. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Verysmart101: 12:43am On Dec 25, 2021 |
dirtydiva: Let her also be part of providing money too pls |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Verysmart101: 12:44am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Daveambition: This strategy doesn't work for all men pls.Try this shit with Ned or Tuface u hear? |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by LegalWolf: 12:48am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Daveambition:OG keeping it real for this young fellas |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by eminemkayc: 12:48am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Mac12: Madam, I've quietly read some of your write-ups. If you are genuine and not an online fraud, send me a message privately let me see how I can assist with a token. 10 Likes 1 Share |
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