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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by orgylover: 3:19pm On Dec 29, 2021

MummyD2020:

I mean my useless God forsaken mum is a bitch? I am a bastard with no known father. I hide ur miserable worthless self behind the keyboards and yarn thrash. God forsaken daughter of a baboon

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by faithfull18(f): 3:23pm On Dec 29, 2021

demelza:
Lemme guess...

After sleeping around and getting erectile dysfunction, oga looked for a fagin because sHe wIlL nOt bE aBlE tO tElL tHe dIfFeReNce. Okwaya?
That's why he is forming gentleman and looking for advice, when we all know what a normal Nigerian man would do in such situations.

See how my gender is looking elsewhere for virile kini because she carried her tear-rubber self and join with brostitute that have spent all his energy on other women. Kai, I cannot imagine all the pains she went through just to see one in this buhari era. Poor woman.

Hopefully, others will learn to leave brostitutes for their female counterparts.

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by meemee(m): 3:29pm On Dec 29, 2021

I always say that there is a downside when it comes to marrying a virgin. The moment she tastes the sweet pie it becomes difficult to imagine that she will live the rest of her life without experiencing something different more so when she always hear gist of other adventurous experiences from friends. They feel that something is missing since they did not sample a bit before committing to marriage.
Men who live wild during single days only to go and pick up a virgin because they don't want what other people have tasted are very selfish. Are they not men that will eventually end up with the ones they sampled? When the virgin they marry opens up it is difficult to stop them sampling too. This might not be true in most cases but stories like this will always appear.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by CsRockefeller(m): 3:30pm On Dec 29, 2021

I would never have thought that a virgin could cheat without provocation from her husband until recently.

With Humans, you never know. What's even in the sex? Nothing!!

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Kobojunkie: 3:31pm On Dec 29, 2021

Beiii:
Stop being stupid he posted it here for a reason. It’s not everytime you show you’re not smart

So what you are insinuating is that sometimes it pays to be foolish/dumb? undecided

Next time, take time to process these things before you post, ok? undecided

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Ramseygodwin(m): 3:33pm On Dec 29, 2021

Fear women

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by freshalien: 3:34pm On Dec 29, 2021

culf:
imagine! na to quietly pack his belonging and leave her, dash her everything including the bride price. She is not sorry for her actions.

Ebubechuwku:
If na me, I go send her away, make she pack all her belongings go her village and I will look out for a better someone daughter to marry....

Send that wh*re away

Life too short than to be sad on little things..

Shebi una dey find virgin and women with less body counts. See one here. Remember she was married a virgin, yet see the outcome.

I have said it and would continue to say it...being a virgin is no guarantee of being a good wife.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Champneys: 3:41pm On Dec 29, 2021

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

This matter off my payint. undecided

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by MiracleMe7: 3:42pm On Dec 29, 2021

If you believe everything you read on Nairaland, then you know that you are a confirmed mumu.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by yuping(m): 3:49pm On Dec 29, 2021

loswhite:
please add he should apologize to the woman ....smh

nope

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by yuping(m): 3:51pm On Dec 29, 2021

tolaswim:

But.....he should do that and walk a way from the marriage in peace....

True
That man can never be the same again, work on yourself find peace and stay away from the woman.

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Dec 29, 2021

MiracleMe7:
If you believe everything you read on Nairaland, then you know that you are a confirmed mumu.

Exactly similar to what I said in my previous comment, made-up stories keeps on rolling in on NL , the fools never stopped believing 'em , what faceless forum would cause,hmmn

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by yuping(m): 3:58pm On Dec 29, 2021

alabo1:

Do women work on themselves in any area during marriage? What she was also not satisfying him in certain areas. Why do they have this sense of entitlement because they are female? What do they offer apart from sex anyways! I am thankfully seperated and with my lovely kids and happy with my single imperfect self as I move towards concluding my divorce. NEVER AGAIN WILL I WALK THAT ROAD. SEX IS READILY AVAILABLE AND SINCE THERE IS NOTHING ELSE TO GAIN WHY BOTHER TYING MYSELF DOWN AGAIN. I AWAIT THE BASHING FROM THE FEMALES.

No need since you have experience it, don't bash or expect bashing, you have work on yourself in all area you are king now so don't stoop so low.
When I say work on yourself some people though I'm talking about money etc don't let a woman character or altitude surprise you be prepare with any news or shock, whenever they say it just say ok, it scare them the more when you dont talk or throw tantrum, let their conscience be your weapon.
Even when you meet the one like this woman just say ok how many round did can he go then silence, your plan should only be in your head.
A woman bold enough to admit is sin already make all decisions and see herself victorious, Be different King don't make hasty decisions,
plan matters and parts of plan is tolerance and patience. A lot on my mind make I keep am simple.
King I Stan.
Patient Men I respect
Men that have gone through a lot I respect.
Man that read from all angles and see beyond word I respect a lot.

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Ten06(m): 4:10pm On Dec 29, 2021

She has started it and it will end in either she killed the man and have freedom to enjoy herself or she will be given the freedom to go and enjoy.

If the man insist on holding on to her he may die of poison. That is the level of desperation a woman who has seen satisfaction outside can go

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by torqque7(m): 4:19pm On Dec 29, 2021

jmoore:
Fabricated story to paint virgins as unfaithful. Fake story is mostly about a friend. When will you use your parents as characters in this type of virgin story?

A virgin woman has no previous experience. Therefore, her husband will be the only experience she knows. If a man marries a woman who is not a virgin, she will definitely keep comparing him to all her exes.

If you believe the op, you are gullible.

Exactly…Fabricated shit from someone who is jealous of virgins.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by MNDY(m): 4:21pm On Dec 29, 2021

[quote author=Bellerophon post=108907527]

Men bash fellow men for wrongdoings too, not only women. Fragile as they are and for their own good, women ought to adjust to the virtues which Male Dominance genuinely seeks of them, not falling for clear deceptions. Male dominance itself has come under heavy attack by distorted feminism and that plainly shows that the female gender intentionally wants to relegate the Man to the background.

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by MNDY(m): 4:26pm On Dec 29, 2021

Bellerophon:

I concur with your submissions and find points raised very cogent, However you still have to realize that human culture has from inception lionized the role of the woman to be that of a fragile delicate version of us needing of protection, care and understanding! It is a double standard to inflate the stature of the masculine sex as that of bravado and machismo while also requesting for women to pay their fair share in a word that is intrinsically paternalistic! The truth is society is constructed to the disadvantage of the woman and her reliance on the histrionics and dramatics of wiles and deception is her response in adaptation to a world where her gender has naturally predisposed her to subservience! Imagine living a life where you are told the best you are made to be is a fiddle! All is fair in lover and war!

Men bash fellow men for wrongdoings too, not only women. Fragile as they are and for their own good, women ought to adjust to the virtues which Male Dominance genuinely seeks of them, not falling for clear deceptions. Male dominance itself has come under heavy attack by distorted feminism and that plainly shows that the female gender intentionally wants to relegate the Man to the background.

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by seyz91(m): 4:29pm On Dec 29, 2021

no need of any stupid advice, na to divorce her, no time

a hoe is always a how

A MARRIED PROSTITUTE IS A WOMAN ON VACATION

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by mamawa123: 4:31pm On Dec 29, 2021

Nigerians and nollywood stories

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by nuban07(m): 4:36pm On Dec 29, 2021

Kog45:
Wetin guys dey talk sef....I have a female colleague then who married her husband as a virgin but committed infidelity with a junior colleague and she was devastated and confided in me.

Guy I just dey laugh, na as u waka reach u go see reach o

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by okoroemeka(m): 4:43pm On Dec 29, 2021

yuping:
Seems the wife is tired of the man inability to satisfy her. Its painful, The man should work on himself in all area.

the first place I think the man should work on is his insecurity,why will someone walk into marriage blindfolded,why marry a virgin?a woman that has not been proven,that her sexual appetite and compatibility is unknown,it is unfortunate that what you have is a woman with an unusual sexual appetite that is even driving her to leave her husband's house, because that is what she wants to achieve,the best decision is to let her go, because you cannot match her libido and can easily have a heart attack drinking aphrodisiac trying to satisfy her and do the impossible,for a woman to open her mouth and say to her husband face that he cannot satisfy her has shown that the problem is far worse that she can endure,I dated my wife for 2-3 years before deciding to marry her,in that time a smart man will know 60-70% of that woman's character and if she can match him round for round, marrying a virgin is a clear and present danger,you can open a virgin and she will be frigid or a nyphomanic and believe me you will not want these two characters as wife,moderation and decency is key in everything.

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by tradepunter: 4:59pm On Dec 29, 2021

Result of marry a packaged good for nothing hoe...

Fire burn all good for nothing hoesss

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Dec 29, 2021

Divorce her whoring pussy already... what fvcking advice is he waiting for?
He should free the harlot to continue being the public toilet that she's been (virgin my left nyash), and make it a community noise while at it.
He may also consider relocating from that area and cut all ties with the wife, her friends and family COMPLETELY.
If they have Children together, he should conduct a DNA then claim custody on grounds of irresponsible behaviour of their mother, if he wants them.

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by yuping(m): 5:16pm On Dec 29, 2021

[quote author=okoroemeka post=108910869][/quote]
Senior Man, take it easy.

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by MartinsD12(m): 5:25pm On Dec 29, 2021

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

Divorce abeg the woman is capable of Killing the man emotionally

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Beiii: 5:26pm On Dec 29, 2021

Kobojunkie:
So what you are insinuating is that sometimes it pays to be foolish/dumb?

Next time, take time to process these things before you post, ok?

Yes sometimes
When you are trying to catch a monkey you behave like one.

Back to the topic.
You don’t know if he’s the one in the situation or his friend asked him to post here but your over sabi brain won’t let you think

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by josite: 5:31pm On Dec 29, 2021

Very nice wife.she is ready for the next level

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Exceed15: 5:46pm On Dec 29, 2021

Narrator welldone.. were you there?

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by bitingcool: 5:58pm On Dec 29, 2021

demelza:
Lemme guess...

After sleeping around and getting erectile dysfunction, oga looked for a fagin because sHe wIlL nOt bE aBlE tO tElL tHe dIfFeReNce. Okwaya?
That's why he is forming gentleman and looking for advice, when we all know what a normal Nigerian man would do in such situations.

See how my gender is looking elsewhere for virile kini because she carried her tear-rubber self and join with brostitute that have spent all his energy on other women. Kai, I cannot imagine all the pains she went through just to see one in this buhari era. Poor woman.

Hopefully, others will learn to leave brostitutes for their female counterparts.

hahaha.. you hit the nail in the head.
which guy screaming she is a wh.ore married as a virgin here? How many single guys can claim chastity or faithfulness? They waste their virtues outside and start screaming team virgin forgetting that they no dey tell new born baby where him mama breast dey before he suck am.... looking for innocent inexperienced girls to waste their uselessness on.

op if na you, stop eating salt, palm oil, taking alcohol and eat lots of garlic, your manhood will be restored to optimally satisfy your wife... beg her and put your marriage in prayers. She will stop looking outside and celebrate you for the man you are. if you like send her away, the next one you go carry come fit do worse. NO ANGEL OUTSIDE!!

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by bitingcool: 6:01pm On Dec 29, 2021

Ecne:
Divorce her whoring pussy already... what fvcking advice is he waiting for?
He should free the harlot to continue being the public toilet that she's been (virgin my left nyash), and make it a community noise while at it.
He may also consider relocating from that area and cut all ties with the wife, her friends and family COMPLETELY.
If they have Children together, he should conduct a DNA then claim custody on grounds of irresponsible behaviour of their mother, if he wants them.

angel Gabriel. weldone

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by walkingshadow911: 6:20pm On Dec 29, 2021

[quote author=MNDY post=108910327][/quote]

i have met a lady who was married as a virgin. yet she fvck anything.
yes, her husband attested to her virginity

only godliness can make someone not to cheat.

forget this virginity ideologies, it doesn't work with nowadays peer-pressure and fantasies.
older virgins were the only sure bet, Godly and disciplined, not some of this 18-20 yrs old girls waiting for when they will leave their parents custody before they let the dogs out

believe me!

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Bola146(f): 6:55pm On Dec 29, 2021

Ulunne777:
He should check himself and find out where He Is lacking .Also focus on the kids.Theres a movie called warroom about marital issues which He sould watch.Hygiene too.

It rains everywhere.

If she can't cooperate with her husband to face what was wrong, she should have left the marriage and focus on her sex trade undecided

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