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I remember back in the 70's, 80's, and in the 90's when it was very rare to find a broken home/marriage. Divorce/separation wasn't a day-to-day affair.
I think i can say with conviction that the marriage institution was sacred and unadulterated; which was what made marriage appealing.

In the past, before a man can think of giving his commitment to a lady, virginity was, mostly; the prerequisite, and all other things shall be added unto it. And, if the said intending married man sees nothing wrong in his woman not being a virgin, his family won't wholeheartedly accept, not talk of welcoming the said non-virgin lady into their home.
Some parents will, as a matter of fact, return the lady back to her parents. A thing of shame!

Rape or ravish was an uncommon incident. Our society was safe.
Men were virgins, women were virgins. Heaven is the goal; but, in this scenario: chastity is the goal.
And then, there was nothing like a lady requesting or demanding money from men. There was this level of contentment and self discipline/control.

Virginity, i will say, reflect one's character, upbringing, uprightness, level of chastity, etc. What is marriage when the bed is defiled? And, of the truth, virginity can not alone uphold a marriage. Who doesn't know that?

Now, in this so called liberal time, having sex before ejaculation last than marriage where you can get married today, divorce/separate tomorrow -- such is the state of today's marriage crisis.
But, what change? It was never like this in time past.

When i think deeply into this, the ONLY thing that change was...was...virginity! It ALL boils down to virginity.
Okay, you just said characters and upbringing defers. Fine!
But i beseech you, pray tell, if characters is what uphold marriage, why then has separations/divorces skyrocketed in this liberal times, but the same cannot be said in the past?

In the time past, men and women were virgins = sacred marriage structure

Liberal times, men and women threw virginity out the window = collapsed marriage structure.

This is the only written way i can verbalize/convey my thoughts.

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MickzyDonald:
The world is exposed now, eyes have been opened

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Everyone is now eating from the forbidden fruit.

Any one with opposing idea/thought?

Its true bro..
Cos there is no iota of sense paying a bride price of almost 3million for a coochie that was previously digged by another nigga in exchange of 2k or indomie and egg..
Its makes no sense..
If she ain't a virgin dont marry her....
Apart from that, there is a tendency she's gonna cheat..
Once a good girl goes bad, she will forever be bad...
If only this pussy ass nigg's knew this

Don't buy it if it ain't brand new..
No non virgin is worth any bride price, men dropped their standards hence the women trampled on em.
It's where we are now, exposure but even at that have and set standards, if she's not a V then she's for the streets. Love her if you have to and do all you can to raise a good family, but if she thinks she's too good for u or special, pls remind her of where she belongs THE STREETS.

playapayaski:
Don't buy it if it ain't brand new..
No non virgin is worth any bride price, men dropped their standards hence the women trampled on em.
It's where we are now, exposure but even at that have and set standards, if she's not a V then she's for the streets. Love her if you have to and do all you can to raise a good family, but if she thinks she's too good for u or special, pls remind her of where she belongs THE STREETS.

Blood didn't reveal this to you, comrade.

Nyascobar1414:
Its true bro..
Cos there is no iota of sense paying a bride price of almost 3million for a coochie that was previously digged by another nigga in exchange of 2k or indomie and egg..
Its makes no sense..
If she ain't a virgin dont marry her....
Apart from that, there is a tendency she's gonna cheat..
Once a good girl goes bad, she will forever be bad...
If only this pussy ass nigg's knew this

Gbam! Who pay for the cow when the milk is free?

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Imagine getting married to a retired PROSTITUTE

I'm not gonna be unfortunate enough to find myself getting married,but If i had to, it would either be a Virgin or nothing. The virginity is my assurance that I'm not getting married to a retired PROSTITUTE

odinson1:
Imagine getting married to a retired PROSTITUTE

I'm not gonna be unfortunate enough to find myself getting married,but If i had to, it would either be a Virgin or nothing. The virginity is my assurance that I'm not getting married to a retired PROSTITUTE

preach, bro!

odinson1:
G

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Hello Eliok,

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