I came across a post where some men where expressing disappoinment over the high rate of indecent dressing among our girls and thought to make a counter post to let the men understand why it is so and how they are not unconnected to it.

Now, you Men come here to complain about indecent dressing of most ladies meanwhile you're the reason this things are so.

90% of the time, You men are naturally and easily attracted to this indecent girls. I've seen it happen a lot of times. If a decently dressed lady and the slutty ones are placed side by side for you men to make a pick , the tendency to pick the decent girls will be low compared to how you would rush after their slutty counterparts and it is this single act that has driven more girls and even the once decent and innocent girls into dressing slutty just to be seen by men.

In another scenario, a girl will be minding her business and you men will come and start flashing cash before her to lure her into sleeping with you even when your intentions are not pure. Like you don't plan to marry her. It will take extra discipline and grace of God for any young girl to reject such offer and when she gets used to getting this free cash and starts demanding or giving her body to the highest bidder, the same you men will start complaining again. Why are you men now complaining now that they are giving you what you want? Abi na me dem dey dress like that for?

Some men will even tell you they need a Christian sister with a touch of Ashawo vibes. I mean.... these girls see and hear these things and the chicken brain among them who don't want to be left out will begin to conform to such lifestyle.
Others will tell their wife's to dress decently but will go and be running after the slutty ones outside. This is the reason you can hardly tell a married woman apart these days because of the way they too have started dressing slutty just to keep their untamed husband. You men had better dropped this double standard mentality because the woman are no longer having it. What is sauce for the goose is good for the gander.

After this carefully expressed thoughts/ points of mine, it is safe to say that you Men are the cause of high moral decadence in the society cos you're the ones promoting it by your actions.

Gbam

Wahala

YeyeGbami:
Wahala

I lie? Prove me wrong na.

No! I concurs...? No! I take succours...? No! Why are/what are women looking for in men... Why is a woman looking for a man... Can both gender not be independent-living individually with no/without sexual(sensual or consensual...?) touch or sexual touches and urges...? Furo yin bi furo obo-un... Your uteruses like that of monkey...

Emmanuel30a:
No! I concurs...? No! I take succours...? No! Why are/what are women looking for in men... Why is a woman looking for a man... Can both gender not be independent-living individually with no/without sexual touch or sexual touches and urges...? Furo yin bi furo obo-un... Your uteruses like that of monkey...

Abeg who get chain? Or this people for left number?. This one don pass be kiaful.

Jewessgratitud3:


Abeg who get chain? Or this people for left number?. This one don pass be kiaful.

Let's be chained together...? It's called love...? There is love in sharing...? Who are the people for left number(s)...,Jewessgratitud3?

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“You made me do this” are the words of someone who can’t take responsibility for their actions

Maturity demands everyone take responsibility for their actions.

I agree with you, it is a factor of demand vs surply

unfortunately our hypocrite society are quick to run after scnatily dressed ladies, offer them money and what have you, see BBN for example

Hmmm

No, Blame your GENDER.

We have WEAK mothers currently. Many of them are Ex Oloshos.

Hence they can't bring up Their Young Daughters well.

That's why you see many 12,13 years old wearing Skimpy and Revealing clothes for Outing,
Which they bought when they followed their Mothers to the market and she didn't see anything wrong with them

Op you try abeg

Yes men take 70% of the blame.

When u craving for 2,3, 4some why won't they go wayward.

Wen you introduce ur gf into drinking & hard drugs, in other for two of you to fucccck like animals.

When you are having more than 10 girlfriends,even to the knowledge of all, yet u want ur own not to have other options.

When you take hard drugs to sleep excessive with girls, yet u still want such girls not to have porn experiences.

Wen u take innocent and naive girl to night clubs daily. Still, u want her to be an SU girl.

When guys and men paying excorbitant entrance fees to see stripers in night club

When guys fighting on girls that walking naked ignoring girls that dress decently.

When you knew that a girl is dating one guy, but still go ahead to spoil and lavish her with excessive money. Having graduated to "money for hand" ,'back for ground',(she conditions her love for highest bidder) u still lamenting.


whenever I read guys weeping about girl's immorality. I do say. "God forgives them, for,they don't know what they really want".

Rubbish excuse always.

Jewessgratitud3:
I came across a post where some men where expressing disappoinment over the high rate of indecent dressing among our girls and thought to make a counter post to let the men understand why it is so and how they are not unconnected to it.

Now, you Men come here to complain about indecent dressing of most ladies meanwhile you're the reason this things are so.

90% of the time, You men are naturally and easily attracted to this indecent girls. I've seen it happen a lot of times. If a decently dressed lady and the slutty ones are placed side by side for you men to make a pick , the tendency to pick the decent girls will be low compared to how you would rush after their slutty counterparts and it is this single act that has driven more girls and even the once decent and innocent girls into dressing slutty just to be seen by men.

In another scenario, a girl will be minding her business and you men will come and start flashing cash before her to lure her into sleeping with you even when your intentions are not pure. Like you don't plan to marry her. It will take extra discipline and grace of God for any young girl to reject such offer and when she gets used to getting this free cash and starts demanding or giving her body to the highest bidder, the same you men will start complaining again. Why are you men now complaining now that they are giving you what you want? Abi na me dem dey dress like that for?

Some men will even tell you they need a Christian sister with a touch of Ashawo vibes. I mean.... these girls see and hear these things and the chicken brain among them who don't want to be left out will begin to conform to such lifestyle.
Others will tell their wife's to dress decently but will go and be running after the slutty ones outside. This is the reason you can hardly tell a married woman apart these days because of the way they too have started dressing slutty just to keep their untamed husband. You men had better dropped this double standard mentality because the woman are no longer having it. What is sauce for the goose is good for the gander.

After this carefully expressed thoughts/ points of mine, it is safe to say that you Men are the cause of high moral decadence in the society cos you're the ones promoting it by your actions.

So how is it the men's fault? When the girls know that if they dress nicely (which they usually do after they're 35+), they'd get decent men, why then do they dress slutty?

Are you saying that girls are senseless? Or that they themselves want to be treated that way?

Have you considered how girls with millions of naira also dress? Check the last girl that won BBN... What else does she need after winning 100m+?

History has it that her dressing became more exposed after she had more money

Normally blame it on men...
You forget about all the single who.res breeding simps as men.

A culture awash with hypocrisy!

Attention seeking post of the day.

Girl wey go spoil go spoil.

Noted.

Chevrolet076:



So how is it the men's fault?

I agree to disagree with you.

This not true.. Any lady who dresses indecently should face the blame and not men.. Especially if they are adults.. . Men look for wives not ho*s.. If she's dressing indecent, it's her choice and should be blamed not men..
Stop blaming men for the actions of women..
Although, men build the society, so if women dress indecent, it's because men allow such over time and not because men want women to dress indecent

The 2 parties are equally guilty - both men & women.

Without Demand, there'll be no Supply.

What is this one talking ooh?

Hmmm

Nobody is the cause of any negative behaviour in any person life, you own your heart and life so is what is in you that pursue what is outside,so stop the blame.

Foolishness runz in this op's blood.

So if men say you should enter fire you will?
It's time you Nigerian girls starts taking responsibilities for your actions. Stop looking for who to blame for your Oloshoism